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kissing and touching
I have a boyfriend and we've kissed and all. We've talked about how making out is with touching. We both agreed we want to and he says he likes to. He just hasn't done anything but the kissing part. I kinda want him to touch me more then he does but I don't know what to do and how do bring it up to him and if I should. Should I talk to him about it more? Or should I just leave it alone and have it happen on its own. By the way...we've been dating for about 6 months. And I still get butterflies about looking into his eyes. I really want to though.
What should I do?
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if you start touching him a little bit he will start touching you. you can just straight out tell him where you want him to touch you or you could just guide his hands without talking.. if you're going to the movies you should see something REALLY scary so when you get scared you can like hug him and he'll wrap his arms around you and stuff.. 6 months is half a year and thats long enough so you can be open to him. communication is the key so let him know how far you wanna go.. he won't mind at all. =)
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Well, since you have been dating for six months, you should be comfortable telling him what you want.
So, you can either tell him where, how, and when you want to be touched, or you can put his hand where you want it. This doesn't just go for sexual things either.
For example, if you want him to put his arm around you, lean into the crook of his shoulder and he should get the hint. Or if you want him to run his fingers through your hair, mention how you love it when he does that (or if he doesn't ever do that, then say how much you love running your own fingers through your hair.)
Hope this helps!
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ok sweetsz well the butterflies show that you realy like him. and thats good it will make making-out even more fun=). if you really want it then go for it! invite him over for a movie (the more romantic the better. it will get you both in the mood.) after that it will all happen on its own. ;)
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