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i just play basketball((in 7 grade ther is athletics))but in off season i get really lazy and gain weight. but this year i dont want to. is there anything i can do in off season((summmer )) i can do like sports wise. what should i do

you can stay on a rough diet. Like no rice, no oily foods(which is hard to give up) no fried foods.You get my drift. and you can try to workout more too.Like walking 2 miles everyday. then speed it up to jogging then running. And you can like play street basketball as well. not only is it fun but you can work on your game as well.

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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?


i rate high so please help

Thats what people think of me too.But the best way to erase that is to not care. they see i don't care anymore so they stop(well most of them). But if someone calls you a slut, or a hoe, don't get mad just say calmy "i'm not a hoe, nor am i a slut. i don't call you that so you shouldn't call me that". when they see it doesn't phase you. you'll see the rumers ride out.

And i really don't know you so i can't just be like "change the way you dress". And the image of a hoe is not how she dresses but how she acts and what she's done (sexually of course).

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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

these places have ute skirts.

1.rainbow

2.target

3.maceys

4.jc penny

5.berrlingtons coat factory

they have cute stuff

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Can you get pregnant from giving head sence the cum goes in your mouth with sperms in it?

LOL.No that is impossible.sperm needs togo in your vagina to get pregnant not your stomach.If you had sperm on your hands for some reason and touche your vagina then yes you get pregnant. But you can't get pregnant from giving oral.

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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period.

there is a slight chance you could be pregnet because his pre-cum (something a guy gets everytime he has an erection. is clear and contains alittle bit of sperm) got in your virgina ( and you did said he was in for only a few secounds) meaning that his pre-cum was in you as well. but it's a 50/50 deal that your pregnant.

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what are symptoms of being pregnant?

Swelled feet,cravings for weird food, gain weight(of course) and mood swings.

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my friend Alyssa is a BIG liar, she always makes up stupid stories. and when i tell her shes lying, she gets mad at me and i have to apoligize. but anyway, heres the point: today in lunch, i was sitting with Alyssa, my other friend Cassi, and my other friend Jenna. Alyssa said she has a friend named Jake who likes me and she said i've hung out with him and i've never known anyone by the name of Jake. so when she left the table, my friend Cassi said "so...do you believe her about Jake?" and instantly i said "nope." so...should i believe her? im hoping shes right. she said he looks just like the boy who i like and hes HOTT! so, should i believe her or not?




I RATE 5'S FOR GOOD, FAST REPLIES!! :) bub byezzz

I think sh's lying. A liar always lies and maybe she's just trying to get some attention.don't belive her.

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Yes, well i'm rather young and I get around a lot and I dont ever use a condom. (the boy) because I dont even have my period yet but does this mean that I can still get std's?? If yes, do they make a condom made of paper or something cuz im allergic to the plasticy rubber stuff.
thanks,
I rate fairly high!!
f/15

They do make non latex condoms. and you not starting your period doesn't make you ammune to STD's it lessens your chance for pregnancy and thats it.

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH


ok first.

-this girl was a virgin and lost her virginity to him
-my boyfriend was a virgin and lost his virginity to her.
-so basically they lost there virginity to each other
-they used protection.
-i was a virgin and lost my virginity to him
-we used protection.

(ok this may sound gross but if your going to talk shit then dont bother writing)
-i made him take it out before he cummed if that helps anything.

Ok i think the chances are very slim on the count of them losing there virgiity together and on top of that they used protection.

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Hey... what are some really good ringtones for my cell phone. I just got a new one and am downloading some but i don't have any ideas. Please help... i'll rate!

Some ringtones that i would consider would be

1. ying-yang-twins, the whisper song (wait)2
2.aqua ,barbie girl
3.gwen staffini, holla back girl
4.mariah carrey, we belong together
5.omarion, touch
6. weezer, beverly hills

those are pretty good ring tones mostly holla back girl.


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there is this Kid that i happen to have a crush on but of course my luck he likes my best friend. my friend dosent like him and he knows. he comes over to my house almost every weekend and hangs out with her and i, im really starting to fall for him what should i do?

You should move on. you shouldn't waste your time on a guy thats not intrestesd in you.If he doesn't like you thats his problem. Find a guy that has the same feeling for you that you have for him.

**PIXIE**

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I wrote in about a month ago, asking for advice about a friend of mine that treated me badly (called me names, made me look stupid in front of others, etc). I finally confronted her about it, so now we don't talk anymore. I'm so much happier; but now I have a few more problems...
1) She always stares at me! And when I walk down the hallway (and she's in a classroom), she is always by the door (like she's waiting for me), but she never talks, she just stares. Is that normal, because it sort of freaks me out.
2) I REALLY want to go to a camp, but she might be going too, and I really don't want to run into her (because then she'd beg for forgiveness, and I don't think that she would change, which is why I didn't give her a second chance in the first place). Should I go or not, and why?
Thanks in advance! Sorry it's long, but I will rate!

Ok first of all you shouldn't let your ex-friend control your life.And your probalby thinking she's not controling my life. But think about it she is. Her staring at you and basicaly following you is holding you back. you want to go to that camp...then go!!!! If she beggs for forgiveness tell her stright up that she's full of it.She's out of your life so act like it. What was the point of breaking the friendship up with her if she's still ruining your life.

**PIXIE**

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I am 15/f and I haven't had a crush in 2 years! Lately, I've been thinking, and I don't know if I am bi or straight! I want to be straight ..because everyone else is..and because it seems like the right way to live..but then my mind tells me that I could be bi..I am sooo CONFUSED! I really don't know what to do because I can't tell anyone! I mostly have girl-friends but I've never been attracted to any of them..sometime's I look at their butts and boobs..(but isn't that a normal thing that girls usually notice about eachother??) I am attracted to guys..sometimes when I saw a hot guy, I stare and tell my friends "Wow he's hot!" I'd like to think I'm straight but my mind keeps telling me I'm bi! I'm so confused!

Ok...let me see. You didn'tmention anything about being attracted by girls. you just said thatyou look at there butts and boobs. Theres nothing wrong with that and you can't just think you bi you have to know. I just think your confussed because you don't know what your sexual oreinatation is. I think that maybe your stright. Your just thinking that your bi.I used to be like that too.But iwas never attracted to girls.Sostop worrieing your stright.

**PIXIE**

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About a year ago when i was 14 my best friend and i were kinda role playing when she would sleep over and i just felt so comfortable touching eachother and i enjoyed it sooo much! But now she thinks it's gross and i don't know how to approch any other gurl because it's really fun. It's like girls know what feels good to them so they do it to their partner. i don't think i'm lez because i like guys and have a bf but i enjoy doing sexual things wit girls and i can't take my eyes off their bodies in the locker rooms and stuff. what should i do?

I think you should edmit to what you are. you like boys and girls so your bi.theres nothing wrong with that. you can't change the emotions you have for your samesex. nor can you reverse it. theres nothing that you really can do though.thenjust embrace it.

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I'm going to the beach in a week and I understand that when you shave your legs, it stings really bad once you get in the ocean. Does Nair sting? If so, are there any other alternatives?

no nair doesn't sting. and another alternitive couldbe wax like 2 days befor the beach

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so where do i begin? My family is only me, my sister and my mom. We're always contantly fighting! It gets so annoying!! I'm always fighting with my sister and sometimes my mom, and my sister is ALWAYS fighting with my mom. How can I make it so we fight less? My mom and sister are very...if i say something little their all over me. my sister doesnt quit until she gets her way!! how can i make it so they fight less often?

OMG that sounds just like my house instead i really don't fight with my sister. But anyways just be real with them. tell them to stop acting like little fucking kids and grow the fuck up.And for yor sister tell her big ass to stop acting rlike a toddler. thretin to beat her ass up if she doesn't shut up. And to get away from all of the madness just try to hang out with your friends more so you can get away from there shit.Or spend or time out of the house and fill your time with meaningul things.

**PIXIE**

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My BF and I have been going out for a month. And we kiss and W/E outside of school, but past couple of days we have been doing little kisses after 4th. we both feel kinda uncomfortable cause all my friends go AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW really loudly n obviously when we do and its really annoying! i've told them to stop but they dont! have can i make them?! i rate ^^

You can be like "grow the fuck up. your actinglike it's such a big deal that i'm kissing my boyfriend.it's annoying and i'de like for you to stop!!!" That outa shut there annoyin asses up.

**PIXIE**

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hi, ive been looking through people's advice column and i noticed there was like moving piks and images on their column. i wa wondering, how do u that.
plze help
xxx

um i just have a movin fairey. All i did was save a the picture and put it on my column.you have to browse websites that give that kinda of stuff away for free.

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What is herpes?
I've heard of it but I never really knew what it was;
and how do you get it?

Herpes is a ssexualy transmited dieses. STD. and you get it from sexual contact. or also form unprotected oral sex. heres appears as sore like pimples on the genital area.herpes are uncuriable. you can't just pop a pill and it'll be gone. you cantake pills though to stop the breakouts but you'll still have herpes.

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i am 14 {15 in two days} and in like a month i am going to have a baby. my mom says i can stay with her for the 1 10 months but then i have to move .
i dont kno wat to do!? i have no place to stay and my boyfriend wants no part of this because i told him i didnt kno if he was the father because i am an under age stripper. my mom dosent kno that either. the stripping pass like 150 an night and i dont want to quit

help me please!!

wow. I'm really trying to find something to say and this really got me stomp. So this is what i think. Your moms on the wrong. Your a minor with a child. You can't legally do alot of the things that a person who's at a legal age can. Your almost 15.Your not old enough to get a job at mcdonalds.you have to be 16. and your boyfriend he shouldn't think that your like that just because you said you didn'tknow if hewas the father. i mean he should atleast have faith in the fact that, that child growing in your stomach is his. personaly if i were you i would try to see if i can live with another relative for the time being. Or you can wave the fact in your mothers face that your a minor with a child. and she can't just put you on the street and risk indangering the child life and yours.And you should really stop stripping. it might pay wellbut it ell only lead to a miserable life
( trust me i know first hand about this).

I hoped i helped

*PIXIE*

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