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Ok. My boyfriend had his first visit to my house today. It wasn't long, but in the little time we did spend together we had our first real "big kiss." [He knows kissing me on my neck makes me "excited"] So, of coarse he did and then started making out with me, and we started to lay down. [Him kinda on top of me, but not laying down all the way.] If my mom hadn't walked in the room we probably would've done alot more. I was just wondering, is this how things get out of hand and sex starts? I'm not using this as a question to start sex. I am not ready, and I don't want to give him impressions that I am.
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The two of you need to have a talk then. You need to discuss beforehand how far you are willing to go. He needs to respect your boundaries. If he does not respect your boundaries, then maybe it is time for a new boyfriend. Once you two talk and agree on how far you want to go, then things shouldn't get out of hand. If you're still really worried about going to far and not being able to stop, don't let the situation present itself. For example, if you two end up being home alone, watch a movie instead of making out because it could lead to other things and your parents won't be there to walk in on you. Hope this helps.
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aw well! let him know that and try and get a place where you mother wont walk in, i hope it goes well1
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My boyfriend & I have layed down on my bed and made out before, actually done more then that, but no way am I ready to have sex, and neither is he. If this ever happens again and things start to get out of hand (yes, this is how sex starts) then you need to explain to him that you're not ready. If he can't accept that you're not ready, then things won't work it. I'm sure he'll be able to see you're not ready, but don't let him convince you to do it. Good Luck!!
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yes,your giving him the impression that your ready and if your mom wouldnt have walked in on you then you woulda probably done it.Dont do it again if you dont want it to go further.Explain to him that your not ready if he asks.
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umm.. it might.. but if he respects you.. then next time you feel like its getting to far of if your just talking just tell him "im sorry but im not ready" he should understand and be ok w/ it but yeah just tell him that you think its moving to fast and he should understand.. u have just as much control as he does :) remember that
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