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Hey..My names Shelby im a Junior in highschool. I love my boyfriend ~*~AnDrEw~*~ I'm a cheerleader.My friends are the shit..((you know who you are)). And yea I'm pretty much the fucking shit =P jk..so yea if you need advice dont be afraid to ask.
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hey i got a good freind we tell eachother all our secets and 1 time she told me she does things for pleasure so i asked what type of pleasure then she said like fingering and using dildos is she stiil a virgin because im confused


bye
thank you

yea shes not a virgin if she has sex with a guy. She would still be considered a virgin right now unless if she has had sex. I hope i helped hun

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it seems to be that either if i wear a bra or don't wear a bra that my boobs always look...well...pointy! it looks really weird and i don't think they are supposed to look like that...ummm...can anyone tell me why this would be?
uh thanks =D

14/f

your wearing the wrong bra..you need one with a little bit of padding. NOT ALOT THO...dont make the padding like make your boobs you know..and then you need to try them on before you buy them so you know how they look. Victoria secrets has really good bras. I hope i helped you hun.

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okay, so my girlfriend and i have known each other for only over a year, and we dated for 5 months, then broke up (terrible for both of us) and she cut herself, now we are back together for 3 months and she still does it every so often... is there anything i can do to help her, becuase i know that she wants to stop, and every time she does it, she feels so terrible about it, it nearly makes her sick, and all of this is absolutly killing me, what can i do to help her?? please i only want good answers...

I think you need to tell someone..before she does it to bad shes gone.. you know? Or give her a chance and be like ..the next time you do it im going to have to tell someone because this scares me and i dont want you to hurt yourself so bad that you could die. Maybe have her ask her mom if she can go to someone to talk about her problems..I hope i helped you hun..good luck

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okay
so i think im pretty popular
alll my friends are popular , our whole group is and stuff.
but like, it doesnt seem like i have that many goooooddd friends and then just friends i know a little bit are just like temperaroy and we dont hangout unless like we are at a party or sitting next to eachother..

how can i like make more GOOOD friends?

leave your group. See i didn't have many "very good friends" and then is tarted hanging out with the other people i talk to during school and now theres no drama no anything. i mean..populars cool and all but wouldn't you rather have good friends that you can still hang out and call when you 50? hope i helped you hun.

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Where is a good place to get really colorful eyeshadow

Carsons has almost every color alive..Targer, Walmart..if you go to any store thats like those to then itl have it but carsons or a store like carsons (not every state has it) THEY HAVE TONS of make up and eye shadows. Hope i helped hun

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Hi, I'm Emily f/13 I am from Washington So heres my question to u, There is this guy in my math class he is so cute and nice so I had my friend Brittney ask him if he liked me and she said well I talked to him last night on the phone and he said he thinks your cute but he doesn't know if he gets to know then maybe he would like you. And I was the like no way and she said yep. So I was sooooo excited and told my best friend Shannon and she said Oh my gosh I am soo hooking you 2 up and I'm like Shannon no I don't know for sure yet if thats true. Well she talked to him anyways which made me sooo mad and this is what she asked him, So I heard you think Emily is cute and if you get to know her better you would go out with her and thats not what I told her at all! This is what he said, ya did you hear that from Brittney and she said yes. Then He said well ya I just told that to Brittney to be nice and I really don't think she's that cute and I probably wouldn't go out with her. Then I got really mad and thought Brittney lied to me and she said I didn't lie to you I swear. Then she called him the next night and they got in a fight beacause Brittney said why the heck did u tell Shannon that that Emily was ugly! He said he didn't say that and that I was now kinda cute but he just doesn't know me. I DON'T KNOW WHO DO BELIEVE OR WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP ME !
from, Em_advice_chick_77

I think Brittneys telling you the truth. that really wasn't cool of shannon to go off and tell him the sutff you told her in confidence. Maybe Shannon was telling the truth but he told her that because he doesn't know her enough to tell you how he feels. To be honest..i would just drop it and start worrying about this hottie in your math class =P I think you should call him and be like yea so how gay is this that everyones going around and telling me all this stuff thats not true and start talking to him and then you know maybe something will happen. I hope i helped you hun. Remember the little fights you get into now wont matter 5 years from now so i hope i helped you out! good luck

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If my moms family is german and irish and my dad is from egypt?

Well yea youd be considered white.

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i'm 14 years oldand i'm a freshmen and i had never had a kiss before...is this embarrasing???

no. I have a friend who hasn't and its fine. I think its kinda good thing. At least your not going around being a whore. Hope I helped

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hi, well do martial arts help you lose weight, because im pretty overweight, and i want to do martial arts. thanks

Yea it will help but you have to make sure your eating right to. You should eat more salads and fruits. What i hear really helps is eating 6 times a day and whatever you eat eat only half of it and wait three hours and eat the other half hope i helped!

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I was just wondering how to get into modeling for like local stores that sell clothes and stuff. anyone know?

lol i modeled for fashion bug it was really fun. Ok so you go up to the counter and ask if they do fashion shows for the store or how you can sign up to become a model. Sometimes people come and you can get noticed. Hope I helped hun!

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21/f. 120 lb and 5'4. how much vodka would it take to get a person my size drunk?

Buzzed-3
drunk-5
really drunk 7


im just estimating..i hope i helped

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my boyfriend is two years younger than me. is it bad? i mean he acts alot older and we really do like eachother..

It really shouldn't matter if hes mature enough. What should matter is how you feel about each other. Remember..age is just a number. I hope i helped you out hun!

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hey,thanks for opening this,i hope you girls can answer my question.

WHat is the most creative/romantic/unforgettable way to tell a girl you love her?
I mean i can go with the traditional telling her "i love you",but i want something different.

here are some of my suggestions
1)ask her is she believes in love at first sight,if she says yes then i will say i didin't believe it at first until i met you.
2)the sky is full of stars,the sea is full water,but my heart is full of you.
3)third question:do you girls think that sending a letter,speaking face to face,sending a message,sending an email,or just telling her through her friends will give the best impression? I mean,I think that messaging her is kind of sissy,and that sending her an eamil is also a pussy way of telling her,so would girls flip for a guy that sends her a letter or just tells her face to face about his feelings?or would you rather a guy tell you through the phone?

thanks a lot for reading,please answer my questions if the first two choices are good and what way you girls would prefer from the third question,and if you guys have any other creative suggestions please fell free to send it,i will rate good ones.

Don't make it be a pick up line..make it be sweet. i think if you surprised her and took her somewhere without heer knowing and tell her would be cute..out to dinner. telling her face to face is the best way because its coming from you to her. dont make it a cheesy pick up line because you didn't do anything creative and it makes it sound like you just wanna get in her pants..i hope i helped good luck hun!

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This may be an weird question but since I can't sing very well I was wondering if when a person is good at singing is it because they are just born that way and can sing to anything or whether you can only sing to songs your voice is suited to. I wanna be able to sing so badly but I'm not that crash hot so I was just wondering if there is any hope for me?! 16/f
xo

you can take lessons. I was born a naturally good singer..its in my genetics. but my mom always says when i was little id sing alot and that prob helped. if you take lessons its suppose to help you alot. I already have a song out that got top ten in texas so thats cool..but im not big or nothing its just a side gig. yea theres hope but its gonna be hard and your gonna have to work hard. its all about pitch, sound, and harmony. Hope i helped

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Okay
I dont think im pregnant,but im paranoid about it.
I had sex with a condom but then got close to doing it again without a condom , but we only did it for like 3 seconds and then I said stop because i was scared.
My boobs have been hurting lately and I had a stomach ache but I didnt throw up.
He tells me he thinks im fine and i hope hes right.

What should I do??

I'm pretty sure your fine but if your that nervous go to a department store or borrow a preg. test and get checked..or go to the doctor. but im sure your fine. hope i helped hun!

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ohkay so i kinda like this guy. [= but like i'm really confused whether he likes me or not /=. well before he was sayin that he really wanted me to give him a hug. but sometimes he acts like a total loser. like randomly he'll b like why r you so obsessed with me? and he's always like alex! you stalker! and then just today i go you never tell me anything! you always make me so confused! then he goes wtf. we're not going out. so then i was like huh? but like he's always waving to me. and saying "its alex" in the halls. so do you think that he likes me or not?

lol "bois..." yea he likes you. he just doesn't want you to think so..thats why hes all trying to hide it by making it seem like you like him. orrrr hes trying to see if you like him. but yea i def. think hes diggin ya. hope i helped hun!

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having menstration for a week is just natural for me. but this time is quite different cause its been more than a week now and my blood flow is still fast whenever i pee. i want to know if this is ok or should i consult a doctor about my situation?

I would go see the doctor..but i do know that thats normal. like some of my friends have there period for up to like 10 days...and they went to the doctor and he just gave them a pill or something to help. Hope i helped!

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Do you guys know any sites that are like buddy4u.com like where they have profiles with quotes & designs you can put into your aim profiles ? Thanks in advance

yea go on google and look up "hot quotes" or "cute quotes" or "sexy quotes" and click on one of the sites thats what i always do..and theres alot of cute ones hope i helped!

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I'm 13 and I want a boy to fall in love me with me and me to fall in love with him!! Like I read books about girls and boys falling in love and it makes me want love SOOOOOOO BADLY!! Like the book lovely bones with Lindsey and Samuel how they are so in love. I want a boy to fall in love with me and us to be perfect together. Not the kind of boy who pinches your ass when you just met and forgets to call you. I want a mature guy who waits to have sex and stuff like that. WILL THIS EVER HAPPEN? I'M GOING TO JUST BE DEVASTATED IF It DOESNT!!

lol remember ..with almost every form of love comes heartache so just keep that in mind. and yea duh of course it will happen. i mean..girls are more mature when there 13 guys are usually still kinda...yea no more needs to be said ((im jk..)) but when you get in highschool you'll meet plenty of guys who are somewhat "mature" =P and you'll def. find mr. right..but mr.right takes time to meet you know? Hope i helped ya!

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months now and i thought i was happy. but things are starting to get hard for us and we can hardly see eachother. he dropped out of school so im there without him. this year i meet this guy who likes me. Me and him are close friends now and i think im starting to have feelings for him. I dont want to hurt my Boyfriend in any way but i know this isnt fare to him for me to be feeling something for someone else. I still love my boyfriend very much! Do i just like this other guy for the Convenience of him being right there?

I wanna congrat. you cuz 1 year and 6 months is a long time. and you know i think your just getting kinda bored. Think about it liket his..look back on everything you and him have had and have..and then look at the guy you kinda like now and think about what you could have with him..see which one is worth being with. I think your just bored and the new attention is flattering you. and trust me i know how you feel..and ive only been in a relationship for 8 months. but you know what i dont think any guy is worth me dumping my boyfriend for. but thats me and thats a totally different story. i think you need to think about who you can see yourself with and what the outcome would be if you broke up with him for this guy. I hope i helped you good luck hun!

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