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E-mail: xobrianababiixo@netscape.net
Gender: Female
Location: madison...but east haven schools (connecticut)
Occupation: student JMMS grade 8
Age: 13
AIM: xOhsOdifficultx
Member Since: November 8, 2004
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Last Update: May 14, 2006
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This might be hard to understand, but Mods please don't delete until I have at least 1 answer! Please...
lately all my friends have been getting into fights, it's a middle school thing i guess. one problem, there is a HUGE fight going opn between this girl who stayed back and my best friend. so the gilr who stayed back is 15 we are all 13 and my best friend and her are in a figt. its a really bad one tho. we've contacted the superintendant of my city to give you an idea of how bad it is. she is concstanly beign harassed and now everyoen else is in minor fights becaus eof the big one, we are falling apart what do i do? i've tried talking it out, is the problem just to big? and my best friend is leaving the school next week : ( help

go to a school guidence counsler. he/she will call down both sides and you will settle it. if it still doesnt stop, contact police and tell them to make the other side baq off...they cood get in trouble for harrasment and stuff. if u ahvnt alredi tell the pricipal...they could suspend the bad person for bullying and harrasing. dont worry all bad things must come to an end!!


hope this helps...briana

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Do you think that because I'm in badn I'm a "Band Dork"?



NO! jsut dont go to band camp! I do band..i play 3 differnet instruments! im not a dork! lmao




briana

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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

chicken wings in my book are finger food! eat them with ur damn fingers! lmao
dont wanna sound ahrsh but reli com on now




briana

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Ok, well i just got back from bball practice like 2 hours ago and my lower back is killing me! Does anyone known any streches or anything that can ease up the pain a little bit? Ive already taken tylenol.

bend down n touch your toes!!!

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I worry for my fiance because she has reumatoid arthritis, which is very rare for someone her age. Well anyways the medicine they put her on always makes her feel horrible so she doesn't take it and deals with the pain. I'm just worried about the long term effects. I've talked to her about not taking it but she avoids the question. She's sick of seeing doctors so she won't get a second opinion on medicine. How can I help her?

convince her to c another doctor...u mite think im crazi cas im 13 but reli my grandma almost stoped taking her medacine for it and it would ahve caused long term damage! another opinon mite help...!!!!



briana

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People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight?

no! omg! i usto weigh that..now im 13/f 115! im perfectly normal...well at least thats wat my doctor seys! if u want to lose weight its up to you..but ppl r gunan think ur crazii!lol


briana

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i have a question about pop-ups, and i didnt kno which category it was under. do yu guyz have those pop-ups and itz like 'shoot the monkey and win a free laptop'? well, do yu actually win with those things? or are they just there...


thx! =)

thats a reli good question!

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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me?

Its good that you dont want to cut! Next, try to do stuff that makes you feel good! If you want, go on safe exercise and eating diets! The right guy for you will come along sometime, and when he does youll b rite there waiting! Dont worry about how many boyfriends your friends may ahve had, because they aren't you!!! you have to date guys at your own pace! dont worry!


briana

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please help, i no my boyfriend loves me a lot and thats the reason hes with me, but i get scared because im afraid to tell him i dont want to have sex with him. i dont believe in it, i know im not ready, and im not going to do this. i kno he wont break up with me because of it, im just afraaid 2 tell him - please help me..thanksyou

i think a long serious talk is neccesary. tell him exactly how you feel. hell definatley understand and be oaky with the idea. he will wait! dont get so worked up about it!! everything will be fine....dont do anything ur not ready to do!!!


good luck....everything will b fine!

briana

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i have a firend named briana and shes wierd and has a stupid advice web site what the hell sould she do to stop her from being even mmore wierd

well i dont think u shood b mad or upset w/ her! shes trying to send a message that shes here to help ppl!


hey my names briana too~



lmfao...me

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Ok well I like this girl, but she's my friend and I'm not sure if I should tell anybody cuz it may screw up the relationship we do or did have not sure which it is yet O_O. I don't know wut to do HEEELLLPPPP

well u should def tell her! its the way u goa bout it is the tricky part. u tell her i gatta tell u sumthing...but u promise it cant change ne thing between us..n then shell go oaky wat u can tell me anything....n then u go i like u..n then shell go awww how cute! n its a good ending!! well most of the time! but if shes ur friend she wood styll b friends w/ u no matter wat...weather she likes u baq or not. girls rnt shallow n r like omg ew ic ant b friends w/ sum1 who likes me...ther not like that at all! so go ahead tell her! dont b afriad!

hope this helps...briana

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how do i get a girlfriend...like wat should i do?

well be yourself! and if nobody likes u for who u r then they r the one who loses something!! dont change urself to get a girl to like you.....cus if someone alredi likes u n then they c that u change for a girl..then well she wont like u anymore!!


briana

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IM HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY GIRL....WELL GIRLS...SEE I HAVE 2 GIRLFRIENDS AND THEY BOTH WANT TO GO TO THE MOVIES WITH ME BUT I DONT KNOW WHICH ONE TO GO WITH...I LIKE BOTH OF THEM BUT ONES PRUDE...WHICH ONE SHOULD I GO WITH...PLEASE HELP ME...IM 11 YEARS OLD AND I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE

okay..well i think u should pick one girlfriend! that way u can go to the movies with the other girl! but if u reli cant choose....sey ull meet one girl at the movies at like 7 30 or sumthing...then wen that movie ends stay at the theatre untill another movie starts which u can c with ur other girl! so u win!


hope u pick the rite one....briana

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These past 2 years i've been feeling really depressed and its reflecting the way i act towards people now. I feel as if i can't trust anyone, and unpleasant things have been going on. Since 6th grade i've been cutting (im in 8th now). And now, It's like i always want to,and i cant stop, but its gotten to the point to where i dont even know it. I cant concentrate because i've lost most of my friends, and the 2 friends i have now act like they dont even want to be around me. All this anger is built inside of me, and i have no one to talk to about it and so i take it out on myself because i feel like its my fault even though it may not be. Im losing almost everything, and i always feel like my friends talk about me behind my back. I want help, but i want help from people who understand me, and who actually want to listen and care about me, but it seems none of my friends can really fill those needs.

i kind of understand where your coming from. i no its how hard it is. the first thing u must do is try to stop cutting. hurting urself is nto the answer. try anything. maybe like buying a stress ball instead. if u realy want to stop, talk to ur mom about sending u to a group theropy thing. maybe it will help. 2nd of all u have to tell ur friends wat ur feeeling..i told my friends that they were excluding me form a lot of jokes and conversations n it started tro bother me. they understood n started talking with me again. healing takes time...but hey im better!!!

thanks for ur question.....

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