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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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How do i move on? i broke up with my boyfriend because i was pissssed off at him cuz i found out shit about him that he didnt tell me himself. He was trying to get back with me but i didnt want to even though i still have feelings for him. Now we dont talk and i want him back!!! but i cant, so how do i move on? what are things that i can do to heal my broken heart?

Try spending time with your friend and doing things to take him off your mind. Remember if he did something wrong you shoulnt take him back, other guys will treat you better. Also try getting to know different guys. Maybe you'll find another one you like and you'll forget about your ex. And by talking to him it's only going to make you want him more, and if thats not what you want, then I sugjest not talking to him at all, or atleast until you've gotten over him. I know it's hard, but good luck!

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My friend has this bf that I hooked her up with.Me and him are cool ever sence they met and I liked him I still do but not as much.Well the other day she ad a dream about us to mking out and going behind her back.I would never do that but does that dream mean something.

I think the dream probably means that she might feel that you guys are close and like eachother. Shes just afriad that you and him might hook up, probably because you two are friends, and your the one who introduced them to eachother.

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okay ... i had a crush on this guy , and would always flirt and stuff , but after he started liking me , i stopped liking him .It's kinda like now i completely dislike him , i hate his confused look , i hate the way he tries to make me laugh ... i just don't like him !! Why is this happening to me ?

Maybe you just really didn't like this guy. Or maybe your a little shy. Try and see if this happens with other guys..Cuz it could just be him. Good luck. xoxooo

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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw?

Don't change yourself for a guy. You need to find one who accepts you for who you are. :)

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Ok hello people i not really fat or anything but i m starting to like get more fat around mi legs and stomach anyone got any ideas on good exercise to get ride of it or any tips?
~Help~

run run run..or get a boflex :P

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Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?


You've been going out with him for quite awhile and if he were trying to take advantage of you then he would have made you or dumped you long ago bcuz you wouldnt. I think you should make out with him. you'll like it lol and nothings wrong with it expecialy since you've been going out for a while. itz someting ppl like to do, to show affection for eachother. but if your really unconferble tell him this and he should understand or he may tell you that he would never use you. then you know he really cares. i'm sure he could be with other girl..and he could make out with them...but he just wants to make out with you. he cares about you and i dont think he would use you. byez good luck! plz rate me :)

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(14/f) Okay, say I really want to see a rated R movie but my mom won't let me.. If I just go to like Walmart or Target to buy it, do they require you to be 17/have an I.D./have parental supervision? Thanks in advance.

Nothing you can really do..but if you really want it ask somone in the store if they could go with you haha. it worked for me

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i have an AWESOMe friend. i am 1 year older than him and we arent going out. his mom says he is not old enough to have a GF but she is insisting for us to go to the movies together. i LOVE him but i dont know if he LOVES me... i know that he likes meeh but i dont kno!!! please help me!!!! i beg u!!!!!!!!!!

Well how old is he? Mabye wait a year if he's really young. Then you can get closer. (Or) he doest have to let his mom know anyways that he has a gf. he could still act like hes just friends around your guys'z parents. they dont have to konw that your going out. tell him that!! Good luck. plz rate me

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I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much!

Read it over a few times and look at your scrip. Then after doing that try not to look at it as much as you can. take it step by step. try memorizing it one part at a time. good luck

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I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha



What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?


Take more drugs to make them better dreams. It works.

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I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away..

That isnt right. You should talk to them. Tell them how you feel they dont care about you, how your mom didnt come to see you when you got in an accident where somone died, and it could have been you. You should tell her what she does, that she walks away from you and wont even talk to you. They should be greatful that you are still alive and it wasnt you who died.

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me and my bf got in a big fight on wednesday....and i hung up on him and everything he hasnt called me or got online since then and im not gonna call him bc it was his fault that we had the fight...how long should i give him to call me? i dont wanna wait to long and lose him...but i wanna work it out but let him no im mad....when do u think i should call him n b lyke ok we really need to talk...and blah blah...he usually ALWAYS calls me...but idk he hasnt yet....so how long do i give him?

If you love him and really don't wanna louse him then you should call him back. But if he loved you enough he would probably (should) have called already. I would wait mabye 4 days. Or until he gets on line. Make sure he didnt block you lol. And if he comes on line or did block you then you need to talk to him. If it wasnt your fault then hes being gay about all of this. Mabye ask him why you blocked me and never called you..ask him if he cares about you. (just assuming he blocked you) otherwise just talk things out if he didnt. good luck! -Jenna

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well im going out with a great guy i love him to death he is awesome and every thing well my ex-still likes me and he is always telling me how pretty i look or that he likes me and he will always call. i dont know wat to do bc i still kinda like my ex but i love my bf but every day i think i start to like my ex more wat do i do?

from confused

Do what ever makes you the happiest. If you broke up with him because he did something wrong then do not go out with him. But if you like this other guy then you really dont love the guy your with. Follow your heart..

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Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do?

DO NOT have sex with this guy. Save it for somone who you really love. This guy just wants sex and i doubt a relationship. This guy i'm guessing hardly knows you, cares about you, or likes you. He probably thinks your hot bcuz he wants to have sex but he's not worth it. He's just another sex craving dick. There will be guys in your life who really care about you and love you. dont waste it on somone who hardly konws you and doest love you at all. you will really regret it later if you do.

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This was something my mom and I talked about the other night, and it really made me think. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same way, as in a bf/gf? I'd appreciate to see some opinions on this...

JyNxiE

I don't think thats possible. If you are in love with somone, then you would love them enough to know that they are the only one for you. And you woudlnt want anyone else. And if you think you love 2 people you obvioulsy don't really love them.

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In june i got in a car accident where my friend rear-ended some1...and i ended up with a spranged knee and a neck brace..well now whenever some1 gets like close to a car i start to freak out and like lose my breath...is that ok? because it was in june and its now november

Damn, sorry to hear that. But its fine. It must have been scary, and things like that dont go away fast.

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Okay this a very weird question. When I woke up this morning, i couldn't find my glasses. Thinking I went to bed with my contacts on, I touched my eyes looking for the edge of the contacts. In one eye I felt it and in the other I didn't. When I checked my contact case, both contacts were sitting in the solution. Is it normal to be able to feel your eye lens? Because that's starting to freak me out.

Yeah its normal. Your eyes have in a way its own contact len's. It'z pretty freaky but its nothing to worry about. This is sick but I once thought my contacts were still in my eyes, and I kept trying to get them out. Insted I pulled at my eye and it streched out a little. I was freaked up but my mom said everyone has is. Lol, so yeah nothing to worry about.

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Hey-i was reading through your column and i really liked the advice you were giving so i was wondering if you could help me out with a situation i have:
alrite so beginning of this year (i was still a junior in high school) i met a guy (a senior in high school who's now a freshman in college) through my best friend's boyfriend and one nite after all 4 of us hanging out i ended up hooking up with him. When it started out, neither of us was looking for a relationship, i was just looking to gain experience so i figured it was a great idea. Long story short-i went pretty far with him and got attached-towards the end of the school year we found out we both really liked each other, we went to prom together and were hooking up monogamously for about 4 months but he never asked me out-finally middle of summer he said he didn't wanna lead me on but he really didn't want a gf when he was gonna be leaving for college in a month-i told him i understood but naturally i was heartbroken. So i didn't see him the rest of the summer, i've just heard stories about him hooking up with other girls which killed me...literally but i finally finally got over him (its been a long long road). Anyways he's back for thanksgiving break and i haven't gotten play in awhile-so this friday we are getting together-im really worried cuz when i see him i don't know if i will have the strength to turn down hooking up with him, but i definitely know i don't have the strength to get over him again-at the same time....i desperately need play LOL. What do u think i should do?!?!

thanks

Hey i'm so sorry this is late! But still if I was you I would try as hard as I could not too hook up with him. Being in collage he probably was with girls, mabye a lot of them. If you did hook up with him, you'll probaby have a harder time getting over him. To me from what your seeing, no offence this is just my opinion, but all he seems to want is sex. He hasnt had relationships, but sex. And since you didnt see him all summer (mabye didnt even talk to him) you should deff. forget about him as hard as it is. Because you could get a guy who would go out with you and care a lot more about you than he did, and you could still hook up lol. A lot of times when girls have played or hooked up with a guy they like him a lot more just because of that. Hanging out with other guys and going out with other ones will help you forget about him more easy. I hope everything went okay. And I'm so sorry I coudlnt get back to you about this before friday! Good luck with everything, hope i helped a bit lol. Byez

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ok, so i dont think im ugly, but i know im definitely not gorgeous, and when i get compliments on my body or anything else from guys, i don't know how to respond. I've had self-esteem issues and when i hear these compliments, im glad someone thinks of me that way, but i dont wanna sound like "OMG! Im hot shit.." How do i respond to these compliments without sounding like im hot shit or end up rejecting them?

Just say thanks and give em a smile..

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I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
Signed
Lost Cuzin

You should never hide your feelings. Your friends will be there for you and nothings wrong about feelin bad about that. Talking about it and how you feel will get you throught it more eaisly.

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