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I feel so ugly.. no matter what I do, I'm always comparing myself to girls that are prettier than me, and putting myself down... I always feel like I'm not worth anything because I feel ugly.. What can I do to raise my self-esteem or make myself prettier??? (link)
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Look at the girls that you find so beautiful and try to see what they do to make themselves better, like haircuts manicures and stuff like that then try it on yourself so you will feel more like them. Give yourself pep talks and find what you like about yourself positive self talk is really important just try not to be so har on yourself ans love who you are try for a day ro be totally positive about yourself and not look at the other girls kay? well i hope you feel better and i helped. Kisses Devyn
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I would like to reward him with a special treat but i don't know any candy this kid likes. do you guys know of anything sweet for a 4 year old? please help! i rate high! (link)
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I think you should just buy him like a cute cookie from the cookie boutique if you have one where you live... their cookies are the cutest and come with all sorts of designs footballs, flowers, smiley faces a lot of stuff and every kid loves cookies! That is a treat I like to buy for my 6 year old brother.
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i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
please help, i rate high for peeps with good answers!!! (link)
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I am so sorry this is a tough situation. I think that you should go with what you are feeling and let him loose, but make sure you explain to him why you are breaking up with him and that you appreciate all of the things he has given you but you just dont like him anymore but you can still stay friends and talk (if you want)Just be totally honest with him.
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ok i have worn uniforms for EIGHT YEARS and im sick of them. WHat can i do to bend the rules but not break them and dress up my uniform .OUr unifrom rules are pretty leniant. I rate high!! (link)
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Accessorize! I also have uniforms but i go absolutley crazy with jewelery... I sometimes buy cheap flip flops then rhinesones or anything and decorate them to get away from all of the trends and the same old uniforms. I go to Forever 21 and buy jewelery because most of their stuff is unique... ask your mom if she has any old vintage jewelery and wear that! Hope you find some stuff... 'kiss' Devyn
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Ok...So I am getting my hair cut, and I dont know how to cut it. and I cant find any sites with nice pics of hairstyles and stuff. I need a few sites that have alot of pics of long and medium hairstyles. thankies. (link)
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http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/hair-cut-styles.htm
maybe you will find something here...
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I'm 13 and I have a maturbation problem I do it every night and soemtimes twice a day. I try to hold myself back but I really can't. I'm developing a rash what should I do? (link)
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I am not really sure... Maybe go and see a gonocoligist or just a doctor you definitely need to quit touching it and seek some help. Sorry that i couldnt help more. Try to ask another member i dont know much about that kind of stuff. I am truly sorry.
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hey
my best mate introduced me to dean through msn. we have never met but we have kinda connected. we have been through the same kind of emotional problems and the other day he said we should meet up and talk about things properly. i really want to as i need to talk about my life. but im scared because i dont like the way i look. i am overweight. do you think that will matter.
i want to meet him because wen we speak to each other its like we know exactley what each other mean. he helped me to get over self harming and a broken heart and i helped him to get over his thoughts of suicide and depression so we are very close emotionally, we just have never met.
do you think it would be a good idea?
thanx
xx
*emz* (link)
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Even if you are heavy you shouldnt worry about what other people think at all. If he turns away and doesnt like you then he is no good anyway so you should have nothing to worry about. But i mean you talked him out of commiting suicide you know? It shouldnt even phase him if you are a little over weight. Just go through with it girl! you two seem perfect for eachother then looks wont matter, remember: (that you dont know what he looks like either). So i think it is a great idea meet him and good luck to you!
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ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much
sincerely,
troubled girly (link)
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It should go away in about two days for most girls having your period for seven days is normal! Dont worry it will go away eventually.
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Hey, im on a diet, but i have no idea what foods to eat.
I kno veggies and fruits and no white bread.
But like for actual meals, what should I eat?
I have to make a grocery list for my mom so it would really help to have this info asap. Thanks will rate high. (link)
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You should buy some Weight Watcher Chocolate cakes they are really small and not that fattening at all... well thats a snack. For breakfast there are the Weight Watcher Muffins like blueberry and stuff DELICIOUS. Another Idea for breakfast is fry 1 egg and eat a strip of bacon that isnt fattening. Eat tuna fish with not so much mayo over some romane lettuce or on a slice of wheat bread. Good Luck with the diet!
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I feel really left out of everyhting lately. I feel like noone likes me. Any advice?
~Lonely Girl~ (link)
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Just talk to all of us! We all seem to be pretty awesome. Hang out with your family and try to do fun stuff alone that you enjoy... you dont need anyone else but yourself and god.
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hey! i am having a birthday there will be boys and girls, i don't wear skirts and i want something casual! any ideas (link)
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Buy some Denim Bermuda shorts... at Charlotte Russe they have millions of pairs! Wear them with a casual T shirt with some bulky beads that wrap once around your neck and hang down almost to your belly button, with some flats that kind of match your shirt... Totally cute.
Or buy some gowcho pants (hollister) preferably brown with a cute silky looking tank top with some nice flip flops... and TONS of accessories now thats a fun outit ot put together. Hope your party is a blast 'kiss' Devyn
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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think? (link)
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Yes I am sure that he does love you back i would try not to get yourself so hyped up on something so little, just have trust in him
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okay this guy his name is charlie! well people think he is known for wanting to get in girls pants and then breaking up with them. But, i have heard some stories about how he is really sweet to his girlfriends and is not like that. Well, i like him alot an he said he likes me! should i try it with him and if thats all he wants dump him or what?! i really want to try it i mean he calls me alot! and he acts like he likes me!and he takes care of me (link)
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Totally if you think you like this guy focus on the good stories about him and give him a try! If it seems he really cares about you and you seem to be head over heels for him then dont hesitate and go for it babe. If all he really wants is to get in your pants just tell him you dont want to go out anymore and would rather be friends. Good luck to you.
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the past week my boyfriend and I got in a huge fight. now he thinks I'll be mad at him forever and never trust him again. he says I don't care about him anymore. so I want to buy/make something that shows AND tells that I care about him and I'll always be there no matter what. My friend said buy him a little teddy bear and attach a note in its hand saying "I'll always be there no matter what." I thought that was cute but I need more ideas. I don't want to go anywhere, I want to give him something. Keep it cheap. Also give me a cute little line to say. thanks. (link)
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There is a craft that i have made that is pretty sentimental and cute but you wil need: a heart shaped jar-HobbyLobby $2. A hersheys hug and a kiss. a pencil top eraser and a piece of string.
Put all of these things into the jar and type this:
An eraser to make all of our mistakes go away, a rubber band to stretch our relationship beyond it's limits, A string to tie things together if we begin to fall apart, and a hug and a kiss to remind you that someone really cares.
If you decide to do this, Good Luck and hope everything goes better for you.
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Hey, I was wondering does anyone know any cute hairstyles? I have straight, long black hair. I was thinking about long sideswept bangs and layers, but that seems sort of blase. I'll rate high! (link)
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I just got sidesweeping bangs and i absolutely LOVE them they give your hair a lot more style and funk anf just the layered look in the front is simple and cute.
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School's about to start, and I don't really want to carry a backpack around all the time this year. I was wondering if anyone knows where to get those cute shoulder bags that are rectangle-squarish? They have really cute Coach ones, but I'm on a low-budget. (link)
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Oh my gosh... I went to Guess yesterday and i found the cutest side shoulder bag (what you are talking about) and it was denim and 24 dollars then i went home and with extra fabric and jewels all sorts of little decorations i made broaches to match my outfits and pin a different one on my bag every week... hope you like the idea 'kiss'
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okay i got iTrip for my ipod..which i think makes it so i can play my ipod in the car.anyway, did the iTrip come with something that hooks the ipod upto the car stereo or soemthing? because i dont think i have it..lol please help im so confused (link)
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You are supposed to hook the itrip into the top of you ipod and program a radio-station (not in use) for it to play on. the radio will pick up the signal and play your ipod.
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my best friend is depressed. and it makes me so sad! she says shes fat when shes NOT she says shes ugly when shes NOT and this one guy was like do you have a myspace so she gave him the link and said ew your ugly and signed off.. so she is really sad about that.. i keep telling her that if she thinks shes fat she should just go on a diet and i would go on it with her. she doesnt need to make herself prettier cause shes pretty enough! what can i do to make her feel better? (link)
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Just make sure you take her out to do stuff and comfort her through out this stage that is all that you can really do at a time like this. Try to show her how pretty she really is, and encourage her to work out and eat right tell her it will pay off and she could be comforatable with herself. All you can really do is encourage her A LOT and try to have fun. Good luck with her. 'kiss' PrettyLady16
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I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!
Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help (link)
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To me it seems just like you and your friends are slowly moving apart. People can get annoying with comments like that so try to ignore them but make sure to confront your friends tell them that you arent comforatable with them talking about your weight and that if they are dieng to be so thin to work out themselves, try to encourage them not ridicule. And as for the two of them moving apart from you, if worse comes to worse i think that you should trying to start hanging out with more people that arent like punky and have some of the same interests. People that are like you are always fun. Well I hope this problem resolves and you get your friends back "kiss" PrettyLady16
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16 F sophomore. guy 17 junior.
Me and this guy have been friends for about 2 almost 3 years i guess.. if i'm couting right. Anyway i suddenly liked him after a terrible break up.. and then I just gave up on it thinking i was still in love with my ex.. moving on... So this crush has kind of been hidden for a few months and i recently told him that i liked him way back then. and he was cool about it but here recently we've been joking about being benefit buds.. and i dont know if he's serious.. and even if he was and we really did like each other and wanted to date should I: b/c a) he's dated like 2 or 3 of my friends and B) this wouldn't destroy our friendship but maybe make it awkward. i dunno just some advice please?~ unsure. (link)
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I think that if you really think that having benefits with him could turn into something like a relationship and you truly trust him you should consider it. But if you are starting to have a lot of doubts and second thoughts follow your instincts and dont do it. But make sure you ask him if he is serious before you consider this. Well i hope that everything turns out well for you. "kisses" PrettyLady16
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