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hi my name is Becky. i am 14 years old. I have gone through some rough times myself and I hope I can help anyone that might need it. If you're looking for a straight up answer or just someone to listen to you, i'll be here. :)

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i knew a girl about 3 years ago ,when i see her i used to say hi and that's it this year wat diffrent this at the end of this year ,,, i talked to her alot ,, it was nice ,,,, and at the end of this year i was going to ask her to give me her phone number but i couldn't coz her friends want her to saty with them so i talked to her for short time and i couldn't ask her for her phone number so i think i can get her phone number from some friends but i am just wonderning wat should i do after i get her phone number and wat she will say when she get massage or call from me wat is her responed for that i really like that girl alot so please can i get help,, and i am from libya ,,, so wat should i do ?

You shouldnt worry about weather her friends dont want you hangin out wit her because thats none of their buissness. if she really likes you too she'll be nice to you and maybe you guys will be best friends one day. &hearts =]

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Today is me and my girls 2 month aniversary, and she's grounded so i cant call her or visit her, but she snuck a call to me yesterday, i told her she would get a suprse today, i was goiing to get a white rose sent to her house with a teddy bear and a card, but the probleam is now my dad's bei a hard ass about it and sayin we'll have to do it tommrow plus all of the floral shops in my area are closed today. Im not sure ifi'll be able to reach her today and im worried she'll be disappointed.

if she really loves you she wont be and when she gets ungrounded you can tell her about it and what happened. hope i helped =]

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Last july i met this guy at my church. ever since that day ive liked him alot. Wednesday my church youth group had this get together & he was there. But he had this girl with him. i got really jealous and upset about him bringing a girl around me.

He knows i like him alot & he has known for atleast 5 months. At the time i told him he had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after i told him. On myspace hes always posting bulletins about how he hates seeing those happy couples around kissing anding hugging eachother. He hates it because hes not with a girl.

I dont understand him because i want him more than anything. He says that no girl really likes him when he likes a girl. He cant always get tht girl he likes he should give the that likes him a chance.

I hate when he post these bulletins because he makes me feel sort of invisible.

Me and him never hang out. We talk online & at church. I want him to talk to me more then just that.

I feel like im holding on to liking him for no reason. He post all these bulletins about how he cant find a Girl to be happy with. Should i say anything to him? Or just give up on wanting to be closer to him?
im 17/f
hes 19/m

thank you.

i think you should talk to him about it and then see what happens hope i helped :)

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I have light brown hair and I was wondering what I could do to get blonder hair. Not totally blonde but light blonde or dirty blonde. And I dont really wanna buy something. Maybe I could make something.

you could sit in the sun while you have lemon juice in your hair hope i helped :)

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Well, every single day, i'm left all alone at my house. My mom goes to work, and my brother is at camp, and my other brother is in the army.

Since i cant get a job, and my friends can never hang out, i was wondering, what are some fun things that I can do while i'm alone.

well you could get on the internet and play games on the-n.com or maybe listen to music well thats all i got hope i helped :)

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I'm going away for 5 days on Sunday. I have no idea how much to pack! I never pack enough and I run out of clothes by like the 3rd day! I don't want that to happen again!! It's going to be REALLY warm even at night so I dont need any long sleeved shirts. How many shirts, shorts, etc should I bring? I need a list please! If you were going away for 5 days what would you bring?? Please help!!! Lists only please.

if it were me i would pack 5 of everything if there is a washer and dryer but if theres not then i would pack 10 outfits hope i helped :)

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I have always wondered if you burn calories when you talk, sing or laugh. I know this is a weird question!

doing any thing like sleeping walking just sitting burns calories so talking singing or laughing would burn calories to but not much.

hope i helped :)

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doesn anyone know where i can get eye shadow like this. http://www.mymostwanted.com/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/74238/cat/2352

or something like it?

thank you so much!

im sure you could get it from Mary Kay which is a makeup company. hope i helped :)

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ok.. like.. i get really hyper. & like yesterday, i was at the carnival, & i was like idno, fulling around. & like, my one friend is so quiet, & shy. & im more outgoing & everything. soo, should i change? & be more like her? or should i stay the way i am? i dont want to like annoy someone. & how can i stop acting so hyper sometimes?

you shouldnt change because everyone is different and if they think your annoying then thats there problem. its hard to really tell u how to not be so hyper because thats just how u are.

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Ok, I have had my perid since the last day of may. It has been almost 2 months and I'm still having my period. It's weird because the last week of may I had a really heavy period. And then the second to last week of June I had a really heavy period too. And now the second to last week of July I'm having the heaviest period of all. In between the weeks my period is light but I still have to wear pads and stuff. I talked to my mom and she suggested going to the doctor and getting birth control to help me regulate. Should I just wait a little longer? Or should I see a doctor right away? Also, I'm not sexually active whats so ever, and I never had been. I've had my period all of summer so far! It sucks : ( Thanks for the advice!

i think you should go to the doctor like your mom suggested and get birth control so u will get regulated and u wont have your period all the time.

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