Hey so the names Jenna ... i can help with pretty much everything...I'm a recovering anorexic, and a survivor of an abusive realtionship ... um yeah... so ask away ... but I have a tendancy to TELL THE TRUTH... so if you don't want to hear it ... don't ask ...
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I just saw "Pride & Prejudice" with Keira Knightley and Matthew MacFayden, and it was delightful. I loved it, and now I'm halfway through the novel
In your opinion, why is P&P so popular? What do you think is so appealing about it?
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It appeals ( at least to me) because of the timeless romanticism... it also teaches an important lesson ( cliche... i know ... but thats the truth) Its also expertly written and just a fansastic book
enjoy it !
-Pheobe-
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one of my abercrombie skirts keep shrinking,and when I mean shrinking i mean getting shorter. The skirt isnt hemmed at the bottom. Any suggestions on washing it? (link)
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wash it in cold water in the machine then air dry it
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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My 12th year solor for dance class is coming up. I take tap and jazz. Are there any really cute songs that would be good for either one of them? I want something a little fastpaced. I'm 14 so I want something not too child-ish. (link)
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For my senior solo i did "all that Jazz" from the movie Chicago
It was a tap dance with a little jazz in the begining ... It wasn't "fast paced"
but its not "slow" either ... and its ceritanly not childish
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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i just got some wedges. the kind with the ribbon that you tie up the leg. i was just wondering, should the bow (after you tie it) go in the front or back of your leg? thanks. (link)
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You can tie it either way ... I happen to think it looks better in tha back though ... the front tends to look gaudy and cheesy.
*Hope this Helped*
-Pheobe-
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is a tomato a fruit or veggie i need to know now !!!! (link)
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FRUIT!!! ( i know its weird but fruits have seeds and a tomato has seeds therefore classifing it as a friut)
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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I'll get to the point. when i was 6 & 11 i was rapped.Im 14 now but whenever im with my boyfriend and were kissing or somthing ill start screaming and hell be all scared that im dieing or somthing...what should i do? (link)
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It just means that your not ready for that step. Wounds take a long time to heal...just tell him that you have reasons and yout not ready to take that step yet. If he loves you ... (and it sounds like he most deffinatly cares about you) then he wont need a reason and he'll just accept it for what it is.
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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im really depressed and i take medication but still suicidal and i cut
i know cutting is bad and can kill you but i really want to stop
ive asked other people who have cutted but their advise wasnt so great
i just want to ask how can i stop?? (link)
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cutting is not an addiction... its psychological... so theoriticaly you can stop when ever you want ...and the fact that you wanted to ask a question an how to stop shows that you are ready.
If your cutting because you want to feel like you have control over the pain in your life (which is what this sounds like) than you should put rubber bands on your wrists and snap them when you want to cut.
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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Ok, my friend who doesnt have an account on here needs some help and wanted me to ask this for her. She cuts, and she really wants to stop, but she cant. I really want her to stop too, shes a GREAT person, but ya, please tell me so I can tell her, how does she stop? (link)
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cutting is not an addiction... its psychological... she can theoriticaly stop when ever she wants ...and the fact that she wanted to ask a question an how to stop shows that she is ready.
If shes cutting because she want to feel like she has control over the pain in her life (which is what this sounds like) than she should put rubber bands on her wrists and snap them when she wants to cut.
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe_
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heyy.. so i have this friend.. and everyone makes fun of her because she has a little mustache.. she asked me for advice but i dont know what to say.. she wanted to know what to use to get rid of it! wax just doesnt really work for her.. do you have any other suggestions? i give 5's! (link)
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bleach ;)... they sell products espically for this problem in local pharmacys ...
*hope I hepled*
-Pheobe-
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let me explain...
person"A" has mono.
person"B" madeout with person "A".
person"B" madeout with person "C" minutes later.
is it possible for person "C" to get mono??
*-thanks
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yup... sorry
-Pheobe-
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in spanish, what does papi chulo mean?
i know what papi means but i dont know about papi chulo. please dont like this up on an online translator becuase i dont want the spain language i want the puertorican language because im puertorican (link)
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I think it means "cute" (or well good looking) boyfriend
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Does Anyone Know Any Good Myspace Graphic Sites?? (link)
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www.myspacetoolbox.com
*hope I helped*
*Pheobe*
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my teeth are only yellow from not brushing right or enough. do you think professional bleaching actually works? my mom says my teeth are too crappy to fix like that is posibble. bleaching is for yellow teeth duh (link)
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yeah i had my teeth bleached cause i was an avid coffee drinker and my teeth got stained, it worked wonders ... but its expensive so you better brush right after 'cause otherwise your teeth will go right back to the way they were and you will have wassted all that $
*hope that helped*
-Pheobe-
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my boyfriend asked me to have sex and I love him and i know iam ready but the thing is what should I tell my mom? (link)
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Well that depends on if your mom will accept it or not. Having sex is completly youur decesion and there is nothing she can do to stop it. By telling her, its quite possible that she will feel more comfortable with you having sex simply because she won't feel like you were sneaky and went around her. But if you feel like, (or know) that she won't support you than i'd advise you not to tell her, because like i said before its your decision. And if she won't support you then she will probably do everything in her power to prevent it.
All in all your best bet would be to tell her afterwards... sit her down and calmy explain that you are mature enough for sex and that you love your boyfriend. (ect...)
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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if a guy older than you who you like is pressuring you to have sex or oral sex and you are not going out and are only friends is he only in it for sex? btw im 13 hes 16 (link)
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YES!!! don't do it! The age thing is not such a big deal but sex of any sort should be for two people who are in love...
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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where can you get good myspace layouts, like, the cute black and white ones with pictures of little kids and whatnot? i cant find anyyy
thanks ___xo*briana (link)
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go to www.myspacetoolbox.com
you can get a buch there ...
*hope this helped*
-Pheobe-
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Hello, i'm new to here...
well I've been an airline pilot for 2 years and me and my girlfriend are talking about marriage and stuff. Generally speaking she is pretty attractive and hot...but if we get married, I will always think that she will cheat behind my back when I'm off to work...(usually for a few days)
What should I do? I'm not good at love relationship at all, i mean I can fly a big jet, but hey, i'm not good at this kind of stuff... (link)
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Ok... if she agreed to marry you then she is agreeing to be faithful as well. It sounds like she loves you, and if she hasn't cheated on you yet, its doesnt sound like she will. Its natural to be parinoid, but don't let it get the best of you, and end the relationship because of something you think could happen.
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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It's almost my boyfriend and I's 2 month anniversary... do I get him something or just ignore it? If I should get him something what should it be? (link)
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If you feel like you should get him something then go for it ... but it shouldnt be anything big, just something cute and maybe sentimintal.
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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im m 17 and im going out with a girl who is 15 we have been going out 5 months 18 days now and we use to spend every minute we could together and we both say we love eachother alot (which i am sure i do) but recently shes been wanting more time with her friends but thats not wat bothers me, wat bothers me is that now even when i make plans with her, l8r on if her friends make plans with her shell jsut skip mine and her plans and jsut go off with her friends, ive talked to her about it last night and i believed everything was alright again she said she wanted to c me i said i wanted to c her so i told her not to make plans for sunday cause wed do something she said ok then she had to go so she said shed call me today(saturday), but it seems she didnt call me and she has gone off with her friends again, and she has plans with her friends tomorrow aswell totally making me feel insignificant compared to her friends like she has mostly this week. earlier on in the week i was talking to her and she could come up with anything to say all she said was "then y dont u just dump me, i dont want break up but if its really that bad then....?, i need to know is she leading me on?, is this a test?, she says she loves me still but how do i know shes telling the truth?, wat do i do? i love her so much but i dont know how much of this i can take, wat should i do? (link)
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i know 2 years may not seem like the biggest age difference but at this point there is a huge difference in maturity levels. Think about when you were 15, you weren't lookin for any type of serious relationship, you wanted to spend time with friends, where as now that your older, you want someone closer, who you can spend more time with. To really get to the point, i don't think she is leading you on, or giving you a test. I think for the most part she doens't even realize how much she is hurting you. You both have entirely different ideas of what love is; and how you want to spend you time. Just give her some space. If she really does love you, she'll realize it and come around. If not, well then it just isn't meant to be...
GOOD LUCK!!
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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ok here's the deal.......me and my boyfriend have bin going out for 5 months now and it would have bin 6 if we hadn't we hadnt bin waiting to make sure thats what we wanted and going out with the same guy for that long is a recorde for me lol anyways i know i'm totally and completly in love.....my question is......am i stupid to think this guy is the one......some people say i am because i'm only seventeen but my mom described to me when she met my dad she just knew and thats how i feel like i just know he's the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with......what do you think?
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Of course you can be in love after only 5 months ... and it is true that when you find that " one person" often you can feel it , you just know ... but that doesnt mean you should rush into anything... not that it sounds like you are going to ... or would ... but being in love tends to lead us to do stupid things ... take it slow ... and good luck !
*hope I helped*
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