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I start gym class this week, i go to an all girls school. im not skinny at all and i had knee surgery a year ago so im not in shape and i cant get in shape cus i dont have time and my knee hurts a ton, and i have to wear a brace in gym. im scared we'll have to work out a lot and everyone will like make fun of me cus most of the girls at my school are skinny and in shape, but it's not my fault i busted my knee! help me not be so nervousss (link)
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One of my friends hurt her knee badly a few years ago. She is in my choir class, and we have to dance for that choir. She has to wear a knee brace, but we all know that she hurt herself, so we look out for her. If her knee hurts, and she says she can't dance (which isn't often) we don't get on to her for not dancing. Are there friends in your gym class? Maybe they could help you out. Explain to your teacher that you hurt yourself, and they should let you go at your own pace. And don't worry about being skinny. I'm not either! Just have confidence in yourself, and you'll do fine. Maybe you could have your gym teacher show you some knee exercises so you can strengthen it so it won't hurt so bad. Good luck!!!! :3
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14turning15.Female.
Okay, my room was just painted this summer a nice sky blue.. it's really bight and I like it. But I want something to take the blue back a couple notches because right when you walk in it's like "wow.. it's blue." My birthday's coming up Febuary and i'll probably be getting like 70 dollars by the family. I don't wanna repaint.
I hear that there's this magnetic paint and that sounds soo cool. And I want to make a murale on my biggest wall. I saw it on this movie and this kids whole wall was covered in posters and just random stuff and it looked awesome. My parents will let me paint as long as it's suddle. I have extra yellow pant from my living room and I could like get stamps or whatever of stars and make a banner around the top ofmy wall or something. My theme is Blue.. Carebears and Tinkerbell. I love them all lol. I don't have a lot of money but I want someting diffrent.
Anything cheep you know about or what not
Thanksss (link)
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Maybe you could get some of those plastic wall stickers. My mom bought some for my brother, and they are really cheap. They have tinkerbell and her fairy friends and some others. You can get them at walmart for, like, 10 bucks.
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I'm writing a story about a student-teacher crush. It's not a frivolous mood or anything but rather a serious and "heavy" mood.
Now, the teacher is the coach for the softball team and at first the teacher came onto her just a little [but not too obviously] and now she's becoming a little more agressive and flirted with him recently [basically touch his legs at a football game]. And she's very jealous of the coach's current 2-year girlfriend.
I want the story to end as the girl being the aggressive, want to make a relationship happen kind of thing (I know, not the usual teacher-bad student-victim scene but rather vice versa)
I've gotten to the point where they have flirted just very little that aren't too obvious to outsiders but obvious to each other and the girl touched his leg. And then they left and blah blah. Now I don't know how to carry on the story.
I want the next chapter to carry on the whole "little clues here and there" thing. Not a admit they like each other, go out, blah blah. Can anyone help me? (link)
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that was mean ygsgirl. I'm sort of a writer myself, and i usually have to ask for help from one of my friends. I write fanfictions, and i usually ask someone who knows the characters attitudes really well. Why don't you try having one of your friends look at it? Although, if your anything like me, you just write for fun and hate having other people read your stories. Ok, i hope i helped you. If i didn't, then feel free to give me a low rating.
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i've been going out with this adorable junior for 4 months now. at first, i never thought it would work out because im the freshman girl who is shy and has never been with a guy before. but since the first time we met he took my heart. things have been going great, but im afraid he dedicated himself too much to me?
To me, it just doesn't seem right. He's Mr. Popular, quarter back of the football team and like abercrombie model looks; and im just the freshman girl. we've gone as far as oral but in the past month i've really wanted to have sex with him. i ask him all the time about it but he said he doesnt want to. (He already had sex before by the way.) He said he doesn't want to take the thing away from me that is most precious unless i love him.
You dont understand though, like i WANT to have sex with him so bad, but he doesn't want to take it away from me at such a young age unless im sure i love him. He tells me he loves me but it's hard for me to say "i love you" back and really mean it.
Does he not like me anymore? It's just he's so nice and i know for a fact he never cheated on me before or is seeing another girl. Should i drop the whole sex subject?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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I know you want to have sex, but I would drop it, unless he says something about it. Being a freshman, its kind of not a good idea to have sex. You never know if you would get pregnant. I could not IMAGINE tellig my mother that i was pregnant. She would flip out in my case. (by the way, i'm also a shy person)
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So, I don't have a boyfriend, to be honest not any guy friends. I only talk to guys if they break the ice but still then it is only the necessary answer or statement that will get me out of talking because I know if I go on then I will make myself look stupid infront of him (and a lot of times I'm like that with girls too).
Once you get to know me I'm outgoing meaning my friends tell me I'm funny. I can keep a conversation going with a friend but never with anyone other than that. I feel like an outcast because I'm so shy. I don't know how I have friends because I don't talk to anyone very often. Well I can but it's REALLY HARD!
I want to know how to be outgoing to get guy friends and boyfriends but I'm so shy it gets in the way. My resolution was to be more outgoing (it isn't working). I don't know what to say to people so telling me to just talk to them and see what happens WILL NOT WORK!
THANKS SO MUCH>>>>>more answers the better! (link)
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I am the exact same way. With my friends, i can be stupid and whatever, but if i'm around strangers I can't talk very much. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend. I'm 15, and haven't even had a kiss, let alone a boyfriend. Whenever you find "that guy", you will know. And I bet when you do, you will be able to talk, despite your shyness.
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are theyre ways to become intimidating? and how do i courage to stand up for like myself and my friends.. like to have the balls to say something. i know i can do it to certain people but then otehr people i cant.. (link)
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Becoming intimidating is something you need to LEARN. You just need practice. Just don't overdo it. If you become TOO intimidating, you might be seen as a bully.
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Okay, so Im a 15/f and I had a dream last night and it was about my friend and I. My friend that was in the dream was a girl, and she turned 18 yesterday. Well, in the dream we kissed twice and she was touching my breats. She was also rubbing my back where my bra strap was and was getting all excited. She's black [which I dont care about]and she is also gay.
What does this dream mean? =/ (link)
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I agree with Boochie. The dream probably doesn't mean anything, and since you are 15, you are wanting to experience new things. I wouldn't worry about it, unless you have the EXACT same dream over and over and over...you get the idea. If the dream DOES become disturbing, I would tell SOMEONE about it, whether it was a close friend, or a counselor you really trust. I hope i helped.
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i'm about to tell someone something i'm sortof nervous. how can i relax while staying in this room? (link)
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meditating, refocusing your energy, can be a wonderful way to relax. If possible, try listening to calming music, or read a relaxing book. If anything, imagine a "happy" place. It always works for me. I'm sorry if i didn't help you.
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whats a fourm and how did i make one? i tryed lookng at help/faq but didnt see anything. (link)
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A forum is kind of like a message board. As far as making them, i'm still trying to figure that out myself.
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Can you cum if your cherry isn't popped? I'm kinda curious, thats the question that actually lead me to find this site...
15/F... (link)
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Yes. I sometimes do it.
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and he feels its about time for us to have sex. i keep telling him that im not ready but to him he just sees it as i dont want to with him. neither of us have done it and we are 18 and 19. i dont know what to do because i want to but 1.im scared of it hurting 2.i dont feel ready and 3.i dont really want him to want it all the time after i do it.
help! (link)
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If your not ready, then your not ready. If he forces you to have sex, its considered rape. Don't fall for any cheesy lines like "If you REALLY love me, you'll do it." If he keeps pressuring you,(not to sound mean or anything) i would drop him like a stone. If you don't want to do that,then find SOMEWAY to let him KNOW you are serious and you WILL NOT change your mind. I'm really sorry if i didn't help.
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whats a tea bag or something that sounds like that (not a tea bag that you make tea with . I know what that is ! ) i know its somthing sexual.
does any one know what i am talking about?
thanks in advance =) (link)
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when someone refers to a "tea bag" that isn't used to make tea, they are usually referring to your pubus area. I hope I helped.
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my sony E-series( Lm45.70 inc.VAT)mp3 player says "no database" how can i fix it?and where? (link)
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my little bro had the same problem with his. We finally figured out that you HAD to turn it on in order to do the music. I'm really sorry if i was no help at all.
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my acne is horrible well i think its horrible i use products everydayy and they dont work i treid proactive for like a month or two and it didnt work at all can someone please sggest something that can make it go away fast like b4 the 12th of january it doesnt all have to dissapear just look better pleaseeee helpp meee !! (link)
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Here are 37 ways to cure acne(Dr.Magic On Yahoo!answers)
1. Put toothpaste on your pimple before you go to bed, should help reduce swelling overnight. Make sure it is the paste not the gel. One of the most popular acne home remedies.
2. Wash your face twice a day in warm salty water. This should leave your face oil free without aggravating the acne.
3. Apply a paste of fresh methi (fenugreek) leaves over the face every night for 10-15 minutes and washed with warm water. This will prevent acne, pimples, blackheads, and wrinkles.
4. Place strawberry leaves on the acne, the alkalinity helps to reduce the swelling.
5. Extract juice of one lemon and mix with equal quantity of rose water. Apply this mixture on the face and let it stay for about half an hour. Wash the face with fresh water. About 15 days application helps cure acne, pimples and reduces blemishes and scars.
6. Another method is to massage the face with the skin of lemon before washing with lukewarm water.
7. Apply fresh mint juice over the face every night for the treatment of acne, pimples, insect stings, eczema, scabies, & other skin infections.
8. Eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables. At least 5 servings of fruits and vegetables should be included in your diet. All acne home remedies should include a healthy diet.
9. A couple of garlic cloves, crushed and dabbed on the face 1-2 times a day. One of the smellier acne home remedies!
10. Home face wash for acne: Mix together 1 or 2mls each of the following: witch hazel, tea-tree and sweet fennel essential oils, adding essential oil of geranium for women and essential oil of rosewood for men. Mix with 300mls of water. Shake before use, as the oils will float on top of the water during storage. Dab affected areas with cotton wool two or three times a day. The oils will clean and unclog giving antibiotic-like protection to the skin.
11. Apply fresh lemon juice on the affected area overnight. Wash off with warm water next morning.
12. Use 2-3 tsp. dried basil leaves to 1 cup boiling water. Steep 10-20 minutes. Cool, and apply with cotton ball.
13. Grind orange peel with some water to a paste and apply on affected parts. One of the best acne home remedies.
14. Clean face with cotton wool dipped in rose water 2-3 times a day.
15. Mix 1 teaspoon lemon juice in 1 teaspoon finely ground cinnamon powder and apply on affected areas frequently.
16. Nettle Tea is another solution, this tea has a herb that has some curing power and really helps work wonders on skin problems. Drink four cups a day to get the full benefit of one of the most powerful acne home remedies. Get nettle products here.
17. Aloe Vera juice applied twice a day can greatly speed up the healing of acne lesions. You can buy Aloe Vera at vitacost.com
18. Another lotion that uses bee propolis extract may also be effective. Mix eight ounces of water and 11 drops of bee propolis extract. One of the acne home remedies which has been proven effective with many people.
19. Some herbal acne home remedies...
Burdock leaf tea.
Lavender essential oil (mix 1:10 with water)
Tincture of calendula flowers.
Tea tree essential oil (mix 1:10 with water)
Liquefy cabbage leaves with witch hazel, strain and add two drops of lemon oil. Use as a lotion.
20. Ice down the acne before bed, by morning it should be noticeably less swollen. Works best on larger pimples that have not yet formed a head.
21. Take vitamin B5 and zinc supplements daily to strengthen the skin's resistance to acne.
22. Mix mint juice with turmeric powder and apply on affected area. Leave for 15-30 minutes and wash off with lukewarm water.
23. Mix some vinegar and salt in a bowl. Pour a little bit in your hand and rub it on the pimples. Soak a face towel in it and dab it on the bumps. Leave it on for 15-20 minutes and rinse it off.
24. Blend cucumber and make a paste. Apply this as a mask on your face and leave it for 1/2 hour and then rinse. This refreshes your skin and prevents acne.
25. Mix corn flour with egg white and apply on your face. Let is dry completely for 1/2 hour. Dip your hands in warm water and massage your face and wash off. This when repeated regularly gives you a smooth skin.
26. Mix sandalwood paste with rosewater and apply on the face. Rinse off after 30 minutes.
27. Essential oil face mask for acne: Use a mask base powder, such as fuller's earth or kaolin powder. Use distilled or filtered water to make a paste. Mix 1 heaped teaspoon of base powder to 3 drops of essential oil. Add approximately 2 tablespoons of the water in, to make a fluid yet balanced paste. Essential oils to add in the mask either separately or try smaller amounts together; cypress oil 1 drop, lemon oil 2 drops, sage oil 1 drop.
28. Mix the paste of tender neem leaves with turmeric and apply of affected area. An eastern approach to acne home remedies.
29. Grind some nutmeg with milk and apply on affected area. Pimples disappear like magic without leaving a mark.
30. Make a mixture of lime juice and rose water. Apply on face and leave it for 15-20 minutes. Rinse off with lukewarm water.
31. Make a paste by mixing 3 tablespoons of honey and 1 teaspoon of cinnamon powder. Apply this paste on the pimples before sleeping and wash it next morning with warm water. Repeat for two weeks, pimples will disappear forever.
32. Rub fresh garlic on and around pimples. Pimples will disappear without a mark with regular applications.
33. Mix 1 tsps groundnut oil with 1 tspn fresh lime juice to prevent formation of blackheads and pimples .
34. Ground drumstick pods and leaves and mix mixed with fresh lime juice, and apply on pimples. This is also good for blackheads and dark spots.
35. First wash face and then dab acne with cotton balls soaked in vinegar.
36. Mix groundnut oil with an equal amtount of fresh lime juice and apply on face. leave for 10-15 minutes and wash. It may be applied daily to prevent formation of blackheads, acne and pimples.
37. Apply juice of raw papaya (including the skin and seed) on swelling acne, pimples.
38. Apply fresh lime juice mixed to a glass of boiled milk as a face wash for acne, pimples, blackheads, and ed skin.
39. Apply ripe Tomatoes pulp on acne, pimples and kept upto 1 hour, then wash.
40. Make a paste of roasted & powdered pomgranate skin with fresh lime juice and apply over acne, boils, pimple, blackheads and whiteheads.
41. Apply grated potatoes as poultice to treat skin blemishes, wrinkles, boils, pimples, blackheads, whiteheads , etc.
42. Make a paste of ground radish seeds with water and apply on face to remove blackheads.
43. Apply a paste of ground seasame seeds with water as poultice for inflammation of the skin due to allergies, skin rashes, and pimples.
44. Large pores on facial skin can be treated with paste of sandalwood powder with masoor dal.
45. Use an oatmeal or almond mask throughly to cleanse your face. Mix either oatmeal or almond powder with enough rose water to make a soft paste that spreads easily on the skin. Rub it on your skin with your fingertips, paying special attention the problem areas. Leave to dry for about 15 minutes and then rinse off with cold water. This is very good in getting rid of blackheads.
46. A solution made out of one and a half cups of hot water and half a tablespoon of boric powder is an ideal remedy for blackheads, Saturate a face napkin in this hot solution and press on to the skin, repeat twice. Extract blackheads carefully with a blackhead remover and sterilized cottonwool. Pat on an astrigent.
47. Honey is a great remedy for skin blemishes and acne because the honey kills bacteria.
These are some effective home remedies for the treatment of acne and blackheads.
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14/f
Basically I joined the forensics team (poetry competition thing) this year and this is my first time actually getting into the whole forensics scene. I never really tried at all in middle school but I want to this year for the team. Well, I'm going to compete in the impromptu category in the upcoming competition in January along with duo interpretation [i think it's called]
Are there (from experience) any tips for me? Like how should I be creative with an impromptu topic, hand gestures, body language, tone, mood, etc. How do I get into the whole thing so I can get really good scores? What do judges look for in competitiors for those two categories? Just any tips and tricks you guys can give me. Thanks =] (link)
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I've been in forensics before. What the judges look for is(if you are working with a partner) facial expression, body contact, gestures, knowing your lines(if you have to memorize them). If you are working by yourself, they look for body language, facial expression, tone of voice, things like that. If you have questions, I suggest talking to the teacher or coach. I'm sure they could give you a lot of tips. I hope i helped you out.
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first of all, sorry i put this in the wrong category. i just couldn't find one similiar.
onto my question -
i have really oily skin, and my pores have just recently gotten huge, and i have blackheads all of my nose, and just. ugh. but when i wash my face, my pores are still huge, and my skin is like... stretchy? i can't explain. when i stretch my face out, my skin is tight, and it looks really thin, i guess? and shiny. but it's not oil. i just look OLD (i'm fifteen), and when i put my face back to normal after stretching it it's wrinkly. WHAAAAT products should i be using on my face? to shrink my pores, get rid of my blackheads, and get my skin back to a... normal texture? i don't even know what i would classify my skin as after i wash it. it's not oily, but it's not dry, either. blah. thanks for any help that you guys can give me! (link)
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I don't know how expensive it is, but proactiv really works. I know because my cousin uses it and within a week, her zits were gone. Her skin is also really oily. But she has to use it EVERY DAY to keep pimples from arising again. If you wash your face to much, it's not very healthy for your skin. Once a day with light soap should be enough. Please tell me if i helped you.
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hello.. i wasant sure of what category to put this under...anyways i have a problem with my breasts...the nipples are inverted and im scared that when i am with a guy they think its weird....is their any way to pop them out..i hear this is pretty common but im not sure...:/
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It IS normal to have inverted nipples. Nipples are like belly buttons. Some are in and some are out. I don't know how you can pop them out. I've never experienced it before. I really hope i helped you out.
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I have a website, but I really want a domain for it.
The problem is I do not have anway to purchase one. I was wondering
is there any sites out there that offers free domains?
The only one I know of is smartdots.com
and that gives you like
something.net.tc
and i dont want that. I could go for any extension. .net, .com .org
but nothing with two (.net.tc)
Any sites? Thanks so much. (link)
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My friend told me about a site called freewebs.com. They let you have your own site. I have never used it, so I don't know how good it is. Hope I helped. I am sorry about not giving you a domain name, but you won't get one for free. They cost $10.00 a month at the least.
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Okay so Im getting the chocolate cellphone and i was just wondering does it waste minutes to listen to your playlists? and does it cost to download music??
HELP PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!! (link)
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I don't know about listeninf to playlists, but it does cost to download stuff. I have t-mobile, and it costs me $1.50 to download just one ringtone. Hope I helped.
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Hi. I'm Thai. male. Let's go straight to the point.
I've known this girl for about a year since we first met. She's good looking. lots of guy are trying to chat her up as well. I can tell that this girl is somewhat flirtatious, but I really like her, anyway. We were in good relationship for a while as she called me and went out with me a lot. Then four months ago, she became very different. She didn't pick my call anymore (sometime she cut the line). She completely ignored me. Her reason was because I lie to her (I did not, honestly). Let me tell you a story. I was about to pick her up to her house. My car ran out of battery, so I couldn't get her on time. that was when she started to ignore me. she beleived that I lie to her for some reasons. Then We lost contact for about three months.
I started to call her again. She told me she doesn't have boyfreind yet. we went out for dinner yesterday with one of her freind. Things seemed to be OK. Today she give me a call. Surprise!
I wonder what's happening now? Is everything getting better again or just flirting over and over? I'm kind of lost. I don't know where I am. what's she thinking?
Just additional info. We barely went out only 2 of us. She always brings her freind with when we went out. Dosen't sound good to me.
ANyway, any suggestions are apprecitaed. (link)
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If you ask me, she is just being a player. She is just flirting with you until she can find someone else, but just to be safe, i would try to confront her about it, but then again, I'm not the one in the situation.
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