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so there's this boy....
(17/f)
there's this boy at school, and I've kinda sorta got this huge crush on him....and he knows. we used to talk last year b/c we had a class together, but now that's over. I don't know how to talk to him without coming off as completely creepy. my head gets all jumbled when I simply walk past him in the hallway, so talking to him feels like it would be exceptionally hard. my friends keep telling me to just have confidence in myself and go for it, and if he blows me off then I should just move on. just one problem: I can't. I've liked him for over a year...without any real prompting from him. I don't know how get up the courage to talk to him or anything...so I was wondering if someone could help me. please.
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i understand where you are coming from. Jumping all the way to talking is so hard. My suggestion is to flirt a little bit, without talking, and see how he reacts, then move on to the talking. which will help you feel more comfortable. Like. When you see him, make eye contact, not in a creepy way...but an i like you way...and smile at him, just friendly too...not creepy. then he will probably smile back. things like that, then you should start off with asking for his phone if you can use it...tell him that your phone is dead. Then call a number where the person never pics up...nd then be like..."gosh, why doesn't he/she ever pick up...lol.....don't you hate people like tht....hahaha....anyways, thanks for letting me use ur phone"........you probably think this is corny, but u could try something like it!lol....goodluck..i hope i helped a little
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Why not start off with something simple? Text him, or tlak by internet first. You will be less nervous that way. Then after that you could see him at school and talk about something like a project maybe. Start talking to him on the phone. If you do this you two will grow closer. Good luck. =]
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