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Go out with him?
My friend and I are really close. He's my best friend, and I'm really open with him. Sometimes we have really deep conversations, where I tell him anything I feel and he does the same too. We might even have conversations on the phone until 2 in the morning. My problems is that he's really confusing me. He won't make up is mind as to whether he likes me or not. Sometimes he'll hold me or give me those cute hugs from behind, and I really love when he does. We say "I love you" to each other as if it's a greeting. I think he's just leading me on because I asked him out before and he said that he liked me but he didn't want a girlfriend. Now, I don't know if I should ask him out again or what. I like him so much, and I think he likes me too. Should we go out because we're really close or will that mess up our friendship alot?
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I know the situation you are in but if you did date it would REALLY mess up the friendship and as good of friendship as you say you have if i were you i wouldnt wanna mess with that...hope this helps!*
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Samantha says ; Well.. guyfriends are so precious. If you have em save em.. but if you two are close enough to talk about anything? then if you feel that he likes you then ask him out.. if he says no, or you two go out and breakup it might be a little awkward for a couple of days / weeks but if you two are close enough then you guys will be back to normal in no time so why not go for it? :)
Danielle says ; You should stay friends for a couple more weeks and if you still think he likes you then you should ask him and if he does you could just go from there.
Hope this helps!
=) samantha and danielle
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dont ever ask a guy out.
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You know it really shouldn't. You want your bf/gf to be your best friend. Sounds like you are already there. So long as you don't change once you start dating it shouldn't be a problem. I think the mistake most make is the suddenly stop talking and sharing their feelings. Kind of like you are doing already. Talk to him about this. Let him know how you feel. Talk it out and if he says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now ask him why. You are friends. Friends talk. If you start dating remember this, and if it gets weird, say something. :)
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Im in the same situation, but i think ive came to a conclusion...if you love being with him and you love most everything about him i think you might be ready to take things to the next level, i mean it truly may ruin your friendship but i doubt it will be a permanent end ...it's a risk you need to take ...who knows what might happen...if he makes you happy as a friend think of how happy he'll make you as even more...
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I think you should be really careful about asking him again. while it is true that guys like girls to make the first move, and he might really like you but really not want a girlfriend, asking him more than twice will make him think that you aren't listening to him and you only see him as a stud-muffin. but, I can't really tell you what to do. tell me how it goes.
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wow that was sorta like me...we were bestfriends then one day something was just different in the way he treated me and he insisted it wasnt...but the point is we're going out now...it will be a month on saturday...so i say go for it girl!
just say to him "you're sending me mixed signals...and to tell you the truth i do like you and was wonderin if maybe you would give me a chance?"
♥BLAiR
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Well you guys sound so perfect!!Your lucky! I think you should go for it. Around 89% of guys like it when girls make the first moves so i say you should tell him exactly how you feel. Even if he denies you, if your as close as you say i dont think things will change between. Maybe some day he'll feel the same way about you too.Well i hope i helped!IM me at Sammerz619 if u want anything else.
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Well you guys sound pretty close, so just ask him" Do you like me more than a friend?" and if he says no then ask well it you act as if you do i dont know if you are just a flirt or if you truly care for me, and its hard for me to understand your feelings sometimes. But if he says he does then ask him out, if he doesn't then continue on being good friends and great and long lasting relationships usually start out from best friends because they know eachother so well. Tell me how it turns out!!!!!.
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