ok so um me and my friend (we are both girls)have sleep overs all the time and when we do she always puts her leg on me and so i would like rub on her leg and she would rub my boob and when i am in the bed i feel good about it but then when i am out of the bed i hate myself for even thinking of stuff like that and during the day i mean i LOVE guys and then when she sleeps over its a whole different story.......so anyways can u help me i dont understand what is wrong with me!
Lovely2 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 12:26 am: Theres nothing wrong with you and dont be ashamed most girls want to experiment. You might just be curious, or maybe even bi-sexual. Theres nothing wrong with that. you can have feelings for girls and guys, and maybe your friend feels the same way. Think about how your feelings, and maybe even talk about them with someone you trust.
AlwAYZarOUnd00 answered Monday April 18 2005, 6:28 pm: hey ~ i'm sure your just a teenager and a confused one...just give it time. i think you should maybe experiment around and see what your more comfortable with.. talk to your friend and tell her exactly what you posted on here...see what she has to say about it.. if nothing else your probably bisexual.. it's not that big of a deal i know alot of girls that are an it's nothing out of the ordinary
LiLJaZzY answered Sunday April 17 2005, 8:30 pm: have you ever heard the term bi-sexual? where you like girls and guys..dont hide your feeling if she turns you on..you shouldnt be ashamed of your sexual orienation its obvious you like her so just go for it..i have to warn you though many people will have something to say about it but just brush it off because if it makes you happy then thats all you have to worry about..let me know how it goes by adding me to your friends list!! xOx [ LiLJaZzY's advice column | Ask LiLJaZzY A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:50 am: Theres nothing wrong with you. Girl going through adolecence it is hard and sometimes they have strong feelings for the same sex and develop love for them. but if you like guys then thats fine it will blow over soon. If you feel bad about yourself stop doing it.
insomniac.with.advice answered Sunday April 17 2005, 1:24 am: The first thing that you have to do is dispute with yourself whether when you touch your friend its a friendly touch, or you lurking for much more.... Physical touch can be expression of ones own inverted feelings but sometimes you can be mislead by your emotions. What exactly goes through your mind at that exact moment when you two are engaging in this activity... Is one of the main keys in solving this dilemma. At least at this point that you might feel some sort of contradiction of your character. You are basically stranded in the thought of being a lesbian or straight.... Since the mind is beautiful but fallacious you should find comfort in knowing that life is not always black and white.......but an in between exists. You might want to consider the thought of you being a bisexual ( meaning you are sexually attracted to both men and women). If this is the case don't be ashamed of what you are feeling , remember you are your own worst enemy. Make sure that you communicate with the friend that these occasions happen with ...Maybe she's feeling the same way.... That way you can both help each other with this issue..... Hope I've been of some assistance. [ insomniac.with.advice's advice column | Ask insomniac.with.advice A Question ]
foxychick993 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 12:42 am: okay dokey, I know what u mean. I think I know your promblem. Your simulating a guy being in the bed with you. It's hormones. It may be your best friend in the bed with you, but in your imagination, you think it's a guy! It happens all the time. BELIEVE ME!But, if you truly do have feelings for your friend, you need to talk about it. Ask your friend if she just thinks it's fun to do that, if she's simulating a guy, or if she has feelings for you.PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS. Hope I helped. [ foxychick993's advice column | Ask foxychick993 A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Sunday April 17 2005, 12:35 am: It could mean you are bisexual. There's nothing wrong with being bi. It just means you like both guys and girls. And look at it this way, at least you now have both guys AND girls to choose from. lol.
On the other hand, it doesn't have to mean you are bisexual. Maybe you are just caught in the moment when you are with your friend. Maybe you have just been wanting attention and your friend was the one that could give it to you. Hormones can go a little crazy. lol.
hitler_the_goat answered Sunday April 17 2005, 12:34 am: just go with it, bisexuality among women is a beautiful thing. try to make out with her next time and touch every part of her sensual figure.
-hitler
-p.s. thanks for the turn-on [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
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