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Hello, My name is Megan, and I am a splendid listener. Have you ever a problem, IM me, I'm always on, or comment to one of my posts. I'm a really nice girl, and get along well with others.
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Occupation: Sophomore
Age: 15
AIM: FLCsibling
Yahoo: jade_elven_beauty
Member Since: August 8, 2004
Answers: 77
Last Update: March 9, 2005
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SammyPie
so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much! (link)
Lol. It means he wants you to go deeper. He likes it. You probably did it well...?


I have this friend and him and i are real close. Like good friends you know and i dont want to do anything to ruin it and i dont think he does either. Everytime i talk to him he seems like he wants to tell me something but i cant quite figure it out. Everytime i talk to him i want to shout I LOVE YOU to him a million times for no reason. I dont think i have feelings like "relationship" wise but then again i love him so much. I have no clue on how i am feeling or what he needs to tell me. what should i do?
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Tell him how you feel.


Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch (link)
Lol, you basically answered your own question. Get to know him better, hang out with him more.


im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica (link)
Are you CRAZY? You're an inch shorter than me and weigh 50 lbs less then me. Thats nasty. You need to eat, because if you go below 90lbs, you're gunna face anerexia. Eat some food.



okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???



mods please DONT delete pleasee (link)
Aw. You probably feel bad because they're your 2 best friends, who you most likely spend a lot of time with, now that they're dateing, they probably will hang out with eachother, more then with you. You're probably feeling left out?


Good luck!


-Megan Kristine-


this is long but i'll give u the highest rateing just plz answer..ok i lived w/ my grandparents my
whole life untill my grandfather died and so now i'm liven w/ my aunt uncle and cousin.well i had to move in a diff house and go to a diff school where i didnt kno n e one. and this was just a few monthes ago.well my aunt and i have always had a really good relationship till i moved in here but a few things happened and she didnt trust me n e more.i have never had to do and house work in my life till i moved in here.now she exspects me to do chores every day..its really hard for me to do this and her daughter has done then her whole life and my aunt is always sayin how she does her chores and i dont and i feel really left out..u no i dont feel like part of the family.she knos this and that i fell that she treats her daughter better i tell her that all the time.she is always sayin how my cousin gets good grades and is a really good kid...i have no clue wat to say to her that will make her understand how i feel...plz help me.. (link)
Well, you have to look at it from your aunts point of veiw. You did something to lose her trust, so do something. (Like try hard in school and do your chores) That will show you can be trusted. As for the treating your cousin better....Well, she IS her daughter...I don't really know what to say to that, but You need to talk about it, but be easy with it because it is a testy subject. Good luck!



-Megan Kristine-


what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense (link)
Try Herbal Essensess Frizz Controll, it works great, and it dosn't cost you an arm and a leg. Look for it at your local K-mart/wal*mart/target stores.



~Megan Kristine~


about a month or 2 ago, i tripped and fell and a nail sliced my leg all the way down...(sorry if that is gross) and now i have this really ugly scar...is there anyway to get rid of it? thanks! ill rate you either a 4 or 5!! (link)
Oh, I've read about how to get rid of scars, (Or atleast hide them untill they naturaly disappere) What you need to do is by some heavy-duty conceler, rub it over the scar, and blend it into your skin, just like you would with puting it on your face, brush powder over it, and that scar should disappere! It works with this huge nasty scar I have on my hand, from when I was in 6th grade! (Now in tenth grade.) Hope I helped!


~Megan Kristine~


My parents just told me they might be getting a divorce. I'm devistated. If they got a divorce, nothing would ever be the same again. Help! (link)
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Divore is such a harsh word. :-(. Perhaps it is the best thing for your family....Like, if your parents fight a lot, it isn't the best thing for you to go through, maybe seeing your father like mondays, wendays, and fridays would be better,(Or mother) that way, you'd still get to see them, without the bikkering going on. I would have a sit down converstaion with both parents and ask them if they're sure they want to go through with it, and ask them what's going to happen in your life. Make sure you ask tons of questions, because they will help you deal with it better.

I'm sorry agian. I hope I helped.


~Megan Kristine~


okay... i babysit for 2 people in my community and i think i am pretty good at it... im 13/f btw... and i dont know how to tell other ppl that have kids that i can babysit or let them know... any suggestions of getting their attention or asking without being rude or anything? thx soo much!
aim sn- luvinmydancin
~*Beccah*~ (link)
This worked for me once, how about tacking signs on phone poles, or going to your local store/grocery store and post your info there, with the stores permission of course.


Hope I helped?


-Megan Kristine-


My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year? (link)
Eeek. I know how you feel. What you should do, is talk to them about it and ask them why the hell they're being jerks. If that dosn't work, ask a friend about it, and try to do some damage controll...Like if he says you're a lesbian or something, just be like "What are you talking about *Throw in a sassy laugh* I broke up with you because you told me you were starting to have feelings for guys.." And walk away. It's mean, but maybe it will give him a taste of his own medicine.


~Megan Kristine~


ok well theres this guy and we had a relationship 4 a lil while but it ended so we talked on occasion. now he only wants 2 hang out when my best friend is here. i asked if he likes her and he sayd no but it doesnt make sense then. then i thought it was 2 hook his firned up with her but his friend has a girlfriend, my friend says its 2 try 2 get me jealous but i dont no if thats it, wha do u think? (link)
I think he is trying to make you jealous. If he wants to come over your house just because she is there, then either he likes her or he is trying to make you jealous...I dunno if I really gave you any advice. Sorry. :(



Good Luck Dear.


~Megan Kristine~


hey guys! i got my hair chemically straightened with my cuzin back in march. my hair doesnt really dry straight from it though. its kinda wavy when it used to be loose curls. i still have to straighten it which used to take me an hour now its like 20 mins. but my cuzins hair dries straight .. mine doesnt. my hair took to the chemicals real fast so they didnt let it sit in my hair as long as they should have. ok well getting to the point.. i have to get my roots straightened again soon and i was wondering if i should say something to them and if so.. what should i say? (link)
I don't know if you should really say anything because there really isn't any need to piss them off, you don't want them messing up your hair agian, just make sure they leave the chemicals in your hair for the correct amount of time. Be like "I know my hair does things faster, but last time I got my hair done here, it didn't look how it was supposed to, so leave it in for the required amount of time please." Be very polite.


Helped?


~Megan Kristine~


Hi everyone says that i am really skiny well when i look at mysealf in the mirror i look really big i just quit cheerleading and i want to go on a easy excersice diet but also eat at the sam time.i just wish i could just be like i used to plz help raiderhater121 :(!!! (link)
Aww. :( It seems like you may have a self esteem issue maybe? You look at something beautiful, and see it in an ugly form. What you should do is look at your self in a good way, then you'll know what everyone means when they say you're skinny.


-Megan Kristine-


Ok...to start off, my b/f moved to Georgia back in July and now all his friends are calling me and wanting me to go places with them. And the thing is, they know that I still love my b/f. Me and my b/f still talk on the phone every night and he found out that his friends have been calling me and he got mad at me! When I can't help that they called me. But he wants me to tell them to leave me alone. But how do I say it nicely without hurting their feelings? They already know that I still love my b/f.Please help me..I don't know what to do. (link)
Well, how about something simple like "Hey, you know I'm still in love with my boyfriend, you're supposed to be his friends, not hitting on me, so please stop asking me out, I love him, not you guys, Sorry." That sounds a bit harsh, but you have to do it.

~Megan Kristine~


hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay? (link)
First, off. There is no way in hell you're Gay. Only men can be gay, you can be a lesbian. If you still look at guys and girls, then you're bi-sexual, meaning you like both. There is nothing wrong with that.


Hope I helped..




~Megan Kristine~


ok.. Ive been going out with this guy for a while and i just talked to his best friend and told me hes been cheating on this other girl with me.. I have heard her name b4 from his brother and i asked his best friend if that was the name and he said yeah, i really dont wanna lose him, but the bad part about it is i lost my virginity to him and he said he lost it to me, well his best friend told me out of the blue that he wasnt a virgin.. I don't know what to do, i actually fell for him and i know he is going to give me an excuse or make up a lie when i go and try to break up with him !! I dont know what to do!!!I will rate 5's for the effort!!! (link)
Check this out. Make sure his friend isn't lieing, if he is telling the truth, dump the loser on the spot. If he breaks up with the other girl, for you, don't stay with him. Dump him, because if he would cheat on her, he'd cheat on you.

~Megan Kristine~


Hey I want to loose 100 pounds in 1 year! Thats my goal. Anyways. What are some excersizes i can do and how often,how long and ect to do them. What food do i eat? And do you have any sites? That can help me. Thank you so much i will rate everyone a 5 if you help! Ill even rate you if you didnt help because you tried lol. (link)
Well,I hope you are over 200lbs, because loseing 100 pounds if you're lower than that is wrong...anyways, try doing some crunches to make the belly flab go away, also try leg jacks. (Stand strait, and raise you leg to the side up and down, then swith the leg, do it over.)Foods are pretty simple, don't anything think high in sodium (salt) Cholesteral, and carbs. Those are what add up the pounds. As do things high is sugar, and fat. Try snacking on celery insted of chips, Carrot sticks instead of candy, and rice cakes (regular) instead of a hamburger. It may seem rough now, but in a year or so, i'm sure you'll look even better then you probably look now!

~Megan Kristine~


Ok...
I am 13 years old and i look 17
boys like my body i hate it
i dress like a guy and guys (i talk to) think its hott


am i weird or what? (link)
No....It's how you are...The way you are, isn't weird, unique is more the word...




To be completly honest and blunt, I don't believe this should have been in an advice catorgorie...for one...you wern't asking us for advice, you were asking if what we pictured you looking like was weird, which i'm sure you're not....So...next time, ask an acuall advice question, alright?


About the guys thinking you're hott...oh well, deal with it, you can't tell me you don't like guys fawning over you.


I feel like you're going to rate me low....oh well. I said what I thought. :/.

~Megan Kristine~


I really need help. Does anyone have a good idea on wear to put eyeshawdow on yor eyelid without making it too noticeable? Thanks! (link)
The point of eyeshadow is to make your eyes pop out. So, I've not really a good sugestion for that, perhaps using a light color, right over your lid that covers your eye ball, make it light, like a light light brown, maybe pink, or white.




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