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there's this boy at school, and I've kinda sorta got this huge crush on him....and he knows. we used to talk last year b/c we had a class together, but now that's over. I don't know how to talk to him without coming off as completely creepy. my head gets all jumbled when I simply walk past him in the hallway, so talking to him feels like it would be exceptionally hard. my friends keep telling me to just have confidence in myself and go for it, and if he blows me off then I should just move on. just one problem: I can't. I've liked him for over a year...without any real prompting from him. I don't know how get up the courage to talk to him or anything...so I was wondering if someone could help me. please. (link)
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i understand where you are coming from. Jumping all the way to talking is so hard. My suggestion is to flirt a little bit, without talking, and see how he reacts, then move on to the talking. which will help you feel more comfortable. Like. When you see him, make eye contact, not in a creepy way...but an i like you way...and smile at him, just friendly too...not creepy. then he will probably smile back. things like that, then you should start off with asking for his phone if you can use it...tell him that your phone is dead. Then call a number where the person never pics up...nd then be like..."gosh, why doesn't he/she ever pick up...lol.....don't you hate people like tht....hahaha....anyways, thanks for letting me use ur phone"........you probably think this is corny, but u could try something like it!lol....goodluck..i hope i helped a little
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i recently bought clip in hair extensions. the 18 inch ones and they are human hair. i really want to curl them, but if i curled it would it look natural with the rest of my hair curled? my real hair barely touches my boobs so i would just be scared that it would be too noticeable. i have alot of layers too so. also if i did curl it or do anything else to it, do people usually like curl it when it's not in your hair, and then put it in your hair? or do they put the extensions in, and then curl it? and after your done, if you want them straight again, do you just straighten them? what if you want to put hairspray or something in them? sorry so many questions, but any advice would help i just don't want to ruin my extensions [: (link)
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the extentions sound like they were good pricing because they are clip ins,and human too. With human, you can straighten, curl, wash, put anything you want in them. Its just like ur hair, but clipped in. So when you curl it, I honestly would suggest curling it while its clipped in. Because that way you get a more blended look, and you can see better into how the curls are gonna look like as you curl, or whatever. And you can use hairspray, anything, moose, gel, umm...conditioner, shampoo....everything! i hope this helped.....goodluck!
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Ok theres this guy i like ALOT named Griffin
hes alot shorter than me which is kinda adorable but hes my ex's bestfriend my ex says he dont care but i know he does
should i go out with griffin? cuz he said he likes me too and he asked me out but i havent given him an answer yet =/
so yeahh help! (link)
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Go for it!lol...he wants you, you want him, go for it. its good you haven't given him an answer though because you are not like, Yes, Yes, Yes, but u r playing some little hard to get. But ur ex is gone down the drain, so it shouldn't really matter. I think it does matter to him, but the fact that he said it doesn't bother him shows that he is willing to deal with it, even if it hurts, and he is mature enough to handle it. But my opinion is, say yes.
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we technically started liking him at the same time.
but I did halloween w/ him.
and now i think i don't like him anymore.
after reading through his texts, i think i am.
but i still have feelings for him. (link)
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do you want to be with him still? another thing you can do to try to get him if you still want him is to play the chase game. make him chase you. make him wonder what is going on. one moment talk to him and flirt a lot, and then next thing ignore him and flirt with another guy or just talk to other people...nd he'll be thinking, woah..i'm confused, i thot she liked me, or he'l want to get closer to you, wanting so solve the problem like, whats going on. But do you feel like you want to move on and like someone else? or do you still want to be with him?
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ok well for the past few months i have had an itch and burn in the area down there. i am still a virgin. i do not feel comfortable telling any1 in my family so idk wut do to. idk wut it is to please help thank you (link)
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sometimes it can be caused by shaving. the hairs can grow in, i think they are called ingrown hairs. and it can cause a bump on there. itchy gets supper it can look bruised sometimes, and it hurts when it rubs up on any item of clothing. what you can do is just make sure that you clean yourself everyday. Soon it will go away. but it could also be a yeast infection. goodluck...i hope everything goes ok. Your mom might be able to help you out too.
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So i have this boyfriend that i adore (link)
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he loves you for sure. at least i think so. but i thnk he acts like that around his friends because he doesn't want to act all cutsie...most guys act really different around their friends to show kind of a royalty thing. like i don't like her that much, like she's mine. I control her thing. But he loves you...he has to build a reputation with his friends. But if it bothers you that much, just confront him about it and tell him that you don't like it. it makes you feel uncomfortable...but anyway....i hope this helped..goodluck!
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Alright.. background on this story. My best friend (let's call her "A") goes to this camp with my other good friend ("B"), and they goes to church with everybody from camp. Long story short, "A" met this boy who's currently her boyfriend of 3 months.
Yesterday, 11/3: "A" went to church, & I guess she got to 3rd with her boyfriend...right outside of the church doors. Gross, right? She's never been so bad, I don't know what this is coming to. And the reason I'm so pissed is because she didn't even tell me.. I heard from "B".
What do I do? Should I be mad?.. (link)
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don't be mad. i guess its human to be alittle mad because she is supposed to be yor best friend. and best friends tell each other everything, no matter what it is. But dont be too mad. I think that she was just scared to tell you because she didn't want you to think lower of her. To think that she was slutty, or dusgusting. You should just be thre for her, in a good way and show her that you are glad that you found out, or that she told you, that way next time when something happens, she will be sure to tell you. show her that you won't judge her in any way. I hope that makes sense.....i hope this helped...goodluck!
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Okay Friday my boyfriend (practically fiance) and I took my son trick- or - treating. I was hoping after work saturday he and I would get to spend some alone time together, but his aunt passed away he told me this at 3:30 pm on saturday. He also said he was going to call me and 2 on sunday so i could meet his mother ( he went to his uncles with his cousin to stay the night for the funeral sunday) and he hasn't even called and his mom is already back at her house in Springfield about an hour away from he and I. I know im worried about him but I also have trust issues and i have been doing great with him i trust him 100 % my stumoch has been hurting im always afrid i did something wrong and ive only checked my phone 100 times to make sure i didn't miss the call. (link)
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don't worried. I think that you are worried because you really think that he is not spending all that time on the funeral. You are constantly worrying about what he's doing and who is with at this point right? but no need to worry. He will call you. He is probably going through a really rough time in his life right now from losing an aunt. I take health in school, and we were just recently talking about loss. there are many stages that people go through when they have a loss, and he is probably in that stage where he is distancing himself from everyone. But if you do trust him 100%, thre is really no neeed to worry. I think everything will be alright. Anyway. I hope this helped. Congrad on ur engagement!goodluck.
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what are your guys thoughts on Discover Interview Fighting for the Right to Clone? like what are your opinions on it? :) (link)
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i honestly in my opinion think clowning is horrible. with all this cloning, i honestly don't know whats real or not in the food market. Like, if people or scientists keep cloning, the human body is gonna change, in a weird way. That could honestly mess with our bodies. Plus, all the cloning spends a lot of money that can be spent on helping poor needy people. Why can't we live on food that is healthy and real and helps nutrify the body? why are we really going artificial? it really honestly to me does not make any sense whatsoever...
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well im not fat. im just have a little pouch. well i how do i tighten that up? also how to get a tighter butt too. and stronger arms? and how do i loose weight also. any good tips? without going to the gym. (link)
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well, lifting weights is good. it think that weight loss supplements that help you gain muscle and tight butt can really help...including stronger arms too.
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I am a 16 year old male. My problem is that I met this freshman in my high school named Bria. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my entire life and I've never felt this way about any other crush in my life, normally I would forget about a crush in a matter of 2-3 weeks. But this girl, I've liked for at least 3 months now, and I cannot find the way to ask her to go out with me. Let alone impress her, I feel like I'm not attractive enough for her, not worthy enough, but I know that if she gave me a chance, that I could treat her better than any other guy ALIVE! But, so far she only knows my nickname that I go by, and she only speaks to me rarely and that's when we're in class and she needs something like, "what order are we supposed to staple these papers" and what-not. I feel that it will be nearly impossible MIRACLE if I ever got a chance with her, I've even prayed occasionally, and nothing's happened, I even tried to forget about her, but everytime i say that I'm going to, I only think even harder of me and her and what our future could be like. On a scale of 1 to 10, she's ranked a 10, and I'm like a 6-7. Someone that has my empathy help me with this one. (link)
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hey, you know. what you can do usually is be friendly. A friendly that is truly you. when you are looking at her in class and she catches you, smile, in a friendly way. not creepy though, but in the type of friendly that says, I'm interested. start flirting with her, she is already asking you stuff right. so flirting can go a long ways. Complements can go a long ways too, which is a part of flirting. But it sounds like you could have a chance with her. Eye contact! not too much because it could scare her away, but enough. also think about talking more to her, like talk about her. It shows that you are interested in her. no offense to us girls, but we love it when guys wanna know things about us...when they talk about us......anyways...i have a big feeling that you could have a chance with her. goodluck. i hope this helped.
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Ok well my boyfriend and I have been talking about fooling around but hears the thing..I have never given a bj before so I was wondering if you could give me some tips on what to do. (link)
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wel, you do as the other advicenator said, but like the thing is you have to make sure that it is wet, or else it can actually bruise him. I gave my boyfriend a blow job, and his dangler got bruised so, wutever you do, use lubricants like vaseline, anything that will make it wet....anyways..i hope this helped..oh yea...another thing you can while sucking on it, is to squeeze his balls, and message his inner thighs.....goodluck!
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Ok here's the thing I met this guy A.J online through a game that we both played. Anyways we started out as friends, well I thought we did, but A.J started liking me quite early on, while I had a crush on best friend. But liking my friend in that way started to diminish the more time I spent with A.J. Long story short after I had stopped crushing on best friend, A.J and I started this major thing. We got together and he told me that he loved me and i eventually told him that i loved him. Well it turns out that he had gotten back together with his ex while he was dating me. He told each of us that the other was his best friend nothing more. we found out and confronted him on it. He chose to continue dating her. I tried to get rid of him from my life, but I couldnt. At first it was just to find out why he did it, then it moved to trying to convince him that he made the wrong choice, then friends, and then we were kind of in limbo. We talked more then he and his gf. He told me that he still loved me and that he made the wrong choice that he only loved his gf more as a friend and he just doesnt want to deal with her temper that breaking up with her would cause. So i sort of believed him on that matter and since she was in a different country it was very easy to fool myself. but it was really starting to get to me that he was still with her. then i got to know her and she's nice and i felt really guilty and so I confronted him on the matter and he says he really doesnt know how he feels about her, but he does love me. I want him to make a choice about this and stop toying with the both of us, but he can't or wont. we still talk but for me it seems like he's pushing me away, but he says im being silly that he loves me. I just really don't know what to do about it, from the way we talk since we first broke up i've always gotten the feeling that he liked me better then her, that he only went with her cause he didnt want a serious relationship and with her it wouldnt happen, with me it would since we were in the same state. I love him still but this is really destroying me, i either just want him completely out of my life or completely in it. Could you guys tell me what you think about my situation, sorry it was so long or a bit confusing. f/18 (link)
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okay this guy chose the other girl. he has been known to lie and make up stories in the past. to me what he told you about not wanting to deal with the girl's temper is bull. if he really wants to be with you, he should be willing to go through anything with anyone. he should be willing to risk having to deal with her temper. when people love each other, they don't give into what other people do or say, they just cope because they really do care about each other. maybe you can talk to the girlfriend more and find out what he says to her. that way you can really see how he is. but i honestly think that he is playing. i'm not trying to be rude or anything, i just, think you deserve better. you should get rid of him completely, which is easy for me to say, but will be very difficult for you to do. but keeping him around knowing that he is with some other girl is not cool. you should have someone who will be with you, and only you, not with another girl, and pretending to like you more when he actually chose to go out with her. anyway....i'm only 16 but i hope this can help out some. goodluck!
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Last year may i met a boy that i realy liked and even tho i knew he had a girlfriend i lyked him alot . All of us were hangin out (his girlfriend too) and drinking after a couple of drinks she got drunk and he took her home when he came bak one thing led to another and we ended up kisin...for months after that we were talkiing on the fone and he finally left her and we got together. The thing is a couple of weeks ago i heard that his ex was pregnant for him and that they got an abortion the thing is when i ask him about it he doesnt want to anser he jus asks me y i bringin that up...but in a way i feel dat its my fault and if i didnt go there they would hav had the baby....im fellin reallly guilty what should i do? (link)
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well. i feel that you honestly should not have gone near him if you new that he already had a girlfriend...that puts a bad reputation on you. its not your fault that the girl got pregnant, that is her issue and the guy's issue because they did it. you weren't there wen it happend...you didn't lure them into it...you had nothing to do with them having sex, but them braking up, i don't want to hurt your feelings, but honest truth, yes. they broke up because the guy fell for you. and even if they did stay together, i don't think that they would have had the baby. the guy doesn't sound too much like he is ready for a baby anyway.
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I have a really good guy friend that i've been fairly close to for the past few years (we're juniors in high school right now) and its always been really nice because neither of us liked each other and we just got along super well. Well... now I like him. which is NOT GOOD. He's really caught up on another girl he's liked for a couple years. I highly, highly doubt that its gonna change anytime soon.
what do I do??? I can't jeopardize our friendship, and i know if i told him it would get BEYOND awkward and screw things up. there is honestly no hope of an actual relationship between us. advice? (link)
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flirt with him like crazy, do things that show you like him, but don't say anything. plus act normal too. maybe he will get the hint, and if he looks like he is uncomfortable or he is enjoying you flirting with him, then you will proabbly get him to the point where he starts liking you and stuff, then that way you will get him...i hope this hleped..gooodluck!
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okay theres this boy that i like and we have a very intimate friendship, that whole friends with benefits thing. anyways he told my best friend he likes me but he doesnt know what to do? he flirts alotttt. and he told his psycho ex he just wanted to be friends nothing more than that. so he got her out the way cuz at one point he wanted to ask me out but she got in the way. but that was a few weeks back now its i like her but i dont know what to do... what does that mean? should i keep flirting back and acting like i like him or just leave it alone? i need HELP. i mean like some really good advice, cuz it hurts to just keep messing with him and like him as much as i do. (link)
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you are not messing with him because you like him! keep on flirting and being playfull and fun and laughing and crying and being there for him...show him you like him....show it a lot....give him little hints. actions speak louder than words...so yeah...i hope this can help...goodluck!
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Alright my boyfriend and i were fooling around and some precum leaked through his his boxers AND shorts and then he brushed it and then touched me. he didn't insert his finger in me, but just touched that general area. am i safe? I'm just a paranoid person and normally i'm extremely careful and he says that he didn't get anything on his finger before touching me but can someone just tell me the chances are extremely small to ease my mind. (link)
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no worries! you will be okay. its on rare ocassion that it could have gotten into ur pussy. just be careful next time because you don't want to be like that all the time!
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What are guys "attracted" to? Like their hormones. And is there anything that I can to do stimulate his hormones? Or trigger butterflies? (Do guys even get butterflies?) (link)
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ok, the neck is a good area...for while making out.....go under his shirt and touch his body, just roam with your hand, and you can also touch his thigh while making out, if you are sitting, and start going up towards his.....and then if you aren't shy, just touch it!hahahah....and he will be sooooooooo horny.....my ex loved it, he went wild.....i hope this helped!lol...goodluck
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well i just got extensions and the only thing i can do with my hair to make them actually look good is a bump with my bangs, the problem is i have such bad whispys. HOW DO I GET RID OF THEM but keep a good high bump at the same time? (link)
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thanx...what you can do is use soft sheen superio carson spray. it will help and go a long ways...goodluck!
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okay so theres this boy i met a while back. he's older. he's 21, and i'm 16. when we first started talking, we talked a lot. like i used to talk to him for hours. and like almost every day. and then one day he came over and we just chilled and watched videos. and then the next week i went to his house and we were gonna watch a movie, &then he made a movee, and yeah. we did i and yeah. the next week i went over again and we did it again. since then we've been seeing each other atleast once a week, even if it can only be for a minute or two. like two fridays ago, i told him i was at a party, and he was texting me and he was like what are you doing. and i didnt text back because i didn't know i got a text, and then when i checked he had texted me again after that saying "stop making out with other boys!" and we just talked and then i visited him for a minute and then i had to go home. uhm. then like i think on friday last week he was texting me, and he said i'm a player, like he said my friends told him, but i know they don't talk to him. so he was like okay they didn't say that but he said he thinks that i'm a player. and i told him i wasn't. but idk. and then on saturday, i was at a party, and then like i drank waay too much and i had motrin, so i got alcohol poisoning, and he was at this other party like half an hour away, and he drove all the way to where i was to pick me up. and then he took me back to his house and gave me like bread and water and stuff and was just taking care of me. and then the next morning, he got up at 830 to take me back to my friends house. and like we slept in his bed, but we didn't really do anything, we just sorta messed around. but like lately, i feel like all we've really had is a physical relationship, but then he's really sweet to me and he does all these little things for me sometimes, but i feel like sometimes he just wants the physical stuff, and idk what to do. i guess i don't really have like one exact question. soo uhh. any thoughts on the situation? (link)
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to me, yes, the guy seems really caring because he went all the way over there to that party to get you. Plus I bet if anything happened to you he would feel so bad about it. You are 16, honestly, this guy has been 16 obviously. He knows how you think, he knows what you want, he's been there done that. I feel that he honestly just wants you for sex, because that it what it seems like you guys do all the time. that is very unhealthy for a relationship. He knows that he can take advantage of you and seduce you easily, and just lure you into that horny sexual mood. He's an expert, and i feel that he is taking advantage of you. I'm only 16 too, i've never been in ur situation with a 21 year old, but i've had a friend in the kind of situation you are in...and its not very cute at all. You just have to be really careful. sometimes i guess its not all that bad because not every 21 year old is like that, but most of them are, so watch out. I hope this helps! goodluck.
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