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well im going out with a great guy i love him to death he is awesome and every thing well my ex-still likes me and he is always telling me how pretty i look or that he likes me and he will always call. i dont know wat to do bc i still kinda like my ex but i love my bf but every day i think i start to like my ex more wat do i do?
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Yeah, that does sound pretty confusing. You might want to start off by slowing down and taking a break from both guys, to figure out what you really want.
What do you mean when you say this guy is your boyfriend? In my mind, if he is your boyfriend, then you two are dating each other only. Is that what it means to you? Have you talked about this? Have you promised each other that you won't see other people?
If the answer is "yes", then, for crying out loud, stop talking to your ex! Tell him, "Hey, I have a boyfriend, and I don't see other guys, so I don't want you to call me anymore". If you can't say that to him, then you don't want to be in a committed relationship. That's totally OK, but be honest with your boyfriend about it. Tell him you're confused about dating, and you aren't ready to have a committed relationship with a boyfriend right now. Whatever you do, don't be a cheater. If you have promised to date your boyfriend ONLY, then don't cheat on him with the ex. Figuring out what you want is confusing, and it sounds like you are VERY confused. But being confused doesn't mean you get a free pass to cheat and lie. If you don't want to lose the attention and compliments from the ex, then break up with your boyfriend. He'll be hurt, yeah, but it hurts WAY more to have someone you care about lie to you and cheat on you.
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Do what ever makes you the happiest. If you broke up with him because he did something wrong then do not go out with him. But if you like this other guy then you really dont love the guy your with. Follow your heart.. <3
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listen to your heart (haha i love saying that) and talk to them both, see what they say. hope i helped! if you ever need advice you can always drop a note in my inbox! rate me!
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If you really liek this guy follow your heart. who ever is more appeling to you and you think you can have a futher with.
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I think that if u really love ur b/f u should get all involved with ur ex like that.... u should just tell ur ex that yall had yall's time and now its u and ur curent b/f... so just tell ur ex that yall are JUST FRIENDS and thats it!!
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Based on the information, I'd say to stay with your boyfriend. If you "love" your boyfriend and just "like" your ex, then that seems to be the right choice to me. Plus, he's your ex for a reason, right? Remember why you broke up in the first place, and then make your decision. Good luck!
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Well just sit there and make some pro's and cons who do u like being around more who treats u more better and who do u feel like u can tell anything too. U will always have feelings for ur ex no matter what but if u really love this new guy and he treats u good then why blow him off if u guys have something already started it wouldnt be far to him if u just leave him for ur ex
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It's perfectly normal to still have some feelings for an ex. But who broke up with who? If you broke up with him, then obviously you had your reasons and you should stick with your b/f. If he broke up with you, what's to stop him from doing it again. Either way you look at it, it prolly won't be a good idea to get back together with him. It would be better to just stay friends.
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ok well this is hard but i think that you should just wait a little while and see how things play out start to really notice and pay attention to if you like your boyfriend better... if you think you just sort of like him break it off and spend time with your ex this way you see who you would rather be with!!! let me know how it turns out!!! and let me know if you have any more questions
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I don't think you should go back to your ex, because that can cause even more problems.
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i think you should follow your heart and whoo ever u like more you should go for him. well i know ur confused bc i know wat it feels like and i know its gunna be hard but u need 2 make a decison bc it will like drive you crazy i think whoo ever u like more go for them and to make ur deciosn about whoo u like more u should just follow your heart
hope i helped
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