17/f
I am currently seeing a nice, respectable guy but I`d really like to see a more outgoing side of him as he is usually a little too laid back and it leaves me close to boredum. So far we have watched a movie at my house & his house, watched shooting stars at the beach, sat on the beach & talked for hours, and hung out with a few of my friends at my house.
These situations are not particularily exciting so I would like to try something new or improve something we have already done. Any 'activities' (such as bowling, amusement parks, etc) do not work because we both have busy schedules for the next month and will only see eachother in the evenings. We are not at the point of going out for dinner, either. What might you suggest we do? I was thinking of having him over to watch a movie again. What might be a good movie for us to watch?
Thanks so much for your advice or any other insight, I really appreciate it! I think we both could learn something from this relationship, even if it is not quite challenging enough for me, and I would really like to make the most of it.
Umm I disagree with the person who commented before me. Obviously this guy seems pretty nice and it's awesome that you guys can just spend time talking. Maybe try having a cute little picnic at night at a park or beach? It will be something different and romantic. To make it even more fun, do it spontaneously so he doesn't know what's happening.
And, it might sound lame, but game nights with him and with friends too can be fun. It sounds dorky - but when you get into it it usually turns out to be a lot of fun. Also you said bowlings out of the question - but you can still go bowling at night if there are any nearby open late. Also maybe try talking to him about his more outgoing side. Find out different things he's been wanting to try or do that you didn't previously know about and look into trying them out with him :).
I hope this helped =)
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im 16/f & i really like this kid, jake & we have sucha good connection..whenever we hang out he flirts with me hardcore, touches me, gives me long hugs, etc. 2 nights ago we hung out and it was the best time. but the thing is so far it has always been me & my friends instigating the hanging out part..i know he & his friends have fun (or at least they tell us that.) we dont want to be too needy, so when we left the other night, jake's friend said "we should deff hang out again" & my friend was like "yeahh give us a call when you want to!" but so far, i've heard nothing..what if they never callll..basically, what should i do and how much time should i give them before i call them (if i should at all) haha thanks!
I'd just wait it out a lil more. It's not as if he's your boyfriend or it's for a date, so it's not as serious as he takes his time. He might have just been busy these past few days and he's waiting for when he's ready to hang out again to call. But if it's been a while and you start to get antsy then come up with some fun plans and give him a call. Since it's just for a hang out, there's no shame in calling just for that =]
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15/f
Okay, well i went to a party about two weeks ago and this guy i didn't know but thought was cute told one of my friends he thought i was cute and we started texting and he said i was pretty and cute and all that but he saw me from a distance and i usually don't get boyfriends because i mean i'm not the most prettiest girl in the world but i'm not the worst either but i think that once i see him again he won't think i'm pretty because he saw me from a distance and he is a really popular guy and i can't believe he would like me. So i don't know what to do. Also, i haven't kissed a guy before and i didn't want him to know that but one of my friends told him. I don't want the cutest guy in school to think i am unexpierienced. I mean i am but i found out from his best friend that he was talking about that to him, not bad about it but just talking about it. I mean, i am really shy but and i just don't want him to know that. Once, he sees me up close, i don't think he will like me...what should i do?
Well I think even if he saw you from a distance that wouldn't be enough for a guy to be that interested. For all you know he might have been liking you for a while now. I don't think you should worry that much, all you should do is be YOU. An air of confidence can make any girl beautiful. And think about it this way: if he sees you and thinks you're ugly (which I'm sure you're not) then why would you want to be with someone that superficial? Also, he could be diggin you for a lot more than just looks alone. And if that's the case, you're in even more luck!
And don't worry about not being "experienced" - you're only 15! And that won't mean that you're gonna be a bad kisser or anything. Just go with the flow and enjoy every moment ! Plus it wasn't really your friend's business to tell him that about you. But so far that hasn't changed his mind so that could also be a good sign :]
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Does anyone know where you can get grey skinny jeans for a decent price?
Funny you should ask, I'm wearing a pair right now, lol.
I got mine at Charades for a good price (I believe their prices ranged from about $20 or maybe less to $30). I'm not sure if you have any of those stores around where you live (I live in NY) but if so I'd check it out. Also I agree with the person before me who said Forever 21.
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I was with this guy (not dating, but hooking up) for a little while, and then just last week I gave him a blowjob. I haven´t seen him since because I went to camp, but I´m getting texts and its getting out, which was deffinatenly not supposed to happen.
At school which starts in like two weeks and soccer preseason, people are gonna be asking like crazy, because thats how it is where I live.
I mean I can´t deny it, but when people ask what should I do so they drop it? Itll die down probably pretty quickly, but only if I handle it right, which I´m not quite sure to do. (If I were to deny it it wouldnt die down)
SOOOOO what should I do???!! If someone was like `Did you give him head´ should I like look at them with a serious face and say drop it? I am thought of as being intimidating to many... haha
PLEAAASEE HELPP & thanks!!
I'd say you just tell them politely that it's absolutely none of their business whether you did or did not, and it doesn't concern them. And you can tell them to drop it because that's exactly what they should do. What you choose to do shouldn't affect their life and doesn't concern them.
What I'm kinda worried about is just how this piece of information got out. Did your guy tell anyone? Because if that's the case I think you need to sit him down and tell him that that was NOT cool. What happened between you two isn't anyone else's business, and he needs to know that.
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Okay, so im going to have my first time in august with my boyfriend. I just have a few sex questions.
its pretty much impossibal to get preg. if you use a condom right?
does it hurt the first time?
can i have sex without birth control?
My periods are usually unusual, so im going to be scared if my period comes late [it usually always does] so how will i know if im preg. or not?
how do you use a preg test? im going to use one just incase.
are you sore in the morning?
anything else i need to know?
thank you :] and im 15 1/2 female. Please don't tell me that its stupid and im too young because i really love my boyfriend
Okay, so I guess I'll just answer question by question.
- No, it is absolutely NOT impossible to get pregnant while using a condom. There are no condoms (or really any kind of birth control) that's 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. Plus, there are other circumstances to take into consideration, such as the condom breaking, or falling off or even being defective (make sure its a trusted brand - and not expired!)
- Yes. If you're hymen hasn't broken already, and if you're not used to much penetration in that area, it is supposed to hurt. If it hurts too much make sure you let your boyfriend know. And if he does break your hymen, you'll probably start to bleed so don't get too freaked out about that.
- Yes, but if you're concerned about pregnancy (which you obviously are) you have to make sure you use some kind of contraceptive (aka a condom).
- There are other signs you can use to see if you are. Read this to see: http://www.filly.ca/health/body/pregnancy/top-10-signs-of-pregnancy.asp.
- How each one works/says you are pregnant usually differs, so it depends on the one you get. But basically it's a white stick like thing that you pee on and it will tell you if you are or not.
- I guess that depends on your body and how much it hurt when penetrated. I think it differs from person to person.
...i guess that's all I can really say for now. If you want to go through with it then it's all up to you. But make sure you think of all the factors beforehand. And most of all, BE SAFE !
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I'm 18; my parents got divorced when I was 11, and I started having unsupervised visits to my dad's apartment when I was 13. I worry about my father - he takes his drugs and sees his psychologist and doctor, but the fact remains that he has bipolar disorder and very high blood pressure, and he refuses to try and help himself. He lives in a tiny, roach-infested apartment that smells horrendous, and he never cleans it. He eats red meat all the time, and never eats fresh vegetables. I've tried to talk to him about his diet and his living conditions many times, but he'll never listen, and if I ever try to help clean up the apartment he stops me, saying that there's no need for me to spend our limited time together doing chores. . . but our time together usually consists of watching TV, because he never goes anywhere. Do you have any idea how I can get through to him?
I think a big aspect of it, like you said, is the fact that he has bipolar disorder. How long has he been acting/living like this? Is it a recent thing, or has it been happening since the divorce? Because it's possible that took a major toll on him emotionally, especially because of his condition. I know you said he doesn't listen, but maybe if you just sat him down and let him know how his behavior is affecting YOU, then maybe he'll start to listen. Let him know that it hurts you to see him live that way and jeopardize his health and put his life in danger. And when he stops you from cleaning up his apartment, let him know that because of the smell and the mess it's making it difficult for you to visit and enjoy your time there. He needs to know that you love him, and that's why its so hard for you to see him like that. And even if he doesn't want to go anywhere, try to get him to turn off the tv and spend some time instead talking to you about your life as well as his and anything else.
I really hope this helps and I hope the best for you and your father =)
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Of first of all My bestfriend knew about us and my boyfriend...I dint think that she was happy but she told me...I was always with my boyfriend in a way....So my boyfriend and my bestfriend are fighting like "I was first planning it"!!I know my bestfriend has to understant I'm in a relationship and that confuses me I'm stuck in the middle when I'm wit them so.....who do I go out with?
I'm not really sure I understand completely, but why don't you split up your time evenly among the two? At least until you can achieve a sort of friendship between the two of them, so then you can hang out with both at the same time without causing a problem. Just don't choose one over the other, because that's not fair to either of them -- especially your best friend.
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a waterline that has to do with eyes and make up?
oo okie.
in that case from what I found it's: (advertising slang) the inner rim of the eyelid, just behind the lash line; primarily used in reference to the application of eyeliner.
hope this helps =)
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whats waterline?
I would agree with the poster below me, but are you referring to it as something else? Like, where did you hear of it ?
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Well I'm 15, heading into my sophomre year and i am so sick of how i look. i need some advice about what would look good on me. im overweight and trying to lose that, i have no butt (completely flat) somewhat big boobs, and sorta long legs. i wear mostly blue jeans or shorts, t t-shirts and my sneakers or flip flops. i want someting that is comfortable and kinda dressy, without going over the top. i have just past my shoulder brownish red hair, and blue eyes. do any of you know a few stores with cute, and cheap (my dad drives a truck so we rarely have a bunch of cash) clothes that might look ok with my body? please i need help, school for me starts the 8th of august
I would recommend checking out Wet Seal, Charlotte Rousse and Forever 21. They have nice affordable clothes that can fit into that dressy-yet-casual category. You're best bet would just be to go crazy and try on everything that catches your eye to see which you like the best and what compliments your features the most (take a trusty friend with you to give you feedback!) and if any of it's not within your price range, at least you can get an idea of the style of clothes you like and what looks good on you!
I hope this helped =)
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Okay, so I've been looking to rent or buy this movie for a long time now but no store seems to have it. I've tried Blockbuster, Hollywood Video, and even this one store where they sell Asian products. Does anyone know where to get this movie?
If you're not against buying things online, I would say your best bet is to try amazon.com. They have pretty much everything and my friend bought me a movie off there that I hadn't found in ANY stores everywhere I looked.
It is pretty odd that no stores carry that movie though.
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i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP
f/16
I think it might not be the best idea. To do that might make you gain even more feelings for him and feel even more attached, which would just make the break up even harder. Having sex is a big step to take and a big choice to make, and I feel if you're really serious about this you might have to be more than just "ok" with it. In the end the decision is up to you, obviously, but you have to be alright with not seeing him after, which is difficult in any case esp. if it's your first time. Also if you already feel like you might regret it, it could be your subconscious trying to tell you something. If he's sure that you guys cant see each other after he moves, then it might be the best option to not make that big step with him so soon before he leaves.
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Okay so ive been dating this guy on and off for the past year and 4 months. We have had some pretty bad issues that lead to our break ups but we've worked through them all i guess. I've always felt great wen i was with him and like everything was perfect, excluding when we were fighting.. Except out last break up we spent 5 months apart and we both dated 2 other people before we got back together. Now that we're back together (Mind u this is the 6th time we have got back together) i thought everything would be great again, cuz well i love this kid and this is what ive wanted the whole time we were apart.. Butt i guess i was wrong.. Wen we got back together he just seemed to be more controlling and really distant.. it even feels weird to talk to him on the fone. I tryed to talk to him about it the other day and he told me he kinda thought the same thing but he didnt know wut to do about it and well neither do i. Also lately i found myself starting to get feelings for someone else.. Friends ive asked for advice told me that maybe we shouldnt be together. Im so confused, please help.
I too second your friends advice. It sucks to have to end it with someone whom you love and who you've been through a lot with, but sometimes it's just for the best. Maybe you guys are meant to be together -- just not right now. I think that if there's someone else you're developing feelings for and who you could see yourself with, then you shouldn't deny yourself a chance to be with them and to be happy. And if you're boyfriend feels the same way now then it's probably best to end it mutually and on fairly good terms. Who knows? You guys might end up together again in the long run. Or maybe this new guy might be exactly what you've been looking for. Just be with who you think will make you the happiest.
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my friend has a razr phone & there's a little symbol (like you know when you put your phone on vibrate it has that little phone vibrating? a symbol like that) and it's a cell phone with an arrow on the left side of the phone pointing right towards the phone
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does anyone know what that means FOR SURE?
Does she have Verizon?
Because my phone does that (but it's not a razr) and when that symbol shows up it means I have a missed call. It looks like a little arrow like this |_> pointing to a little phone. My mom used to have a razr and I'm almost positive she had that too. So most likely it means she just has a missed call. The vibrate symbol is just a phone with like, lines coming out to show it's vibrating.
So yea, I'm pretty positive it means that she has a missed call.
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So I just ended my period today. And usually, I wait at least a day after my period ends to have sex, because I have this dark stuff that like...if I had a tampon in it would come out on the tampon. So I wait usually to make sure thats all gone.
BUT tonight I have a date with my boyfriend and I want to have sex with him tonight.
My question is, aside from going out and buying like a douche or something, is there any way I can clean out the inside of my vag before tonight? Like something I can do at home?
I would say you're safest and easiest bet is to just use good ole soap and water. Which you can use at any time, and is sometimes even better than douching. I'm not sure if it's the safest to douche the day your period ends (I could be wrong about that though) so I would suggest just taking a shower and cleaning it out with soap (pref. a bar of soap) and water. It sounds simple, but it works.
And the dark stuff, if I'm thinking correctly, is probably just a blood clot, which will easily come out and be gone when washed.
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my boyfriend was arrested for robbing over 20 cars and havin a loaded gun on him and then he ran from the cops but then was caught again. he is 17 years old.hes being charged as an adult. an officer told me that he will be held for 28 days and then it will be decided how long hes in jail for. does anyone know what the penelty for all the above is?? please help
Grand theft auto? That's pretty serious. I guess it all depends on where you are but that could land you a good 2 years in prison...but over 20 cars?! That's definitley a felony, so that could possibly make it a lot longer.
Now on top of that, the gun charges. With a felony weapons offense and sentenced to prison, the judge will choose from three prison terms: "low-term", "mid-term", and "high-term". For example, for an assault with an assault weapon, the low-term is four years in prison, mid-term is eight years and high-term is twelve years. With no criminal record, the sentence would most likely be four years.
Now like I said, it could be different in various places, but basically your boyfriend made some dumb moves and he's definitley gonna pay for them.
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15/f
i am going into my sophomore year of high school this year and i have a very attatched relationship with my boyfriend, and my friends.
My parents are already planning where they are going to retire, and where i am going to go to college.
Im not ready for these changes yet!
I want to stay right here, and go to college here like my friends & like my boyfriend are doing.
I really dont want to leave, and their throwing this all in my face and i am only still a kid
I cant handle this stress.
I dont know what to do, i just had to tell someone.
Im really attached to my home, and i dont want to leave.
The drive is 8 or 9 hours by the way.
Well first off, you are right. You don't have to worry about that just yet. ENJOY YOUR HIGHSCHOOL TIME WHILE YOU HAVE IT. Those 4 years go fast, so don't rush it, and don't let anyone make you rush it. And as for where you go to college, that's YOUR decision. If you don't want to go far, then that's up to you to decide. But also remember that things can change between now and the time you have to actually make that decision. By then you might have a completely different outlook on what you want to do and where you want to go. A lot can change in those few years.
But in the meantime, just don't stress too much about it. Take everyday as it comes and enjoy your teenage life =)
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when i shave under my arms, you can still see the little bumps of hair so i tried shaving with the razor down and it kinda helps better but it gives me razor burn. what can i do to make it compltetly clear with out razor burn?
I hate when that happens. For me I found the best razor to use is the Venus razor. It's a clean shave, leaves no bumps, and doesn't give razor burn.
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