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I am attracted to guys but there are these two women i am too. One is my moms friend who is 42 and her daughter who is 17. I like them a lot like more than friends and im only 13. After i stop liking these two girls i dont think i will like any others. After thse two im back to guys 100%. Am i bi? (link)
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yes, u might be and who caresa it doesn't matter anyway...but u might no want ot go for te 42 year oild that is a little...not for your age. Just don't make a big deal abvout it...
-hope i helped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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I'm not fat, i want to just loose about 2-3 in. off my thighs and about 2 in. off my stomach before i have to go out in a bikini. Does anywun no any good workouts or enything? **-- I RATE 5s --** (link)
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don't go enerecsic-that's just ugly and stupid...try not eating snacks at all or once a week and if u do eat snacks eat natural/healthy ones. run alot and try to push yourself a little-but not to much. u could do sit ups, pushups, pull ups, and try finding an after school activity like karate, soccer, swimming...
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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my cousin (niki) is my age and recently she got a new aim s/n and only told me. well my older sister(16) found out that she had one and when i wasnt in my room, looked at my buddylist and STOLE IT!! i am so mad and its not fair and my parents dont even care!! so i want to take it into my own hands and get revenge but i dont know how.. so whats a good way to get revenge without getting into trouble but still feeling sweet revenge?? (link)
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when she goes to the bathroom or to a friend's house-sneek into her room and take some of HER buddies-or other stuff that she doesn't want u having...or u could always try the trick that you put shaving cream/whipped cream on her hand while she is sleeping and then tick her face so she gets it all over her face...lol.
try looking in goole-or in april fool joke books-they might help a bit...
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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After my boyfriend & I broke up, I started hanging out with my guy friend a whole lot. We got really close & end up having sex a few times. He was pretty much my rebound guy and it was a huge mistake. He thought that it really meant something & told me he loved me. Now, we are just friends. I told him I was sorry, but I didn't like him like that & liked being single. Everytime I flirt with a guy, he gets extremely mad/jealous and brings up what happened between us. I could never tell him it was a mistake because he's too sensitive & I just want to forget it ever happened. How do I tell him I want to be single & flirt without him getting all mad and saying I'm a slut? (20, F) (link)
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well, you shouldn't have had sex with him, let alone more than once-that gives him the REALLY wrong impression-sex isn't just all for fun, it is for love also, that's probably what he thought too. Try telling him that you don't love him anymore (evene though u never really loved him, it's pokay to lie a bit) and that u both have to move on. try hanging out eith him a little less. and don't go to him only after a break up-it could really hurt his feelings.
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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it seems like whenever i get to school i feel like im dressing punkish. i mean i love punks, sept the druggies, but anyway thats not the question. the question is how to do prep up my clothes i have? thanks (link)
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try wearing more yellows, blues and greeens, purples...etc. and try to wear more jeans then baggy black pants, if that is what you wear. where shirts that are a little more fitted, but not slutty tight. and try to keep your hair in a ponytail or something happy. don't try to be a hippy or something, just try to be yourself!
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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I have my best friends Bar mitzvah this weekend. I dont know wat to wear or how to do my hair!!!!!!!!! Help me! (link)
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u could wear the dress from derek's or try a shirt with a skirt....somthing sexy-like me! (lol)
u could borrow my shirt if u do not ruin it-or i will kill u! i am wearing the white soft one. it is a forml party-so find a nice skirt-i am wearing a pink skirt!
yay1
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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i want to join a martial arts class but dont know which one as in karate, judo, taekwondo etc, plus anyone know whats the difference between them all? (link)
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karate-more attacking
taekwon do-more defense
judo-more boxing (i think)
i take taekwondo, but i don't know what kind u wanna take...
-hope i helped
--dorinflower55
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I want to dump my boyfriend...and yes I have my reasons. He asked me if I would go to the movies with him this Friday. And I said I would, but since then I have decided I want to dump him. I don't know what to do now though. Because I went with him to the movies last week and he thought I got mad at him there. But I didn't. His friend told me that my boyfriend was shy last week and he wanted to give me a kiss and everything but he was to shy. And he was going to this Friday. I need advice on what to do, because there is another guy that I want to go out with, when me and my boyfriend break up. I'm not sure if I want to dump my boyfriend before or after the movies. What do you think?
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i think you might wanna dump him b4, so then you will not have to deal with going with him somewhere you don't wanna go. also if he does kiss you at the movies then it will be harder to break up with him. you don't wanna put his hopes up for nothing. you wanna get it over with as soon as possible or then you will hesitate and put it off for later. then you will have to deal with not being with the one you actually like.
-hope i helped a little!
-dorinflower55
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14/f ok ive liked one guy and only one in my whole life.. we went out before but barely talked it was pretty stupid and now he has a g/f.. guys have asked me out and theres nothing really wrong with them.. i just cant because i always want to be open for him.. i dont want to be this way forever, always wanting him.. how am i supposed to get over it? (link)
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try going out with another guy, or just hanging out with more guys as friends. It might take your mind off him and then you'll be more open. try to think if there was maybe one characteristic you like about him in particular and look for another guy who has that characteristic. it might help.
-hope i helped a little
-dorinflower55
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My question is, why does it seem like an overwhelming amount of the advisors on this web site are teenage girls? I'm serious about this. Is it because they have more time on their hands, have a stronger feeling of needing to give advice, need more advice.etc.etc? What do you think the reason is? (link)
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i have also noticed this and i think it maybe because guys don't ususally bother with looking for sites like these and also they think they have to be tough so don't go to anyone when they have a problem. also girls usually stress out more easily, or need help in different things-so they come here. older people usually know how to solve their own problems so in most cases don't come here.
-dorinflower
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Sporkster here, and I've got a question for you lovely people here on Advicenators:
I've got this "friend" of mine who's been rather...hard to get along with lately. You know who you are, "friend." Anyway, in Study Hall one day she just errupted like Mt. Vesuvius. I mean, over something so petty she just blew it. My boyfriend had moved to another table to take a quiz and she came over to sit with me. There's this stupid rule my SH teacher came up with stating that only two people can sit at one table until ten minutes prior to the bell rings. My boyfriend finished and came back over, and right before I was going to tell him to wait a minute so I could finish talking to her she just..."*slams book together, packs up bookbag, moves* Fine, I see who's more important, I'll just move! *mutters incoherently*" I just was...shocked. She didn't even give me a chance to tell him that I needed to finish talking to her. Anyway, she's been really sore over this for the past week or two. I mean, she doesn't sit with my boyfriend, me, and our friend anymore. She never talks directly to me, however, she has this obsession with talking ABOUT me. She's lied about my boyfriend and me, giving people the impression that I'm some sort of slut. This is really starting to annoy me. Not the fact that she's talking about me, but that she's lying about me. I really do wish she wouldn't be so sensitive and...paranoid. Our friendship has been an ongoing battle ever since my boyfriend and I have been going out. I don't really want our best-friend friendship back, I just want to come to terms with her and "agree to disagree", if you will. But she won't even compromise with that! I've tried everything you could possibly think of and then some, but she doesn't want to listen to a word I say to her. Can anyone offer some sort of ideas for getting her to just listen to me for five minutes to sort things out? Any input would be appreciated, though I am looking for good, well thought-out, helpful answers. Thank you in advance for every good answer. (link)
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she is probably just jealous and thinks that you were replacing her for him. You can try sending her a letter with no return address and then write your feelings and after everythin sign your name, so she won't know who it is from until the end. after that try approching her again. if that doesn't work, then who cares she's annoying and mean-you don't need her and admit that already.
hope i helped!
-dorinflower55
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well.. i have a boyfriend.. and i really love him and stuff but sometimes i feel like hes not treating me "best" although he seems a little obsessed.. haha and theres about 6 other guys that i could go to.. but i know if i break up wtih him for them ill never be able to get over him! hes an awesome guy.. help please!
im a really generous rater...!! (link)
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this has happened to me b4, try talking to him or getting your friend to talk to him, and tell him to give you a bit of space. if that doesn't work than just follow you heart, if you love a nother boy more then just break up with this guy and see if yu have a chance.
good-luck!
-dorinflower55
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My eigth grade graduation (semi) is coming up & Im freaking out because its in June but Im not ready like my friends are. So, I have two q's ..1st is where can i find a cute inexpensive dress website besides Gojane.com? Also, I want to sing a song at the ceremony but I dont know what ..PLEASE dont say Graduation by vitamin C. thanks (link)
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well, i don'r know much about songs, but you can get cute dresses at stores like mandees.com or jcpennys, or macys, depends on what inexpensive is for you.
good-luck!
-dorinflower55
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Lulu* and I used to be SUCH great friends. Then Sam* became friends with me, and eventually Lulu too. We were like inseperable, until Sam and I got in a fight. Then Lulu was stuck in the middle. She would like have to " switch off " between Sam and I and I hated it. She would hang out with Sam more, because she didn't have any other frineds. I was talking to Lulu online and told her that i was jeolous. She told me to apologize Sam so we could all be friends again. So i did. The thing is, that even though we're still all friends again, Lulu still hangs out with Sam more!!! Something that really ticked me off was when Lulu told me that she was sleeping over at my house, and then canceled and slept over at Sams! I don't know what to do!! I really want it to be like old times. The thing that bothers me is that I think Lulu likes Sam more than me, but I'm angry because we were friends first!! Sam kinda like "stole" Lulu away from me. Help... I don't know what to do. Really complicated situation! Please help!!!!
Signed Jealous :( (link)
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well, it sounds like maybe you like lulu more than sam, so maybe sam felt like you were stealing lulu from her, so she tried to have her more then you. or maybe you just need to find another friend to add to your 3, so you will always be a four-but your will also be 2 pairs. Don't try to hard or it will bother both of them, just go with the flow and don't be fake.
Jope i hwlp
-dorinflower55
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ok... im dieing here... im not allowed on AIM and im not allowed to watch tv... ive been on this website like allll day and i can't take it anymore... its raining outside... and i don't no why im not allowed to watch tv or go online.. i was allowed on AIM for 15 minutes and thats it... i didn't do anything wrong... can someone give me ideas on waht to do? i have an annoying 11 year old brother and i don't wanna play with him... i can't even play video gamesss!! (link)
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try reading a book or calling your friends. ask your parents if you can go to a friend's house or if they could come to you. Tell your brother to give you some quiet, if that is what you want, or even try playing with him (if he isn't TO annoying)
hope you have some fun!
-dorinflower55
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My boyfriend and I really like each other but we don't exactly like each other’s friends.
My friends are the normal, get along with everyone, don't drink too too much, aren't slut/whores/man whores type.
His are the go to every party they can, get as drunk as they can, stuck up, screw everyone that comes along type.
"Popularity" wise, our friends as on the same level I guess you could say. We're all the "Abercrombie preppy" type and go to some of the same parties. I just don't like the way his friends act and he doesn't like how my friends don't act.
He isn't completely like his friends but he also isn't as "reserved" as mine. And Vice versa with me; I'm not as "reserved" as mine but also not as crazy as his.
Well, even though I don't really like his friends I'm still nice to them. He isn't as nice with my friends. He's always ignoring them and he actually tries not to talk to them. I don't really mind that he doesn't like them because I don't like his friends but it makes me mad when he isn't nice to them. I mean, he isn't mean but he could be nicer, ya know?
I was thinking of throwing a party for only his friends and mine so they could get to know each other more and then they might not hate each other so much. But I don't think I'll do that because I know my friends and his friends and they wont be into it.
And by the way, his friends are okay with me but my friends don't like him too much but they are nice to him.
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tell him that even though he doesn;t like your friends, he still has to be nice to them, because you mnake an effort to be nice to his friends. Tell him to tell his friends to be a little nicer around your friends.
hope i helped
-dorinflower55
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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in think you still have a chance but you have to wait for him and his new girlfrend to stop loving each other. He might still have feelings for you and have feelings for her too, he just doesn't know how to deal with them. Just wait a little, if he doesn't break up with her then too bad, go on with your life. if he does break up with her then ask your friend to ask him again. If he says he loves you then good for you, if he doesn't then i am sorry...
-dorinflower55
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My mother is triplegic (meaning that she can't walk, and that she can't use one of her arms very well). Recently, I was taken out of my mother's home, and now she lives alone. In the past two years, she has moved twice. the first time she had a lung failure and my familly decided that she needed to move closer to us so that we could keep an eye on her. The second time, she got evicted. Now they are raising her rent (which was already too high for her to live comforatably) and she's worried that she's going to get evicted again. She's only forty seven, and she's been bed ridden since 21, and has gotten aid from Medicaid, and Medicare, but that won't be enough for this I'm afraid. After this house, she'll have nowhere left to go, and our house is too small ( we have seven people, a dog, and a cat)for her to live with us( and we are to poor to move either.) I don't want my mother to have to move into a rest home. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I love my mother soooooooooo much! Please don't delete my question, I really really really need some help!!! (link)
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How about her living with you, she could help as much as possible and you can get help from your other family members as well, you can give her her own room and everything, and if it makes you not be able to have fun anymorew than you can get someone to watch her when you go out.
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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do? (link)
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It is your body, not his so just do what you wanna do to it. he has no right telling you what to do to your body...and if you really wanna shave it , thenh just do it when you guys do it.
I hope i helped.
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I recently went to an orthodontist and he said i needed to have braces on my top six teeth for six months to straighten it. Now my aunt takes her kids (my cousins) to this other ortho who does all the private school kids and she thinks that he is the best...she wants me to go to him and have a second opinion on my teeth..my mom disagrees..my mom doesn't think there's enough time to have a second opinion..now i'm stuck in the middle because my mom doesn't want to me to go but my aunt keeps yelling at me because she thinks the ortho that she goes to is soo much better! My mom was planning on getting me braces on april 15..but now that my aunt has gotten in the way, she wants to have the second opinion consultation on may 19! i don't know what to do because i am stuck in the middle!!! (link)
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Maybe you should just wait for them to argue it out, and if that does not work then try to compromise with both of them, so neither of them can get hurt. If you do hurt one of them, it is not THAT big of a deal, they are both family so they wioll forgive you.
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