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Wazz good? Umm things about me...hmm.. Im 13 from south Jersey. I am light skinned (carmel omplextiom) long brown hair and about 5"4. I Love giving advice to people.If i didnt u wouldnt be reading this woud u? I am single but i talk to someone....S.O.V.S *some1 very special* I have been talking to him 4 about 4 months. I think i'm in love wooo *sigh*. O anyway..I am very hyper..I am a cheerleader,i run track,play softball and i am on the national jr honor society. I got most popular and best looking in the yearbook. I LOVE TO TALK dance and SING..My favorite song right now is "we belong together" by mariah Carey and her whole Cd and umm Ciara song "oh" and "GRIND ON ME" by Pretty Ricky yes!! I am still a virgin but I know alot about Sex from all of my friends and from reading.I am just waiting for the RIGHT* person right now....um...If u ever need to ask me any questions or give me any comments *THAT ARE NOT RUDE!!!!!!!!!!* feel free to IM me on
IXI WuN luV IXL .... love yall lots

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My mom is really mad at me because I yelled and talked back to her. She stormed out of my room this morning while knocking my things down. I just told her that I needed time to get ready to go and I needed her to get out. She then left the house with my brother. Now she is back and she still won't talk to me. I am very hungry and I don't know what to do. There's no food in my house. We were going to go to taco bell but now she's very mad. I am so hungry! Please help.

Girl..lol if you dont go downstairs and apologize to ya mom so you can eat.lol Just tell her you didnt mean to get hype eit her this morning and your sorry.She'll understand. hope i helped.

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First, I'm an 18 year old girl. My ex-boyfriend is also 18.
While we were together and even before then, we got along famously until something stupid would happen and we'd end up arguing. We'd make up and realize how dumb it was only to end up arguing again the next night.
What's weird is though, even when we were arguing, I loved being with him. I'm only 18 and I already feel like I've found my other half in him.
Now that we're not a couple anymore, we talk as friends and constantly admit to wanting to date again. We just always end up telling each other that "it's for the best."

My question is are we being ridiculous? Is petty arguing (even if it is constant) a good reason to end a relationship? If anyone's ever been in a similar situation, please let me know what you did.

I think every relationship has alot of arguing.If you dont argue its not a good relationship because someones not expressing themselves the way they want to.No one agrees all the time.But IF you still love him then tell him.Tell him that you still want to be with him.Tell him everything If he still insist on not wanting to be with you then just move on.It will be hard and take some time but you WILL find someone else. Hope I helped.smooches :)

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ok well my boyfriends are going through some stuff right now and im pretty upset. The other night i had like a nervous breakdown and i started saying how i should die because no one would miss me and my firend said that he would miss me and i got reallly upset again because i turned him down for my boyfriend. Then me and my friend kissed somehow and my supposidly best friend told my boyfriend and now he's really mad at me and i just feel all upset and like crap and he wont answer any of my phone calls and i just dont know what to do.

My suggestion is to talk to your boyfriend face to face, and tell him that you didnt mean what happened and its not that serious.Tell him you may have kissed your friend that kiss didnt mean anything like when you guys kiss.Tell him that he's the 1 you like and you wanna be with him still. Tell him that if he's going to not forgive you over a dumb meaningless kiss then he never really liked you and that true.Listen ma if he doesnt forgive you after appologizing then he's a jerk and you can do better then that. Hope I helped. :)
*KEI-KEI*

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I have a cingular motorola picture phone. How do i get the pictures I take go on the computer?

I think...THINK. you have to hit send picture then type your e-mail in and send once its on your computer in you mail box hit save as and it SHOULD be on your computer.But im just guessing.

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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!

Everyone feels that way everyonce and a while,like everyone has a boyfriend except you. But its ok. Just be patient.If you like some 1 tell them you may have a chance. And dont be in a rush to make it to all the bases it will come soon just slow down, wait. It will all come soon.

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we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore?

Maybe you should'nt completely "DITCH" her but It seems to me you dont really want to be her BEST friend anymore but then you dont want to compleatly diz her.Try talking to her tell her she is 16 and to start acting like it. But if that doesnt help still keep contact with her maybe just dont be as COOL* with her as you were.It wouldnt work out anyway because you are maturing. One day she'll get to your level just wait.Still keep contact....Hope I helped :)

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Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.

You shouldn't say yes if you dont mean it.By doing that you will only make matters worse for the both of you.For him cause he'll eventually find out the truth and you'll end up hurting him more. and for u because you'll feel guilty about the whole thing.Just maybe talk to him and maybe you'll start to like him.If your not interested then just say "no maybe some other time i'm not ready yet." well hope I helped! :)

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okay so i really like this guy Luke* and a lot of my friends have said he likes me as well. Only problem, he has a girlfriend in a different school. He sits behind me in class and he is always talking to me and putting his head on my shoulder (no hes not trying to copy my answers haha) he teases me too and when I say "ugh i hate you right now." he says "oh no .. you love me!" and he is constantly hugging me and stuff but I dont know what to do because he has a girlfriend and I dont know what to say because I have already told him he needs to teach me to ice skate (because ive never done it) but I dont know his girlfriend and I dont want to like screw up their relationship. What do I do??

You shoud just tell him how you feel.HE obviously likes you.But he probly likes the other girl as well.Maybe he's "stuck in the middle"Just give it some time after you tell him and maybe after he's done with his girlfriend he'll come to you.

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Me and my friend want to give my REALLY nerdy other friend a makeover at my house. She's the sensitive type, so how do I approach it? She has a unibrow, HIDEOUS nails, she wears pokemon shirts and granny jeans, her hair is frizzy, heavy, and waist length, and she desperately needs makeup. She desperately needs a new look, so how do my best friend and i approach her and give it to her? What things do I need to change to make her not-so-nerdy (nothing like cutting her hair)? I rate 5's

Well I think maybe you and your friend need to invite the nerdy friend over to wherever you are doing the makeover.Then go through some fashion magazines and then say things like "this would look great on you." or something and suggest you to give makeovers for all of you or something. Dont make it focused on just her. Turn it in to something fun for all of you. Some tips you can do are,cut her nails nice/evenly then add some pretty nailpolish or just clear.For her hair,maybe perm it,wash it blow dry it and flat iron it. Add some make up and maybe take her to a near by nail salon to get her eyebrows waxed.Thats what I would do.Hope I helped!

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