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LOVE !!
I'm 13 and I want a boy to fall in love me with me and me to fall in love with him!! Like I read books about girls and boys falling in love and it makes me want love SOOOOOOO BADLY!! Like the book lovely bones with Lindsey and Samuel how they are so in love. I want a boy to fall in love with me and us to be perfect together. Not the kind of boy who pinches your ass when you just met and forgets to call you. I want a mature guy who waits to have sex and stuff like that. WILL THIS EVER HAPPEN? I'M GOING TO JUST BE DEVASTATED IF It DOESNT!!
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yu cant rush luve. it will come to yu. and when it does *soon* yu'll think it was worth the wait! if yu rush it, it'll only make matters worse. just wait for that special someone! and it'll definatly be worth it [=
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Woah, woah, woah.
First of all, you're only 13. You have your whole entire life ahead of you to wait to fall in love and everything, but for know you're young ; have fun and if a great guy happens to come along your path, date him and have a great time and who knows? You could even fall in love now. But you need to also experience heart break, mistakes, past relationships so whenever you DO find that really great guy, you'll definetely know it. But like I said, you're only 13.
But also, just remember: I'm not trying to sound like, pesstimistic or anything, I wish it was real too, but most realtionships aren't like the movies loves where everything is absolutely perfect or anything you read in those romance books. There's all sorts of bad things and even though two people could be in love, they still find faults sometimes in eachother and have disagreements and fights and issues and such.
But trust me, I have never seen a mature 13 year old who wants to wait to have sex. 13 year olds shouldn't even really be THINKING about sex, anyways. Just wait till your much older to start looking for that type of guy, cause as guys get older they start to become somewhat more mature and you'll like them better.
So, like I said, you're young. Live life and enjoy it and see what guys come and go, and trust me, someday you're love will come along, but I don't think it'll be for a good while. And it'll be worth the wait, believe me.
I hope I helped.
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First of all, let me set the records strait.
Fairy tales are just that, fairy tales. As in, fanciful, meaning wishful or ridiculously obsurd. Almost any book you read, such as the one you mentioned, that deals with the subject of love, is nothing more than modern fairy tale.
They rarely happen. Things written and produced to show that "love conquers all" or illustrates an illusion that love is undying and conquers all.
In reality, your going to expierence heartache and a good chance that those that break your heart, will only do it again if given the chance, even if they don't mean to.
That is why I absolutely hate things like "The Notebook" or "Lovely Bones" because they illustate a picture that will most likely not happen, but it gets your hopes up that it just "might" happen.
Trust me when I say you can find plenty of "real" love all around you, and not the made up kind that you find in those books. Your 13, do you realize how much time you truly have to contemplate "love" and what it truly means to be "mature"? Your just entering the first stages of maturity and you have a long way to go.
The first thing you could do to help mature youself though, is to get rid of the notion that love in those kinds of books is almost unreachable and probably won't happen to you. It might, but the chances truly are..fanciful.
I'm being brutally honest with you because you need to know it before you live your teenage life believing that one day "Mr.Right" will come waltzing along out of the blue and you will live happily ever after. Because if you keep believing that, your gonna look back on your teenage years and realize how much you really missed because you thought that.
Boys are not mature at age 13 AT ALL. They're still just that, boys. Wait until highschool, because I gaurantee you by that point a small chunk will have matured to the point where you can find a small slice of the "love" you want. It won't be exactly like you think it will be, because you havn't even expierenced it yet.
I hope I helped. Just keep it in the back of your mind that it's mostly just fantasy, it might happen sure, but most likely it probably won't. I'm not meaning to sound pessimistic, but rather realistic. Your 13 as well, you'll have your time eventually to meet someone, so don't rush.
-Ryan
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lol remember ..with almost every form of love comes heartache so just keep that in mind. and yea duh of course it will happen. i mean..girls are more mature when there 13 guys are usually still kinda...yea no more needs to be said ((im jk..)) but when you get in highschool you'll meet plenty of guys who are somewhat "mature" =P and you'll def. find mr. right..but mr.right takes time to meet you know? Hope i helped ya!
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