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straight- or bi?
I am 15/f and I haven't had a crush in 2 years! Lately, I've been thinking, and I don't know if I am bi or straight! I want to be straight ..because everyone else is..and because it seems like the right way to live..but then my mind tells me that I could be bi..I am sooo CONFUSED! I really don't know what to do because I can't tell anyone! I mostly have girl-friends but I've never been attracted to any of them..sometime's I look at their butts and boobs..(but isn't that a normal thing that girls usually notice about eachother??) I am attracted to guys..sometimes when I saw a hot guy, I stare and tell my friends "Wow he's hot!" I'd like to think I'm straight but my mind keeps telling me I'm bi! I'm so confused!
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My theory is that no1 is 100% str8... U'll go in2 a changing room and u'll see a woman just glance at another and they're OBVIOUSLY thinking "how come she's got bigger boobs than me.."
Even my dad looks at guys and says "god he's well hung"... it doesn't doesn't mean he's gay... coz he's married 2 like... 5 women.
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heres wut u do... go f a girl and then f a guy.... you you liked both than ur bi
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Chances are you're just bi-curious - all teens are. The easiest way to figure out whether you're actually bisexual or not is whether or not you would do anything sexual with a girl. If the answer is no, you're just bi-curious. Nobody is 100% straight, so don't worry about it.
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when you're 15 it's not unusual to look at other girls like that. It doesn't mean you're bisexual. Maybe you should stop worrying so much. Being confused it usually part of being a teenager, get used to it. And geez don't randomly make out with people either!! That's a great way to get cold sores or Mono. You people are nuts.
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Ok...let me see. You didn'tmention anything about being attracted by girls. you just said thatyou look at there butts and boobs. Theres nothing wrong with that and you can't just think you bi you have to know. I just think your confussed because you don't know what your sexual oreinatation is. I think that maybe your stright. Your just thinking that your bi.I used to be like that too.But iwas never attracted to girls.Sostop worrieing your stright.
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Go up to one of your best friends and randomly start making out. If you dont like it, you're not bi.
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Here is a way to tell if you are bi...would you ever make-out with your best girl friend? If yes, then you are bi...but if not then you are as straight as a line. Hope I helped. RaTe Me!! ~maddie
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find a bi chick...make out with her...maybe a lil more...and then find a guy...and do the same...if you like it with the girl and the guy your bi...if you like it with only the girl your prolly les and if you only like it with the guy then your straight...you gotta experiment a lil...thats the only way you will kno for sure
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If I'm reading this right, you think you may be bi because you haven't had a crush in 2 years? That my dear, is bullshit. You are attracted to men. You have looked at your friends' butts and boobs, and you know they have looked at yours. At your age girls do that just to compare growth. This is automatic and you have no control over it. Do you want to grab one of your friends' boobs or butts and put your fingers in unmentionable places and have them do the same to you? If not, you are not bi. This just means you are growing up and becoming more picky in you taste of men. Little girls fall half in love with every cute face or lopsided smile. A young woman knows there is more to a boy than this. You just haven't found anyone worthy or you yet. Relax, it will happen when it happens.
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Yeah its perfectly normal for girls to look at other girls when they're straight, the difference is when you're actually ATTRACTED to them. It sounds to me as if you're just going through a confusing phase in your life and maybe a major reason for why you're thinking like this is because you haven't had a crush in so long and therefore you think there's something wrong. And there isn't. This probably isn't much help but time will sort all this out. You'll work through this in your own time and the time will come when you really understand your sexuality- promise!! Good luck
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i think you are straight... yes it is normal to look at other girls "parts" because you are looking at your compatition! lol i am 14 and i haven't had a boyfriend for the last 3 years... people ask me out yes.. but i always turn them down so it is okay if you didn't have a crush in a long time... and being attracted to girls isn't something you can do .. it is in your genes ... so you can't help even if you are attracted... plus if you are not attracted to girls then your deffidently not bi... so don't worry!!! </3 best of luck hunny!
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I think that is NOT an uncommon thing. I think almost every girl goes through that some time in their life. if u really strongly believe that u r straight, then keep saying that to yourself and telling your self obvious reasons why you are straight. It's okay to think that a girl is pretty, even if you are a girl yourself. It's natural. Oh, and don't be ashamed about your sexuality. I, for one, really dont caare if people are bi, straight, gay, or attracted to COWS as long as they are nice and not trying to force other people to b like them. i hope i helpd!!! Good luck!! :D
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ok well just be wat your cmofrotable with dont be something your not and be confident dont hide if your lesbian then just be open about it and if your straight thats kool too just be confident and do what you think is right.good luck!
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