Question Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 8:21 pm
i was really in love with a guy and recently we broke up. He asked that we do not contact each other at all. His friends, whom i go to school with, say things like "u can do better" and "ill show u how its supposed to be". How can I get over him and go to school without feeling looked down upon or depressed?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sabine answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 11:52 pm: Dear, when they say you can do better, they may just be being kind, but when they say they'll show you how it's supposed to be, I think they're trying to say that they're interested. Maybe not, but maybe so. What you can do is tell yourself that you are better off without him, which you are, and after a while, you will see that it is true. Nearly all of us get dumped sometimes and we dump sometimes. It's not anything to be ashamed of. You can look at it as it simply didn't work out or you can look at it as the guy just didn't know what he had. You'll make it without him. Keep your head up and others will want to be with you.
Laf16 answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 11:05 pm: you just dont worry about it..i know ur sad.. every girl is after they had a break up.. but atleast you know that all of his friends like you or atleast think your hot which is a big plus for you because they will all try to go after you and make your x feel dumb and he might start to go after you again... but really if you look good and feel good it wont matter.. because getting attention from other guys will help and you will realize that maybe i can do better.. but the main thing is to not let other people see you sad except for your close friends... becasue they will say things like im sorry and other things that will just make you more sad.. and im sorry this isnt making much since.. but basically just be happy and look cute and have the mind set that your going to make him want to talk to you agaim and if he doesnt so what youll find a better guy :) [ Laf16's advice column | Ask Laf16 A Question ]
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