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My name is "Lucy" Of course that isn't my real name.
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Yes I really am 17 XD was just wondering if doing that would make you pregnant an lose your virginity O_o because I read a column on here says just letting it touch you pretty much means you can get pregnant an lose your virginity... ( I really dunno if I answered back to you correctly, first time on this site) X-x so sorry if I posted this wrong... this is just replying back to Lucy~ (link)
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Welcome to Advicenators!
I was just wondering, That's why I asked.
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Always been wondering this...I'm 17 an my boyfriend an I have been playing ^^'...he's never put himself inside of me only touched the top area of my private once but told him to stop after that...X-x (not uset to talking about this stuff) so sorry if I'm being a lil blunt with information...O_o... just was wondering if only letting him rub it lightly gets you pregnant =O (link)
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No
You can only get pregnant if you have sex and sperm enters the vagina.
Are you sure you are 17....??
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how did you meet? i'm just curious to see what's out there. (link)
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Sometimes love is right under your eye...
As I met my husband 4 years after I had graduated High School.
He was in town visiting his cousin and I happened to run into him 3 days before he was to go back home which was out of state. From there on out we started talking and we hit it off.
We talked for a month and then he asked me out and it was a happy successful long relationship that became a marriage.
Turns out later I learn that we both attended the same summer camp as kids, We both went to the same middle school...and the odds we both had the same classes.
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sorry to ask this but ya so i gave head today and i swallowed his sperm and like an hour after i did that i was wondering what happens to it when it get swallowed? (link)
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It just sit in your stomach so basically nothing happens.
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Hello >.< This will be a long story..Please read though .< (link)
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No
Exes say a lot of things to get the current spouse jealous, Never forget she is an "EX". Sometimes people will say and do whatever it takes to not see their ex happy..Therefore your boyfriends ex is telling you all kinds of craziness. She may seem nice...but her actions say otherwise.
Ignore her, Ignore her family, Ignore her Dad
This is about YOU and your BOYFRIEND, This doesn't have anything to do with the family. If they harass you and your boyfriend then you get the proof and go to the police and let them handle it. Ignore them
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Iv been with my common law wife for 6 years and sex life was good untill she turned 34 and now I don't have any sex with her I'm 39 and we should be in our prime still her sex drive is none mine on the other hand is very. High when I ask her what's. Our problem she explains it hurts when we have sex .I'm not no huge man down there I would say average 7 and a half or so but I remember when we did have sex she would bleed sometimes its been way over a year now and lotion and my hand gets boring what am I to do (link)
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Talk to your wife, Ask her how it hurts and try to figure out ways to make sex better for both you and her.
Have you tried using lubricant?...Lubricant is supposed to help sex be more pleasurable.
If you have, She might want to try to make an appointment with her Gynecologist.
If you two have been getting at each other roughly sometimes that can cause a woman to experience pain in their abdominal and vaginal area.
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Ok the LOVE OF MY LIFE is in prison for 7 freaking years! He really does care about me but thats so long! I love him but were in two tottally differents worlds ritte now. What should I do?? (link)
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The best thing to do is move on, 7 years is a VERY long time to wait for someone. Also, If this person is above the age of 18, They will have a hell of a time at success. If you two are in completely different worlds don't mess yours up by holding yourself back. Move on and find someone who will be right for you and support you in the way you deserve.
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ooook! so if my boyfriend and i havent had sex for a few weeks because i was scared i was pregent, but i had my period yesterday.. is there a chance im pregnant? because ive read that if you have your period then your good but ive also read that some women still had there period even though they were prego?!! (link)
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A woman can become pregnant at any time, Whether they are on their period, On birth control or even used a condom.
It's possible you could be pregnant, However seeing you've gotten your period it's not likely. Maybe you should seek birth control, It's better to be safe then sorry right? Birth control and condoms are about as safe as your going to get.
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Hey everyone. im evan and im 15. i have melanoma skin cancer and my 17 year old brother makes fun of me all the time. he physically hurts me (punches me in the chest and in the junk) and calls me names like "mole" or "cancer boy." hes always trying to put me down or hurt me in some way. we've never gotten along but since my diagnosis its only gotten worse.
This is also kind of a seperate question but some of my friends treat me different like its some contagious disease that they can catch if they get to close to me. What can i do to get them to treat me like they used to?
And most importantly what can i do to get my brother to knock it off and treat me with respect? I tell my parents but they dont think mitch could be like that. they think hes perfect and im the problem. (link)
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Sit down and talk to your brother, Explain to him that you are going through a hard time right now in your life and you need his support.
If this isn't possible to do, Then sit down with your parents and your brother and explain it. Approach it in a way (Mom, Dad..I have something I really need to tell the family) Sometimes people don't realize how important something is until they hear it. Your brother has no right treating you like this, It's wrong. I would also show your parents any proof of your brother hurting you. If you think it would be easier on you maybe you can even write your brother a letter. However, If you do try to make it straight forward on how it has effect on you. Don't swear, Don't use anger..Just write it calmly.
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Is it normal for when my male cousin stays the night and we go to sleep on the bed that we made that I get a boner? (link)
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Why the hell are you sleeping with your cousin?...
No it's not normal, It's disgusting and WRONG
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im 13 (not on the pill btw) and my bf and i didnt have a condom so we didnt do it. butttt he did stick it in me as far as he could with JUST his briefs on... and he didnt cum but he had earlier tht day in his briefs. could sperm have gotten through the briefs and gotten me pregnant anyway????? im desperate to know!! and if we actually did have sex and used a condom+he pulled out+it only lasted like 10 min, am I safe??? (link)
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ALL it takes is ONE time, You don't have to ejaculate to become pregnant. You can become pregnant just by pre-cum and most men are not aware when this happens.
If you DON'T want to become pregnant, USE A CONDOM
If you don't have a condom, Then you are better off not having sex. At 13, You should not be having sex anyway you are two young. Again, All it takes is ONE time. If you are on the pill and you have unprotected sex, That doesn't make you 100% safe. Yes, You can still get pregnant while on the pill or any birth control for this matter. Just because your boyfriend didn't ejaculate doesn't mean you are out of the closet.
That was not very smart at all, Next time use a condom and also you might want to look into birth control. NEVER EVER have sex without a condom you are too damn young to be having babies.
Also, From a lot of peoples perspective...You had sex. Next time be smart not stupid
EDIT: This was just honesty, If you can't handle someone's criticism then again use your head next time. You shouldn't be having sex until you are more educated about it anyway.
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ok so im 14 female and i have pimples all over my chin, some on my forehead, and cheeks. i know every teen has acne but it sucks! my acne has never been horrible but i just broke out bad for some reason. i've tried skin essentials, clearasil, mint julip masks, some mary-kay acne stuff, campho-phenique, i wanted to do skin ID but i can only get it online and you have to sign up for a month thing and ugh! point is i can't do it. i also use toner but that didn't do anything and using all this stuff dried out my skin so now i have to put moisturiser on my face. i haven't tried proactive yet but i heard it dries out your skin. i REALLY don't want to start the new school year with acne! please help me. i don't know what products to use that will clear up my acne but not dry out my skin ???? thank you so much for any helpful answers :) (link)
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Have you tried Proactive? I heard a lot of great things about it. I recommend you try it out
http://www.proactiv.com/index.php?uci=ous111&refcd=GO003483s_proactive&tsacr=GO5474306298&s_kwcid=TC|7754|proactive||S|e|5474306298&gclid=CKPn4uKX5aICFcl25Qod7TEJxw
It is the new "stuff" now
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I am wanting to get a bear that costs $10, and a Woody outfit (from Toy Story) that costs $15. This should all be $25 plus tax, but I was wondering if there were any extra fees with it? Like does it cost extra money to stuff the bear? I don't plan on buying other clothes, accessories, or getting a voice chip or anything. Just those two things. :) Thanks! (link)
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Hi :)
Build a Bear is a process, They charge for the bear which when you buy it it's not yet stuffed. They charge for the clothing yes, However if you wanted to add sound effects..They charge for that as well. The last time I went to build a bear they did not charge me for stuffing the bear because the cost for the bear itself including stuffing it.
Good luck! Happy Bear hunting
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does this work?
is it good?
is better then not haveing them at all?
can you get hurt?
how does it work? (link)
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Anything is possible but I don't recommend doing it
My Opinion...
It isn't good, Friends with benefits can stir up mixed feelings, Confusion, Betrayal, Regrets and so on.
I suppose it's better, However it's a big risk taker
Yes you could get hurt, It works the same way relationships do only it's more likely to get hurt because the feelings were never there...
I wouldn't do it, I would at least be in a relationship. Don't screw up your friendship with someone by doing something stupid
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im a guy, does it mean im gay if ive tasted my own jizz b4? (link)
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No
Gay is if you are interested in men
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ive been with this person for 3 years and im not his gurlfriend we see each other weekly. even thought were together we not in a sirious relation ship i have avoided his phone call and will continue to do so until i got great advice or he shows up at my door which i dought he doesncuz he so into himself (link)
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If you have been together with someone for 3 years and they won't give you the titled "Girlfriend" Then they don't deserve you.
3 years is along time to stay with someone who doesn't care to call it a relationship, This guy sounds like a real jerk and if it has been 3 years and you aren't his girlfriend then Hun ...you might never really get that title. You need to move on because you deserve better. A guy that truly appreciates you will gladly label you as his girlfriend, Will want to spend time with you.
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hey my name is evan im 15/m
girls i just want to know why do you hit guys in the junk? im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys. i see no reason for it. it makes us feel sick. and it hurts like hell. is it funny to you to see us men in pain or hear our voices crack and get high from it? or make us cry? why would you do that to people? i would never hit a girl so why would you hit me? you have no idea how much it hurts to get punched in the nuts. do u think that just because im a man i deserve to be in that much pain? (link)
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Evan,
Some woman get a rise out of watching men scream in pain.
From now on I would avoid it (That is if you can) If you hang around people that enjoy violence...Stay away from them.
A good hit can cause serious damage and infertility. If this happens again, See a doctor.
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14 years old/ male
I'm from Lebanon
My Bestfriend was mocking me at class. I got mad because i never expected my friend to hurt me as such. I got mad, stood up, and attacked him. Plus, I insulted him in front of the class and told if he were a man to stand up in front of me so he got scared! Now, I'm telling him i'm sorry but he's not forgiving me. His mom talked to me but that's not helping. He keeps on insulting me via Facebook. Moreover, our fiendship was extremely tight... Should I keep on trying to regain the friendship or should i let it go? (link)
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Has this recently happened?
Your friend might need his space, He might still be angry and there is obviously a lot of tension going around.
Sometimes people don't come around at all, You said you were sorry did you say it securely?..If you did then I would wait a little while before you approach your friend again. If your friend decides not to come around then maybe it would be best if you decided to go your separate ways. Every relationship has their fights but depending on the situation and how bad it was...Sometimes sorry just doesn't cut it. Try to talk to your friend after he cools off.
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but i dont ppl to think im gay or bisexual and treat me different (link)
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This is where you need to come to make peace with yourself, There are judgmental people everywhere. The first step towards knowing your sexuality, Is excepting the possibilities.
There are few things you could do;
1. You could continue to date girls
2. Try to date both guys and girls
Remember, It is probably just curiosity getting the best of you, Despite us all admitting the problem we all go through it at some point in our lives. When I was teenager, I also had interest in girls but in time I learned that I wasn't bisexual, Gay, Lesbian I am indeed straight.
The world is full of people that will always think differently, You could be straight and dating a female and still there will always be someone who disagrees. You just need to learn to ignore people, Life is so much easier when you just ignore idiots like that. Don't be afraid to express yourself.
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do guys pms??? (link)
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No, Guys go through puberty but they do not pms.
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