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i need advide. asap
im going to be sixteen in 3 weeks.
ive been wit h my boyfriend(17) a long time. and well you know were teens we party and drink. one night it got outta hand and we had sexual intercourse, the condom broke.
here are the signs that im pregnant::
firm breast.
moody.
bloated.
hungry.
frequent urination.
cramps.
spotting.
im really scared because i havent gotten my period yet either.
what should i do.
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Take a pregnancy test?????Make sure you use 2, to make sure one of them isn't defective.
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It would have been helpful to say when your period was due, or when the last one was. I'm surprised that someone else didn't pick up on this, but feeling bloated, cramps and spotting are not normal signs of a healthy pregnancy. They are all signs of your period approaching though. If your period is late (depending on your cycle--but usually they are 28 days apart)You need to take a home pregnancy test. If it's positive do not wait to see the Dr. Go to ER if you can't get into the Dr's office right away. Cramps and spotting could indicate a serious problem. Others may not agree with this, but I have a lot of experience in this area and am giving you sound advice. In addition..you said you "party and drink" If by chance you are pregnant..please stop doing those things.
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Take a pregnancy test to figure out for sure, if you haven't already. And then sit him down, tell him. And then both of you should sit down with your parents, and his & let them know. =] Good luck!
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You and your boyfriend should go to the hospital as soon as possible,go see the doctor to see if you're pregnant, he'll help you out with what you need to avoid,and you won't regret it for sure.
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first off you need to make sure you are for sure. i get those symptoms when im about to get my period & im still and virgin.
but if you are then you need to decide for yourself if you are going to keep it. i know that my sister has had an aboration & still to this day she regretts it and beats herself up for it all the time. & my mom when she was around your age gave hers on for adoption. she still wonders about her all the time so if you decide not to keep you are going to have to go threw the depression & memory all your life.
my brothers girlfriend had a baby 5½ months ago & shes just 16 also & she thought threw all this and decided to keep the baby & now she is so happy with him.
just thought those stories would help with a decicion. but honestly i think you need to tell your mom no matter what. she will be upset of couse but she will be there for you.
hope i helped babe. good luck <3
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well first of all you need to confirm that youre pregnant. get a home pregnancy kit from a local drugstore or go to a doctor.
if you are pregnant, you will have to tell your parents because soon they will be able to tell...especially your mother since shes already gone through child birth.
you do have some choices though. You can:
1. keep the baby and raise it
2. put the baby up for adoption [you can do this before its born]
or 3, abortion.
im highly against abortion myself but if you must then you must...
hope everything works out ok
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well,if you want your boyfreind to take care of the kid too,i suggest you tell him.You need to tell your parents too cuz when they find out later on,it wont be pretty.Thats if you want to keep the kid,if you dont want to tell your parents and boyfreind and go through all of that then just get an abortion.
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Okay, well the first thing is to establish that you are definitely pregnant. You can do this by buying a pregnancy testing kit or by going to the doctors. (Don't worry about confidentiality because the Dr cannot say anything to your parents).
Once you have established you are pregnant, you need to decide whether you are to keep the baby or whether you need to take the morning after pill to abort the fetus. Your doctor will be able to prescribe it or you may be able to buy it at the chemists.
If you decide to keep the baby you then need to tell your parents so that you have their support.
I know it will not be easy but you cannot hide something like this.
If you are not pregnant then you seriously need to sort out a double form of contraception. You need to continue using a condom but you also need to use the pill or something similar. Again, the doctor will be able to help you out with that.
I wish you all the very best. Take care.
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