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Should I tell him ' I love you' ?
Hello Im 13 years old and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating since March 2011 and its now January 2012. He is pretty shy around me and Im sometimes like that. Everyone asks me if we say I Love You and I have to say no because he has yet to say it. Would it be weird if i told him? And how should I? Ans so far he has hugged me. Thats it. No holding hands. And obviously no kiss. How do I hint him i want to go farther
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Like they said there's more to saying I love you then just saying it. If you really love him it would have already come out with out you having to ask us about it. There are other ways to say I want to take thing farther then lying to him. And that's just what you will be doing if you tell him that. Just take it easy. You are only 13.Shy men and out going woman come together.(i know. look at some of the people in my fam) So if you really want to take thing up some just wait for the right time to say it. Just like that. I would. Good luck.
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If you have to ask if you should say I love you then you're obviously not ready to say it. Now when you say how do I hint him to go farther I really do hope you mean just a kiss and holding hands. I guess for that you could maybe lean into him when you hug get your faces close? Quite a lot of the time especially at this age both guys and girls are shy. And the majority of girls expect the guy to make the first move - but really you can make a move to if you want something to happen? So just grab his hand one day in the playground or something and be like Hi and have a conversation, don't make it into a big thing, act natural with it.
I hope this helps xx
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Don't tell him I love you unless you really mean it. I've told enough guys I loved them when I only realized I liked them a lot. The only reason I'd tell them I love them was because other people would keep asking or I'd feel pressured because they say it.
So until you are sure, don't say it.
Since you guys have been together for awhile, you could probably try hinting at him that you want to hold his hand. Maybe brushing yours along his or while you guys sit next to each other mess with his hands or something.
You both are shy but eventually you guys will become comfortable around each other.
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Do you think you really love him? If you don't truly mean it, then you shouldn't say it just because you feel pressured to. I don't remember how many times that I've told a guy that I love him just because I felt pressured to. Don't let it get to you. If he is shy, you might have to make the first move. Just make sure that you both are comfortable with it so you don't pressure him either. I hope I was helpful and good luck with your relationship :)
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