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being intimidating
are theyre ways to become intimidating? and how do i courage to stand up for like myself and my friends.. like to have the balls to say something. i know i can do it to certain people but then otehr people i cant..
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If you focus on becoming intimidating, it won't happen. Usually, if you think about begin courageous or intimidating, it doesn't happen. If someone is making fun of your or your friends, say something like, "Why are you doing this? What did we ever do to you?" It's good to ask questions that bullies don't honestly answer because it points out to others that you are the smart one, it pulls the ball in your court so to speak. Also, you need to know when NOT to say anything. If an argument isn't getting you anywhere, just walk away and don't listen to those who make fun of you.
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Alot of people arent really intimidate by other people because their just another person. You dont want to look like a bully or beconsidered a flat out biatch. its always best to keep an equal ground so you dont end up attacker or victim but that doesnt mean you cant stand up for yourself or say what you think either. The best way to do that is to start voicing your opinion or thoughts calmly and logically and to stay that way even if the person your opposing gets nasty or angry. Alot of people get discouraged when someone proves them wrong or points out a flaw in their argument so they resort to yelling cursing or putting you down...but thats only because they know they lost and cant say anything else to top what you did so they end up making a full of your self. Just speak your mind being outspoken doesnt mean being nasty or outright attacking or putting anyone down or just trampling over people so they cower(not saying you would be like that) just be honest about what you think. If you dont have the courage ask your self why and rationalize it.These people that you cant stand up to are just people like you and everyone including yourself is entitled to speak your mind and do what you want with out anyone pushing you around. Doesnt mean everyone will agree with you you will always get negative and positive vibes. So just shrug that part off unless someones attacking you,your friends or causing some other harm. If you need more advice on this or further guidance feel free to ask or specify and i will definately answer.
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Becoming intimidating is something you need to LEARN. You just need practice. Just don't overdo it. If you become TOO intimidating, you might be seen as a bully.
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