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Can you fined a certain amount of money if you moon a trolley?
Me and my friends want to as a joke but if we get caught we were wondering if you have to pay money?
Please and thanx
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hey,
My advice to you is don't try anything illegal stay out of trouble in other words
Takecare
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okay so i have a presentation to make for my Lord of the Rings class. i'm going to be making a powerpoint presentation and i want to add some video clips/scenes from the movie into my presentation. my only problem is, i can't find any scenes on the internet. where could i find some? i've already tried download agents such as Limewire. (link)
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Hi There,
try this website youtube.com you may have luck
Let me know
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14/f...i'm so confused and have no idea what to do. i recently found out that my friend likes the guy that i like. but the problem is that she told some of her close friends that she likes this guy and i haven't told anyone. so if i tell people they'll think that i'm copying my friend or they'll be like she liked him first. then i used to think that this guy liked me back but now i think he might like my friend. and if he does like me and ask me out then how would i tell my friend.
oh and this girl isn't really my close friend. we used to be close but now were just friends. (link)
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Hi There,
Sometimes it's easier to seethe in silence when someone does something to wind you up, but that doesn't make the issue go away. If anything, bottling up your feelings like this just makes the problem seem worse. It means you risk a situation where your mate steps just slightly out of line and you explode right in front of them - which doesn't solve anything.
Whether your friend's just being annoying without realising, or she's done something terrible that's totally wound you up, it's always wise to pick a good time to talk - preferably when you're feeling calm and there's nobody else around to chip in or stir things up for you.
Your aim here is to encourage this person to see things from your point of view. If your mate can see the upset they've caused for themselves, they'll be more likely to change their behaviour towards you.
Nobody likes to feel as if they're being attacked, or that somehow they have to defend their actions, so don't lay into them - it'll only risk a fistfight (or that slappy-scrap thing girls do sometimes).
You can't expect them to change their behaviour straight away, especially if you're both feeling a bit self-conscious after getting things out in the open. Instead, give them some time and space to process the problem and act upon it. If they value your friendship, you should see a new improved mate in no time.
Goodluck
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Hello. My exams are coming up this week, and my two hardest exams (history and english) are both on thursday!! Can you help me with study techniques and staying calm and alert during the test? thanks-
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Hey,
Different students swear by different approaches, but in every case your best bet is to set out a revision plan. It's never too early to suss out how much work you have to cover. Establish how much time you have available between now and the exams, and then draw up a realistic timetable.
In working out how much time you should devote to each subject, try to concentrate on your weaknesses without losing sight of your strong points.
Stick to it! That way you can keep track of how much work you've done and what you have left to cover. Choose a place in the house to revise where you won't be distracted. Also make your family aware of the fact that you need some peace and quiet during this time, so they know not to disturb you. Switch revision between subjects to avoid becoming bored of a single topic. Look for fresh sources of info other than class notes. The internet, for example, offers some innovative learning resources. Set yourself up with a 'reward' after every revision session. Nothing extravagant, just a small treat to help you get back to your books. The most effective way to approach a revision session is to focus on understanding rather than memorising.
Avoid last-minute revision the night before.
Instead, complete your revision plan early, then relax for the rest of the day. During this time, don't focus on passing or failing. If you've kept to your revision plan, and you're calm, the answers will come naturally. Just before the exam itself, don't go 'testing' yourself on specific questions, and when you finally sit down avoid rushing into things. Read the whole paper.
Fingers-crossed you'll pass. But failing doesn't mean you're a failure in life. It simply means you didn't manage to make the grade in a particular subject - this time around.
What are the common problems candidates face?
Putting off revision, finding excuses to do other things or leaving all the work until the last minute. The fact is the more you delay, the more likely you are to get into a stew and panic.
Unless you stick to a sensible revision timetable, there'll always be a tendency to think negatively. In this situation, many believe they're somehow unable to revise or are destined never to get the results they want.
Some people are also terrified of disappointing their parents. Often this is a self-imposed pressure, while others feel their folks have expectations which exceed their own. If you feel as if your mum/dad are on your back then talk to them. Clear the air to clear your head.
Perhaps the biggest problem surrounding revision and exams is stress. It can make even the most ardent reviser think they can't remember anything and even lead to panic attacks.
Try not to be frightened of stress, but to see it as a positive force - after all, it keeps you on your toes mentally, and can help you focus on the task in hand. Learn to recognise when you're stressing out, and understand its causes. Often, a break or a chat with someone who knows the pressure you're under will get things into perspective. Avoid comparing your abilities with your mates. Everyone approaches revision in different ways, so just make sure you've chosen the method that works best for you. Panic is often triggered by hyperventilating (ie quick, shallow breaths). So if you feel yourself losing it during the exam, sit back for a moment and control your breathing. Steer clear of any exam 'post-mortem'. Learning how other people got on can lead to worry about under-achieving.
Ultimately, don't lose sight of the fact that there is life after exams. Things might seem intense right now, but it won't last forever.
Goodluck
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how to run faster
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Hi There,
Different authorities have differing opinions on what makes someone 'fit'. The bottom line is this: if you're physically fit, you can do your chosen form of exercise without ending up completely exhausted. To do this you need: strength, endurance, speed, flexibility, and so on (see our glossary at the bottom for more details). To be good at a particular sport (also called motor fitness), you might also need quick reaction times, agility, balance, co-ordination, and power.
If you've decided to get fit, don't keep putting it off: procrastination is deadly. Then again, a little thought is needed first, rather than going at it hell for leather. People who go straight in without any knowledge or the right gear can earn some serious chafing and blisters, making them more likely to give up.
Most trainers suggest that you should start gradually and build up from there. If you're completely unfit or have had any illness or ongoing health problem, consult your doctor before starting an exercise regime. Exercise can improve many health conditions, but check first, in case you have something that needs temporary rest. Make sure you're wearing the right clothing and have the correct safety equipment if required.
Pick a form of exercise that you can do frequently and will enjoy. You can also mix up the types of exercise that you do, for all round body conditioning. Remember that getting fit can take several weeks or months. It's easy to get frustrated or give up, but hang in there. You should see some obvious results within six to eight weeks.
The first phase: get your body used to frequent moderate levels of activity for the first four to six weeks. Your exercise should include stretching and a warm up, continuous aerobic activity, some toning exercises, and a warm down afterwards. To see benefits you need to do enough to increase your heart rate (to between 60 and 70% of its maximum) and make you breathe deeper.
Improvers: increase your levels of activity slightly every couple of weeks. Your body is adapting to the exercise, so you need to push it slightly harder to keep getting results. Increase the length of your exercise sessions, or the intensity of them.
Maintenance: after about six months, the average person has reached a level of fitness that they're happy with, and decides to stick with their current level of exercise to maintain their fitness. If you're training for sport or competitions, you will probably need to push yourself for longer.
Agility: being able to go through a series of fast and powerful movements.
Balance: being able to control the position of the body either when moving or when still.
Cardio-respiratory endurance: how effective your heart and lungs are at getting oxygen and fuel around the body for movement, and how well your body uses them.
Co-ordination: being able to integrate agility and balance, to move effectively.
Flexibility: the range of movements that you have in your joints.
Muscular (or strength) endurance: how well your muscle fibres can repeatedly do the same actions without tiring. Sometimes called stamina.
Power: your ability to make fast and controlled muscular contractions, in an explosive burst.
Speed: your ability to move a set distance in a certain time.
Strength: the maximum force that your muscles can produce by contracting against resistance. Someone who is very strong may appear fit, but could have very little stamina or flexibility.
Goodluck
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like me and tess always talk and she always tells me she likes me and i asked her out today and she said no and im like wtf?!? you say you like me but you wont go out with me and i think its cuz im black but i dont wanna say anything to make her get mad because im in luv with her. Help
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Hi There,
Whatever background you come from, there will always be some differences between you and your firend but they won't necessarily be based on your religious beliefs. However, if you completely disagree on important issues you may find life difficult.
Put things into perspective. You don't always have to agree with your her, in fact it can make life interesting to be close to someone who disagrees with you, just as long as those disagreements don't become monumental hurdles that you'll never get over.
Friends might believe stereotypes about a religion and have negative reactions to your choice of likes at first. Explain to them how you feel about your her and let them meet each other and form their own opinions based on the person rather than the religion.
Both your family and your hers' family may have problems accepting the relationship. Your friend may choose to keep your existence a secret from them. It doesn't feel nice to be someone's dirty secret but you have to try to be understanding.
You may have to get used to certain customs
Make an effort to learn about her' religion so you understand their point of view. Some things may seem strange at first, but if you stay together long term, they will quickly seem natural. If you are unwilling to make small changes it's unlikely that the relationship will work in the long run.
Goodluck
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hey! well my birthday is commin up this weekend and i have no idea what i want to do! i know i have to go out to eat with the family first but there is this big thing at school that goin on called relay for life and everyone is goin well most but im not since it was on my birthday! soo i really dontknow what to do i dont want to have a party..or just a few friends over cuz they are all gonna be at that thing and plus theres nothing to do at my house! i just wanna have fun i mean its gonna be my sweet 16!! :] any ideas? i dont have many friends sadly..but i have some!! but like i said theyre gonna be gone on fri and sat! and do you think i should do something with the ones that arent going? but what do you think i should do..have any suggestions?!
i'll rate 5 for anyone who helps me think of somethiN!
thanks so much.
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Hi There,
Happy Birthday
Two weeks before
Is your place suitable? Whatever the size, consider the fixtures and fittings. Can you afford to let the carpets get mashed up, and how is your landlord going to react if someone puts the fridge through the window?
Who you gonna call? Controlling numbers is no easy task. Invitation only is good, although most party people packed that in when they were ten. Otherwise, go for word of mouth, but keep it to a trusted circle of friends and ask them to consult you before inviting anyone else.
One week before
Sort the sounds: You're not going to raise the roof with a personal tape player and a pair of Walkman speakers, so if your own sound system sucks then beg or borrow stuff from friends. If you know a DJ, beg or borrow him/her too. Either way, have someone in charge of the music all night, otherwise you run the risk of people rifling through your collection and laughing heartily at your Wombles records.
Protect your party: Consider hiring some muscle for the night. We're not talking about a professional bouncer, but free beer for the beefiest guy you know should secure a sufficiently intimidating party presence.
Suck up to the neighbours: Disarm potential grief by popping round in advance with a bottle of wine or a box of chocs. Even if they do wind up bashing on your door in their dressing gowns, you can be sure they'll have thought twice about it, which is a moral victory at least.
On the day
Prepare the house: Remove all valuables, breakables and eatables, and store them in a safe place. Establish whether this party is going to take over the whole house, or just a section, and cordon off accordingly.
If it's a biggie: Strip the place down, especially the kitchen, and even consider putting the corkscrew on a leash. If it moves, assume it'll be nicked.
Sort the drinks: But don't go mad, as people will bring their own. Getting in the soft drinks is always a good call, however, especially if the caners work up a thirst.
On the night
Start the party half an hour early: Don't wait for the first person to arrive. They'll arrive late anyway, and if the party's not already thumping, they'll leave as soon as you turn your back to plug in the stereo.
Do a sweep for litter: Every hour or so, just enough to stop the party turning into a pig sty.
Enjoy yourself: And if it does go a little pear-shaped, and overrun by hoolies, just pick up the phone and call the police. Why not? It's your house, after all.
The morning after
Assess the damage without opening your eyes: Check your head before your surroundings, because if you feel badly trashed then chances are the house is too. At some point you're going to have to clean the place up, but you might as well do it with decent kip behind you.
Recruit a task force: Check the place for revellers who slept where they fell, revive them with coffee and then hand them the mop. Alternatively, rope in a couple of mates to help you clean the place up and return it to its former glory. For the price of a hair-of-the-dog at lunchtime, you should get a few volunteers.
Throw a post-party party: The perfect way to bring order to the chaos - just you and a select few the next evening. Chew the cud, chill out and work out when to throw the next party to topple this one.
Hope this helps
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend of 10 months 3 months ago and i was pretty down about it for a while but im pretty much over it now. we stil talk and were friends but i know hes still inlove w/ me because he tells me all the time. besides that when he likes someone he for some reason always compares me to them like shes almost as pretty as u or as smart things like that. i feel guilty b/c i like hearing those things from him b/c hes the only one who seems to think that. i like that he gives me attention and sometimes i manipulate him so i get attention or try to make him jealous. i know its wrong but i dont know why i do it. could it be because i miss him? i also get kinda jealous when he talks about one of his friends that are girls. please help! (link)
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Hi There,
Switch off the mobile, get some videos in, chill.
Like the Atlantic Ocean. Pack your bags and go somewhere exotic, it's harder to be sad in the sunshine.
You can't move on if you still allow hopes that you will get back together and live happily ever after. You will get over it. You will.
Talk to people, it helps get it all out in the open and will help you feel better.
Look after yourself. We're talking super pampering here, eat well, sleep well and begin to feel well, whether you eat your favourite food every night or you let your mates take you to places they'd never usually go just to cheer you up, go do it.
Write down all the ways your boyfriend pissed you off: We guarantee they won't seem quite as perfect as your rose-tinted memory makes them.
Get out there and do something, it may be cliched but changing your image, trying something new or just getting fit can help you focus on something other than your ex and help you to gain confidence and move on.
Then, one day, someone will mention your ex and you will realise you hadn't thought about them in a while. Result.
Goodluck
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ok well people say that warm water opens your pores and cold will shurink them....well when you put on warm water than face wash than wash off with cold water does it work better? also some face washes give a tingly feeling does that have anything to do with it working or not...i mean like does the washes that dont have the tingly feelin not work as good? please help ...and any websights would be great! ill rate high (link)
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Hi there,
Your skin reflects your general health. To keep it in good condition, you need a healthy balanced diet with lots of fresh fruit and veg, regular exercise, enough sleep, and plenty of water. It's really easy to let all this slip during the party season, but by the end of January you'll be glad that you made the effort. If you can't keep it up, at least take a good multivitamin and mineral supplement and get out for a walk in the fresh air at lunchtimes.
They are pure evil. These blemishes seem to know when you're about to go to the party of the year or out on a hot date. They just pop up out of nowhere, often on the end of your nose, when you wake up on the morning of the big day.
Although it's tempting, wherever possible try not to squeeze them, this only makes the inflammation and redness worse. It can also leave you with an oozing crusting mess in the middle of your face. Dab the spot regularly throughout the day with something that will shrink it down, like tea tree or lavender oil. Or, if you don't have to go to work or college, dab a little blob of face pack or even toothpaste onto it every hour or so and let it dry before washing it off.
Concealer is your best bet. Go for a good brand that doesn't contain pore-blocking lanolin, and has anti-bacterial properties. This will help to heal the blemish while it hides it. Some concealers come with a little side order of green cream. The idea of this is that green is the opposite of red, so it will make the spot less noticeable by balancing out the colour. Blend the green cream in with the other one on the back of your hand before applying it. This will make sure it matches your skin tone, and is mixed in properly.
With some of us, under-eye bags and dark circles are genetic, and we can't do much about them. For most people they're temporary, and caused by tiredness and irritations. Take down puffiness with a specially designed cool mask for eyes (keep it in the fridge), slices of cucumber, or used and cooled tea bags. Don't be tempted to apply ice straight to the face; the eye area is too delicate to tolerate it.
There are also several eye creams and gels that claim to be able to shrink eye bags and remove dark circles. They often take weeks to have an effect, and don't expect miracles. If it's an emergency and you need a one-off quick fix for puffiness, you can dab a tiny tiny amount of pile cream around the eyes to shrink it temporarily. Just don't rely on it regularly; it can be very irritating to the skin.
Just a few tips on skin care hope this helps
Takecare
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ok this is how it all started out
i have liked this dude for about 3 years
we just started going out in march
we broke up in april for 4 days due to.. the fact he didnt like me as much as i liked him
he said he thought about me for the 4 days.
and threw those 4 days i cryed and trained myself not to put to much emotion in to anything i love b.c im afraid of being hurt.. now we go back out.. and he loves me alot. like ALOT and i feel like i dont love him as much b.c when we broke up i trained myself to not put any emotion in to anyone or anything.. and now when he says i love you i dont believe him and i want to sooo bad.. i really love him.. its just i dont want to be hurt im scared. and what not... soo does this mean i dont love him...??? b.c i know i do.. its just im scared.. he tells me everynight he loves me.. i know he does.. its just ... im scared of being hurt...
and now im really sad i have been having a bad week and when we are together i dont talk and he thinks he has made me mad but he didnt... he asks me 5 times am i mad at him im like no...
what should i do..
i really love him..
just.. scared
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Hi there,
Be honest about your feelings: I think when you're having doubts about the way ahead the one person you should be telling is your other half. It affects them as much as you, after all. Had we been more upfront with each other about the fact that it wasn't working out, it certainly would've been a much cleaner finish.
Don't just focus on the negative aspects of being single: Of course it's going to hurt coming out of a relationship, but you forget the good things that come with being a free agent. Parties are more fun for a start!
Take one step at a time: When you're on the inside looking out, the prospect of being single seems a world away from what you've got. But it's not like alien territory, and my fear that I'd end up lonely and desperate proved unfounded. In some ways I look at couples now and I'm glad I'm not in their shoes!
Takecare
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ok well so i like this guy ok.. n hes a total flirt! he flirts wit all the other girls... even me.. well ive liked him for a LONG time n hes like going out wit someone at the moment... well the thing is i dont WANT to like him i wish i couldnt like him n just be his like best friend n think of him in tht way not in the i love yu way but i just do n i have no clue how to help this situation!! please this is killing me soo much i like him alot but i sone want to like him n hell never go out wit me.. ive tryed n he almost did but then sed hed rather be like bestest friends..
PLEASE HEEEELLLLPP! :'( (link)
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Hi there,
Crushes are addictive - they make life exciting, and give you hope and focus. This is why we let ourselves make the same mistakes over and over again, it is the thrill of the chase, except it is often more of a loiter!
You love them yet you don't even know them
All you can think about is them and what if...
You've planned your whole future
You follow them round like a puppy on your lunch break
You go red whenever you see them
You lose the power of speech and co-ordination in their presence
Butterflies in your stomach
Pounding heart
You stammer/stutter something like "have you got the time?" at them
You imagine hours of conversations with them
How to cope
Try not to tie yourself up in knots about this - you've set yourself up with a fantasy relationship, but that's all. The emotions feeding this fantasy can seem very real, but the advantage is you don't have to deal with the actual person. It's like a sexual encounter without the real-life hassles.
It is fairly unlikely to turn into reality as often crushes are formed on the unobtainable; they may be attached, a famous film star or totally unsuitable. You have to accept that this romance will never exist outside of your own head. Often, just confiding in someone you trust will help you get things in perspective.
If things get too intense try to limit your time spent in their company. In time, you'll get a grip on this fantasy, and see it as a learning experience about some powerful emotions. If anything, it'll work in your favour when it comes to dealing with real life, realistic relationships.
Unobtainable crushes can hurt like hell - the object of your affection may walk past like you don't even exist or, perhaps worse, notice your drooling and laugh about you with all their mates. If this happens, deal with the rejection - treat yourself, see your mates or curl up at home with a DVD of your choice.
On the practical side, try to fill the time you would otherwise spend thinking about your crush. Plan your day. Promise yourself some crush-free time, and set up a reward afterwards. Once you've defined the boundaries, a crush like this can be a positive experience. One that can set you up to deal with the emotional side of future, more realistic relationships.
Goodluck
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k like on laguna beach in the second season why are they going to winter formal if they graduated in season one? and i dont get when kristin says she's a junior or something? yeah, thanks. (link)
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Hi there,
I'm from the UK so i don't really have that programme come here as far as i'm aware of so i can't help you with that
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1 - how do you make your myspace private (or friends only)? I can't figure it out.
2 - what are some sites where I can get good premade layouts for my myspace?
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Hi
As i answere you request before all the information will be provided in those kind of search engines on the internet if you have no luck then you could go to the library and do some more research into it
Goodluck
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Okay, I'm 16 years old and I've been getting my period for a really long time. Ever since I started getting my period, I've had a really, really heavy discharge between periods. It's really uncomfortable and I feel like it's abnormal. I literally have to wear a pad between periods because my discharge is so frequent. Is this normal, at my age, or is it something I should tell my gyno?
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Hi there,
Generally, girls have their first period between the age of nine and 16.
Before the first period, girls may get a sticky white discharge for a few months. This is normal.
When periods first start they might not come regularly. Things will soon settle down, however, so theres no cause for concern.
Bleeding lasts anything from three to eight days, but the amount and flow is different for every girl. On average, only about four to six teaspoonfuls of blood are lost during each period. Periods shouldnt be treated as a curse or a taboo. Many girls turn to their mothers for help and info, but school nurses and doctors will also be happy to answer any questions.
Takecare
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Okay so I met this guy at my cousins wedding reception two weeks ago. I had a really nice conversation with him and found out he has a good job and he similar values as me. When I got him alone he acted like a perfect gentleman and said all the right things.
My main concerns however are that he is 6 years younger than me (he is 22 and I am 28). I think he's still in his party phase. I'll let you be the judge. Well earlier he and his friends went upstairs to the bar in the hotel to pick up girls. He came downstairs and was bragging to everyone that he got the number off the hottest chick in the bar. Also he was hanging out with a guy who made a rude comment about an overweight girl.
I'm debating about whether or not to ask my cousin for his number (she gets back from her honeymoon tonight). I just wanted to ask your opinions first if you think he's relationship material.
Also before I forget he lives about 5 hours away from me. (link)
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Hi there,
Well you could start off with a frienship for a while and then that will give you time to get to know him better and then observe him and then if you feel redy to get into a relationship with him then go for it.
Goodluck
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Hey, does anyone know how to go to MySpace from computers at school and places where it's blocked? Thanks! (link)
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Hi there,
you could do a search engine from google.com or ask.com and type what information you need i'm sure that will give you a few ideas.
goodluck
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Is it possible that when you pick a song, or are listening to a song on your ipod nano for the album cover to come up next to the song/artist/album name? Ive seen it on the box and stuff but as that only if you buy a song or album off of itunes? rate 5s and feedback (link)
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Hi there,
I personally do not have a ipod, however if its any similar to a cd player i shouldn't sse why not but all are different makes etc.
Hope you have any luck
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okay so i started taking antibiotics last saturday and finished taking them yesterday. i know that you're not supposed to drink alcohol when taking antibiotics but do you think it's safe to drink tonight? remember: i finished taking them yesterday.
and i'm of legal drinking age so don't lecture me about that. (link)
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Hi there,
Well i am not a doctor so can not advice you on what to do if your unsure then call the medical 24 hous a day helpline they can give you more accurate information as i'm not sure what kind of antibiotics you have taken. Read the information provided with the medication does it have anything on alchol and when you should drink.
Takecare
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my boyfriend just confessed to me another girl kissed him and he didn't stop her. I was really mad at first, but then I realized i have no right to be. You see, we're in a internet relationship and not meeting till late this year. I guess it's understandable that if someone in the flesh comes along and kisses you, you're not going to stop them. I think I would do the same too, admittedly. Everyone I've spoken to though thinks I should be madder than I am, because he cheated on me. I guess i'm a pretty laid-back person. We care about each other a lot, but I understand why he did it. I feel I should be mad at him for cheating though. I still want to go out with him, but everyone is telling me to break up with him. What should I do? And am I being too nice on him?
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Hi There,
It's up to you to decide whether you want to finish the relationship or not. If you think there is a chance that you can forgive them, it's important to find why they were unfaithful in the first place. You will both have to be prepared to make some changes if things are going to work out
Takecare
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okay well the guy that i have liked for a long time just started liking my best friend. she has a bf that she loves very much and i dont think she would leave him. i dont think he knows i like him but idk. should i tell him straight up?...but if he dont like me like that then i will feel weird around him..me, him, my best friend and a few others are going to the movies on friday but i dont know if thats a good idea considering he likes her. she knows i really like him and i know she wouldnt do anything like flirt with him in front of me. but i dont want him paying all the attention to her..should she invite her bf that way he cant?!?!?
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hey there!
My personal advice is to go for it. Most guys really respect and like girls who have the guts to come and talk to them. If you make the
first move and tell him how you feel, I am positive he would really respect you. He would say "Wow! what an amazing girl to come up and talk to me!" Story: So my friend was in love with one of her guy friends. She had been inlove with him for about 5 years or so. She has NEVER told him how she feels. Now, the guy that she is in love with is graduating high school and going out of state for college. She had wasted all of these years not tell him. Just recently, about 4 weeks before he is leaving, she told him how she felt(with my encouragement hehe), and he was speechless because he said that he had felt the
same way. It's a good thing that you decided to seek some advice here, because that's quite a dilemma you have there! :D In the meantime, become his friend.It's a win-win situation, because you would gain a friend in the process. Should you decide to wait for him, becoming his friend would allow you to get to know him
better. The familiarity that's bound to
result from your friendship should dispel any form of shyness you might feel. At the same time, he would be able to get to know you as well, and that would definitely raise the chances of him approaching you and telling you that he likes you.
I wish you all the best!! Good luck!!!! :P :P
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