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cute boy.
13/f if that helps. okay theres this guy.. well he was in my schools since ever, but never had been in my classes. and this year he is, and well i have a crush on him! i dont really know what to do or anything.. but soon i thought he was cute, and i'd find myself doing little things to maybe impress him.. haha i always do that whenever i like someone! is that a good or bad thing? i dont want to like scare him off, haha. now hes in 2 of my classes, and another, but thats like a gym class.we both like generally the same sports, though hes probably better than me at them XD. and before i liked him, my friend said we'd look cute as a couple when we sat together in math (assigned seats for a while) and i just denyed it, cuz i didnt like him like that then. i can talk to him easily, and im not like one of his friend-friends, but sometimes i talk to him during class. ugh.. i wish i didnt fall for guys this easily! what should i do! i mean, im not just gonna ask him out, because i dont know if i really like him, or if he likes me back like that, and i dont wanna get embarrased over it and stuff. also it would probably ruin our friendship which like just started a couple months ago! Lol. ugh, im so picky, if i wanted a boyfriend i'd be really specific, and even though i'd like a boy, i wouldnt really want to go out with them, since i want my first bf and first kiss to be like perfect, or something i wont regret, really. decisions, decisions.. i dunno what to do. just be his friend? or like.. maybe more? haha it feels so weird to type this. sorry this was so long.. if it was long.
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hey there!
yeps.. i totally understand what your feeling because right now im that situation but mind is a little more complex. well anyways just keep going with being friends because you need to work on the friendship so then when it gets stronger the feelings will slowly come in. as you work on your friendship with him you'll both get closer and you cant really rush things because that will sorta mess up the friendship that wont get to the relationship. you gotta see if really have feelings for him because after a while you might see different sides of him that you dont like seeing. i know how you feel about the whole first boyfriends and being perfect but its like it might not happen the way you want it. i feel the same in manys
i dont know if this helps but i hope i really hope it does because i should be using this advice on myself before i give it to others. but you know no one can ever really take their own advice..if you still need some help then let me know because i know i can help you a little more than i did just now.
-manda
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well first think about it remember u dont want to rush into anything and get hurt and if you think he would be boyfriend material than maybe ask some of ur friends to hangout with you two sometime maybe go to the movies or the skate park or to the mall so you can get to know him and if he turns out to be a jerk than he will never know
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