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why is there so much hate in the world? Every one is labeling everyone. Today I got so mad cuase my friend who is emotional and likes black, some kid walked up to here and asked her if he could teach him how to be emo. It really hurt my feelings even though it wasn't towards me. But Even if you are emo. punk. goth, hard core, why does it matter? as long as everyones being thereselves then it should? why does everyone catorgorize everyone? it's rude.What is the difference between punk, goth, emo anyway? help please
im sorry... i know that hurts.. people just try to make themselves look better by putting down others (but really it makes them worse).. they think they are funny and say hurtful things.. the best thing you could do would be to set an example of the exact opposite of that and be friends w/ anyone and not say anything bad about anyone.. and hopfully you will make a difference to a couple of people.. but i dont really know waht the difference is between punk, goth, and emo.. im sorry.. basically people will respect the fact that you dont like the way people sterotype others and will probably try some self evaluation on themselves.. so just stand up for what u believe in :)
Ok. My boyfriend had his first visit to my house today. It wasn't long, but in the little time we did spend together we had our first real "big kiss." [He knows kissing me on my neck makes me "excited"] So, of coarse he did and then started making out with me, and we started to lay down. [Him kinda on top of me, but not laying down all the way.] If my mom hadn't walked in the room we probably would've done alot more. I was just wondering, is this how things get out of hand and sex starts? I'm not using this as a question to start sex. I am not ready, and I don't want to give him impressions that I am.
umm.. it might.. but if he respects you.. then next time you feel like its getting to far of if your just talking just tell him "im sorry but im not ready" he should understand and be ok w/ it but yeah just tell him that you think its moving to fast and he should understand.. u have just as much control as he does :) remember that
okay recently my best freinds boyufriend broke up with her and she was like really upset.....welll she said that she thought that he really like me and was just using her to get to me..and i think that is true becasuie of how he is acting round me and nmber one i DON"T want him an de ven if i did i woud never go out with him but what do i do i don't want to get mad at me isf she catches hiimflirtin with me but he won't tkae the hint and go away? I DON"T flirt with him back just to let you know.
i think you should tell your friend honestly if he does start flirting with you that you dont like him and you dont want to be w/ him.. and then maybe point out some other guys at your school that are hot that you too could have fun with... she though will probably get jealous if he broke up w/ and he starts flirting w/ you.. so be clear that you dont like him and that becasue shes ur friend you wouldnt do that and not to worry... but if you dont want confrontation w/ her mabye just tell the dude.. look shes a really good friend of mine so im not going to start to like you because i wont do that to her..
i was really in love with a guy and recently we broke up. He asked that we do not contact each other at all. His friends, whom i go to school with, say things like "u can do better" and "ill show u how its supposed to be". How can I get over him and go to school without feeling looked down upon or depressed?
you just dont worry about it..i know ur sad.. every girl is after they had a break up.. but atleast you know that all of his friends like you or atleast think your hot which is a big plus for you because they will all try to go after you and make your x feel dumb and he might start to go after you again... but really if you look good and feel good it wont matter.. because getting attention from other guys will help and you will realize that maybe i can do better.. but the main thing is to not let other people see you sad except for your close friends... becasue they will say things like im sorry and other things that will just make you more sad.. and im sorry this isnt making much since.. but basically just be happy and look cute and have the mind set that your going to make him want to talk to you agaim and if he doesnt so what youll find a better guy :)
There is this boy (S) that i have known (he has been a family friend) since i was like 6 and i have always liked him though he never gave me the time of day. Well i never lost my felings for him and over the sumer he fianaly started to like me alot i thought. Well then my cousin came down to visit and basicaly took him away. Once she left at the end of the summer me and him started talking and i thought he still was atrackted (we were basicaly understood dating)Well then my cousin came back down and told me he had ben writing her love things and she had proof. Well i confrunted him and me and her basicaly left felings for him. I stil liked him so i continued to talk to him and gee i fell for him again. but i didn't tell him because of what he did the last time. Well i just learned that (although my cousin said she hated him to) him and her are dating and it hurts so bad. I loved him first and the longest and after everything he goes to her. I took it as i was always second to him. I cant just ignore him cause our family intertwines so much. (my cousin lives in vergina and me and (s) live in memphis) so it just hurts to see hear them talk and i still want him(yes my cousin is a b****) What should i do.
Well there is a second boy. I have known forever just like (S). We were always just friends intill last year when we dated and i loved it and we were so close but then i got scared. I am a loner by nature and so it was hard for me to open up to someone except him. he'ss the only one that can read me completly. Well i got scared because of how close he got to me and how alive the feelings rose. I also had the problem where it would take time for me to do anything(like we never kissed although he was used to that in all his relationships) so i was worried he would get tired of waiting. Well so i claled it off while i was still madly in love with him but because of how long We'd been friends(7 years)we stayed friends. Well he got closer still so i gave him to my best friend then pushed him out and that about killed me and him. Well when schol started back we started talking and come to find out he was dating another one of my old friends. well i fell for him in no time and i think he did the same. He is close to breaking up with my old friend and i am woried if he will want to date again. I wouldnt mind it cause i still like him. the only thing is that if we did i would realy be woried about kising or anything cause he has been all over two of my past friends( it was my fault for the first one and he didnt even know that me and the new one used to be friends) Well also i want him now but idk it is just dificult help me. I love them both I want them both I dont know which one i want more but i cant just go find someone else cause i only like peope i have known for years. I almost dont want (S) because of how he kept going for my cousin when he was talking to me and then again i dont want (B) because he has kissed and maybe more with two of my past friends. But I long to be in one of there arms. It is almost a lust now. (neither of them know my feelings cause i dont show emotion very well and dont act on my emotions)
it sounds like you become alot more interested in these guys when they like other girls or when other girls like them.. so i think u want them until you have them and then get tired of them and then want them again when you see them w/ sombody else... i sometimes have the same problem.. but i dont think anyone can honestly tell you wich way to go.. i think you should just think about which one you would rather be with or be friends with without any other girl efficting your decisioin.. just think about what you really want not what your friends want or what they want but only what you want.. if you think about it some im sure you will realize which one you love and which one you lust for...
my left eye keeps twitching. if i keep my eye closed for awhile, then open it, it does it even more. does anyone know why this is happening?
sometimes i get the same problem where it will keep twitching for a long time... then one week just stop... its never bad for me but when i close it than open it i have the same problem... do you get migranes? because i do and i get them when i might have a migrane. im not sure how to control them though but i think more exercise and rest helps me.
15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends?
16 and 16 y.o...... hmm i say go w/ tha flo ya no... I say this guy sounds like hes into you, um keep talking to him... maybe next time in class give him a dose of his own medicine and grab his leg a little bit almost in the same way but not to the full extent, becasue i think he likes ya.. and dont listen to what your friends say about the boys because most of the time they have no idea what they are talking about and will accidently hurt ur feelings. i think the stuff about the other girl is bologna and your friend heard something from someone that hear something from someone that heard something from someone...etc :)hope i helped
ok earlier i saw this question posted by someone:
Ok soo I have really frizzy, poufy hair that I hate, so I recently bought a Chi. I really like my hair straight, but the only problem is that my Chi makes my hair really, really flat. It pretty much just sucks the volume out of my hair. I was just wondering if anyone knew how I can get my hair straight but keep some volume?
Thanksss =]
what is the chi thing they are talking about?
chi flat irons are the best.. .the straignten the craziest of crazy hair.... to get more volume you need to blow dry your hair... pretty straight (not a big deal if not though) then wehn ur straightening dont seperate it in as many layers... and just go through really fast... focus more on the top layer than the bottoms
well for me school is in less then a week and a half!! and i kinda got some chub in my tummy not much thou and i would like to either make it solid and fit or loose it would be great! any advice? thankks!!!
well... first when your eating lay off the junk for a while.. skip the cookies and mcd's and eat fruit or something instead and only eat if you are hungry... im not saying starve your self at all.. just dont eat because you are bored.. then do crunches (to the side, suitcase, toe touches, chineys, two count.. etc) do a ton.. like if it starts to burn do 10 more then switch to the other side... also if you get a med ball.. and do sittups w/ one it will work faster.... tell me if i helped (the more sittups you do.. the better 6 pack you will get) (trust me i have one)
i am really good friends with this family, theres 5 kids. four sister and im friends with all of them the oldest sister is in 10th grade then 2 twins who are in my grade and a younger one whos in 6th [im going into 8th]
im really good friends with all of them
anyways so lately the oldest one has told me that she wants to start smoking/pot and stuff
she asked if i would think of her any differently/etc i said no i wouldnt think of her different although i dont think smokings the best thing.
she just messaged me that her and this guy [who i also know, not really friends with or anything] are going to meet up next week and smoke. im not sure if its pot but it might be.
i wasn't exactly invited to go with them but like if i really wanted to, i could and it wouldnt be like a big thing.
but im not really sure what i wanna do because as i look at it i know a lot of people who smoke/drink and other stuff.
i kind of do want to see what its like but im an athlete and im afraid it would mess me up too much.
i really dont know what to think anymore.
sorry, kind of long.
13/F
im an athlete too... i dont know i really dont think you should smoke or drink or anything... espically pot... i mean i no some kids on the track team who used to be really good and fast but then they started smoking and are now slow and didnt even go out for the team... idk i just thinking any type of somking in general is bad.. not only discusting but gross... you are also only 13 i dont think you want to get messed up in that that young.... my x boyfriend did... (i didnt know till after i was going out w/ him) and he had a really hard time stoping and getting the reputation of being a druggy off... and he just smoked it every once in a while or what he said on special occasions... so i really dont think its a good idea... and i would tell your friend that you dont think she should either
When i reach a orgasm i feel sick is this normal?
yeah... i do too
You can skip the background and just tell me if the poem is too personal to give to someone you've only met a few days ago if you want.
Ok so I met this guy a few days ago and he's perfect but I'm still not over this other guy. This guy is seriously awesome, he's -very- good looking, he's a cook and he spent all of today helping me fix my dining table because he fell on it the night before and broke, and he even paid for everything to fix it and extra stuff to make it look better because he said it was totally his fault. Anyway, he got out of a long relationship a few months ago and he today he had a first date with a girl he likes so there isn't much of a chance of us working out and I'm too hung up on another guy. Keeping this in mind, his birthday is coming up and he asked me to write him a poem because he likes personalized presents and he heard I wrote sometimes.
We met on Thursday and spent about four days in a row together. I'm writing him a poem and framing it. I wrote it directly from my heart and now I'm thinking it's a little too personal for someone I haven't known for more than a week. He said he wanted something really truthful because I warned him but I don't want to look foolish and I still want to be his friend. So is it too close?
What a guy.
You’re such a man
You're such a boy.
Your naive miniscule hopes and dreams
leave me in tears every time
you venture to say a word,
blinking with the beat of your heart.
Wrench my stomach into knots,
why don't you?
As I think of the clarity in your eyes
and I surmise
it's been a while
since you've been hurt.
The way you talk
and smile when you recall
how you were together
and refrain
from saying her name
and just refer to her as her.
Fictitious daydreams in my mind,
And I ask the world
to make you feel that way about me
not out of love or lust,
only for the sake of having you.
How strangely perfect
you are for me,
but cupid knows
that the subtle ache in my chest
and those cardiac arrests
aren’t for you
But wow, you’re such a guy.
some of its a little wow... but i like it... and it kinda seems like love at first sight... maybe??? i say go for it.... think of anchorman.. you know he's like "if you dont like it you can throw it right back"... i would forget about the other guy... the easiest way to get your mind off of the old guy is to find a new one :)
my left armpit sweats more than my right. its gross. why is that and how can i prevent it from being that way? i wash them equally and wear an equal amount of deoderent each day so wtf, mate?
hmm.. there is this product called certian dry... its a deoderant you put on at night and it shrinks your poors or does something to your sweat glands so you dont sweat as much... you can get it at wallgreens.... maybe put it on your left.. then they would be the same.....
im 5'0 150 ilbs. I wanna Have a Flat tummy.
The way I eat is I eat HEALTHY veggies, fruit, grilled chicked, & fish.
Please I REALLY want a flat tummy ILL DO ANYTHING
but i cant run cause my neighbor hood isnt to great & ride a bike soooo.
Can i do this by the 14? is thier anything else i could do?
k well keep eating healthy, another thing you may think about is eat when you are hungry, not just have an appatite... or when you are eating dont eat till you are absolutely stuffed but just not hungry anymore.... thats not that important.... but do you have a gym that you can go to??.. basically you need to find something that will give you a workout/make you sweat, if you cant run.. maybe get a jumproap..... the main thing you need to do is different sittup excersizes.. idk if you have an mc sports or anything like that... but you want to buy a medicine ball... probably one thats 4lbs and one thats 6... i find it the easiest to do sittups while watching tv... but ill tell you a bunch of different sittup excersizes... ones that i think are pretty good.. its going to be hard to explain so bare with me
-- suitcase crunches- bend your knees and hips at 90* angles or a little less so your feet are off the ground.. the crunch your upper body with your hands behind your head so your elbows touch your knees... that pretty much works lower and upper
-- side sittups/ crunches- lay on you side and yeah
-- toe touches- extend your legs straight up in the air and touch your toes.. or you can put a med ball on your forhead and do crunches
--back extentions- you feel like a fish doing this one... but lay on your stomach and arch your back so your feet and head come off the ground... it gives you a sexy back
-- two count sittups- crunch up to a 45 angle and hold it for a sec or two then go up all the way.. hold and slowely lower down
there's a few... basically you can make them up... but keep going when you feel the burn.. like do ten more when you start to feel it, then switch to the other side... basically anything that keeps tention on your abbs will give you a flat tummy/ six pack in no time... the more you work out and eat healthy the faster the process will go.... oh and also... drink lots of water, and stretch alot... when you stretch you get longer leaner muscles........ please tell me if i helped... or it worked.... i really hope you will be able to tell by the 14th
does the scar stay on forever.because I poped a white pimple on my face and this white stuff came out and the pimple turned redder and the scar started going away little by little then it just stayed there...
yes it will eventually go away... you dont want to pop to many or you probably will have scars...but i no its hard to resist.. but i found out that it takes longer for the pimple to heal after you pop it than it does for it to just go away on its own... so idk... im now trying to resist popping
ok so i wanna lose some weight. im not really fat or anything. im not even fat. but i got some extra meat on the stomach i wanna lose. and i was wonderign if anyone knew a good eating scheuld. like 6 small meals a day ( w. examples) or just eat 3 main meals a day.. something like that. i already have the workout part down becuase i play alotta sports. but .. help and ill be sure to ratee
ur asking the right girl... well all you have to do is instead of going for the cookies go for some fruit... basically skip out on anything that you know is not healthy... and i no a couple good stomach excersizes if you want them... p.s i play alot of sports too, and i have a 6pack
What do they say about assuming?
People always say " You know what they say about assuming" What do they say!?
they say never assume it makes an ass out of u and me because ass u me
My best guy friend whom I've been crushing on for the past year now has never showed any interest in me. When I know that i am perfect for him it would be the best relationship hes ever had. How do I get him to realize this? or How do I just give up and realize he has to like me back for it to work?
I really need some answers
Thanks
... hmm ever thought of making it movie like and jumping in his arms or kissing him by surprise... ok THAT MIGHT BE A LITTLE EXTREEM... but i would start to flirt w/ him and see if he flirts back...
i need help on what to say to my boyfriend.... do u have an sn i can talk to you on?
sure its sugarsugar418
ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?
deffinatly not... if you have sex just because it seems like everyone else has.. you will probably reget it... dont do it until you are ready... everyone else is weird... sex at 11 do you even start puberty that young?? no for sure... ur not the weird ones by being a virgin.. if anything you are more so the normal ones...