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Name: Kelley ♥ I'm a jv cheerleader for my school, Keystone Oaks. it's pretty insane there. i have great friends and a very conplicated family. being loud and obnxious pretty much describes me and my friends. i text all the time. i get annoyed very easly though and random mood swings. trying new things is very exciting and i'm usually up for anything. i love piercings and bright jewlery. i don't go anywhere without my bracelets. i made this not only to give advice but to get it too. nobody perfect. i struggle with tough issues all the time. people need guidance and i'm here to give it and receive it :] IM me sometime uhohxomfg!

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okay, basically, i have a hickey on my neck, and its big and purple

ita hot, so no turtle necks, and i dont wear collars
the cover i have isnt working at all

anyways to make it go away faster
or any other ideas on how to hide it?

haha i just had the same probably. get a comb and comb your hickey slowly & gentle for about a minute. then put some ice on it to make the blood flow quicker. after you've done that put a lot of cover up on. if you can still see it put one of those colored chockers that everyone is wearing now. if anyone asked say its a bruise from some sport you do or from an animal. mine too about 3-4 days to go away but they can usually last from 2days - 1week. combing it definitly speeds up the process. hope everything works outtt. :]

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i got lice from a friend (who didnt tell mee) we used this stuff called rid- it worked but i had so much that i thik its still kinda there...any home remedies? should i use rid again? please help! anything will do :'(

olive oil. drench your hair in olive oil then wrap it in plastic wrap. sleep with it in over night then in the morning take off the plastic wrap & brush your hair very very carefully with the rid brush to get all the eggs out. they wash your hair out. this works really good.

dont use rid untill like 11 days after the first treatmeet because it could damage your hair big time.

a buncha friends & I all had it and it turned into this huge thing where none of us talked for awhile. i know lice is one of the worst things ever but it will be okay. i cried for like hours while my mom did my hair but it will be okay i promise.




answer :: yeah it kills them & then since your hair will be slippery they will come out when your rinse out the olive oil.

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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!

haha i have the same probably. they just want to make you mad cause they think its funny. i know it bugs the crap out of you. haha same here but just be like yeah my boobs will grow. but lets talk about your penis..im guessing 3½-4inches? they will get really embarrassed. haha thats what i do. hope they stop soon.

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im going to be sixteen in 3 weeks.

ive been wit h my boyfriend(17) a long time. and well you know were teens we party and drink. one night it got outta hand and we had sexual intercourse, the condom broke.
here are the signs that im pregnant::
firm breast.
moody.
bloated.
hungry.
frequent urination.
cramps.
spotting.


im really scared because i havent gotten my period yet either.


what should i do.

first off you need to make sure you are for sure. i get those symptoms when im about to get my period & im still and virgin.

but if you are then you need to decide for yourself if you are going to keep it. i know that my sister has had an aboration & still to this day she regretts it and beats herself up for it all the time. & my mom when she was around your age gave hers on for adoption. she still wonders about her all the time so if you decide not to keep you are going to have to go threw the depression & memory all your life.

my brothers girlfriend had a baby 5½ months ago & shes just 16 also & she thought threw all this and decided to keep the baby & now she is so happy with him.

just thought those stories would help with a decicion. but honestly i think you need to tell your mom no matter what. she will be upset of couse but she will be there for you.

hope i helped babe. good luck

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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?

yesyesyes!

you dont need that trouble in your life.

you can do wayyyy betterrr.

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My friend cuts and she hasnt exactly told me or our other 2 friends about it..but she told our friend morgan and she knows and morgan has been telling me about it and stuff. Its getting bad and we all are about to go sit down and talk about it..can you suggest a good way to bring it up? anything to be sure to say? anything to make sure we DONT say? please help...i really wanna help her and its a tough subject......
thanks

just let her know that its dangerous & that you guys care for her. and instead of cutting herself when shes upset that she can call one of you and talk about. the most you can do is just let her know that you understand whats shes going to and that you will help her if she ever needs it. if things get out of hand though i would definitly tell a parent or an adult. hope everything goes okay.

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ok does anyone have any cool ways to put makeup on my makeup doesn't look bad but it looks to natrual and i want it took look likt the stars if you know what i mean i want to look way different when i go back to school i want to look good someone if be some good advice please

i know this sounds weird but me and my best friend get pink and blue eye shadow & we put pink on the inside and the other half blue & make it very dramatic. its very cute. put alittle on your bottom eye lid also. i promise its cute. then eye liner on the bottom and top with a lot of mascara. it really brings out your eyes. haha hope you like it

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okay, so last year around this time i started going out with this kid zach. it was amazing and we both fell completely in love. after 6 months, he broke up with me, and i found out later that he had been in a lot of trouble with drugs and that sort of thing. since then, he's been arrested twice and he actually just got out of jail 2 weeks ago. but throughout all of this, ive always been there for him and we've still kind of been 'together'. but the 2nd time he was arrested, i figured it'd be for a lonnnng time... so i started talking to this kid josh. josh is the NICEST person ever. he doesnt do any drugs or stuff like that .. hes really nice and polite and romantic and all that. we both like eachother and talk every day. but now that zachs back hes been trying really hard to fix up everything in his life, he really is a good kid that got into bad stuff. hes gotten a job, and is working hard to make things okay, but my mom still doesnt want me seeing him for ovbious reasons.. and i understand that, but she said i could talk to him occasionally on the phone. what she doesnt know is that ive snuck around to see him when she wasnt around.. 3 times so far. i love zach, and he loves me,, and ifeel like i should try to work for that.. even though its exhausting and would take a while to be okay. but i also am interested in josh, and it would be so easy and maybe even good to try something new and have a good time.zach knows about josh, but josh doesnt know that i am still talking to zach alot. i dont know what to do-- i dont want to hurt anyone. but i just have this feeling that if i go with josh, when things are cleaned up for zach ill want that back. ahhhh im so confused. and i need some good advice please. hope this made some sort of sense. thanks

awe babe that must be hard;

i would give zach some more time to fix up his life. dont rush into anything with either of them. just have fun with both of them and then when zach's life is back on track see who you really love. i know that you want to try something knew and thats good but if you still love zach and know that he is the one for you then go for it.

nothing can stop real love.

i know everyone is going to be like go for josh, zach is a bad kid but from expierence i know that you pick what you would be more happy with. sneaking around isnt good but hey, if you get to see him then go for it. but for the time just keep talking to both of them and see how things turn out.

best advice i can tell ya is just to follow your heart.

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Ok..im 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?

just go out with them. im sure everything will be fine. if they do pull a move on you and you arent ready tell them no. and this is moving too fast for you. as for making-out, it seems scary to think about messing up but the guys take over. just go with the flow. and when it happens; it happens. but if not then dont worry about it. wait for the right person. hope i helped

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My friend has tried to kill herself many times because she thinks shes ugly. I tell her shes beautiful but she won't believe me. People make fun of her and say shes ugly, but I told her its just because they are JEALOUS. I feel if I post a picture of her on here, and I want to know if you guys really think shes ugly. Honestly, I think shes really pretty but she thinks I'm just saying that. Do you think she's pretty? http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=21583599&imageID=983295681&MyToken=72866b2d-41b3-4a0f-89b8-e84a24a369a8 I'd mostly like guys to answer this because most of the time she tries to kill herself is over guys, but girls can give there opinion too. I need a lot of answers so I'm going to rate everyone who answers. She wants me to help her change her appearence so if you think anything needs to be changed like her hair or whatever just tell me, and I will try to help her. I don't want her to die, so please answer as soon as you can!

shes not ugly at all! shes a very pretty girl. well you might want to inform an adult if she tries to committe suicide again. that could really be dangerous.

as for changing her appearence; try new make-up ideas; darker or lighter; new hair cut; new hair color; new clothing style; better attitude helps you come off as a pretty person in general.

you need to explain to her that guys dont like girls that are very self concious. its a major turn off.

i hope i helped just a little bit at least.

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My boyfriend and I started to have "dry sex" a few days ago. We only had underwear on and he started to get really rough and then actually cummed. I think a little might have gotten on my underwear and then when I went to the bathroom, I bled a little. What is going on and what are my chances of being pregnant?

the blood may be from his popping your cherry if your not popped already. & if it is you might have gotten a brush burn from the underwear.

you probably arent pregnant but try to be more carful next time. :]

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could you be pregnant and still have your period? or is that rare

its very rare but it could happen. it might be irregual like really heavy & really light & not on schedule.

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can a girl cum

yup, just not like a guy does.

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can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period when you dont use a condom? what are some of the consequenses? Also how long does a sperm stay alive when it is out of the penis?

yes you can. while your going threw the cycle there is a 4 day period before and after your period which is the time that you most likely will get pregnant.that always includes while your on your peirod as well.

your body is ovulating which means that a new egg is being created and a sperm can go to it in this process.

a sperm can live up from 5 to 7 days but most of them will burn from friction or the tempature of a girls insides but some may survive.

consquenses: a STD & pregnancy.

hope i helped just a little bitt.

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hi I am a girl and i shave down there... i know that you are suppose to shave down then side ways then up but it still hurts and I cut myself doing it. Is there a specific technique i can use to still be completely smooth without so much pain or something other than a razor that I can use?

this may sound weird but conditioner. it makes it more slippery & easier. it wont harm you in any way. but it really works. i promise :]

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I have light brown hair and I was wondering what I could do to get blonder hair. Not totally blonde but light blonde or dirty blonde. And I dont really wanna buy something. Maybe I could make something.

lemon juice works specially when your in the sun. but sometimes just being in the sun makes your hair lighter if you have natural highlights. & lemon juice isnt expensive and/or might be in your fridgee. :]

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Ok I was wondering if anyone had some very cute screenname ideas that I could use. Something that uses the words "bamm" or "Rad" or something really cute. I`m also a female so I hope that helps thanks ! =] I don`t want anything old that uses words like "eva" & words like that.

IM SO RAD x3
BAMM (name) is on
BAM ITS (name)

those are some ideas.
best i can think of.
hope i helped :]

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What r some websites to put in your weight and height to see if your balanced?
~KAYLA~ ♥

www.am-i-fat.com

look around & you'll find a calcuator & it will tell you :]

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How old is way too young to have sex? my bf wants to with me but were only 15!! is that too young please help... if that is too young what should i say to him..

it depends on when you feel ready. if your ready & know the consquiences then your ready but if you arent ready to face them then your not. its all up to you!

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I have a question for you. The other day my girlfriend and I were dry humping and then she preceded to masturbate me until i cummed. I was fully clothed and she was mostly naked. After i came it was like about another 10 mins before i had finished up on her. Well my underwear and shorts were still soaked. She sat on my lap and my some of my wet shorts touched her leg. She jumped up and touched her self to wipe off her leg. Well she went to the bathroom and after she got done using the toilet she wiped herself with a tissue. Although she forgot to wash her hands prior. Between this fifteen minutes of passing is it possible she could get pregnant. I told her i didnt think she had anything to worry about but she told me she wanted me to ask you.

probably not but there could be a slight chance. i wouldnt be to worried but have her take a test just in case but theres probably like a 1-10 chance but just to be on the safe side i would take a test. hope it works out good.

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