My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
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Well...find somethin' to do other than being on the computer. Listen to music in your room, bake cookies, go outside, watch t.v.. idk if your a girl or guy so i cant give you too many answers. But call up some friends and see if they wanna go to the mall or something. As for meeting new people you gotta be confident in yourself and just go up to people and be like 'hey my name is' or something of the sort. Just be polite and keep a conversation going and before ya know it, if they like you then you'll have a new friend. Hope i helped!
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i love getting high.Because i have alot of stress and depression but i dont tell people about it.So i get high to help me out.If i dont have pot i'll freak out an i'll act like im bipolor.What should i do?Should i just get help?Or should i get high anyways because pot doesnt really hurt me but just controll myself????? (link)
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Although it helps control yourself and doesn't "hurt" you..its actually killing your brain cells so in a long run its hurting you. Get help because eventually the pot isnt gonna work anymore
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what does having sex feel like,what can i do to make it good for the guy and myself,and how should i start it off? (link)
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The person below me its kindly wrong. It depends on the person it can range from feeling absolutely amazing to horrible. The first couple times(3 or 4) for girls can be painful because your basically stretching your insides out and "popping your cherry". And for guys it just feels good for them all together.
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i have t-mobile cell phone. will it cost to call someone on private, if yes, how much? (link)
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Nope *69 is free..and if you call on private it wont show up on your phone bill that way either.
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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated. (link)
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Try making a scrapbook or baking cookies, switch it up a little. You can always make tons of different things when your baking so it never gets old.
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ok.. the kid i'm hooking up with makes no sense.. everytime he calls me i can't pick up the phone cuz i happen to be busy. so he'll leave a message ranting about how i never pick up and yet he never picks up when i call him..
and also i have a stalker so my hook up agreed to help me get my stalker away so everytime i text my hook up i'll say "help me" and he just types back.. "ok"... and does nothing. yet whenever i see him he is soo friendly.. but when we're communicatinig through texts or email.. he only types one word.. i'm lucky if i get a sentence once in awhile. i don't know what to do.. i don't know what to say and i don't know what he wants.. what should i do? HELP ME! (link)
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Um hes basically just using you to get what he wants, no feelings attatched. I'd say get rid of him, if he really cared he'd help you and he'd communicate the same when your not together and when you are. Hope i helped!
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I had no idea what kind of category to put this under but here goes my question...
ok now,
I watch porn videos at night to get me horny but I see a lot of girls and I think they're hot. 13/f by the way, and whenever i see like a pretty girl or something ill be like "whoa theyre hot" in my head. but then during the day when i see a lot of guys im like "omg hes so hot." or "whoa hes gorgeous" am i bi? am i lesbian? am i straight? is this normal? (link)
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At your age its pretty normal, your just experiancing with your sexuality as you get older you'll figure out whether your straight, bi, or lesbian.
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Hey. My field hockey season ends on February 4th. Softball tournaments start around the mid/end of April. If I get my cartilage pierced after field hockey, do you think it will be okay if i have to take it out for 5 hours every weekend for softball in April? Thank you! (link)
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Yes, as long as you clean it and take care of it like you should, it only takes about a month or so to heal so you should be ok.
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when someone is a camera whore, does that mean that they're really pretty and would be perfect for pictures or a slut that takes dirty pics of themselfs? I see many nice looking people that takes pictures but people would call them cam whore and it sounds mean it me.. (link)
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i actually think it means someone that takes ALOT of pictures of themselves.
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My boyfriend went to a party and did body shots with another girl. This was the first time he drank any alcohol, and he got really drunk and said he would'nt have done it otherwise. He was the one who told me as soon as it happened. Should I be mad at him or should I forgive him? (link)
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He wasn't really doing anything wrong its just body shots and considering that was his first time drinking any little amount of alcohol could have screwed him up. So i'd say forgive him! but if he does it as routine kind of thing from now on then you should be worried.
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does anyone know how much they pay part time workers?
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not veryy much only around $6.50-$7.75 it all depends on where your located though, so call them up and ask them or go see them in person. HOpe i helped!
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Hey my really good friend for years Is leaving for Bootcamp and i wanted to play some songs on a slideshow but I dont really have any...
so far I have
Tuesdays gone- Lynyrd Skynyrd
Goodnight Saigon- Billy Joel
God bless the USA- Lee Greenwood
Hero- Mariah Carey
if you could list some songs to help me out that would be great :-D
Schmidt M. W.
PFC US Marine Corps (link)
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American Soldier-Toby Keith
My Town-Montgomery Gentry
If I Don't Make It Back-Tracey Lawrence
I Just came back from a war-Daryl Worley
Only in america-Brooks & Dunn
Riding With Private Malone -David Ball
Back where i come from-Kenny Chesney
Arlington-Trace Adkins
Letters From Home-John Michael Montgomery
Bumper of my SUV-Chely Wright(talks mostly about the marines)
Hope i helped! and Good luck to you and your friend!!
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ok her is the deal im a christian and my boyfriends is not we have promise rings and we really love each other but he is 20 nd im 15 is it wrong? (link)
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by law yes.. only because you are not legal. If your happy then i suppose its okay but yall get caught and your parents have no idea he could get in alot of trouble.
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I saw a quote the other day on
someone's xanga, it went something
along the lines off ..
She said I love you
and He said it back
she said call me when
you miss me, when she
turned around her phone rang.
Thats the concept, I can't remember
the exact wording, I know it ryhmes.
Its driving me crazy, does anyone know
how the quote actually goes?
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i believe its this one
It was time for us to leave; we had to leave without eachother; He said I love you & I said the same, I said call me when you miss me, he smiled and kissed me; I walked towards my car and my phone rang.
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ahh i heard this song yesterday and loved it but idk what it is. its a slow song and the beginning is like "hold on, hold on" and then a lil bit later it says "shine on". sry thats all i got but i only heard a very brief part of it! (link)
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it would help if you gave what genre it is and if its a guy or girl. But if its country then its probaly
Keith Urban-shine
Ryan Cabrera- Shine on
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hope i helped!
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hey guys...13/f
Ive heared about this syndrome or something like that where the symtoms are like people who get mad over little things, who cry easily over small things and has BIG mood swings. I have all those symptoms and i was just wondering if anyone knows if that is indeed a sydrome and what is it called?
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ok wow screw that first person. & from what your describing id say it is Bi-polar. You should go to the doctor and get tested for it.
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Like many people in high school living in a cold area, Im obsessed with summer. I cant wait. I look back at last summer (most amazing time of my life) and I want that so bad. I cant focus on anything but getting out of school and getting crazy. Is this normal or am I like the only one? Because none of my friends are as excited/anxious about summer as me. Theyre excited to go skiing..Anyway, I think I may have seasonal depression. What do I do about all this?! (link)
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oh man i get the same way! i actually cried once, i know a little weird! haha but theres nothin you really can do, just try and focus as much as you can and go from there. What i do is just think that summer is only so many number months away and if i do good in school it'll come quicker. Just keep telling yourself everyday that its one day closer, idk if it will work but it has helped me some.
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Hello, I'm not exactly worried but I'd like reassurance. About 2 months ago I had sex for the first time. We didn't finish, but no pain and no blood.
Today we had sex again but didn't finish but still no pain and no blood. But later in the evening he was fingering me with several fingers rather deep and all of a sudden he says "oh man, that can't be good" and I look down and I'm bleeding a lot! Like, it was all over his hand and when I urinated it was in the urine, like a period. But it definatly isn't period. It isn't bleeding into my underwear anymore but when I use the bathroom I still wipe away blood. Is this normal? It spooked me to see that much blood.
I'm 15, and at boarding school. I know my parents would be furious if they knew I've done stuff like this so there's no real way for me to get help if there is a problem.
Is everything normal?
And another thing, he didn't come, but I'm sure he precame. We used a condom and all. And he blew into it after and it held the air. So, it didn't break and there's no way I got pregnant....right???
I need advice, please. (link)
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Ok for starters, if you used a condom then you should be good to go. and from the sounds of it everything is normal. You can bleed a little or alot it depends on your body and it can go on for days and even the first couple times you have sex it could bleed so dont be so worried.
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so im on vacation at the beach yay! since weve been here i finally convinced my parents to let me get my belly button pierced, so i got it earlier today. its been good and all but i was wonderin.. will anything bad happen if i get in the ocean or pool? ill still clean it when i get out but will it hurt or get irritated or anything? what about puttin on sunscreen and stuff? lol i so didnt think about this earlier! thx guys (link)
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Do not go swimming. The peircer should have told you that you cant go swimming for like a week, i mean its not mandatory but it'll get infected that way. but if you do clean it majorly after you get out because chlorine gets down inside hte peircing and its hard to get out. also dont play with it that just irritates it. If you do get i nthe ocean or pool clean the peircing like 3 times after you get out to be safe. you should of waited till the end of your vacation. hope i helped
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Please help fast!
My husband and I are going through a divorce. He just called and said he wants to "hang out" after work..."somewhere private." I think he wants to sleep with me. Is that wrong? I'm too emotionally mixed up right now to know what I should do. Please give me advice. (link)
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Since your emotions are all over the place then you should not hang out. He lost something, hes divorcing you he needs to get it straight once your gone then your gone, its his loss. And especially since emotions are mixed up then that will just make the attatchment greater or it'll make things worse.
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