I use to date this guy he was very kind to me we only dated acoulple weeks but i feel we told eachother everything, now 6yrs later i still think about him i was never treated so kindly by a man,he knows the guy im with now and says i should get far away from him(he doesn't like him at all) we ran into eachother out one night and i smiled at him to see if he would smile back he had to look twice the first smile was little then as he walked by he had a smile that lit up his whole face as he looked at me and walked by,so i thought it would be safe to talk to him when i asked him if we could talk he dropped the guy he was talkin to and said "yeah yeah sure" so we talked the rest of the night he bought me a drink and when this other guy came up to me he said to him look man theres any one over there that you can bother but leave her alone and the guy thought we were together so he apoligized for making my man upset(lol) i went with it. so i ended up giving him a ride home and we talked more and when he went to get out he was alittle hesitant so i asked if i could have a hug he said he could definatly do that we hugged and towards the end for a few moments he squeezed tighter, now recently i heard from a friend that he was talkin about me and said he doesn't know why im with the guy im with and that i deserve better, What does this mean does he still like me? please help me because i can't stop thinking about him and i do know i deserve better do you think he means he can treat me better?(I am 24yrs he is 25yrs) (im female)
Well, which one do you care about the most? If you know you don't deserve the guy you're with, why are you with him? I say you should go back to the guy you were with because it seems like he really cares about you. Go with your instinct. In the end, it's all up to you who you want to be with. And look at it this way: who do you think you would like to spend the rest of your life with? Hope I helped.
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So this guy that i've been off and on with for about a year just told me recently that it was over for good and i don't know why! He won't talk to me or look at me or anything! but thats not even the bad part! I really like him! I can't stop thinking about him or being with him! I don't know what to do! Should i just leave it alone?
Talk to his friends, ask them if anything is wrong with him. Otherwise, it sounds like there is nothing you can do, if he's just avoiding you. Sorry, but you might want to just move on. Hope I helped.
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Im in my junior year of highschool and i know its one of the most important years besides your senior year.. but i have no motivation what-so-ever. I have motivation in school cause my friends are doing work, so i might as well do it too. but when i get home i dont want to do it... i just dont care. I was wondering if there was something that will get me motivated.. thank you in advance!
Go to a study hall, or get together with friends. Then, you will be doing things in an environment where you're not working all alone. My friend had no reason to do any work, and his grades were dropping, but when he joined a study hall and got together with friends, he got back to A's and B's. However, in college, there may not be study halls or your best friends there every day for you. Cut off your possibilities to get side-tracked, and find ways you and a roommate can work together. Hope I helped!
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I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help.
That is exactly how I feel sometimes! My two best friends have known each other since before preschool. I've known one of them for only 2 years, and the other I've known since 1st grade. They talk to each other when they sleep over, and kind of leave me out. Talk to them. That's what I did. If they are really your best friends they will talk to you whenever you need it. Hope I helped!
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ok so i have this friend john and i like him. there was a dance on friday and since alexia (my friend and his ex girlfriend) couldn't go she asked erin (another friend) to see if i danced with john. And i did just 1 little slow dance. And then l8ter at the dance erin was talking to him while i was dancing and then for the rest of the dance he was like avoiding me. i am wondering was he just trying to protect me from alexia getting mad at me, (she would get mad even if we talked) or was he avoiding me because he didn't want to be around me?
The only way to find anything out is to talk to them. Ask Erin what she said. Ask John what he was told. Just ask. Hope I helped!
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i love the actors alexa havins(babe) and justin bruening(jamie) from all my chlidren. I was wondering, have either of them been in anything besides amc? and if they have what was it? thank you, I rate!
You can always go to a site, like www.aj.com or www.google.com, and type in their names. See what happens. Also, be on the lookout for them in magazines, or TV Guides. They sometimes say background info on stars in there. Hope I helped!
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So, awhile back I was doing a project for health class where I needed to find the price of baby strollers and I went to google to look them up. One of the first links I clicked on was ebay, but I immediately clicked out of it because we weren't allowed to buy used items. Since then, words on Spacefem and Livejournal have been underlined, and upon clicking them I get sent to an ebay site for that particular item. (Ex: my friend got "New Shoes" and they were underlined in her livejournal, when I clicked on it, there was a section for shoes.) I'm also experiencing random popups that have to do wtih the site I'm browsing, but I have a popup-blocker, so this shouldn't happen, and they're on sites I've never had popups on before said popup-blocker was installed. Most of these sites lead back to ebay. So..has anyone experienced this before, and if so, how did you get rid of it? I think it's making my connection slower as well, so though I can live with it, I'd like to get it fixed.
Talk to your parents. Maybe they could contact the company. If the company does nothing, you should probably switch to another company. I have sbc yahoo dsl, and none of that has ever happened to me or anyone in my family. We get one or two every six months, which is alright. As for the links, maybe don't click on it. Unfortunately, I don't think there is anything you can do about those. Your friends post things that lead to eBay, and you can't control that. Oh, and about the popups, maybe that site has more popups and you shouldn't be there. Hope I helped.
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my room is really lame and i hate having friends in it because its not cool. i have basic furniture, tv, computer, but its so boring to be in. any ideas? help!!!
I just redid my room, and I was in the same boat. I started looking through PBTeen catalogs. They have so many styles in there, there has to be something you like! Even if you just add some cool storage on the walls, and paint your walls a funky color, it would be a lot cooler! My room was white and had basic furniture too. I painted the walls blue, and added shelving that are these colors: pink, green, purple, and blue. They all work together, and now I have much more room for cooler things! I also added pillows in one corner of the room, so I could just lounge around if I wanted to. It's so great, and I'm very happy with it. Paint the walls your favorite color to spice things up! Hope I helped!
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I have been working so hard in school. and my mom wont let me do anything! i have worked my butt off, and all she will let me do is work more! She expects me to read books in one day, yet she doesnt believe i can write an essay in one hour when i am determined to go to a play with my friends! I am getting so tired, i have had so much pressure on myself i feel like i am going to crack under it! PLEASE help me! what do i do!? I am pratically being grounded from a life! Even though its winter vacation she wont let me do hardly anything now either! She went shopping today right after i woke up..so i didnt wanna go, becuz i had just woken up..and she was lke. How about you read a book or something! agh! All of this work isnt making my brain stronger! Its making it over-pressured and weak! I really need advice!
Get your sleep! And also, point it out to your mom what is happening to you. Just sit down with her one day when she has nothing to do. Don't settle for "read a book", ask her why she constantly tells you to do all these things. Maybe she struggled in school or failed at something and doesn't want you to make the mistake she did. There is most likely a reason as to why she constantly works you hard. Hope I helped!
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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments
This may be an allergic reaction to something. Go to a dermatologist or doctor to see what you can do. It may be something serious, so the sooner you get it done, the better. Hope I helped and I hope they go away soon!
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my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
Signed,
Concerned Friend
Ask her why she really "loves" him. If they were to be in a relationship, would he still be making out and doing things with other girls? What would be different? Would he still be going off with other girls? Because if he was...he's definetely not worth it. Hope I helped.
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I have liked this guy for a LONG time now but not too much has happened between us. I want to be with him romantically and we've fooled around a few times but we act like it never happened the next time we're together. He does things that make me believe he likes me back but I can never be sure. What should I do? I really want to be with him.
16 years old
Female
Ask him! That's the only honest way. If one of your friends asks him, he may not be honest, because he might get shy. If you've fooled around, why doesn't he want to be with you? He may not want a long relationship, maybe he only wants to fool around. Hope I helped.
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Theres this one girl in my dorm...she CANT spell. A freshmen in college and she cant spell little words, she simply doesnt know how. The word good, she spells gud. She cant even spell little words and this concerns me. She isnt doing well in her classes at all because of this reason. Me and my roommate edit her papers and we try to tell her that she really needs to learn how to spell properly, but she doesnt care. She cant rely on me and my roommate to save her but on every paper. Should I tell her to go to a tutor (which she probally wont go), or let her fend for herself? I tried to help her learn, but I get mad at her everytime I try.
She should see a tutor. Point out her future if she doesn't know how to spell. If she can't spell, she won't get far in life. Tell her all your trying to do is help her. Hope I helped.
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my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself?
I would say that you should wait until your married. If you didn't get pregnant last time, you were lucky. Are you ready to be a mom at age 17? Or would you rather be a mom when you have a supportive husband there too? If all the new guy wants is sex, maybe you shouldn't see him anymore, because sex can be really hurtful to your life. In this video I saw that asked young mothers what they would do if the could go back in time, they all said they would not have sex because they had no idea what they were doing to themselves. If you are involved in any sports or active things, you wouldn't be able to do those things anymore. Think about the consequences before you go and have fun for one night. Hope I helped.
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is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is?
It's different for everyone, so there is no "set age" for when a girl stops growing. My cousins just turned 18 (twins) and they grew another 1/2 inch over the summer. So..no it isn't true that after 16 a girl stops growing. Hope I helped.
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I used to be best friends with this girl but we fell out because I spent too much time with a new group of friends and my boyfriend. Now I just hang out with my boyfriend and the new group but my ex friend has started taking over. She's poisoning my friend's minds against, flirts with my boyfriend and is just generally taking my place. There is no way that we can ever be friends again but she's destroying what I have with my other friends too. What should I do?
That's so weird, because the same exact thing is happening to me! Why did you stop hanging out with her as much as the other group of friends? The reason I left my ex best friend was because she wasn't being honest, she was getting annoying, and she was embarassing me. Maybe you should just try talking to her. See what happens. Hope I helped.
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i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE!
I have a really great brand called Origins Spot Remover. It's amazing and I know how annoying that can be...I have the same thing on my chin. You simply apply the stuff only on the acne, nothing else. You let it dry, and in a few days it will start to flake off. It's amazing stuff. The bottles are really small, and $20 a piece, but definetely worth it. They will sting if the acne is open, so be sure to not pick at them the day you put them on. Apply once or twice a day (depending on how fast you want it to go away) and wait for it to come off, don't force it or you might get scars Trust me, this stuff REALLY WORKS.
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Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you.
If she is really your best friend, she won't be hiding anything. Ask her if anything is wrong, and depending on her answer, try and work things out, or as someone else said "dump her because shes not being a good friend". Hope I helped.
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ok this morning i woke up and i have this HUGE zit on my chin! and the really bad news is.. i have a date tonite.. is there anyway i can get it to go away really fast?! please i need your help and thank you in advance
This could be a great way to find out who likes you for who you are, or for your face. If the guy really cares about you, he won't care. If he notices it and seems kind of iffy, maybe he isn't right for you.
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I have this one really good friend, and let's call her Jane. Jane and I met last year, when I came to her school for a gifted program. Jane and I became kinda friends, but I made a best friend that I'll call Kristen. It's a year later, and now were all good friends. But on the bus the other day, this girl I'll call Sam bad mouthed my friend. I asked Kristen if she liked Jane, and she said no not really. Jane is a really good friend of mine but I don't know what to do?
Maybe you should find out why, not just "if they like each other or not". There may be reasons, and possibly you could solve the problems between them. Just try. If that doesn't work, try to tell Kristen good things about Jane, and the same with telling Jane about Kristen. See what happens. And if you are a threesome, do they seem to glare at each other or just seem stand-offish? Hope I helped!
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