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I have a Friend who introduce me to his Girlfriend and suddenly we bacame friends also but he started cheating on her and I told him the Right thing that he should do. Then he Got mad at. What should I do ?
Don't worry about him. He is a cheater! But let me say this: if she ask tell her. But if not don't say anything. It's not your place to tell her. But don't worry about him. He got mad because he knows your right! So hold your head up high. If you tells her and make's up with her I would give him any other try. you don't want to be friends with I cheater do you?But it's up to you to forgive him. But remember he did not cheat on you. If you had not found out you would would not have not anything to do with this.I'm not saying you did but make sure you stay in you place. If you don't you can lose BOTH of them. Hope I help and did not make thing heard for you.
i am 16 years old and my cousin is 15 almost 16. we were at my other cousins birthday party, who had turned 16. and we were drinking and things, and my cousin was talking to his guy justin. justin is 18 years old and has a gf who is away at college. my cousin really likes him, my family and i do not!! but she was completely ossified to the point where she was starting to black out, and they were kissing and things and i kept my eye on them. i went into the garage for about 10 mins without checking on them, so i finally decided to check on them, and they walked out the gate, i grabbed my friend john and chased after them because they were heading towards his truck. and my cousin was telling my younger cousin that she wanted to have sex with him. so obviously they went to go have sex. but we chased after them and i freaked out on justin. i promised my cousin if he came back id take her to talk to him. i also promised my brother that if he came back i would call him. justin came back i called my bro, i took my cuz to talk him. my brother and i freaked out on him and kicked him out of the party. my cousin was hysterically crying and was so mad at me. but shes almost over it now. but i was wrong to make him leave when noone wanted him there except for her? he has a girlfriend..and he always uses girls for sex. he tried talking to me in september and i was like no. not happening, i dont/didnt like him at all. plus, shes only had sex once in her life. just tell me...was i wrong? everyone i ask tells me i had every right too to do what i did because i dont want her getting hurt, or pregnant, or being a slut, or getting a profile.
Like ever one all ready said you were not wrong. What would have been wrong is to do nothing. Like someone said you should not be drunk when you have sex. What if in her right mind she would not have had sex with him? When it's done it's done no going back.And what if she got sick. Him seems to like to have sex with a lot of girl. And he has a gf! What a jerk.You were very right for right you did!:)Let her be mad. You did a good thing.
I'm 21 and my sister is 17. I'm fairly attractive, and a bit more attractive and popular than she is. When we were younger she very clearly had a crush on me, but I put an end to it and told her I'm just her brother and nothing more (when she told me she wanted to marry me some day). Now that we are both basically adults, its becoming clear to me that she still feels the same way.
She constantly seeks my attention, physical contact, and her body language is fairly obvious. Its a very weird situation for me to be in, and Ive basically been ignoring it, thinking she would grow out of it. I don't want to bring it up because it would just be weird. What should I do?
Oh come on already. She's 17! In till she finds in other man that she thinks is better then you(if ever. she thinks very high of you. you can tell.)she's going to like you. forget about it being "weird". If you don't want to live like this for the rest of you life do you? And what if she makes the move. Then you will just have to talk to her any way. That's why you need to lay down the law right NOW!!!! Tell her that your her sister and that's it and you mean it. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything but this is not the bible time when sister and bothers can just marry. And she's your sister.So you need to stop being attractive to her or all this is going to be a lot heard(er) then it's got to be. P.S.
Don't say it to her like I said. Be a lil more nicer. This is a girls feeling you know. Good luck.
Let's say you are in long distance relationship with your gf/bf for a year and one day that person you love cheated on you because he or she got drunk at the party and made out with someone. Would you forgive them and give them second chance or move on?
I really do agree with Zane. If the someone really cared about you he/she would have made sure to do whats right. I don't really take "oh bab I was drunk" and "I did not mean to" for a good reason.
There's this boy in my class we are both 13 and not dateing he sad that he wanted to date me only to have sex with him. He is always touching my butt and hair during class. What does this mean. I'm a female and he's a male.
You don't really need to hear what i have got to say because all of the people who have all ready answered are right on it(don't ask why I'm answering then. )This boy IS junk. This is school. And your in class. School is not a place for pron.Tell him to go to hell! And tell your mom or dad. Or maybe some one in the school if it goes on.A man like's a girl for for then sex. You date to find a mate. Not to have sex. Now as you get older and you know this person for a long time you MIGHT want to. But should not to be made to(that goes both way's) There is more to sex then having a condom and making sure you don't sick or don't have a baby. there's more. A lot more. It's a gift that you don't give to everone. Hope you get it and thing work out.
Hello Im 13 years old and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating since March 2011 and its now January 2012. He is pretty shy around me and Im sometimes like that. Everyone asks me if we say I Love You and I have to say no because he has yet to say it. Would it be weird if i told him? And how should I? Ans so far he has hugged me. Thats it. No holding hands. And obviously no kiss. How do I hint him i want to go farther
Like they said there's more to saying I love you then just saying it. If you really love him it would have already come out with out you having to ask us about it. There are other ways to say I want to take thing farther then lying to him. And that's just what you will be doing if you tell him that. Just take it easy. You are only 13.Shy men and out going woman come together.(i know. look at some of the people in my fam) So if you really want to take thing up some just wait for the right time to say it. Just like that. I would. Good luck.
i am just fed up with my life...
i want my parter to realise my value and the only way for this is to leave him which is ultimately very difficult for me if i remain alive so tell me what can i do???
the only thing i can think is of suicide.
This is your life. And this is one thing that when you do there's no going back or even a re-do. And what if this person just nailed for killing you. Even if he did not do it? Think of what you will be putting your loved one's in to. Just get some help. There IS help out there. You have got more people with then you think most likely. Don't give up. Go day by day. I don't know else I can say. Good luck and don't give up.P.S I don't mean to get all Christ like on you but you might as well try something.
21 female. Nick 19. This may be kind of long but I will really appreciate any help! :)
Me and Nick have been together for about 4 months. He is the nicest guy I've ever been with I really couldn't ask for a better guy. We've known each other for a long time but just started dating months ago. He pays for me when we go to dinner or get anything to eat. I'll be like "Nooo!" And take out my wallet because I feel bad that he pays for me. But he won't take my money he makes me put my wallet away.
Well last weekend we were going on a double date with my brother and his wife. Nick called his mom for something and she asked what we were doing that night and Nick said going to dinner and his mom asked if he was paying for me and Nick was like well yeah. And she said well do you always pay for her? And he said yeah. And she was like does she ever pay for you? And he said no but she said that she was going to take me to dinner soon. Then she said ..well that's not right and she said it kind of in a mean tone. And she was on speaker phone so I heard everything. Nick was pretty quiet and his mom was like is she right there? And he said yeah, and I walked away. It was so uncomfortable and I was kind of offended.
That night when we were at dinner I took out my wallet again and he said no, put that away and I insisted I at least pay for the tip then and he wasn't even going to let me do that but I forced him to let me.
And just a couple nights before this happened we were talking and I even said I hate that you pay for me I feel bad! And he said no I want to pay for you babe and I said well I'm taking you out some time then! :)
It just bugs me that his mom would say that about me acting like I'm taking advantage of him or something saying "well that's not right, she should pay for you" I couldn't stop thinking about it all night and I was really quiet. Nick could tell something was wrong and he kept asking me if I was mad at him. Finally I said, I know your mom doesn't like me. And he said she likes you babe, you wanna know why she likes you? Because she sees how happy you make me. And I said well it didn't really sound like she liked me too much on the phone and he said well I don't think she said anything bad, what part didn't you like? Obviously he was sticking up for his mom and didn't think anything she said was offensive. I just let it go. But now whenever I see her next I am going to feel really uncomfortable around her. Would you be a little offended if you were me? I don't know what to do!
Plus, he told me way back that he wanted to pay for me & take care of me because I am doing school full time and can't work that much and he is working full time right now before he goes back to school so he knows I don't have a lot of money right now. But it's not like I say, you have to pay for me! No, I'm not like that at all.
Men should always pay for food. That's what I real man does. So it's good that he's paying for you. Stop feeling bad and stop trying to pay. We are in new times but some thing should stay the same. And you are going to school. What man will not pay for you? If you find I man that does not then you know that he's not really a man. Just a boy who's in a men body. And the next time you see his mother say something. Say: it's not wrong for him to pay for me. That's what a real men does.
I feel that he should not stand by his mother when he knows she wrong. People don't just give out money. He most have learn some where that a men pay's for a woman when they go out. To eat and when you are shopping(and more!)She was wrong. Very wrong!
My hair is super dry at the ends. I really don't want to get it cut because it's like three inches and I'm trying to grow it out. I don't have any split ends or damage other than the dryness so it really doesnt seem like I should have to cut it all off. I don't know what else to do though! I've tried moisture serums, deep conditioners, jojoba oil, leave in conditioner cream, and I've even started taking the one a day supplements just in case it was malnourished. I think I take pretty good care of my hair, it gets a lot of sun and salt during summer, and I style it with heat every few weeks, but I always use protecting products and I always get my split ends cut off. Any suggestions?
Try some oil. Olive oil is good for you. Or some Doo-Gro. Or if that does not work for you try some Nature's Blessing(that's a little herd to find so if you can't don't worry about it.) Then most likely you need to cut your hair. Sorry. Hope I was help.
Okay, I know I should have respected his privacy, I feel bad about it, but I was just so curious! My older brother (I'm 14, he's 19- almost 20) is my best friend. We are super close, I love him more than anyone else in the world, and we tell each other everything-- EXCEPT things that involve our love lives (kissing and sexual stuff.) We never talk about that kind of thing because it would be too awkward. My brother is the nicest person in the world, and I would never have expected him to do some of these things... even though I guess he's old enough.
Anyway, my mom instructed me to read his texts if I got the chance while he was home from college, because she said that she should know what he's doing. He left his phone downstairs today, and to my horror, he and his girlfriend had been texting about how he "made her underwear wet and sticky" and how much she loved his "crisp, hard dick." Ahhhhh!!! I was actually horrified. I did not mention these texts to my parents or brother, nor do I intend to, but I am honestly emotionally scarred. I can't look at my brother the same way. I mean, I know people his age do stuff like that, he doesn't know what I've done with my boyfriend ( nothing like that!) but still. I'm just having a hard time coping with this. He's the sweetest, most innocent kid. I don't exactly know what advice I want... just something that will hopefully make me feel less disgusted and traumatized. Haha. I don't know how far this means they've gone... Ugh.
So what you will do the same one day. One day some boy make your underwear wet. But your Mom was like so wrong. I don't care if he lives in her house she has no right to look in his phone because she just wants to know. And to ask you to do it...oh man don't get mad but I want to slap her! He's over 18 and he almost 20. So what he's having sex? He not under age . Let go of it. Forget it. Never ever do something like that again. I know it herd to so no to your Mom Love but some time's you have to do it. So something like this: You know Mom I think i can do that. If you want to know PLEASE do it your self. I don't think I can do it. But let me tell you something you thou you mother put you up to it you still had NO RIGHT.
Well I went over to my boyfriends house who is 2 years older than me. I am 13 and hen is 15. I went over there and we were up in his room we were just talking and then he told me he loved me of course I told him I love you to. Well then he said if you really love me then you will do something for. I asked him what. Then he said will you suck on my dick? I told him okay but I warn you I have never done it before. Well while I was doing it he started grabbing my boobs and fingering me well I went along with it because he has done this stuff before and well I hadn't. Well afterward we just kissed and stuff. but please tell me was this wrong?
That love and life and something person was like so wrong!! If you really thought it was okay then you would have not asked this. You know very well that this was wrong. I'm 14 and it would be nice to have a boyfriend but at this time NO SEX. For one I know that I'm not ready and the LAW said no sex till 18. And most times girl of that age are still not ready. Nor are the boy's but most of them will do it anyways. The boy is 15 and has seen a way to get what he wants. 13 yr old girls and 15 yr old boy's don't mix. Most time when one is older then the other(boy or girl) it does not work out. And you said your self that you do not love him. There for you don't need to have sex with him. How did you say that? This is what you said: And of course I told him that I loved him too.
If you really loved him there would be no: of course I said I loved him. Like you had to say it or something. Like you did not really love him. If you loved him you would have said something like this: And because I KNOW that I liked him I said I loved him back. And he had have sex before. Love when is your bell going to go off? You need some love that was no sugar in it. Good for you at this time. Oh and one more thing: break-up with him.
If you need more sugar less love just ask me June for it.
Well I started talking to this guy and all of a suden he asked me out well when we first started dating he told me he wanted to make out with me it was literally 5 min after we started dating but then he just stopped talking to me and I dont know why do you have any advice
This buy is just not a jerk but a b-boy. He wanted nothing from you but sex. That's not a guy you want to be with. You should get better from a man. And you will. One day. This boy is full of nothing but shit. His poor mother. What ever did she do too get a son like him?
my friend who is married for 3 year has 2 kids is now getting divorce. She’s asking a question ‘’ why his husband is pushing her away'’ why he does not want to see her nor talking to her he told me, she think her husband still lover her but she dont understand why he is so horrible towards her. She even told me that the family of her husband told her that she deserve such cruelty! I knew she is so complicated during this time because she wanted to fight back her husband. And keep telling us that she never close her heart to her husband and that the divorce was not her decision. So anyone could answer her question why the husband is hate her that much? I, myself and one other friends of her dont understand why. could be it’s true that the husband still love her?
before the divorce, she has a very good job in europe and in good salary. But the husband is not. Now that she stop working because her contract end, she then start nugging the husband to and start telling him that his salary is isnt good enoght for thier family. the answered, ( life is better for her without him ) The divorce is here she then start blaming everyone specially his parents by encouring thier son to go ahead the diyivorce. She is not trying to get the husband to be out of the parents control because she think there is a possibility that the husband would see that he cant take care thier kids and therefore he realize he needed her and possible back together. only if the parents is out of influence on him. Do every one think that it could be possible? But I can see is rather complicated since she is provoking it so with the procedure of thier divorce by making it so conflict because she hope so much of winning her husband back.
Um....I'm only 14 so I will try to answer the best I can. It's okay if you give me a 1 because I don't think I will answer that good. But I will try.
If this guy want out and thing's can't be work out he has right to walk away. Yes I know that he has kids with her....But I just don't know. Can they hold on till the kids are 16 or something like that? A friend of mine did that. Divorce is herder on kids then they make it seem. Most kids just act like thing are A-ok. I know. My Mom and Dad...I just know how it really feel's.. so does my sister so I know it's just not me.
But to me it does not seem that the the Dad is trying. But try to get then too get some of that help for husband's and wife's. But if thing's can't work out...she need's to let go of him. It's really sad. Tell then I feel for them. Sorry. Hope I was help(I don't think I was thou)
so me and m boyfriend have been together for about a year. we dont live together. I'm in college and was using his laptop to catch up on some homework while he was at work when i was typing something into the top and it came up with past history of him looking at hot sex nude videos among other things. im not sure how i should respond. i feel like i should be upset and angry or am i just over reacting?
It's ok. Most all guy's look at porn. If you have sex with him this does not mean you are not good or anything. Like I said most guy's look at porn. Now if he said that this girl can fuck bitter then you...that's not ok. But he did not said that. But know this: you are not over reacting. Most girl would have acted the way you acted. It's ok to freak out. As long as you don't take it out on him. Like we all said:I don't think you will ever find a men that does not look at porn a blue moon. If you think that he should only look at you boobs and stuff(and STUFF)he might think you are being unfair. Are you? Well him going out and having sex with a woman IS chatting. But looking at porn....don't know.But know this if he can look at porn so can you.
..But is it a bad thing to like my sister in law's step brother?
Most of the time YES! Most likely he see's you like a sister. Not a girl friend! How to know for sure that you does not like you back? DON'T come out and just ask him:do you like me? No! Look for the thing that girl look for to see if a boy like's her. Don't know what thing's they are? Here are some(I don't know all of them): Face getting red at all most anything you say. Looking at you like he want's so say something. Look at you then down at the floor. When you talks to you and stop and stars with his word's. He's not mad at you*(be sure. because he might do this if he's mad at you.)leaving you note's about stuff when he can just talk to you.Ever time you go to talk to him you leave's.
I know there are more but I don't know them and the one's I know are not coming to me. Sorry about that. Now if you does this just one, two or maybe three or four time's don't be going all happy. Just to be sure it need this to happen about six or seven time. You should ask about what you the thing's boy's do when they like you. Maybe some one know more about that then I. Hop so(from what you have read I don't know that much.)
Good luck. Try to remember all this. There is more to learn(and I need to learn it too.)
do guys hate kissing girls who wear lip gloss
Some boys like it. But they most be crazy about you(or just crazy about any girl)
Most he will not say anything. Try color lip beem. I've never kissed a boy but my sis said it worked.
Happen kissing
I never chat to any other man, not anymore the first and the last is my lover. I have no interest at all. thank you. As man your advise is helpful
Think you. Sorry but what are you asking me?
Okay so i have a problem.
Im 13 and my older sister is 15.
My cousins(16 & 18yearolds)came to hang out and take us and my little 9 yr old sister shopping and to hang out.
So they went to pick up a boy, Brian(17) and we went to a park and ate some ice cream. Then they brought him home. They hid him under the bed and told my mom they were sleeping over(my cousins) and long story short Brian ended up having UNPROTECTED sex, the rest of us were watching a movie & my LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD sister, me, and my cousin walked in on them.
I feel really disgusted with my sister & cant look her inth eye. Then she BEGGED my older cousin to buy the 'after sex whatever' pills. And she never talks to brian after that. I dont know if that was her first time or if all those times she went to havesleepovers werent such a goo d idea. I want things to go back to nomal, i still love her ( she's my sister) but i really dont think much Of her, She used to be my idol but now i dont wanna be anything like her. But i feel really bad ( even cried a couple of times) but it was kind of my fault too. I picked the lock with my cousin because we just thought they were making out,we thought chrissy knew better then that. What should i do?
You mean the morning after pills? And further more no your sister is not 18 but the boy is not ether. So nothing with the law is in here if you know what I mean. And it's your little sister that you should really be worried about. I mean at nine you sister should not know how to have sex. How do you think we have 10,11 and12 mother's! And if your sister want to be dumb and have unpotected sex..don't be like her. But that is her bees wax. You should have not picked the lock. You should say you are sorry for doing that. But other then that? Can't do much about it can you?
hi should I'm devastated, should I confront my lover and tell her how I feel? even then I know he love his wife?
How would you feel if you were he's wife? Like Zane said MOVE ON!!! Don't help this guy to chat. Then what tell me what would stop him from chatting on you. Not only with his wife but some other woman. Don't do it. There are other man. I just hope you don't chat on them too.