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well im 15 and i dated this guy about a year ago and we broke up cuz he cheated on me. well not physically but he talked to sum girl over the phone told her he loved her and mad panns to hook up with her..while we were going out.(which never actually happened)..well its been about a year...we stayed friends but not very close..and he wants to go bac out...should i try again or let him go?..he broke my heart once do u think he wll do it again? is he telling th truth that he really care...or does he just want sex? why did he wit so long?...theres so much that i dont understand..help plez

umm if it is because of the sex..you should test him by..

-going out with him and waiting a while until u have sex..make him wait and see if he still sticks around if he doesnt- you know why he came back..

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hope i helped!! add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes! xOx

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Okay, so I'm relationship challenged. I've never had a real relationship and I'm 18. I actually just got kissed for the first time a month ago tomorrow. Well, the guy that kissed me is kind of confusing. I've liked him for a while and he seems to like me. Anyway, over spring break, I asked him to prom, even though I knew he wanted to ask another girl. He said he didn't know if he was going yet, but if he did, he'd definitely go with me. Well, he hadn't said anything about it for a long time, but we'd been hanging out a lot, so Friday I asked him if he'd decided whether or not he was going. He said he was leaning towards no, but he still hasn't decided. However, my friend said she heard that he asked another girl to prom on Thursday and she said no. I still like him, but I'm just confused. Why does he keep leading me on and giving me dumb excuses?

maybe he really likes you and is afraid he might lose you so he doesnt want to get to emotionaly attatched? or hes just a liar. lol whichever it is you should probably talk to him about either of them and tell him how u feel and make it clear you really like him..hope i hlped xOx

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Ever Since I started exerscising (about once a day for half an hour) I get really bad stomach aches in the afternoon. But only in the afternoon. I dont know why and this didnt happen before that.

i think it might be because you just started exercising..and your muscles arnt used to it..and the pain you feel it means that your muscles are hardening and the fat you have on your stomach or wherever your exercising is going away and muscle is taking its place..i wouldnt be too worried about it but if it doesnt stop after a while (usually it does because your muscles are used to it) then see a physicion about it.. p.s rate me xOx

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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?

i think you do..if you didnt you wouldnt spend your time thinking about him even when your with your boyfriend..he obviously meant something great you and you shouldnt let go of it..if hes able to make you feel this way even when hes not with you then you really like him and its obvious..get in contact with this guy because chances are he feels the same way you do..add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes xOx

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I am a mother of four and none of my children will eat vegetables or fruit. The oldest is 13 and the youngest 7. I fed them vegetables and fruit in baby food as yound children, but they just don't like it now. I was the same as a child and so I didn't push them. However, while they're not unhealthy, I'd like them to start eating at least a bit more healthily, what with all this stuff going around about overweight kids and cholestrol, etc etc etc. So, my question is: does anyone have any recipies or ideas to make fruit and vegetables tasty and fun?
Also, my thirteen-year-old just got braces and can't eat anything hard for a few days, so I was wondering if it would be safe for to eat baby food? I know it has nothing added to it but I was just wondering if it was OK for a 13 year old to eat that and only that (obviously with drinks, and different varieties of the food) for three or four days?
Also, my friend has suggested using baby food or vegetable pureè as pasta sauces. Do you think this would work?
Thanks,
-Mum-To-Four

umm well for fruits..if its hot where you live watermelon and juicy fruits like that are always refreshing..and for veggys..carrots are good with blue cheese..(weird, but its good) and you can put lettuce and raddish and little bite size tomatoes into salada..their really good and your kids wont know the difference..well hope i helped xOx

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14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??


-Anti-Hug Person

haha well you can let go of the un-normal theory..maybe your just closterphobic (i think thats how you spell it) where you dont like to be close to people..or theres another thing where you just dont like to hug people..its perfectly normal and common and you have nothing to worry about but if you would like to hug people and fit in then you should practice on bears (weird i kno but it helps!) and when you hug the bear think of something you really like and it makes you happy..same thing with humans when you hug them think of something happy! hope i helped..xox

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Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!!

umm well you should get some regular jeans..fold them in half at your knee area and cut a slit right there..then play with it a little so the "fluff" or the strings come out a little..and do the same thing at the pocket area and you should rub the knee area of the pants on a rug so they look warn out.. *hope i helped* xOx

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okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do?

plain and simple..- GET OVER IT - theres gonna be more guys out there and if this clown that cheated on you is able to do that..then you dont want anything to do with him anyways just forget he ever existed and the person you think is using you..he must be doing something to make you wonder if hes using you..so ask some of his friends to ask him how he feels about you and stuff like that and if it turns out that he is then just get over him too and the day you find someone that makes you real happy your gonna forget those 2 idiots ever existed :)! add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes!! xOx

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ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it?

well if theres truley nothing there anymore..but you continue to go out with him then your hurting him more then you would by just breaking it off with him..theres no point in pretending your happy because if your truley not people will notice..dont go out with him for what he gets you..go out with him if he brings you happiness and he obviously doesnt because your not happy..so i think you should just tell him straight up "you didnt do anything wrong..your great and i really like you but friendship wise..theres just nothing there anymore" and make sure you give him back the jewelery because if you kept it alot of people might say something like "oh yea but she keeps the jewlery..how nice" if your the type that cares about what people say then make sure he gets his jewelery back..hope i helped!! add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes!! xOx

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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?!

if it happens once or twice then you can call it a coincidence..but it seems to me that he does like you and you should check for other signs..check to see if hes looking at you but dont make it to obvious or you might make it seem like your the one looking at him! good luck! P.S ADD ME TO YOUR FREINDS LIST AND LET ME KNOW HOW IT GOES!! xOx

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I didn't want to go to school today in the 1st place bc I have too much on my mind (that they don't even anyways) and I was really tired bc of all the thinking, but I got ready and I got out late so I missed the bus, bc my mom was yelling at me bc my parents got into a fight bc I didn't want to get up in the 1st place and go to school. My dad had woken me up @ 6 and I have to be out by 6:25 and I missed the buss bc someone decided to move the soap and toothpaste and I had to run across the house and get it and ect. Now my mom wouldn't drive me to school and my dad already left for work..it's 7:50 AM and I am bored out of my mind till everyone comes home @ 2 PM...any suggestions?

whoaa nice day buddy..haha go pig out or head to the mall or something you usually dont get to do because of work..if your room is messy and ur mom has been bugging bugging you about it then go and clean it..that way she will take it easier on you when she gets home..well good luck ((hope i helped)) xOx

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When me and my guy do it i never orgasm in fact i have had 3 partners and never orgamsed but once..i love the guy im with now..how can i get calm and do this and do u know of any good positions..or anything that helped u ?

ummmm..you should probably find some exotic position something really exciting like on a chair or a table that will get you really horny..dont think so much about the orgasm it will happen on its own theres nothing you can do to make it happen exept enjoying yourself and your boyfriend..

other positions - try it on the floor like doggy style (lol) or 69..and if your really wild have him eat you out or something like that..

ADD ME TO YOUR FRIENDS LIST AND LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xOx

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ok, i like this guy. my friend IMed him and asked him what he liked about me, he told her i was nice and kind and then she tried to get him more into details and he avoided the subject and told her it's not nice to talk about people behind there backs. almost like he was sticking up for me. he used to IM me all the time but now he dosn't i IM him with a random question which ends up turning into a conversation. he recently told me his dad had cancer, and the wayhe told me i didnt get what he said at first, so i asked him if his dad had cancer. he said he had to go and said bye, and signed off. In school i notice whenever im hanging out with a guy he looks at me laugh or watever, same with my best friend.

he sit's closer to me at lunch and talks to one of the guys i hang out with. i've caught him looking at me and i look away. i've also caught his mum looking at me like he told her something. His mum and my mum talks.i've called him once and it's always akward we end up taling about more personal stuff on Instant message too. more about our families too! when ever i tell him something random, he points it outor when i say somthing he teases me or tries to prove he's right!we are kinda friends i mean we've kinda talked in school and when he looks at me i look away. when i didnt go to a dance he Imed me and asked me where i was? and also when i left home sick, he asked me where i went? and it was like he accually cared about where i was. i know most guys would tell the girl they like, but the last time he told a girl he liked her she didnt like him back and it broke his heart. i watched him say by day in pain!(i kinda felt bad and fell for him) when ever i enter class he stares at me but dosnt smile.once in class he said my name and waved, smiling. that has only happended once, besides him looking at me. my friend always chats with him, but im usually by him and i kinda see him looking at her and then me but i look away. i see fear and sadness in his eyes. like he's afraid to tell me.

does he like me?

confused girl*
AKA Chris

i definitly think he likes you..he is showing all the signs! i think hes scared to tell you because of what happend in the past..i think you should tell him the way you feel thats basically it..it seems you guys really like each other by all the stuff your saying and all i can say is go for it..you might end up seeing yourself in a beautiful relationship! add me to ur friends and let me know what happends!! xOx

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Hi.. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 8 months now. His birthdays coming up and i have no clue what to get him. Mine just past and he got my soo much nice stuff. Hes into skateboarding and stuff like that but im really having trouble on deciding what to buy. If you have any ideas.. Please let me know!! THANKS!

maybe you cant get him a new skateboard? along with other skateboard-acceserys..if thats to expensive go for a nice shirt..a cool belt and maybe some colone? idk typical guy stuff..well good luck xOx

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My mom wants me to be a total conformist: make-up, trendy clothes, dumb girl for a regular guy: you know. I really don't want to because it is so not me but she doesn't care. What do I do?
15/f

make it clear to your mom you are who you are..and no one is gonna change that..she cant tell you how to act/dress even if she is your mom.. that is one thing you have complete control over and if she decides this for you..its gonna catch up to you in the long run because shes gonna end up a control freak and on your wedding shes gonna be the one picking out the dresses and everything else..you should put a stop to it A.S.A.P before it gets worse! hope i hlped! xOx

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Hey guys...well my dad is really mean to me sometimes and I'm really tired of it. He'll be nice to me one minute and a total grouch to me the next. What should I do? I'll rate 5's to GOOD answers!

I'm 14/f

well maybe hes bi-polar? where he has sudden mood changes and he cant help it..take this into serious conideration because its a common disease but when he is a grouch try not to be obnoxious about it that will make him even madder..well hope i helped! add me to ur friends list and let me know what happends! xOx

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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend

umm straight up tell the bitch :) make it clear your boyfriend is YOURS..and she needs to keep her hands where you can see them..dont let no one mess with your man like that..hes yours for a reason and you need to make that clear to her and if shes able to do that to you then shes obviously not a good friend nor a good girlfriend..add me to your friends list and let me kno what happens!! xOx

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ok i have been going out with this guy for like 2 months and i really like him, but we havent kissed yet, should i make the first move? and he doesnt call me..what is up with that? i think he is just shy, and there is this other guy that told me he likes me and i kind of like him but i dont want to brake up with my boyrfriend for him what should i do?

get rid of your curren boyfriend..hes obviously not pleasing you so give him the ax ..your only gonna have so much chances to be happy so take every one that comes along..thats basically all i can say life is shorter then you can imagine so you should just grab every chance that might make you happy.. xOx

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ok so um me and my friend (we are both girls)have sleep overs all the time and when we do she always puts her leg on me and so i would like rub on her leg and she would rub my boob and when i am in the bed i feel good about it but then when i am out of the bed i hate myself for even thinking of stuff like that and during the day i mean i LOVE guys and then when she sleeps over its a whole different story.......so anyways can u help me i dont understand what is wrong with me!

have you ever heard the term bi-sexual? where you like girls and guys..dont hide your feeling if she turns you on..you shouldnt be ashamed of your sexual orienation its obvious you like her so just go for it..i have to warn you though many people will have something to say about it but just brush it off because if it makes you happy then thats all you have to worry about..let me know how it goes by adding me to your friends list!! xOx

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i've liked this guy for a while. lets call him bill. and we're pretty good friends. so lately i've been getting some signals from him. we took some pics with his head on mine and people made him put his arm around me but yet it stayed there until i got up to do something. then hes all "i miss u wanna see you" when he was gone. and lately we've been getting tormented cuz people think that we like each other. well i like him but that not the point lol. so lately hes been blowing me off not talking to me at school and barely online anymore. i'm so confused! please help! does he like me like everyone thinks he does or what?!?!!

i think he does like you..by the way he acts around you and stuff and hes scared you might not like him back so hes avoiding you or he just doesnt know what to do? how old are u guys..because if your young the kid probably doesnt know what to do and doesnt want to make the wrong move..you should definitly talk to him about it and get it out in the open..wheres the point in guessing and wondering? your not getting anywhere in the relationship with that so u might as well make the first move..let me know how it goes xOx

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