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Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.

I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.

I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)

Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:

I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]

Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.

advice

okey, im 14/f and i dont have really acne but just pimples here and there, but it drives me crazy, everyone else has clear skin, and i want that. ive tried almost literally every skin treatment and nothing has worked. but now im wondering does ProActiv Solution work?


i tried proactiv and it TOTALLY dried my skin out to the point where it was peeling for a week. and my skin isn't that dry. if you have really OILY skin, then it's okay but i suggest you try something else before it. i'd go to a dermatologist and schedule an appointment and ask them what's best. they'll find cheap working products because they are professionals.

im 13 and the reason teens get pimples is usually because of hormones. you dont have to have oily skin to get them. if your skin is sensitive, proactiv may not be right for you. i say try other stuff first, then go to proactiv. it's really expensive.

good luck =)

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A few nights ago me and my boyfriend for a little over a year went further sexually and he ending up eating me out.this was something i swore i would never do because i thought of it as repulsive. At first when he was asking i told him no but eventually i gave in.. after we were done i cried. I dont know why I cried.. i mean i love him and everything and it was my choice.. i dont know whats going on. I need help. why did I cry??


you probably couldn't believe this was happening and you were shocked. girls cry when they are in shock, it's natural.

if you don't want to do it again, then don't. crying is normal when something isn't normal or it's something out of the ordinary. if you liked it and you wanna keep doing it, it's your choice. but don't do it again if you're going to cry.

=)

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I'm trying getting a new layout for my myspace and I'm looking for a DIV layout. Any websites that have good DIV layouts?

www.whateverlife.com

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15/m
riiight i need a bit of advice, girls your the only people who can help. i love my gf to bits but she keeps like having loads of mood swing i know the period n all that but its not that:S she keeps having loads of mood swings and everything is ok with her family and all that i dunno what it is. so girls do you get like this at times?? and if so why:S its personal yeh but i could realy do with the help. thanks very uch:)


it's not you she's pissed off about. it could be anything. maybe she's having a bad hair day, her mom forgot to wash the shirt she wanted to wear, she failed a test, her best friend is acting like a bitch... anything basically can make girls have moodswings. boys arent as emotional as girls which is a good thing and things bother girls more than boys. just dont mention it to her because she thinks its normal, which it is for girls. unless shes cutting herself and listening to screamo music, just let her be. kiss her and let her know you care, but dont butt into her business. just be the loving person that you are and she'll appreciate it.

=) you seem like such a nice boyfriend.

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ive never seen shrek the third, but in a commerical i saw him and fiona in a bed and it looked clear that shrek was naked.. what was this scene about? i thought little kids watched this? if anyone watched shrek 3, can you please explain this scene to me? thank you!


i saw that last week. it was a quick seen and all that happened was shrek and fiona got woken up. i went with my 2 little cousins and they didn't know it was bad but it was like a 5 second scene so it didnt really matter. it's not like they showed them naked, but shrek and fiona are married and it's a part of life. and they weren't "doing it" at that scene. haha i think it was just comedy. i know it seems pretty bad, but if you were a little kid you wouldn't know what the heck was going on. so they didn't think anything of it.

hope that helped =)

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I have a boyfriend and we've kissed and all. We've talked about how making out is with touching. We both agreed we want to and he says he likes to. He just hasn't done anything but the kissing part. I kinda want him to touch me more then he does but I don't know what to do and how do bring it up to him and if I should. Should I talk to him about it more? Or should I just leave it alone and have it happen on its own. By the way...we've been dating for about 6 months. And I still get butterflies about looking into his eyes. I really want to though.
What should I do?


if you start touching him a little bit he will start touching you. you can just straight out tell him where you want him to touch you or you could just guide his hands without talking.. if you're going to the movies you should see something REALLY scary so when you get scared you can like hug him and he'll wrap his arms around you and stuff.. 6 months is half a year and thats long enough so you can be open to him. communication is the key so let him know how far you wanna go.. he won't mind at all. =)

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okay so i have this best friend. hes a guy, and were like REALLY tight. i have a weird feeling that he likes me. once, he called me 13 times because he was "bored". we were online and hes like "im bored, im gonna call u" and i said "no im doing hw" but he called anyway and left all these funny messages. then, i texted him at like 2 am cause i was bored, and he says "whats up?" and i said "bored, im under-the-covers texting!' and he said 'ooooooh. sounds seexy." i laughed about it, but it was just really sudden to me. he even asked me to come to his house and swim, but i wasnt free. but does he like me??


yeah boys dont usually call girls that
many times unless they REALLY like that
girl. i say if you like him back, hang
out with him. kinda play hard to get but
still flirt because if you dont he'll think
you're not interested & move on. if he asks
you to hang out again say yes if you're free
and maybe bring some friends if you're
uncomfortable.. but hes a best friend so you
dont really need other friends. but dont be
all over him so he gets turned off.

good luck =)

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how do i get over a guy and like someone new with the old guy still being my friend¿


uhm, go to the mall, find a hott guy and start talking to him to get your mind off the other guy. if you dont talk to that boy for a few weeks, you'll get over him quicker. so for now don't be friends with him and give yourself time to get used to the change. also, stop using those upside down question marks and get used to the fact that if this isnt a spanish website, they are really unnecessary. =)

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Well, I am getting braces next week..Ugh, I am so not excited but oh well, I am going to have to suck it up and just get it over with..But my question is I want to get colored ones so if any of yall have ever had braces, can you tell me what color do you think is the best...I have heard yellow makes your teeth look stained and clear isn't good either. I am thinking about hott pink. But I don't know...I have brown hair and blue/green eyes if that makes a difference haha. So, any suggestions would be wonderful. Haha. Thanks in advance.


i've had braces for like nine months and i've tried...
- light pink & hot pink
- lime green & hot pink
- hot pink & orange (favorite)
- baby blue & lime green
- pink & black
- purple & light pink

those all look really cute. oh yeah don't get clear because they look weird and yellow makes your teeth look yellow.. also you can get colors of whatever holiday is coming up so for like 4th of july do red & blue.

braces suck but your teeth will look fabulous after.

=)

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My friend used to have this program where she can be on more than one screen name. It's not where she links her screen names together. It's like she'll be signed onto hers for liek an hour, then her sister can go on later, and sign onto her own screen name, and they're both still on. It was a program but I have no idea what it was. If you can send me a site where I can download it from that'd be excellenttt. =)


the program is called aim+
http://www.download.com/3000-2150-10148426.html

thats the link. =)

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Ok this might souund weird, but i love to be tickled. The problem though is that i want to be tickled by my friends, but no one usually does. How can i get them to tickle me without actually asking them to?? Sorry if this sounds weird.


ohh i like to be tickled too. :] just start
tickling one of your friends and they will
probably tickle you back. or ask them to
have a tickeling contest if you're bored
haha. that would be cool

=]]

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okay so im making a cd to put in my car for the summer..can anyone think of some good summer songs to put on it..thanks =]


summer love by justin timberlake.
and i will think of more later haha

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It's summer and I've been working up all year to just staying at home chilling and working on my tan and just being easy-going. But now that summer's hereI'm just getting bored and stress just keeps building up throughout the day and at the end of the day I just blow. I would get out during the day except i'm not old enough to drive and my parents are gone. does anyone know some good home activities that will keep me from sitting at the computer all day and then just being bored throughout summer and having a terrible time?
thanks for your time and answers ♥


-read haha
-shop online
-watch tv
-go outside
-take a walk
-go in your pool or a neighbor's
-invite friends over
-roast marshmallows at night
-pig out on food
-look through magazines
-watch movies
-DANCE
-listen to music
-play video games
-talk on the phone

just enjoy your summer and just do whatever you're in the mood to do. =)

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my ex boyfriend is telling
people that im a bad kisser,
and that i dont know "how" to make out .

i've made out with more then one person already,
and no one has ever said anything about the way i make out.

is it just him, or do i really suck at life ?!


well if he's your ex he's probably just trying to get back at you for something immature. i don't get along with my ex either and he tries to ruin my life. but yeah, don't let it bother you because if he's just saying this now after you've broke up, then he's just doing it to piss you off. seriously, if you act like it doesn't bother you then he will eventually stop. oh yeah tell him to shut the hell up and if he has something to say to say it to your face. =] just don't let it get to you even if it already has. ex's will do all sorts of stuff to show their jealousy but you have to get used to it.

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I told this girl a secret and she is going in the halls and screaming I know your secret. Help


Tell her that it's a SECRET and it's going to be kept that way. Tell her that she can't tell or you'll never talk to her again. Make her tell a secret of hers so then if she yells I KNOW YOUR SECRET, you can yell I KNOW YOURS TOO. lol. and if people ask you what the secret is because they hear her screaming it just say, umm inside joke. haha!

yeah well hope i helped

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13/f i seriously cant stand my dad anymore. he had ADD (well it sure seems like it) ok i will fill you in on some things he does. i was in my room yesterday putting my clothes away, and there was this one shelf i put my old clothes on that don't fit me anymore. my dad came into my room and kicked me and was like why dont you wear these nice clothes anymore? and i was like because there too small i've had them since 5th grade (and im in 7th) and they are size 10 in girls and im size 14 in girls. i told him that, so he goes im not spending anymore money on your fatass anymore because i buy you so many clothes (and really, there was an orange BEBE shirt that my cousin gave me, and a BCBG sweatsuit that my mom bought me for 10 bucks a piece) i buy my own clothes. i dont know what the hell hes tlaking about but i spend my own money at the mall. well he gets mad for no reason, so if i spill water on accident, he goes all crazy and calls me names and slaps me and stuff. he says im bad, and i dont do anything wrong. this has been going on since i was in 1st grade. i cant take it anymore. i dont wanna call the police or talk to a councelor because hes really a good dad and he buys me expensive stuff and at times hes all like a good dad and hes nice but sometimes he acts like that. about 5 minutes ago i was eating a baked potato and he was like you fat ass you dont need to eat anything so i threw it away and went upstairs and cried. i'm 5'3 and 106 pounds, i don't really thing that's fat? my mom is like right there when everything happens but she doesnt say anything. i have 2 brothers ones 7 and ones 9 and my dad is like to my brothers i hope you guys don't turn into a samantha-junior, and im like wtf i dont do anything wrong! im just acting like a regular teenage girl. sorry this is long but i really dont know what to do anymore. any advice?


i would go to a counselor so they can help you build a better relationship with your dad. just because you want some family help doesn't mean your dad is like a killer. you guys probably need to talk out some things and make promises and compromises and a counselor will at least lead you to come to some agreements. i know its hard when your dad acts like that but you cant handle it by yourself. professional help will strengthen your relationship with your father and give you a better life. just dont be afraid to talk to someone.

have a good day.

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is it true that if girls wear a bra overnight, that overtime it will make your boobs sag? is this just a myth? are there any consequences if a girl actually wears her bra to bed every night?


it's a myth and no.
do what feels right.

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Well when i was in 7th grade i started to cut and have not been able to stop and i started because of my family my mom and dad always fought and my grandmother was always faking sick to get attention and i would lock myself in my room and would cut can anyone help me?


time to check in with your guidance counselor.
cutting = addicting. (like smoking)
break the habit, but get help doing it.
or tell your parents.

just don't let it take over your life if it already hasn't...

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What are some websites that sell belly button rings? Other than bodycandy.com. Thanks.

www.claires.com

google it for more if that doesn't help you out..

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Okay, so Jordin Sparks (my personal fave) won American Idol last night.

While I think Jordin is certainly a better singer than Blake Lewis, I think Blake is a better all-around entertainer.

Who do you think should have won?

(I'm just trying to get opinions here.)


I really wanted Blake to win. Blake was ORIGINAL and there will never be another beat boxer on american idol. There were many other girls during the past 6 seasons of american idol that sounded just like Jordin. She had a good voice, but she was lacking entertainment and originality. There's a lot of people with good voices, but you have to be DIFFERENT in order to stand out. Blake might not have had the BEST voice, but it was still extremely good and his entertainment, hottness, and personality made up for it. Many people will disagree with me, but hey I have my opinion just as you have yours.

=)

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