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well im 16 and willing to answer any problem you have. all my friends come to me for advice and i thought why not offer my services to everyone! if my advice is good please rate so i know if im helping and if not i can improve my advice! anytime!
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my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me
is he really worth it? i mean i know u may love him but do you think he really loves you? if he did then there is no way he would have put you through that and cheated on you. if he has done it once then its likely he will do it again unless he realises that its wrong. and the only way to do that is by loosing you. if he wants you back and seesthat beacuse of what hes done he cant have you then he will realise not to do it agn. then in a while when he looks to have learnt his lesson (and i mean leave it a couple of months or sumthing) then it might be safer to try again then.
hope i helped!
ok i like this guy and i want to tell him but i would get nevous and red in the face if i told him. so i want to do in a way that i dont have to tell him.plz help.
you could always call him? then if you go red no one will know. or tell him on the computer that way no onewill know either. but if you do think you can do it face to face then go for it because thats always the best way! its sumhow makes it seem more genuine!
hope i helped!
how do you like a guy like a bf but not attracted to him? dont say that means you dont like him or the personality thing because wait i dunno why you shouldent say that. ill rate 5!
well you obviously just like him as a person and are not attacted to him in a sexual way!
about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?
there isn't a specific age. its basically whenever you feel comfortable with it! depends on the circumstances but if you feel that you want to then go for it! lol!
please help me i dont know how to wash a booksack??how can you???asap because all the stuff that goes in it is junkning up my room!!!!!!
well im not too sure but i figue that the best thing to do is to check inthe bag and see if it has a tag to see if you can machine was it. most book sacks you can but it depends wat its made out of. if not you could always hand was it but that depends what its made out of as well. you need to add a bit more detail to it so im not sure because you were a bit vague. lol. sorry.
Alright, I have a boyfriend..he loves to cook and we have been together for 10 months and we both plan on making it longer. BUT now he wants me to cook. I suck-I have to ask him everything..How much meat I should put in the hamburgerhelper cause he's mom had to much meat in the package. How to cook everything! I hate it. I want to feel like the perfect girlfriend cause I love fast food and I could live off of it but its not healthy and we both want to be. Please Help me with this stupid question but serious.
well you could always try cooking together. me and my bf tried that and it was so fun. he was the one who did most of the cooking butthen i decided i want to do something nice for him so i suggested we cooked together. it doesnt matter then that you dont know what your doing bocause he's there to help. it brought us really close too because you kind of do the whole bonding thing when you do something together and especially when he's teaching you.
hope i helped!
*13-f* I've only had 3 b/f's in my life...better than most girls. But the problem is allot of guys ask me out and I turn them down.If I turn down to many guys, later on in life will no one want to date me b/c they will think I'm just gunna turn them down too?
i dont think they will i mean if they like you then they like you. its up to them what they do about it. i mean all guys are scared of rejection. and you a girl, your allowed to be picky! its your right! lol! i dont think that it will cause a problem. dont worry about it darling. i a guy genuinly likes you then it wont matter how many guys youve turned down it just shows that you have standards and dont just og out with anyone. they will respect you for it!
hope i helped!
Anytime!
Im going to Warped Tour and it'll be my first time going to a concert like this (my parents finally let me go!) Anyways, I was just wonder if you've been in a mosh pit before. Whats it like? And like what happends. Will I get hurt? Just like full detail and everything about! Thanks in advance!
well if yuor a mosh pit virgin then try and stick to the little ones at first because you do get hurt. basically all you do is listen to the music and go crazy. just jump and move around. when you see people you'll soon get the hang of it. its not difficlut and anyways you dont need to do alot. people bumping into you and knocking you about make you do most of the moving so you dont eally need to think about it. and yes you do get hurt but at the time you harldy notice and just carry on. its the next day that it all ocmes back to haunt you. you discover bruises on parts of you, you didnt even know you had hurt. the best part is comparing battle scares with your friends. whos got the biggest bruise? lol! well have fun, it will be amazing, and one you've tried it you'll be hooked! lol
I've decided flat out that I'm going to surprise my guy friend with a kiss, to show my feelings for him. However, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. It would be my first.
well its good thats your going to do it that way. it will be really sweet. just try and catch him when hes on his own, suggest going out or something, maybe to the cinema. then when your on your own just take hold of his hand and just lean in and give him a little kiss. just a little one on the lipsand kind of let it linger and see how he reacts. if he starts kissing you back then thats all sorted and if when you pull away he leans in and kisses you then that all sorted too. but dont worry if he doesnt straight away, because he may be a little shocked. and if he doesnt then its was only a little kiss and so wont have ruined your friendship.
hope it goes well!
Hi i'm 13 years old and my mom said that I can not use a tampon until I break my hymen or have sex but she said if i have sex she will kick me out of the house and my mom said that i could kill my self if i use a tampon how do you kill yourself with a tampon and do you have to break your hymen to use a tampon cause most of my friends use them.
well first of all you cant kill urself from using a tampon. you can get TSS though which is very seroius and can make you seriously ill but you omly get it if you leave the tampon in for long periods of time but its very rare that people get that. and yea your hymen can be broken from using a tampon but it can be broken doing vigarous exersice like gymnastics or riding a bike or a horse but its nothing to worry about. i mean after all its only a really thin layer of like skin so its easily broken. if you jusy tell your mum that you've found out about it because you were serious about wanting to use them. im sure she'll understand if you explain it to her.
hope it all works out!
okay so there is this guy, yes very cliche and everyone asks these types of questions..but anyways. I dated this guy for about 7 months. A couple months ago we broke up and ive kind of been attracted to his best friend. Ive liked his best friend for a while, even while we were dating. The problem is he doesnt want to hurt his friends feelings by dating me he tells me im hot and flirts with me a lot and i just dont know what to do. Could someone help me pleasee. ILL RATE YOU HIGHH!
confused.
well thebestthing you can do is talk to him and share your feelings with him. if he knows your serious he may change his mind and take the chance. in these situations someone is always going to get hurt but you cant help your feelings. you could even suggest gettin the three of you together and telling your ex how you feel. if it was me id be thankful that you had been straight with me and not gone behind my back. you never know he may be fine with you or if not its not like he can hold it against you that you went behind his back so he cant blame his mate for that. it always hard saying what to do in these situations but i think that this is a good option.
hope it all works out for you!
Ok, so you're familiar with the concept, there's this guy i really like and well we talk sometimes but mostly he teases me and I'm pretty sure they're just jokes, he can be pretty sweet too. Recently, I found out we both have the same birthday, which is this summer, and we're both going to the same water slides, so we'll probably see eachother there. I also have his address and phone number. I'm too shy to tell him that I like him during the school year, but I think writing would work. If so, what should I write? I don't want it to be too corny. And should I write to him or will he be creeped out because he didnt give me his address? Is it a bad idea to call him and say happy birthday? Just so he knows I'm thinking of him?
yuo should definately ring him to say happy birthday! it will flatter his ego soooooooooo much to know that you were thinking about him. and i dint think that writingto him would be a bad i deas as such because everybody likes to get mail. it make you fell special! lol! well anyway just expolain that you wanted to tell him something so you thought you'd write to him and so then that explain why you have his address. dont think about ehat your hoing to write too much or you'll go round in circles and wont get anywhere. if you plan it too much it wont sound genuine and will sound corny. just write whatevers in your head. do it as though you were talking to him but dont say something too full on like i love you or anything but just explain how you feel.
hope i helped!
does anyone know of a self tanner that works well and doesn't streak? please help! i need it bad! thanks!
~i rate
l'oreal (spelling?) works well or rimmel i use them and they work for me!
I'm switching schools next year so I won't be going back. I want to admit to my guy friend that I have feelings for him. I like him alot but I know he likes another girl & she knows that. If I tell him how I feel, do you think things will be weird this summer if he rejects, since I planned on hanging out with him as friends anyways?
well it may be weird at first but if you have a strong enough friendship then it wont come between you. ive just left my school recently and one of my guy friends told me he had feelings for me and had done for years. well it was a bit of a shock at first but i love him to bits as a friend and hes a great guy so i wouldnt let something like that get in the way of our friendship.
hope it turns out for you the way it did for me.
hope i helped!
I feel sick and i need to throw up.. but i dont know how to do it.. im really sick. how do i make it stop??
you shouldnt try and make yourself throw up a lot because its not good for you but occasionally its ok cos i know how you feel sometimes its better to just throw up and get it over with. well wat works for me is to put my fingers to the back of my throat till it touches the weird bit that hangs down and just gag. you have to have eaten something before though or if not you wont have anything to throw up. but remember dont do it alot because it not good, you can damage your stomach and it will make your throat hurt!
ps make sure you dont have longs nails when you do it ot you'll hurt your throat! lol!
Hey,
well my mom has been reading this book "the rules" and my friend told me the rules of dating and she told me about it and i was like "that cant be right!" so now i'm totally flipping out cause i sorta do the opposite, and no guy has asked me to the prom this year and everyone has to go with someone, and i dont want to be with someone that picks their nose.. you know? so i need some flirting, relationship, ect. advice. Even though i'm really good at giving advice to other people, i cant for myself which is sorta weird.. well please help. I'll rate high!
oh and also if anyone needs advice, i'm here. Thanx!
*Jill*
well you hve to focus yourself on someone you like. then you have to just take a chance with him. say hi when ever you see him and smile. make it look like your days suddleny got better since he was there. no over the top though because thats just scary. then back off a little so you dont see him for a little while. he will soon realise that he liked you company and that he misses you smiling at him. ive seen it done before and it works a charm. the guy finds himself looking for you and he doesnt really know why until he sees you.
hope i helped!
How do u break up with someone and I hope that u can help!
Thanx
i hope i can help 2! lol!
well its always tricky breaking up with someone i mean you dont want to hurt them but you dont want to get hurt yourself. you just have to be straight with them i guess. you need to sit down and have a face to face chat because its just not right by phone or txt or whatever! it just hurts! if you truthful with them and just explain how you feel, that you dont think the relationship is goin anywhere or that your hearts not in it anymore or whatever your feelings are, then they cant ask for more than that. just make sure your sensetive to their feeling because you dont want any repercushions from it!
so just go carefully and he honast with them and yourself of course!
good luck!
AHH where do i began? This guy named tony, i like, allot, used to like me, allot then another girl got in the way. they started going out although i stayed strong and still love him. well they broke up and he still kinda has feelings for her. the 1st time we hung out all we did was talk and thats is. is there any advice one what i can do to get tony's love for me back again?
i really need it more then anything right now
-Rachel
you cant make someone love you but you can try and help it along a little. just be there for him, as a friend, but make sure that thats not all he sees you as. then just do your usual flirting and let him know you still interested. but make sure itsnot too early for him b/c he my need a little time in getting over her and might think your being a little insensative and thats the only reason why your hanging out. but you have to let him know how you feel b/c if not its going to do your head in. you just might be wat each other needs!
hope i helped!
I met this guy on a Friday and got his number on Saturday. We talked nonstop on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and he asked me out on Wednesday. Well, we went out for six days before I asked him if he thought we rushed into things and of course he said yes and I asked him if he would like to take a break so we could actually get to know each other and he said no, but I pushed it and now we are on a "break" and I feel really bad like I've hurt him. He hasn't talked to me at all. I feel really bad, but I know that I rushed into it. Did I do the right thing by taking the break? And do you think he's mad at me? I would put more details about him for the past two days, but he hasn't said anything to me so I can't.
14/f, um...the guy is 15/m
Thanks so much!
well obviously you werent comfortable with the speed things were goin it so yes i think you did the right thing. but try talking to him. explain that your still interested and were just worried about the fact that you rush and were scared it might effect the state of your relationship. if hes a reasonable person then im sure he will understand. good luck!
i think i need help because like i have cut myself before and i had stopped for a while too.. and then something happend today that just like makes me want to do it again becuase me and this kid got into a huge fight.. how can i not do it anymore what are some other good ways to take anger out...
i take it that you cut yourself as a dort of release and you use the pain to do it. so you need a way to cause you pain that wont harm you or scar you. well this might sound stupid but if you get an ice cube and hold it tight in your fist. prpeer squeeze it then it hurts like hell. you will get all the release you need and it wont harm you one bit. except you might get a bit wet as it melts! lol! try and and let me know how it goes ok?!?!
Hope i helped!