Would you give second chance to someone who cheated on you?
Question Posted Tuesday January 17 2012, 7:17 am
Let's say you are in long distance relationship with your gf/bf for a year and one day that person you love cheated on you because he or she got drunk at the party and made out with someone. Would you forgive them and give them second chance or move on?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ashok-UK answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 7:19 am: I would end it and move on. How can you ever fully trust someone who has cheated on you? and although not always the case - cheaters normally cheat again! I know everyone makes mistakes but cheating is different I think - because if they were truly dedicated to and in love with you they wouldn't even think of cheating! I don't like cheaters - you should have more self respect than to stay with a cheater!! My honest advice - end it and move on.
June answered Tuesday January 17 2012, 5:59 pm: I really do agree with Zane. If the someone really cared about you he/she would have made sure to do whats right. I don't really take "oh bab I was drunk" and "I did not mean to" for a good reason. [ June's advice column | Ask June A Question ]
Xui answered Tuesday January 17 2012, 3:35 pm: Move on
Cheaters are a waste of time, Drinking is not an excuse to cheat on someone. We are responsible of how much alcohol we consume and this person was not responsible. There is no excuse for someone to cheat at all.
Don't let them guilt trip you, They had a chance and they blew it. They were also well aware that they were drinking and how much they were drinking.
Meet someone else that will value your relationship and respect you, Not some dirtbag that is inconsiderate of your feelings. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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