Hey Everyone It Is Irishdude405
I am A very Understanding person that likes to listen to your thought and i can relate to many of you hear because I've been through many Situations that you may be going through. I'm not to into sports but i love being active. I dont Have a girlfriend at the current moment. I am Attending Highschool Next year and im Hopefully going to go to college raise a family and be a writer. Now Dont hesitate asking me a question They Will be Answered and They will have Advice for every specific Need!
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Ok...so heres the deal. i...ran away from home (save me the lectures) And i stayed with this guy i knew....and liked. But i had just met him that day..but i had spent the whole day with him. And he was really sweet. And told me about his life, and vise versa. hes 16, and im 15. that night we hooked up...not sex, just...made out and cuddled and slept together (literally). And so...yea. Then the next day we went to a friends house for a lil. And we acted like we were datin...kissed and what not. Then he walked me to the marta station and kissed me goodbye and told me to call him when i got home and when i could. So i do. And he tells me that i shouldnt get in touch with him too much or at all, because we both didnt want my parents to find out that he was the house i stayed at..but he did tell me to call him once i was "free". Now heres the problem. I cant stop thinking about him...its been a week already and hes all thats on my mind. Once im "free" should i go for it..or talk to him about it? Please help..and sorry this was so long. (link)
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well i think you should talk about it and then go for it, your romantic night sounded like something you see on a movie DEFFINITLY GO FOR IT!!!!!
you ask,I'll answer irishdude405
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My friend and I are really close. He's my best friend, and I'm really open with him. Sometimes we have really deep conversations, where I tell him anything I feel and he does the same too. We might even have conversations on the phone until 2 in the morning. My problems is that he's really confusing me. He won't make up is mind as to whether he likes me or not. Sometimes he'll hold me or give me those cute hugs from behind, and I really love when he does. We say "I love you" to each other as if it's a greeting. I think he's just leading me on because I asked him out before and he said that he liked me but he didn't want a girlfriend. Now, I don't know if I should ask him out again or what. I like him so much, and I think he likes me too. Should we go out because we're really close or will that mess up our friendship alot? (link)
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Well you guys sound pretty close, so just ask him" Do you like me more than a friend?" and if he says no then ask well it you act as if you do i dont know if you are just a flirt or if you truly care for me, and its hard for me to understand your feelings sometimes. But if he says he does then ask him out, if he doesn't then continue on being good friends and great and long lasting relationships usually start out from best friends because they know eachother so well. Tell me how it turns out!!!!!.
You ask, I'll Answer IrishDuDe405
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I really like the kid im going out with. He asked me out a little over a week ago but I had said no because Im so busy over the summer. Now, I regret saying yes this time because I have way too much going on. Im gonna be a freshman next year and Im on the high school cheerleading squad. It takes up a lot of my time and im also playing softball all summer. I go to the cape almost every weekend, and I need some time to myself, plus I have a lot of work to do before I go back to school. I dont know what to do because I wont ever see him and I feel so tied down because im always worried about finding time to be with him. Should I dump him? If so, how should I do it in a way to let him know that we're still going to be great friends like we have been? I'll rate high (link)
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Hey this sounds like it would take the weight off your shoulders if you did this and i understand that it is nice to have time for yourself especially with your busy schedule. i would just let him know that you would like to take things easy over the summer and that you just want to be friends. Tell him that you are interested in him, but not in having a boyfriend and say that you'll see how things go at the end of the summer. IF YOU WANT TO, tell me how it goes
you ask ill answer Irishdude405
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2 days ago me and my sister were running outside in my uncles back yard and i ran around her and i stepped on a 2 1/2 inch rusty bolt and it went 1 inch *or more* in my foot and i had to go to the hospital. well now im back home and i have no crutches or a wheel chair or anything and i really want to walk around my house but when i hop on my good foot it makes my ribs and knee hurt too much does any one know a way for me to get around until i get crutches?
thanks
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Maybe if you got a cane and used that for support. or if you tied your bottom part of your leg to the upper part of your leg with a belt you could hop around the house.They should have given you crutches.
You ask I'll answer Irishdude405
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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ? (link)
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That just means performing oral sex on a girl
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OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!
sorry its so long. If you actually read this and anserwed you get an auto 5 ( unless your response just SUCKED!) (link)
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Well i think you should talk to ashlyn about it and just basically Morie was forced into it becasue Briana threatened to kill herself ( which i would also talk to someone about that)Just tell her that morie didnt want to but she was scared for Briana, she should understand and just apologize for it. But you should also let ashlyn know what Trent did becaus it takes two to tango. Tell me how it goes ok?
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i only got 4 hours of sleep last night and im really tired...but some how i cant fall asleep. what can i do to make myself fall asleep? thanks (link)
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you could take a little bit of cold medicine that makes you sleep better and also you will get so tired that you just fall asleep.
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I need pointers.... Umm
How to finger a girl...
How to give oral sex to a girls...
Where is a good spot to make my woman cum.... hard?
She can't cum from sucking on her boobs can you??
Thanks (link)
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If you dont know how to do any of this yet then You deffinitly are not old enough to be doing it yet. so i strongly suggest that you hold out on this.
You ask, Ill Answer Irishdude405
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does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks! (link)
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This is something i love to hear because it means that you are taking that extra step closer to god and that you want to show others your faith. I think you should deffinitly do it because this is what jesus did, he was spreading gods word even though he knew it was going to cost him his life. Spread the word, and if others critiscize you then there the only ones who are going to suffer. DO IT!!!!! talk to me if you need my advice!!!
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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help! (link)
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It shouldnt matter what your friend thinks. The greatest opinion you can get is your own. If you like this guy then go for it.This is something you should use not only on dating but on life itself . you shouldnt listen to what others have to say but if its something you want to do stand up for yourself and do it!!!!!
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i've had my period for over two years. the last two times i've had it its been really really light. like i don't have to change my pad at all during the day and by the third day its barely there. is this normal? (link)
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The Best person to talk to would be your pediatrician, or even your mother or some older sisters if you have any. But when you first get your period it can be pretty unpredictable for a while. Sometimes it'll skip and some times there will be a lot of blood and sometimes, very little amounts of blood, but you should check with your doctor.
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ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with? (link)
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It seems like you want to stay with your mother more, but maybe if you could get them together and just talk it over. just tell them that it is a hard position for you to be in and that maybe he shouldnt move. this is a hard position to be in and i hope it turns alright no matter what the outcome is. Explain to your father that you dont want to be far from your mother and from your friends, family, and highschool.tell your mother that you dont want to be split up from your sister. maybe they will think about it and change his mind about moving.
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Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do (link)
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Well what does your heart tell you?If your doing it just for oral sex then i wouldn't do it. Sex is for people who are in a strong relationship, not for people who just met and want to fool around. i think you should really get to know this person and then just see how it goes ok?
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k.. i dated my ex-boyfriend for 11 months. he broke up with me about a week ago. my friend hooked me up with her boyfriend's friend and i really like him a lot. last night, i went to my ex's house and made out with him and stuff.. and he was all over me.. and today he's going on a date. i can't forget my ex. this isn't the first time we've broken up. i just can't seem to get over him. this other guy is so close to perfect. and i don't want to go out with him if i'm gonna still have feelings for my ex. what kind of things would help to get over my ex? someone please help. (link)
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a way to get over your ex is to hang out with this other guy. he sounds like a great guy and it seems like you should get away from your ex and if you spend time with this guy then you will forget the feelings you have with your ex because you will be so occupied by the other guy
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Can one get sick from eating old graham crackers? They're probably about 3 months old, and I guess the package was left open. haha They're not dusty, but they're soft and chewy, very bizzare... (link)
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well i dont think you will get severely sick but maybe you'll have to go to the bathroom a lot ;)
check the expiration date next time
IrishDuDe405
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ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings! (link)
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Listen to your heart and find out who you like more. it seems like you like matt more and if you do u deffinitly need to go for it. you go to the dances with him and u have fun and Max and Marc sound just like crushes now go with matt and if things dont work out then look into max and marc maybe.
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thnx for your advice. now i amr eady ya i will give it all to god. now about my g-f ok well she is christian like me and since i am giving it all to god for colorgaurd and what not. but i havn't told her about me going into colorgaurd because i fear she will not liek the idea. so i dunno what to do i am praying to god. but if you also would pray for me. but i dunno how to tell her i mean ya. but ya do you know any bible versus i could look into.
thnx
monn (link)
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I sought the Lord, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. (Psalm 34:4)
When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears, and rescues them from all their troubles. (Psalm 34:17)
If you girlfriend is a christian and loves you she will not think anything bad about you she will love you for who you are and do not think anything else of it.you both will be in my prayers stay strong ok? stay strong.
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I put a post up on a penpal website looking for a Japanese penpal to correspond with so I could improve my Japanese and they could improve their English. I specified that I was looking for a Japanese penpal but still recieved two emails from non-Japanese speaking people. I am not interested in corresponding with them but don't know whether to send them an email saying, "Sorry, but I'm looking for Japanese friends only." which seems rather rude or to ignore their email and not reply.
What should I do? (link)
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Say politely listen i was looking for a japanese pen pal so i could improve my japanese and they could improve their english but it seems i have gotten the wrong person , sorry to have bothered you goodbye, then block them
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THANKS sOOOOOOO much for the stuff on alice and wonderland! It hellpppedd bunches! YOU ARE SOOOO GOOD AT GIVING ADVICE!!! THANKS AGAIN!!!(but im not really alice)
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No problem you can ask me anything at anytime, and yes i know your not alice lol bye
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i need that friend. that 1 true friend. when you get your first broken heart, she stays on the phone with you and will listen to you cry for hours. that friend that you can feel so comfortable around like your sisters or something. not all uptight and trying to act like someone your not. that friend that will come to you first before anyone else when shes crying. that friend that will listen close when you need her too. and will make each other laugh to your stomac hurts. my problem is, im so shy!! im never going to meet this person if i'm one of the quiet, shy types. i act all awkward around new people. i need someone like this. im trying so hard 2 find them. (link)
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Yah deep down everyone needs these types of friends. the key with gaining friends is just going out there and doing it you cannot be shy. wait untill you see someone that is really down in the dumps or sad or mad or something and just go in for the kill. ask them whats wrong and if there is anything you can do. then just continue to talk to them. this way they know that they have your trust and they know that you are a caring person. stay strong
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