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Okay... I hate my life and everything right now. All my friends are in fights with eachother and me! And their is a nasty roomer going around my school that im not a virgen any more which i still am! And b/c of this roomer my 3 month boyfriend broke up with me. Im 13 by the way! So i dont know what to do! None of my friends will talk to me,eachother ugHHH! There are nasty roomers going around with them too. Everyone is making fun of me and my friends. Please Help Me! I Will Rate & Give Feed Back too =)

well, first of all: you shouldnt care what other people think of you so much. if your bf broke up with you just because of this, he is superficial. your friends should stick up for you and themselves as well, eventually it will cool down.


now for a spelling lessn
'roomer' should be spelled "RUMOR"
'virgen' should be spelled "VIRGIN"

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i need a website to make a jornal or a cool subprofile if you can help me ill give u a 5!!!!

for the journal, Xwww.xanga.com is probably the best, and for a sub-profile thing www.buddy4u.com is the best.

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Am I the only one that believes people should type correctly when asking a question? Is there some way to create something that would change words that were "Chatspeak" to English?
For example:

there is dis boi, i relli relli like him! wat do i do?

Would become:

There is this boy, I really, really, like him! What do I do?

I know that is a dumb question to start with, but it's an example. I don't know how to create a program that would change the "fake" words into "real" words.. if you know, and would share, you rock!

i totally and completely agree, and in the instructions for asking a question it specifically says:
"You'll get better advice if you make some attempt to use proper spelling and grammer."
(although they spelled grammar wrong) they are the rules, and you should follow them. and besides, we all know you know how to spell those words, so dont act stupid.

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Hi, I was wondering if I could take u to the candyshop and lick u like a lollypop ... Thanks, see you at school

absolutely not.

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Hi, I was wondering if I could take u to the candyshop and lick u like a lollypop ... Thanks, see you at school

no, and no, and no. grow up.

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Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.

the traveling pants books
the clique series
gossip girl


those are my favorites!!

i also suggest the book speak, like kaylan said, but you hafta be pretty mature to take it on... it's pretty deep

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i have this firewall thingy and now it wont let me on aim and it keeps connecting.. vertifying name and password and then it will say connection lost when the connection isnt realli lost

omgsh!! the exact same thing happened to me!! i'm not sure what was wrong with my computer, but i figured out how to get past it. go to this site: http://forums.theideaweb.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=2347&perpage=15&pagenumber=1
it solved my problem, and now i'm happily on-line. hope i helped!! < 3 < 3

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sometimes you are kind of bossy and stubborn when it comes to sharing ideas. you always turn mine down and never give them a chance. How can i make my voice be heard aroud you?

first of all, i am completely aware that i am bossy and stubborn. its just who i am. thats how my mom was, and thats how her mom was, and so on. im sorry, but im probably not gonna ever be less stubborn, although i've been trying harder. lol. to get your way with me, you kinda need to say "ALICIA! listen to me!! you ARE NOT THE BOSS, SO DEAL WITH IT!!" although it might be safer to use less harsh words so i dont injure you. umm, but just make sure you dont upset me, but still get your point thoroughly across. orrr, you could say "alicia, i asked that question on your advice column, so listen, NOW!"
good luck, but please dont ruin our friendship (whoever this is) over me being bossy. its a problem i know i have, but im trying to make it better. < 3 < 3

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Haha.. a few people will know who I am.. but why the hell do I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend? Every night I have dreams that we're having sex for hours and hours. I don't think I like him anymore.. actually. You probably don't know why I'm having those dreams.

Forget I said anything.

ohh kay... thats.... uhhhhh.... interesting. i dont know what you wanted me to say, but i will go ahead and forget you said anything. =forgets=
have a nice day.

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Ok, so theres a guy in my class named *Justin* (name changed) and I HATE him. He always makes fun of me liking his best friend, he stinks like Michael Jackson's butt, and he always tries to do things to humiliate me. I wanna get revenge on him, you know, give him a taste of his own medicine. But..I dont have a flamethrower or a pistol or anything. I'm on a budget. so PLEASE HELP ME!

signed-
VOODOO.DOLLS

might i suggest rat poison? no, jk. he probably likes you. guys are really weird like that. this guy was real ass to me last year and then he told me that he liked me, but i was so mad at him already i was like "leave me alone!" lol. good luck with him. lol.

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My friends mom is being such a bi*ch! We used to be such good friends with that family, and then, she started acting like a jerk. My mom tried everything, but that lady is still acting mean! And now, cuz of her, I don't get to see her kids at all anymore and her kids were some of my good friends. I want to stop thinking about this but i cant!!!!!!!!! :-( Help me!

sounds something like stuff i've had to deal with... i used to sneak out to go see my friends if i wasnt allowed to see them and they would do the same. it depends who's making the rules. is it your mom or their mom that isn't letting yall see eachother? if its yours, talk to her. if it's theirs, have them talk to her... other than that, i can't help much... sorry.

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what does brb mean?!?!?!?!

not funny. come on people!! real questions!!!! (brb means "be right back" to all you idiots out there)

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wat does wtf mean?!?!??!?!

where have you been? under a rock or something?

obviously its th World Tucan Federation. duuhhh.

no, jk. its "what the f.u.c.k?"

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why doesnt the elemenatary have school tomorrow, but we do????
lauren j

the public lementary schools in LISD do, but the private schools dont. its just because the people who run LISD are weird and they hate us. lol.

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Alicia,
i am sooo confused about what i am going to do in highskool, like with electives and such. what am i gonna do!?!

i dont know sweetie! im still confused myself. the only thing im sure about is swimming for a sport and most likely theater. talk to your friends and find out what they plan to do. also, school counselors are probably gonna be giving speeches aroud school and stuff so that should help. talk to everyone about it. like, highschoolers you know. they can probably give the best advice

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One of my really good friends parents are getting a divorce. What should I do?

give her/him as much support as you possibly can. thats your job as a friend, now get out there as show them some love!

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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her (well i did...but i didnt actually do it yet i think i mite have hinted...i asked her if she still liked him and she said no not really just as friends)
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh

1. it depends who your friend is. if you think she will completely freak out, dont tell her straight out. if she will accept it then yes, tell her.
2. signals? just keep acting like you've been acting. they'll catch on.
3. i have no idea. i like words. i use words for everything.
4. just focus on him, make eye contact, smile, goof off, ect. the basics. :D
good luck sweetie!

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haha dover on you're favorite coloumnists is awsome! i love him he is great! i think he has given some of the best advice i have heard in a long time!

haha, lol. yeah hes funny, but its still kinda mean. but, at least you know not to go to him if you need real advice.

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Thank you!! Your soo sweet. oh yeah.. my name doesnt start with a C, i didnt mean to type that..(haha, i kno i'm like, really stupid).. Sorry if you dont know who i am. i'm just kinda embarassed, if you know what i mean.

thanks! lol. look what letters you press next time, lol. im always here, and you dont have to hide who you are, but if you want to, thats cool too i guess. :D

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ok,this is the same person who wrote about the friend that everyone adores but she doesnt like me.. i have a fealing you know who this is. so.. this question is pretty embarassing. i just started my period about 2 days ago for the first time. i dunno, but i am kinda embaraassed to tell my mom. i doont know y. im just weird i guess. how did u tel your mom?
thanks a bunch. -C :D

oh, sweetie!!! you dont need to be scared to talk to your mom!! she knows exactly what you are going thru!! when i told my mom, i was like "uhh... mom... i got a problem" and she was like "what??" and so i just kinda looked at her funny, and she'd probably been expecting me to say something sooner or later, because kids normally get it around the same age as the mom first got it. so she got what i was tring to tell her. if your mom doesnt get it right away, whisper it into her ear or something. and if she laughs (which might happen, mine did) dont worry about it. shes just your mom. say "you better be nice to me, because im the one who decides what nursing home you go to!" if you feel brave. lol. telling you mom is the best thing to do because she can take you to get what you need and everything. its really entertaining when she sends your dad to pick up stuff at the store like that. enough of my rambling.... got tell your mom, and if you need anything else, ask another question or IM me at d0ilikethis. (and actually... i have no idea who you are yet, lol.)

heres more from someone who left a comment:
Posted Friday February 18 2005, 3:36 pm
Okay I read a comment on here from someone saying she started her period 2 days ago and doesn't know how to tell her mom... and I realize this is your advice site but I'd like to give them some advice as well if you don't mind?

I started in December so I know just how you feel! Unfortunately I was at school so the nurse told my mom for me... which actually disappointed me.
Look at it as something to be proud of! You're a WOMAN now! Celebrate, sweetie! Just tell your mom lightly and jokingly. "Hey Mom I finally grew up a bit!" or "Hey Mom I'm pretty much a woman now!". She won't make fun of you... she knows how it feels (if she didn't you wouldn't be here right?)
I'm on it for the second time now and it's not that bad really! I just feel like a girl..! So don't sweat it.

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