theres a dance comin up at my school n i love dances n all. but when i dance(grindin) i NEVER kno where to put my hands, so, where?
well you can always just put them in front of you.. like hold them together, cross them, move them just like you move your legs when you dance go with the beat
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what are some cute hairstyles?
i have to get my haircut tomorrow and need some hot haircuts
thanks i will rate.
decide what kind of shape your face is and then think/research celebrities that have the same shape and decide what looks best.. you can always ask your hair stylist too! i'm sure they have something online about "perfect hairstyles" or something just google it! good luck
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Is it okay to be school-oriented...and be scared to have a boyfriend because you don't know whats going to happen in the end. Its like you are in a mix between "I don't know if its going to work out" and "I'm scared it might..." ..? Does anyone get what I'm saying?
oh girl soo many people feel that way!! it's perfectly fine you'll eventually start caring more about guys but there's no rush! in fact i'm kind of jealous i wish i cared more about my studies than my boyfriend! haha but i think you should definitely take a chance some time if you like a guy just to see what it's like and if it doesn't work out no biggie just focus on school until the next best thing comes around. good luck
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hey
iv heard that if u straighten ur hair it falls out....... is this tru?
well it's definitely not the best thing for your hair. i suggest using a very moisturized conditioner and letting it air dry before straightening it as much as possible.. it'll just keep your hair healthier but your hair won't fall out.
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Lately i have been crying all the time. I have been feeling overwhealmed and sensitive to everything. i used to be so happy and laughing all the time and now i havn't laughed for ages and cry over everything. I read about similar symptoms in a amgazine and it said that the symptoms mean i could be depressed. Is that true and if it is what should i do? I feel so down all the time and upset. Please help
i'm no doctor or anything but from personal experience.. let it out, just cry! you don't need a reason! just cry until you can't anymore, it's stress it really is i don't think you're depressed. i've been through this same thing a couple of times i'll cry, eat some ice cream, have a happy conversation with a friend and then feel better! : / i felt so stupid for wanting to cry because "oh my gosh i dropped my cell phone" or "i can't find my biology book!" i was just so stressed and needed to cry about SOMETHING.. anything it didn't matter.
if it doesn't get better maybe you should right about your day in a notebook and if THAT doesn't work definitely talk to your parents and maybe they could help out! hope i helped and i hope you start feeling better!!
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how do you apply eyeliner to your bottom lids?
if you're doing the part between you're eye and bottom eye lashes don't pull down on your eye!!! it's bad for them and can cause wrinkles later.. just do it the same though try to start from the inside and go out only using one hand and not pulling down on your eye, that's how i do it
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This Friday is this HUGE dance... everyone goes and I am getting tickets from this guy I know. So, he's going to be there and somtimes I get tongue-tied and say stupid things around guys. How can I not get tongue tied? Also, what are some cute,hot,sexy,etc. things to say to him that will make him like me more? I'll rate 5s!
sorry if i repeat things other people have said cuz i haven't read them BUT...
theres not alot you can say without coming on too strong or sounding somewhat corny. a lot of it is alll about body language. now these things may sound corny but they're subtle things that might actually work... things like rubbing your lips together (or biting the corner of your lips w/e) when you look at him or touching his knee/shoulder and playing with his hair is very flirty. compliments are always nice too. when its kind of a silent moment instead of breaking it just kind of stare at him and give a cute smile and then maybe say something. this whole body language thing is a lot easier than talking to him and a lot more fun AND more effective i think! plus you don't have to worry about getting tongue tied, also try to avoid talking TOO much about school.. its just a sign that you don't really know what else to talk about make sure you keep good eye contact don't look away from him when you get nervous!! try and stay confident! good luck!
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ok well i have like soo many pimples and i have cream but does toothpaste really help them go away? please ii need help. this guy said he likes but i have too many pimples&ihate them too so please help. ill rate high.
yea proactiv all the way!! haha or get soaps that say "for oily skin" or w/e matches your type of skin. also DON'T POP YOUR PIMPLES keep your hands far far away from your face!! and your hair too! if you have bangs or hair that is constantly in front of your face try to keep it back as much as possible at least until your skin starts to clear up! i probably get one pimple a month and i'm an athletic 15 year old, i wash my face at leeeeast twice a day. if you're active too you should try and keep too much sweat build up.. use a towel or osmething and ALWAYS wash your face after practice or w/e hope i helped!! good luck
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ok so im 15/f and i think i might have some mental health problems, not like crazy but i have anxeity attacks, alot of people say i have OCD, i think i might have ADD, but also my family thinks im a hypochrondriac so its hard to convince them somethings wrong with me. i want to get tested because i feel so different from my family. i cant concentrate when i do hw and study, i have a hard time retaining information, i can get moody really easily, i have panic attacks like monthly about school, life, anything can set it off, theres just so much that i feel that theres something wrong with me otherwise i wouldnt have all the problems. how do i get help, tested, and how do i convince my parents that somethings wrong with me? please help, i tried asking them for getting tested for ADD and they laughed and said i always think somethings wrong with me. please i rate 5's!
ok this is a hard one and i see you need some answers so i'll do my best...what I would do is tell your best friend whats up or simply show them this question you wrote.. then have THEM (your best friend) say something to your parents with you there as well.. when someone else notices something and can back you up maybe your parents will at least TRY to understand
say things like "maybe i don't have something wrong with me but i would feel so much better if i KNEW" until then you should write about stuff in a journal to get your stress out, usually before you go to bed
and when you start to cry or panic grab a pillow and just breath until you're breathing normal.. also get a lot of sleep, a good night sleep always makes a better day and so do healthy eating habits and other simple things like that. if you really want to help your problem you're going to really have to be confident when dealing with your parents. and DON'T FORGET to give your parents examples of WHY you feel like you might have something wrong.
i would read this answer more than once because there's a lot of information.. i hope it helped good luck!
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sorry for being so long just need to know wat it means I RATE 5's !!!!!i had this realy weird dream were these evil rock people were trying to kill me so then finaly we got them in a room and was filling it with deadly gasses and i got locked in side so then i started dieing slowly finally somehow someone gave me a gun slow i pointed the gun to my stomache *bang* *bang* *bang* *bang* *bang* but i didnt die just made my pain worse then i shot my heart *bang* still didnt die shot my head i still didnt die!!!then i woke up
well i don't know what the dream itself means but i know that people can never ever die in their dreams because we don't know what if feels like to die. Like those dreams where you fall off a cliff... nobody ever hits the bottom because nobody knows what it would feel like
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hi...i need yo help home skillet...my dog eats bunnies..and i eat..eggs. lava you
well maybe your dog is a gay murderer... but i still love him. omg i love eggs too i even have egg slipperzzz can you say PIMP well i sure can. anyways i uh volcano you! haha get it?! lava, volcano????!! anyways peace homie G
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okay so um....i have a boyfriend and he's really really great and i love him and everything....but i have this ex boyfriend who i broke up with because i didnt think he felt the same way about me...which apparently he does.... okay well anyways a couple of days ago me my boyfriend, my ex boyfriend and a few other friends were at a friends house hanging out and i was with my boyfriend...and we were togtehr you know..lol all that good stuff...and the next night my ex was like it tears me apart to see you and jeff(b/f) all over eachother like that... and i was like you had me...and he was like but you let ME go.... i dont know what to do..because i still kinda have feelings for my ex..but i love my boyfriend.....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh save me...save me from this
plleas and thanks andie ur a doll
well it sounds like they are both great guys and its a very hard situation for you but as corny as it sounds you have to follow your heart. When I read your question it sounds like you're more into jeff and its just hard for you to get over your ex. Next time you go through a break up let it take time until you find someone else. For now I would stick with Jeff and enjoy your time and not hang out so much with your ex so that he doesnt have to feel that way anymore.
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Okay...we are very close with eachother and tell eachother alot and have been that way for a year..id do anything to get him over his little fear of going somewhere, im not sure what makes him afarid but something does..any ideas on how to get him to?! Thanks so much for your help!
its 12:30 a.m. so maybe thats why i'm confused but.. what do you mean by 'going somewhere'? like somewhere with the relationshihp or somewhere for a fancy date lol i'm lost but i'll try to help if you clue me in, SORRY ah we all know i'm dumb
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I am 5'1 and 140 lbs. I am really wanting to loose at least 15 lbs. before school starts back because I feel that I am a lil chubby..if anyone knows of any kind of excercises or tips so make this much easier or of a quick weight loss thing that has worked for you..let me know, please?!
I've recently answered a question like this and this is my advice...
Some people can't help being 'chubby' they're just built different. Try getting a new nutritious eating habit. Trainers have specific meals that can help you have a lot of protein and to have a steady diet. Remember that its better to eat a lot of healthy stuff than nothing at all... you HAVE to eat. In fact you burn more calories eating than doing most other things... healthy foods keep those calories off.
Just find a sport that you like and have fun with it. You don't neccesarily even have to join a league if you don't have time for that. Just go outside and shoot some hoops or play catch every week. But most important you must ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE and then set a realistic goal. So get off this dang computer right now, grab an apple, and swim some laps.
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I'm 14 and I'm one of 3 people in my grade that doesn't have a cell phone. I'm constantly out with my friends and they don't like me to call home on their phones cus it uses there minutes. *They didn't mind at first but when I have to constantly call home they got frusterated* My parents want me to call all the time when I'm out. I've tried explaining to them all the reasons why I need one, Like how they want me to call home and all that but they still say you dont get one till your 16 like your brothers. Well, im not my brothers, im more responsible, but i tried to tell my parents that and they wont believe me!
What should I do?
well it depends on what your parents might do... but i say screw the whole call home thing, be like sorry mom people get too pissed when i use their phones i couldn't call you. Or you could compromise with them and share a phone with one of your brothers or possibly your parents and just take it with you when you need to call home.
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hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks
personaly i'd wait for marriage but you probably think that i'm retarded... I'm just saying love is tricky and you don't want to have regrets. Break ups hurt 100000000 times worse after having sex. don't put your heart or your health in jeopardy.
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okay my friends and i, i think we are pretty tight. we have fun in school in all, i don't exactly have friends that are the sleep over at each other's houses type. but this summer its weird. okay they always say hey i'm bored we need to hang out sometime and when i say always i mean..always. well, everytime i ask them if they want to do something they kinda hesitate in talking almost as if they don't want to go and since we can't drive *we're 15* they procrastinate in asking they're parents. every once in awhile we get out and they're okay then but its when i'm asking them. do they really want to hang out when they say 'lets hang out'? why do they hesitate and kinda stop talking when i do mention something we can do? it doesn't make sence? HELP!
First of all don't feel bad about yourself or like you're the reason they don't want to hang out. They're just lazy and some people rather watch tv by themselves. You should definitely ask them to go play putt putt or something fun before you have them over to your house so you can break the ice right off the bat. If you do feel comfortable enough to ask them why they always say they want to hang out but never act like it then go ahead and talk to them. But everyone is different and they just might not be very social... who knows. If you acted really excited for them to come hang out then it might make them want to come over sooner. be like "omg i haven't seen you in forever maybe you could come over and swim from 2-4!! that would be so much fun, i miss you!" times are a good thing too... if you tell them a time that would be good to come over then they'll ask for a ride sooner. There's lots of ways to get them hyped just be creative and find out what they want to do.
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you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ?
I know someone who was best friends with this girl for 4 years.. now they are dating and never thought they would ever go out with each other. So trust me this is possible.
These things take time. If you've never felt this way before then trust me, the feeling wont go away. To be completely honest this girl doesnt like you and waiting is going to hurt. So you need to find the 2nd greatest girl. Just find another girl that you would like to date, this will get your mind off your friend and plus it will make her jealous..(shhh i didn't say that ; ) keep your friendship strong but don't give her as much attention as your new girlfriend. This will all take time but if your relationship with this new girlfriend fails then you'll either already be over your friend or she'll be dying to date you.
ps: when i'm talking about this 2nd best girl it should really be someone you like to be around, don't just use her to get the other girl.
hope i helped and GOOD LUCK.
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Well you said invite him to do stuff and talk to him and all that in an earlier question you answered..but thats the problem..he is to shy to go hang out..and he got his phone taken away..lol so online is our only communication really..soo im not sure what else to do..cause he acts like he likes me, but it may only be because of what he wants?!
Well you can't have a boyfriend by just talking to him online. If that is your only communication for now then get personal with him. Trust him and let him trust you with personal thoughts and feelings. But the only way that you can really feel comfortable is if you do something together. It's normal for him or you to be very shy but if he really likes you then I think he would AT LEAST have to agree to go somewhere with you and his closest buds. Invite some of his really close friends and you can invite some of yours as well so neither one of you feel awkward. You could go somewhere like a movie first so you won't have to talk too much. Then the next time you hang out do something that involves a little more communication but still makes you guys feel comfortable... like go to the mall or something. Soon you'll be able to go somewhere alone. I understand how he's shy but if you don't let him/ make him open up then it will never work. sorry you're in this hard situation.. good luck.
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HI My name is Allie and I heart Andie and she is one wicked cool cootie if you ask me. Haha. She is very good at giving advice and I am not. Wicked Andie has Cooties?! Haha okay i'm done.
bye wicked andie!
wicked andie does have cooties. laksdjflkasjdf woot woot lata playa ; )
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