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in love
ok here's the deal.......me and my boyfriend have bin going out for 5 months now and it would have bin 6 if we hadn't we hadnt bin waiting to make sure thats what we wanted and going out with the same guy for that long is a recorde for me lol anyways i know i'm totally and completly in love.....my question is......am i stupid to think this guy is the one......some people say i am because i'm only seventeen but my mom described to me when she met my dad she just knew and thats how i feel like i just know he's the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with......what do you think?
thanks in advance
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I'm not sure, you could be in love but don't go off and run away together or have sex or anything. You should tell him you love him but don't say you want to spend the rest of you life with this guy, a lot could go wrong. Sorry to be so negative, but keep me updated with this whole thing!
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No it's not stupid at all.
When I first met my boyfriend I was the same age as you are now. We've been together now nearly 3 years and live together and he and I both know we want to be together for the rest of our lives. We just couldn't bear to be without each other now!
We're taught from a young age that love is something that can't happen until you are older but the fact is it's merely rare, not impossible.
The only word of advice I can give is not to give up too easily. So many couples break up these days because things get tough and they give up. Because you're still quite young you will have a LOT to face with each other and you need to stay strong through it. Like it or not, you still have growing up to do and I expect he has as well. So just be careful not to let things get to you too much and to make sure you work through them as carefully as you can. Don't worry, if you really love each other, you'll be just fine.
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If this is the longest you've ever gone out with a guy, it could be a specific feeling that comes with this duration of a relationship. Talk to him about it if you want. But honestly, a teenage guy doesn't have marriage on his mind.
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He could well be 'the one'. Only you can decide. You did wait to go out with him and still wanted to. Give it some more time if you're not sure. I met my husband when I was 19 and we've now been married for nearly 26 years, I fell for him the moment I saw him and have never changed my mind, so it can work. Go with how you feel and see how things turn out, just don't rush into anything, you're still young. Hope that helps.
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Think what you want to think. Who cares what others think about it? If you feel like he is "the one" then don't worry about other people thinking that is stupid.
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Nobody can tell you that he isn't the one. You are seventeen, you never know. Just becuase you know that he is the guy, that should be enough. If you feel that he is right, suck it up, and do your best to keep it that way. Your mom was a smart person...just remember that even if he isn't the one, your guy is out there somewhere....okay? I hope that I helped, and remember that my ibox is always poen. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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Of course you can be in love after only 5 months ... and it is true that when you find that " one person" often you can feel it , you just know ... but that doesnt mean you should rush into anything... not that it sounds like you are going to ... or would ... but being in love tends to lead us to do stupid things ... take it slow ... and good luck !
*hope I helped*
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