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her divorce and thought
my friend who is married for 3 year has 2 kids is now getting divorce. She’s asking a question ‘’ why his husband is pushing her away'’ why he does not want to see her nor talking to her he told me, she think her husband still lover her but she dont understand why he is so horrible towards her. She even told me that the family of her husband told her that she deserve such cruelty! I knew she is so complicated during this time because she wanted to fight back her husband. And keep telling us that she never close her heart to her husband and that the divorce was not her decision. So anyone could answer her question why the husband is hate her that much? I, myself and one other friends of her dont understand why. could be it’s true that the husband still love her?
before the divorce, she has a very good job in europe and in good salary. But the husband is not. Now that she stop working because her contract end, she then start nugging the husband to and start telling him that his salary is isnt good enoght for thier family. the answered, ( life is better for her without him ) The divorce is here she then start blaming everyone specially his parents by encouring thier son to go ahead the diyivorce. She is not trying to get the husband to be out of the parents control because she think there is a possibility that the husband would see that he cant take care thier kids and therefore he realize he needed her and possible back together. only if the parents is out of influence on him. Do every one think that it could be possible? But I can see is rather complicated since she is provoking it so with the procedure of thier divorce by making it so conflict because she hope so much of winning her husband back.
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Um....I'm only 14 so I will try to answer the best I can. It's okay if you give me a 1 because I don't think I will answer that good. But I will try.
If this guy want out and thing's can't be work out he has right to walk away. Yes I know that he has kids with her....But I just don't know. Can they hold on till the kids are 16 or something like that? A friend of mine did that. Divorce is herder on kids then they make it seem. Most kids just act like thing are A-ok. I know. My Mom and Dad...I just know how it really feel's.. so does my sister so I know it's just not me.
But to me it does not seem that the the Dad is trying. But try to get then too get some of that help for husband's and wife's. But if thing's can't work out...she need's to let go of him. It's really sad. Tell then I feel for them. Sorry. Hope I was help(I don't think I was thou)
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Because your just the friend looking in on the marriage you will never know the real stuff going on between them only the he said/she said stuff. If she really doesn't understand,. then she just needs to talk to him, ask him those questions and tell him she doesn't understand what went wrong or what happened for him to be pushing her away.
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