|
was i wrong to stop my cousin from having sex?
i am 16 years old and my cousin is 15 almost 16. we were at my other cousins birthday party, who had turned 16. and we were drinking and things, and my cousin was talking to his guy justin. justin is 18 years old and has a gf who is away at college. my cousin really likes him, my family and i do not!! but she was completely ossified to the point where she was starting to black out, and they were kissing and things and i kept my eye on them. i went into the garage for about 10 mins without checking on them, so i finally decided to check on them, and they walked out the gate, i grabbed my friend john and chased after them because they were heading towards his truck. and my cousin was telling my younger cousin that she wanted to have sex with him. so obviously they went to go have sex. but we chased after them and i freaked out on justin. i promised my cousin if he came back id take her to talk to him. i also promised my brother that if he came back i would call him. justin came back i called my bro, i took my cuz to talk him. my brother and i freaked out on him and kicked him out of the party. my cousin was hysterically crying and was so mad at me. but shes almost over it now. but i was wrong to make him leave when noone wanted him there except for her? he has a girlfriend..and he always uses girls for sex. he tried talking to me in september and i was like no. not happening, i dont/didnt like him at all. plus, shes only had sex once in her life. just tell me...was i wrong? everyone i ask tells me i had every right too to do what i did because i dont want her getting hurt, or pregnant, or being a slut, or getting a profile.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
Like ever one all ready said you were not wrong. What would have been wrong is to do nothing. Like someone said you should not be drunk when you have sex. What if in her right mind she would not have had sex with him? When it's done it's done no going back.And what if she got sick. Him seems to like to have sex with a lot of girl. And he has a gf! What a jerk.You were very right for right you did!:)Let her be mad. You did a good thing.
]
No, you did not do the wrong thing stopping a guy from having sex with your black out drunk cousin. That's exactly what you should do in a situation like that.
]
you were very smart to do that :) One of these days i'm sure your cousin will thank you for doing that, it shows that you care :) I'd be worried if you hadn't done anything. Don't worry about it :)
]
No. In my opinion, you did the right thing. She was intoxicated and in no proper state of mind to make the right decisions. I believe if someone is going to sleep with another, they need to be sober and level headed to ensure they are making the proper decision. Imagine if you had not caught up with them in time, and they had already finished the deed. Also putting into consideration, had they done it, and started dating, who is to say he wouldn't have done it to her too (cheating that is) You were not wrong, you were doing what any caring relative would have done. Don't feel bad, but feel good that you protected your cousin from a possible difficulty.
]
More Questions: |