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Is this common when there's a relationship trouble between the couple?


Question Posted Tuesday January 17 2012, 7:26 am

Is it common to happen when the gf/bf having troubles with their relationship and bf/gf tells and vent it out with the friend who secretly likes her/him and eventually one of them falls for the friend who was there for person when the gf/bf were having trouble with their relationship? Or is it just one of those movie cliché moments?

Sorry if it is confusing.


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kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 1:00 pm:
Every relationship is different. Sure this is a move cliche and this sadly does happen in real life, but most relationships don't end up like this.
I guess things like this only occur because the friend gets too close and the person they help wants to be with them in a relationship because at the time they seem like the better option- as if the relationship will be better because the friend knows alot of advice. Though these kind of relationships rareley work out.

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Xui answered Tuesday January 17 2012, 3:32 pm:
Relationships are about trust and communication, If one person is going around ratting their problems onto someone else then there is lack of communication in the relationship. Relationships take teamwork, If you have a problem with the other half then you need to sit down talk it out and work on fixing it. Sometimes venting is okay but if you do it consistently then you are allowing other people to be involved in your problems. If someone ratted on me all the time about their relationship not only would I probably get annoyed but it would probably make me think their relationship is a bit unstable. Really, Going to other people about your relationship problems will only do nothing but destroy your relationship and overtime your trust will be non existent.

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