does sex feel better for a guy w/o a condom or w/ one?
for guys it feels better without a condom. Because the spandex of the condom kind of covers the feeling of the moist warmness of the female...unless your doing it for a dude haha. but many men agree its feels better without outit, but there isnt much of a difference. but stick with condom just to protect yourself okay
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just a concern.i've just noticed that wenevr i get fingered i bleed a little...it does not hurt i just see a little blood. i've only been fingered 3times...the 1st time i bled a little and the the 2nd time i didnt at firts but after my boyfriend and i stopped i noticed some blood on his fingers. the same thing happend the 3rd time. is something wrong? i am 17 years old.
its possible that he may be scratching the inner skin of your vagina. Does he have long nails??? or its possible that your nearing your period. But check his hands before he fingers you. Its possible his nails are scraching the skin but you cant feel it because the fluid inside you keep you moist and you cant notice the little blood. but if it begin to irritate, like say if your peeing, then you have an inner cut
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k well first i'm 13 and a girl and i really like this guy i mean we've only hung out a few times but i've had an on-and-off crush on him since the first day we met. the other day i went to his house and at first it was kinda awkward but then we started making out and we went to his room. once i realized everything i was all like "no you have a girlfriend you can't do this with me." and he was all like "but i might break up with her." and i was really confused i mean i really like him and this was like wow. I convinced my self what she doesn't know won't hurt her...right?
so we had sex but for some reason it wasn't what i expected and it was just disapointing. i mean this is the guy i've liked for a least half a year and we shared something that is meant to be special but it wasn't really all that great for me. i mean i want to be with him so bad and he told me straight off that we can't go out because he has a girlfriend but he just cheated on her with me..
so wat am i suppose to do wait on him until they break up or just forget about him i'm so confused plz help!!!
THANK YOU =D
Dam girl your 13 and having sex!?!? and you shouldnt have gave yourself that easily. It will make him think your too easy. I understand you like him, but if he had a girlfriend he only used the breaking up excuse to sleep with you. Dont wait up for him sweety, because if he did that to her, and if he went out with you. how do u know he wont do the same thing??? Try not to speak about it or bring it up to him or around him. He could use it agaisnt you. Guys today seem really but you have to be really carefull next time.
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I know it's not quite healthy to alter your menstrual cycle, but is there any way I can shorten it? I started on Saturday and it's usually a week long, but I'm really hoping that it will be done by Thursday.
There is one way to shorten your period. Birth Control pills. I cant really tell you which branch, your going to have to look it up in the internet or stores or the comercials. But it works. I advise you not to take it during your period to stop it sooner becuase it could be risky to your body causing a possible blood clot. wait till its finish and take the pill as given in the directions. But if you want to try to end it sooner. then try but if you get killer cramps or clots stop imediatly okay
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I dont have a crush on anyone because I have been getting over 3 guys who I used to like at the all the same time. But now, I really hate not liking someone. It just makes me feel really lonely. Life is boring. And no one is really cute in my school to like. So I really hate this. My sister has a huge crush on the most populariest guy in her school. But ME, I hate this. Im ususally the super boy crazy type of girl. Why do I feel this way? It feels like the time to like anyone is never.
oh sweety i know what you mean. I used to be BOY CRAZY!!! and since you were you actually get bored of it. For real. All this crushing is actually very tiring and also seeing the same people over and over again for the past 100 years at your school is boring. Your looking for new people arnt you? Not the same people you see everyday at school. You may not be crushing on anyone in your school, but its most likely you might crush on someone who graduated or dosnt go to your school. I know i have haha. but for real. Right now you think that you dont like anyone but one day when your walking in the city, you'll see someone you stop to look at hahaha, and just to tell you, its only temporary.
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I never wore make up before and was considering wearing make up to my grad but I have no idea how to wear make up for the eyes like eye liner and mascara and eye shadow.
I totally love your make up and your style of it. Can you tell me how you put on your and how many coats or stroke for each stuff? Thanks.
why thank you!!! of course i will help you. first of all i lessend my eye make up becuase i had gone to heavy. but i do the cat eye look but for your grad, follow these steps.
1. buy an eyeliner brush. its a small brush thats slanted, fit for applying a thin line of eyeshadow on your lash line, BUT if you cant find that use a sharp, black or brown pencil eyeliner. (i use liduid eyeliner, but i perfer you dont use it because since your new with eye makeup there are chances of it leaking in your eye and irritating it, but im a proffesional)
2.Have a light brown or black eyeshadow by your side and an eyeshadow applicator.
3.Last have a lash extreme massacra, that is both lenghtning and defining, and volume.
4.In front of a mirror, close one lid, and apply eyeliner on the lash line, go thin toward the tear something haha. And go thicker toward the end of the eye.If your brave, apply a thin line under your eye. it will make your eyes really seducing.
5.Apply the light black/brown eyeshadow on the end of your eye. It will give you a cat eye look. and blend it toward the tear part, so it blends into your lid.
6.When applying massacra, dont use water proof. its better, but i perfer you didnt because it will hurt to remove it, and it dosnt apply as good as regular masscara. When applying it, start from the roots to tips, keep applying on the lashes till you approve. dont reapply because your already applied masscara is hard and dryed on your lashes and may cause it to flake and could fall into your eyes but you could apply more to the tips of the lashes. Also place masscara on your bottom lashes.
7.If your also daring like me, and sure you could do it and dont have a shaking hand, i dont a little curl on the edge of my eye with liquid eyeliner.
8.Info: i usally put 4-5 coats of masscara, and dont think about crying because it will run okay, hope this helps, if u need anymore just ask.
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I'm not sexually active or anything but I can feel liek that vagina like inside of my body hurts really bad.
And it hurts even more when I spread my legs but i dunno why it really hurts! This is my last day of my period.
Is there anything i can do?
OK is there any discharge like a dark yellow or maybe green, or greenish brown color coming from your vagina???If there is, its most likely an infection so you should get that checked by a doctor quick!!! Second if all this happened during your period it was probably caused by having a pad on too long or a tampon in for too long causing toxic shock, or germs most likely entered your vagina from a dirty underwear or not washing very well, or if you had sex, germs from your partners pubic hair. Either one of those, but if pain has been lasting more then 3 days consult your doctor and get treatment quick before the CHOP IT OFF just kidding. hope if helped hun
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss.
DOnt worry i had my first kiss when i was 4 lol, but that isnt real, its little kids, i got kissed the first time by my first real boyfriend when i was fifteen but i regret it because hes a loser lol, so to me it isnt my first REAL kiss, but it was my first. so its okay. YOull get it soon, its probably because your picky haha
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me and my boy friend aren't very close and we never really talk and when we do it's during class and it's about stupid stuff. i really want him to kiss me before school ends for the summer, because the only thing we have done is hugged. i try to get him to no that i want to kiss him by writing 'i love josh' on my hands and stuff. also my friends write zaps (a zap is like a dare that you write on your hand and if you look at it before a certian time you have to do it) on my hands really big that say 'kiss walker!' and i don't no what else to do! he is really shy so i don't think he will do it and i could never do it cause i am to chicken. please help! thanks!
My man is just like that, even though we dont go out yet i want some affection. And yea i bet you hate it dont you. You probably even put your face close to kiss so that he could kiss you. When you talk to him, tell him "you make me angry"
-"why?"
-"because...were boyfriend and girlfriend..and your not affectionate to me..."
-"what?"
-"if you dont mind...i'd like for you to kiss me sometime...or hold my hand"
lol thats what i did, and they actually kind of listen. The reason why they are shy, its because they're not used to it, and feel they need to ask or get permission. That they cant fully give themselves to you because is been a long time or first time they ever had a relationship. Try taking the first step, or gently grabbing his hand...dont hold back. Then he will begin to feel more confident, and kiss you okay. And if you are shy to play those games of "tag" then try not to think to much and do it, let your body control you to him, just go for it, okay hun, hope this helped
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do guys not like curly hair on girls? i dont have like an afro, but my hair is curly. its really hard to straighten it because it doesnt really work that well. it's just like everyone has straight hair these days, i really wish i did, and i don't know if curly hair is attractive to guys. i don't have like ugly frizzy curly hair, alot of people tell me my hair is pretty, but it is poofier than straight hair obviously because its curly. so i guess my question is - do guys not like that? and i don't want "it depends on the guy" - just give me your opinion or answer.
IM talking to some guy, and the first time we hung out went with my hair curly and hes like never seen me with my hair curly..well it looked kinda bad that day through the end because there was bad weather, but guys do prefer long, strait hair, but many more don't care. As long as you got pretty curls and were it nice, guys will like it anyway and most likely they'll end up twirling the finger through a curl watching it bounce for they're own amusement. SO as long as its pretty it dosnt matter.
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over the past maybe, 6 months?, i've been steadily losing weight. not really enough to have a huge impact or be really noticable [unless you're with me all the time, like my boyfriend], but it seems to have no reason at all.
none of my shorts or pants from last summer fit, because they're all too big. i do play soccer in the fall, and some during the early winter, but i haven't really played but here and there since november. could it have been that my metabolism sped up for soccer, and then it's just stayed that way? i'm almost positive it's not related to any sort of diet. i possibly have the worst diet ever, to be completely honest. i'm extremely picky and i eat a lot of sugary foods. so, does anyone has any idea what it could be, or why this is happening? i just don't want it to be a health problem or anything.
you must be in awsome shape and if it isnt completly like exageratingly noticable, then it isnt a health problem.It is because of your metabilism, eating does raise your metabilsm and so does working out. But then you wonder why obese people are obese??? they over eat, and eat 5 times more then a normal person does which is about 1000 calories (i think), an obese person eats about 300,000 calories a day!!! but if u eat a bit every hour it does raise your matabilism, so dont worry sweetie, and youre lucky, many people wish they had great matablism.
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ok well my best friend asked me out yesterday and i said yes. we're both girls both bi. we're 14 and in 8th grade so our relationship is a secret. tomorrow we're supposed to go to the movies together and all but i was thinking maybe i should tell her i dont want to date her. i mean for me it would be better just to kiss her and see how that feels. ive never kissed a girl before but i really want to and see i can imagine doing things with her but not "liking" her. its very complicated. i just dont see her as someone i can relate to on that kind of level of girlfriend to girlfriend. she and i are cool as friends. but we could also be friends with benefits. how do i explain to her that i dont like her but would still like to make out with her. the thought of kissing her turns me on. haha i could even go father than that! hmm help? thanx
lol, wow crazy. well if you want to be friends with benifits simply tell her, "say im not sure if i want a relationship..but i do want to be friends with benifits...we can still do stuuf" she'll most likely understand. At least your not letting her down. Just tell her the truth and it will make you feel alot better okay.
If she gets angry and wants you to be her girlfriend, just tell her, "its complicated" and tell her that the sight of kissing her turns you on, it will make her feel good. okay
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when you masterbate can you get pregant off of it and what happens when you on your period and you masterbate at the same time.
NO you cant get pregnate. why do you think that?? you can only become pregnate through unprotected intercourse with a male. If he cums in you with out a condom you can get pregnate, but if your masturabating you cant, unless a males sperm enter you, not by toys or your finger okay
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Ok im going to the movies with the girl of my dreams and some other people from our soccer team. I talked to her freind who is also on my team, she said that I need to be nice and flirt with her, now there is the problem I dont no how to flirt. Her freind said dont be creepy flirt. Remeber were going to the movies. Ill put on what kind of movie when I get that sorted out. So geeting to my question. How do I flirt if im in a scary movie, a funny movie, or a chick flick? I want her to like me and I think she already does a bit. And im a Guy im 14. I just want to no how to flirt and get her to like me. I need examples on flirting i no shes not green and im not either;)
well im a girl ,and let me give you examples. A girl likes it when a guy makes her laugh. They love it!!! I for sure do lol, but dont make it seem like your tryin to make her laugh or you wont be funny. Put an arm around her as you walk, but if she limps down and looks uncomfortable then dont. Dont poke her sides. Girls normally dont like that, its seems childish. Grab her arm or be rough but playfully, like if she walks away from you pull her back and give her a hug. it seems cute and shows you want. i have more ideas and if you need more just ask.
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Alright so i am basically in a messed up situation. I have been dating this one guy for about seven months and i love him with all of my heart. Then, this other guy came into the picture. I like him, and i just have so much fun with him. But, sometimes i just think it's a phase i`m going through because it's been seven months with my boyfriend and phases do happen. I want to give the other kid a chance, but i dont want to break up with my long time boyfriend for him. And another thing is, they are so different from each other. Like, my boyfriend is more sensitive and feminine like into style, skateboarding and shoes and stuff. And well the other kid is just like active likes to ride dirtbikes and do stupid stuff [like a tipical guy] So, i couldnt really compare them.
Any advice would be very good
Thanks
First of all you shouldnt be haveing a good time with some other guy if you have a boyfriend, but i understand. I hate it when it happens. Look at them both. See who is it that you want. But if your in love. dont ruin it right now, try to follow your heart, whose feelings are stronger???? who makes you skip that heart beat. think about it and decide
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i was walking up the stairs today with some of my guy friends when one was like, "melissa(me) bryan's looking at your butt". guys say that stuff alot but for some reason this time i just got tongue-tied. do you think he was? what can i say back to that kind of stuff when guys say it to me? like what is something i can say jokingly? and any other input?
Well dont give me an attitude, your the one who fricking asked what to say, which is kind of dumb. so i was trying to help and dont get loud with me
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What are some things that all guys look for in girls? Like, that ALL guys look for. Um, i am looking for a couple things, not just one thing.
Thank youuu :]
Well well, i think i might know. But only answers for the right men not jerks okay. They look for uniqness, you have to be outgoin, be able to hang out with him. Dont be loud because guys find that abit agravating. DOnt wear heavy makeup, guys like a girl who is natural, dont complain about yourself around him, and dont swear like crazy. You have to have something good about yourself, like do you sing, do you dance? act? Have a sense of style and dont wear baggy pants with a huge tshirt, makes you look smelly. once in a while baggy pants with a small shirt is cute. BUt a guy likes a girl who is well polished and is confedent about herself. need anymore??? just get back at me
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Hi im 13/f and i thought you would be a good person to ask a question
to:)
Well at first i really liked my crush and thought he liked me too. he
would talk to me all the time, flirt, stare at me, ect. and this all
started in Nov. then about last month my friend said that she told him so
i got all scared and didnt want to talk to him because o he doesnt like
me and i made a fool out of myself. well anyways all of a sudden he
started talk to me. he would always try to since i stopped talking to him.
he tried to sit with me(this all happened in one day), he was flirting,
and then he was messing with me at lunch and at the end of the day al
the stuff we do. So things went back to normal and then i decided that
things went better if i didnt talk to him first all the time and playing
hard to get and i still do but its kinda a reaction (ill get to that
soon). so then on he would always talk to me first and we would stare
everyso often and flirt ect. then about last week i found out he asked out
his ex again and she said yes. my friend and i were walking up the
stairs and all the girls came up to talk to himand were like, "O she said
yes!!" and he was really quiet about it. then they all left and once i
heard everything i was completely filled with rage! he started to
quicken his steps so he could talk to me(he does that alot.) he was like, "Hi
Brianna (from Behind)." i didnt bother to turn around and respond. so
he kept going. "Brianna? dont you wanna talk to me?" i said no. he asked
what did he do ect and i just didnt want to talk to him. he hurried to
get his stuff and left his friends and was chasing after me to talk to
me. he was asking,"What did i do, i didnt even mock you today (this
thing he does to me. flirty thing only to me suprisingly when i say
something or do something and it just makes me laugh). i just said dont talk
to me, dont bug me ect. after that things havent been the same. i cant
get myself to talk to him. or its just not the same. he chased me the
next day and asked me what was up the other day and i said i was just
tired. then i said sorry and we started flirting but its jsut wasnt the
same you know. i watch him and his so called "Girlfriend" and they never
even talk. they dont do anything. then last Thursday i kinda
experimented and went in the same direction he was and walked infront of him so
he could see me and all of a sudden i heard his footsteps and he was
like flying down the steps and i turned around and he was cutting through
people and then the next minute he was right there and we were talking.
then the next day he did the exact same thing except that time he just
came up to me and just smiled at me and i asked what was the smile for
and he started walking backwards to his class smiling at me. so does he
like me?? i dont think his friends or anybody convinced him to ask her
out. they never talk at all and its all so confusing. he also told me
once that he liked seeing me sngry. what does this mean. hope you can
help me since you are older with much more experience. thanks. and please
just give me your best answer because i know this one is difficult.
thanks
OMg how cute!!! its obvious that he likes you!!! if he chased you when you were angry and never let down a moment to say hi then its obvious that he likes you. and i think you two should start spending time, like going to the movies or going out to eat. Have some of your friends to ask him okay
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okay,i'm a female and i'm 14 years old and i'm a muslim. I did something really really wrong, and i don't have a clue why i did it, but i just did. Last year, i was in this school where i used to flirt with guys and allow them to touch me and stuff , just to gain popularity. But soon, my mom found out and she made me go to this girl's only school. And there, somehow i thought that to make friends i should like make stories up to win their sympathy and have them beside me all the time. So i told practically half the school that i had sex so many times before, and that i had once even become pregnant and had an abortion, and that i still do all that shit. I even stole one of my best freind's boyfriends and used to have sex conversations with him on the phone(but that one is for real), But then i felt guilty and told her what i did with her boyfreind, and so now she hates me and so does everyone else. And everyone just thinks of me as a bitch. But the thing is that i feel so disgusted of myself and all that i faked and made up. And i am dying to tell all those who i lied to the truth. But then they'd just see me as a twisted freak who needs medical help, and i honestly think i do need help. I have no idea what to do. I am sick of all the shit and trouble and lying to my parents and people who could have been really good freinds to me. And i keep thinking about all this, but the only solution i come up with is to lock myself up at home where i'd be away from everyone and everything, because i don't trust myself anymore, and i keep getting all those fucked up thoughts, and i masterbute continuously and date any boy to talk about sex with him and to see his penis and touch it because that turns me on. Oh my god!!!! i am just so fucked up and i have no idea what the fuck am i to do. but i'm seriously considering telling all those people i lied to that i never really did all that shit i said and faked.
oh dam sweety i know what your goin through...kind of.. ive told secrets to girls that i thought where my friends and theve used it against me...but i guess what you could do, and it would probably be easy or difficult at the same time, is right to those you lied to a long note or letter. Tell them about your mistakes, and that you were sorry, and you did it because you thought it would make you popular but you were wrong. make it something that you think might make them see the real you, okay.
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ok well mum saiid i can only invite 3 boyz to my birthday now every one heard and there all saying y didnt you invite me and im noy allowed wat do ii say :(:(:( to say no sorry =[
tell them i randomly picked boys because my mom said i can only bring like 3 boys, dont be afraid to admit. Just tell them the truth lol blame it on your mom. lol
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