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My name's Amy Gwendoline. I'm 16 years young, and I'm a junior in high school.
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what hair straightener do you recomened?? i am looking for a straightener that will keep my hair straight for a long time with no frizzinnes. my friend has one its called wet to straight or wet to dry. somthing like that. if you could clear that up for me that would be great =)
Ahhhh no no no.
The wet to straight, straighteners DO NOT work. :[ My best friend got one for her birthday and I used it, it really doesn't help with the frizziness factor at all. It straightens it, just a little. Not much.
A good straightener under the price of 35$ is Revlon. It's the one I use & it's awwwwesome. It doesn't help with frizziness either, but usually a lot of girls use hair products, [anti-frizz stuff] beforehand to help with that sorta stuff. I'd stay clear away from Conair straighteners though. They really do not work. :[
i really neeed your advice:
who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved?
The first person I loved. :]
I was a new student this year. And this wednesday, my friends talkeed to me in private saying that i had over-sarcasm, but then again, i got the sarcasm influence from them, especially from clara, who became my best friend in school. since then, they stopped hanging with me and i didn't mind them much. i talked to them sometimes, but only sometimes. i got really miserable because i felt like i was losing my friends whom i'm really close to. last week, we were just so close as besties. then thursay, it was the day before our fieldtrip, i asked her if we could sit together in the bus, which i thought she would say yes to because she asked me months ago if we could sit together in the fieldtrip. but sad to say, she said she was already sitting with isabelle and i got so hurt. i got really mad at her, but i didn't show it on the next day, the fieldtrip. me and clara were so close, like peas in a pod. when there are events in school and i bring my camera, both of us are always together. and during the fieldtrip, everybody else had a partner, except me. and it was a sad situation for me. i hung out with other people in the fieldtrip and i talked to clara sometimes. i saw all my pics, and clara wasn't in any of them, not even one. but then my problem is, after they told me about my over-sarcasm, i wanted to change and be friends with her again. but after her just leaving me aside, i dont know what to think anymore. she was one of the best friends i ever had. but she was one of the people who hurt me in my life, and its like i'm losing her. but is she worth it? because i'm not sure anymore. i'd appreciate good advice. thanks in advanced.
-samantha
You already had the stress of being a new kid at school this year, and then the added stress having to worry about making friends with this girl again, is not even right. This girl is not even remotely close to being worth ANYTHING. It's awesome how you tried to befriend with her again because that's exactly what I would've done.
Usually it just takes time, and eventually she'll realize how dumb she was being and she'll come back and try and be your best friend again, I promise you.
From now on, I don't think you should worry about Clara, don't even make eye contact with her. Just pretend she isn't even there. Pretty much just give her the cold shoulder & don't really hold a conversation with her. It'll work.
You can do so much better and you shouldn't have to deal with that, it's so immature. Just wait until she comes back and then you can be friends with her again if you want to. But the only reason she's ignoring you now is because she likes to see you the way you are, and that's not what a "best friend" is.
do guys like it wen girls shave?
and how do u shave?
and how much hair do you shave off?
im so confused
Everyone has different opinions and everyone has different ways of shaving. You usually would make this decision when you start being sexually active and you usually shave if your significant other wants you to. Some guys care about hair down there, and some guys just don't mind it or might even think it's hot.
When you start shaving down there you have to constantly shave it, and it will get thicker and thicker, so I think you should wait. Even though shaving can be healthy.
Here's a website to describe HOW to shave:
http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/pubichair.html
& You should shave off as much hair as YOU want.
Hey i would like to know something about hamsters like how much do you have to clean there tanks?..and what does bedding mean they said put bedding under like 2 inch bedding im not sure what they mean what does that mean..is it hard to take care of them? and should i get one im not sure im researching about them..please give me as much as information as you could about them..like bad things i dont want to buy a hamster and not like it like i want to know like would it be to cold if i put it in a hallway or would it be safe because my parents are strict with pets but they said i could get a hamster but it has to like stay in the hallway where they wont make a big mess and my hallway is like really big plus has a door so like yeah ..i hope you help please..thank youu..bye
You should get a hamster. :) They're the cutest animals EVER!! They smell really bad though, it doesn't even matter if you clean their cages or not. They're really smelly animals, but they are adorable.
You should clean their tanks atleast once a week, and if not then every other week. Bedding is the stuff in the bottom of the cage. So they can "do their business" and what not. It's just like soft material. It's not hard to take care of them. I mean, you feed them everyday like any ordinary animal. The bad things about hamsters is that they smell and they sleep during the day and they're loud whenever they are awake at night. So, as long as it's not in your room I'm sure you'll be happy because it won't be loud so you can't sleep. :]
I don't think it'd be bad for you to put in a hallway, I'm not really sure how cold it is there, but you shouldn't ever put it near the sun or in a hot area, because a lot of hamsters die of heat stroke. :(
hiii, guys.
okay, so this weekend i'm going to hang out with this guy that i'm dating, and we're going to go far, but not all the way to sex.
i haven't had my cherry popped yet, and i was talking to his best friend and he said guys hate it when they accidentally do it
is there any way that i can maybe do it? without hurting myself?
because i really don't want to have him do it by accident, you know?
thanks so muchhh :)
I think your friend is wrong. If you & this guy really like each other, when he pops your cherry it'l be something special. There are ways that girls have popped their cherries, by fingering, using tampons, and by being very active in sports. But there's no way that you could just pop your cherry without hurting yourself unless you've already done it in the past.
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hey how long after u have sex can u take a test to know that it is right
A couple days after your late period.
ok i just got hired for my first job [pizza place] and i start training next week. soo i was wondering about the schedule stuff. do they ask if theres certain days id like off? because id especially like each sunday off and either monday or wednesday [both would be good but i wouldnt mind working one of the two every week]. so do they ask me this? do i tell them this? im free to work every other night and all day & night saturday so would that make it a little easier to create my own schedule? ahh first job i dont know what to do so ya lol any help is appreciated! 16/f.
Hey.
Well, usually they ask you that sorta stuff on the application or during the interview. I think you should write down your own little schedule & take it in to them ASAP. So, when they put you on the schedule they'll know which days to put you on & off. This happened with me, I used to work at Target, and I got the job in the summer, and when I started going back to school I couldn't work during the day obviously because I had class, and they got pissed because they did scheduling four weeks in advance, so they had to get someone to cover my shift while I was at school all because I didn't tell them.
I don't think they'll get mad with you, because it's their fault if they haven't even asked you YET!! :] But, definitely do that schedule thing and take it into them. They'll really appreciate that. :]
I really want a nose ring. I peirced it myself a few months ago but let it close up because I was sick of always taking the stud out. Well now I really want a ring. And I really my parents to know that I have one so that I don't have to always take it out around them. They're very agianst body peircing. I don't think a nose ring is that big of a deal, how can I convince my parents to let me get one?
Hey. :]
I actually just got my nose pierced like three days ago. & My parents weren't too fond of the idea either. I'm 16 now, and I've been talking about it since I was 14, so it took me two years to convince them. :) First ask them. Tell them why you want it so bad, and that you will properly take care of it. If they say no, then act mature for the next couple of days. Like, do things without your parents asking you, helping them around the house, with little siblings, etc.
This time print out information about body piercing. Like do research by calling piercing places, finding out hours, prices, etc. Also, the actual process of piercing, reassure your parents that you'll go to a really really clean place where they'll use clean needles & what not. [That's what my mom was mostly freaking out about, like getting AIDS through needles, haha.] Print out stuff about taking care of the piercing, and the aftermath of having a piercing like what you can't & can do.
Show this to your parents, and tell them that you really looked into it, and you're 100 percent sure that you want to get this piercing, and it's something you've wanted for a long time. Most of the reason my parents gave in was because they were SO sick of hearing me go on and on asking everyday if I could get it pierced, and in the end my mother LOVED it, and it looked a lot better then what she thought it would. :)
Good luck with telling your parents. It may take a while for them to get on your side, but don't PUSH it. :]
ok im almost 17 and last night i had sex with no condom i live in Albany Oregon do any one have any tips on how long to wait to take a home test, any free clinics, and any other things.
please help me and my boyfriend need ur help.
You have to wait until you've missed your period by like a week. But there is a pregnancy test that will tell you three days before your period. The only free clinic that I know about is Planned Parenthood. I'm not sure if there would be one in your area, but you can check on this website: www.plannedparenthood.com ! If you go to this website it will tell you about emergency contraception that the person before me was talking about, and gives you more options about what you CAN do if you are pregnant.
I googled "Albany, Oregon free pregnancy"
& it came up with this free clinic, that actually looks promising.
http://www.possiblypregnant.org/
:):)
Good luck to you.
Hope everything works out for the best.
heyok i got my eyebrows done yesterday. They used to be like thick and kinda screwed up but its now its thin.it looks really weird cause im not used to it. Anyways the skin above my eye is like swollen and it makes my eye look bloated. Is there anything I can do to make it un-swollen?? Thankss
That happened to me, like I got my eyebrows done for a school dance like a big one, and I had this huge scab above my eyebrow, which started out as swollen. There isn't much you can do except moisturize it, and don't touch it like, try and rip it off or something because then it won't heal. It probably will only last three days, and after that you'll be able to hide it with make-up. :]
Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal?
It's not illegal to date. To have sex it is illegal. When the girl is 17 and the guy is like 19 or 20. It won't be illegal with parental consent. :]
I was thinking about getting a digital camera for my boyfriend for christmas but i'm not sure what kind to get, do you have any ideas on what ones are good?? Thanks!
The best brands are definitely; Olympus, Sony, Kodak, & Canon. Maybe even Casio [if you like the styles they have.] I like digital cameras with BIG screens and are really tiny, just because they're cuter, but usually they are in a higher price range.
But stay away from HP, Nikon, & Sigma, because they're very very bad and break easily, and most of them are ugly.
Here's a good website, that has a lot of different digital cameras on it, with reviews;;
http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/
Best buy is probably the best place to shop for digital cameras. :]
I'm worried sick.
My boyfriend has herpes and he has little red dots that look like pimples around his mouth and well I just found out he had herpes. I kisseddd him, many times! I went home and looked in the mirror and there was little red dots around my mouth. Is it herpes? How do I tell? AHH HELP PLEASE! I'm so scareed. Please hellp! Thankss.
It probably is herpes, it sounds like it. Same thing happened with me and my boyfriend, I get cold sores [herpes] all the time, and now he gets them. :[ Unforunately the only thing you can do is use cold sore medicine when you get them, and use carmex every day to try and prevent them. :]
Do all shirts shrink in the wash?? If so how do you stop it?
Thanks
Certain fabrics shrink & certain fabrics don't. I always do my laundry at night, so when they're done in the washer I hang up the shirts, and put everything else in the dryer. Leave them in over night, and then in the morning I wake up and put all the shirts in with the rest of the laundry and then dry them all together for like 30 minutes. That way you're not washing the shirts by themselves so they get wrinkly. :]
what do you find atractive.. because im having som troulbes in the ladies department
Sense of humor.
If a guy isn't funny, then we WON'T get along. [:
sooo
i wash my face almost everyday
and i use biore
the green scrub one
and my face has gotten greasier and its really gross
and idk what to do/use!
whats a good product for it so i dont have a greasy face!!
help!
Soap is seriously the best thing to use, it gets rid of 99.9% of bacteria. Just make sure you use a good moisturizer afterwards, like Clean & Clear, they have ones for oily faces. [:
I met this guy at a party about two weeks ago. There was drinking and we started dancing. He seemed pretty into me. We we talking and i was sitting on his lap. Before i left we exchanged numbers and we kissed. It was such an innocent kiss though.
He called me the week after. and we've been talking since. He invited me to a concert but i didnt go. Now he invited me to his house to hang out and watch a movie this weekend. I want to go but i'm unsure.
He's 19 and i'm 14. He knows it but he doesnt really care. His last girlfriend was 15. Im pretty sure he likes me...i Guess i dont really have a specific question...i just want to know some of your opinions.
You should definitely go.
You'll always think in the back of your mind what would've happened if you don't go, and that'll just bug the hell out of you.
If you really think it's a bad idea and he may take advantage of you, then you shouldn't go, or maybe take a friend and have him bring a friend as well?
Just be careful, and if you feel something bad will happen then you need to leave. [:
But age IS just a number, it's more about maturity.
What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH
You're on Advicenators to give ADVICE. So, advise them that what they're doing in your opinion is disgusting. They're here because they're immature and they don't know much yet. But with people here on Advicenators atleast they have someone to run to. Tell them it isn't right and pass it on. They don't know that, that's why they ask.
Okay
I dont think im pregnant,but im paranoid about it.
I had sex with a condom but then got close to doing it again without a condom , but we only did it for like 3 seconds and then I said stop because i was scared.
My boobs have been hurting lately and I had a stomach ache but I didnt throw up.
He tells me he thinks im fine and i hope hes right.
What should I do??
Don't be scared. [:
Seriously, I had a big time pregnancy scare, pretty same situation. You can scare yourself completely shitless, and you get so paranoid about it, things happen like your boobs hurting or your stomach aching. It doesn't necessarily mean you're pregnant. I mean, I'm not saying you're not. But it is a possibility. Just wait until your period comes, and see what happens.