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i have feelings for someone when im already taken.....
I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months now and i thought i was happy. but things are starting to get hard for us and we can hardly see eachother. he dropped out of school so im there without him. this year i meet this guy who likes me. Me and him are close friends now and i think im starting to have feelings for him. I dont want to hurt my Boyfriend in any way but i know this isnt fare to him for me to be feeling something for someone else. I still love my boyfriend very much! Do i just like this other guy for the Convenience of him being right there?
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I feel like I've seen this question, word for word....
Oh well, you don't want to cheat on your BF, and if you still love him, consideer this other guy as a really good friend. It sounds like you like having a friend right there with you, and if you and your BF's romance is falling apart, consider this other guy. If you and your BF are supa tight, leave that other guy, you are loved right now.
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Look probably u just like this guy for convienience because he is there and your boyfriend is not there anymore....but I suggest to not worry about it because that crush thta u have on that guy it will pass so dont worry!!.....Hoped i helped
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It could be you're developing feelings because he's right there, while your boyfriends not, but I suggest you and your boyfriend hang out sometime - reallly soon. And spend the day with him and see how your feelings are at the end of the day - if you're still really liking the other guy, it may not just be because he's there, but if you realize how much you really like your current boyfriend, you're going to have to have a talk with him about some way you guys'll be able to see eachother more often, because what's having a relationship if you never even get to see eachother to have one?
If you do choose the other guy though, there isn't much of a way to get around not hurting him. And I'm glad you realize that this isn't fair to him ; most girls would probably think it's peachy keen to like other guys while they have a boyfriend. But if you do choose this other guy, just break it to your boyfriend gently and be honest with him about it. Let him know that you guys hardly get to see eachother more, and you just need to be in a relationship where you guys actually make an effort to see eachother, and if you don't, what's the good in having the relationship in the first place? And you're sorry, but it's not just working out. ( or however you feel most comfortable saying it )
I hope I helped.
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Well, you have to choose between them. Which one is more important to you? Your boyfriend who you've been with for a year and 6 months, or the other guy?
Unfortuantly, if you decide on the other guy. There's no way of getting out of hurting him. But I also think you shouldn't stay with him, just so you won't hurt him. You have to be happy too, not just him.
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I wanna congrat. you cuz 1 year and 6 months is a long time. and you know i think your just getting kinda bored. Think about it liket his..look back on everything you and him have had and have..and then look at the guy you kinda like now and think about what you could have with him..see which one is worth being with. I think your just bored and the new attention is flattering you. and trust me i know how you feel..and ive only been in a relationship for 8 months. but you know what i dont think any guy is worth me dumping my boyfriend for. but thats me and thats a totally different story. i think you need to think about who you can see yourself with and what the outcome would be if you broke up with him for this guy. I hope i helped you good luck hun!
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