Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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my bf said he likes to be kissed on the neck.. um, yeah.. how am i supposed to do that? haha (link)
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Uhh, you kiss his neck? Lol. O_o
I'm hoping you know how to do that.
But yeah, while ya'll makeout, you can sneakily get down there and give him a peck or two. ^_^ Or while you hug him, you can give him one. Add a little suck-age if you're in the mood ;D
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How do you break up with someone who really really loves you, without hurting them? How can you let them know that they're really great, but you just can't be with them? (link)
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Exactly that. Just be casual about it, and tell him the truth, because he deserves nothing more. Don't lie about it, don't try to sugarcoat it, just tell it how it is.
There's no easy way to breakup. Sorry babe =/
But good luck!!
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This is probably a bit of a weird question but I just wanna know. I am 17/f and have slept with three guys. I've been in relationships with all of them (all 3 of them were virgins before me) and I didn't personally regret it until a few weeks ago, when I was telling my friends how many people I slept with and they were shocked, and said I should regret it. Well, should I? Should I not sleep with any more guys, or maybe wait a while before sleeping with the 3rd guy (my current bf) again? (We've only had sex twice and both times we were pretty drunk, we've been together 2 months.) This might seem stupid but it's something that has been bothering me a lot recently. Btw, I've always used protection too, and would never have sex without it.
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A slut's considered someone who's "easy" or "sleeps around town" with everyone. I don't consider you that, taking in fact that you were in relationships with all 3 boys. I think it's not right to have sex if you weren't 100% ready and sure you knew you loved the person truly. If you have doubts about having sex with them, or feeling the least bit of taking it back, then you're in regret about it, and you can't do anything about it. At least you're trying to be safe =] And it wasn't a random hookup or anything, so it's less to consider you a slut. Explain to your friends how you explained this, see how they react then. Either way, your sex life isnt any of their business and should just respect you and your decisions, despite anything.
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omggg. ok me and my one friend pranked phone called, her friend, and shes kinda my friend too, and it was only twice. and all we said was hey its these two boys, who she used to like. and so she got like all mad and went and told this big bitch everyone hates. and i was like sheeesh. who cares. we've never done it to you before, it was just twice. like yeah ok, i can see if we did it like 20 times. but shheesh, twice?
what should i do? i mean obviously im not gonna call her anymore, but like they keep annoying us about how we prank phone called her. what should we say?
oh and by the way, the big bitch she got to yell at us, has like no life, and all she does is yell at people, because no one lieks her. so yea (link)
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No offense, but wtf to the people below, haha.
PRANK CALLING IS JUST A FUCKING JOKE. PERIOD.
PUT YOUR OVEREMOTIONAL, OVERREACTIVE WORDS UP YOUR ASSHOLE AND GET OVER IT.
Tell your friend to not be a drama queen about it and freak out over nothing. Since she found out, just tell her, "I'm sorry, we were just having fun, it's really not that big of a deal, we won't do it to you anymore." But honestly, it's STUPID as hell when people overreact for the STUPIDEST SHIT. If I were you, I wouldn't even talk to her but it's whatever you want to do. I understand that prank calls get annoying if you do it continously, but after 2 times? That's just called having a bad temper.
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what is masturbation and how is it done??
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Masturbation: Pleasuring one's self. O_o Basically, body goes WOO!AWOOGA! o___o;
Not going into detail but to summerize;
For girls: fingering one's vagina
For boys: stroking teh penis
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how do you give yourself an orgasm?!
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Touch yourself. =]
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When you give a guy a blowjob, does it matter if your eyes are open or closed? (link)
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Babe, I really don't think they gave a F. =)
As long as they gettin' the pleasure they want, why would they care if you were looking at them or not? =)
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alright so last night i asked my boyfriend if he was ever in love and he said yeah and i was like do you still have feelings for her? and he was like i always will but its was over along time ago and always will be.
so in a way that got me thinking would he ever love me?
or always lover her?
what if she ever came back, would he leave me for her?
even though it was along time ago.
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I don't think you could ever, ever, EVER forget your first true love. The feelings can go or can stay, depending on how emotionally attached people can get or are. But the first person you experience everything with, you can't blame for not forgetting them, you know? I don't think necessarily that he can never love again though either. He may end up loving you more, depending on how ya'lls relationship goes =]
Only time will tell what happens, that's how life is. If he's really into you, I doubt he'd leave you for her. If ya'll are really open and comfortable with each other, you can ask him and tell him to answer with 100 percent honesty. You can't let it bother you either because I doubt you'd ever forget your first true love as well, and jealousy may bloom if she comes back to visit [[hell yeah]], but just remember who he's with. YOU. =)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple weeks
but weve been talking for like 2 months. i trust him and everything but should i have sex with him?
or should i wait?
im not a virgin so its not like my frist time.
what should i do?
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Well, in my opinion, I think you should only have sex when you're 100% sure you truly love the person you're having sex with. But I mean, if you think you're ready to have sex with him, I think there's nothing wrong with that.
But honestly, I don't think 2 months of KNOWING each other is long. And going out for a couple weeks isn't that long either. I always told myself I'd wait AT LEAST a year if anything, but people vary and are different. So it's your choice, but I suggest getting more into the relationship before trying anything.
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I have 5 dogs 4 cats 3 rabbits 2 lizards and 1 pet rat. i dont like them so im going to dump them somwehere like an hour away.
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You bitch. o__o;
You better damn well as hell better drop them off at a pet clinic/adoption agency.
Horrible person.
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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do? (link)
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Simply put, if he loved you, it wouldn't matter if you had sex with him or not. He'll respect your decision no matter what if he's a worthy boyfriend.
It doesn't seem like your 100% sure you're ready for it since you didn't explain that in your question. So yeah. Trust me, sex is worth waiting for.
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Ok is it wrong to go out with a 17 year old guy if you are 14? even if you really know him because he is a friend of the family. (link)
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Naw, it doesn't matter.
Just like everyone says, age is just a number =)
But still, it's odd in teenage years.
When youre older, you dont see much difference in 30 and 33 but there's difference between 10 and13, and difference between 14 and 17. You two are on different mental, emotional, and phsyical levels, unless you're mature for your age. Then again, most boys never even mature until their 20's.
But do whatever YOU wanna do, babe. :)
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recently my best friend had her first kiss,
and told me it was kinda awkward because she didn't really know what to do.
I've never been kissed yet, and I started thinking about it, ahhh what are you supposed to do?
I'm sorry if this sounds incredibley stupid..
is it a natural thing? Something you just learn to do with practice? (link)
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Aww, lol.
It's alrite, it's normal for everyone to get a little anxious before their first kiss.
It might seem hard since you'll be nervous, but just let it come naturally and it won't be as tense or awkward afterwards. =) Once it happens, it'll be nice.. Just dont rush the process, a first kiss is a lot better when its some1 you really care about =) And yeah, you'll get better with practice, lol.
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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that. (link)
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As long as your bestfriend has only slept with M, I wouldn't necessarily consider her a whore. A whore is usually considered as someone who sleeps around with multiple boys at once, or someone who's "easy." I don't think you explained your bestfriend as either, right? Yes, 17 boys is a LOT of fellas. But as long as she didn't date two or more at once, I don't see what's wrong? You can't blame her for boys liking her. O_o Still, the age she started having sex disgusts me. As well as the number of times she had too. But despite it all, it's HER life and it's not like you'll be able to make those kind of decisions for her. And despite her sexual experience, it doesn't change her as a person, overrall. I bet if she hadn't told you about her past, you'd still have a great friendship, right?
It's ultimatly your decision, but I don't think that should have anything to do with yall's friendship.. Your friend confided in you with something that's really none of your business. I think you shouldn't label her as a whore, and start acting like a real best friend, but hey. Iuno.
Luckkkk.
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I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!! (link)
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You defently shoulnd't.
Yes, you're ONLY 13, and lots of girls that young regret doing it but, thats not just it. If you're not sure you're ready to have sex, then YOU'RE NOT READY, PERIOD. Sex is something you do with the person you know you truly love and care about, not with some guy who you THINK LIKES you. So yeah, I highly advise you don't do it. Wait until you're 120% sure
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what does a guy look for in a friendship with a girl? (link)
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From what I know of, the same traits as being friends with a girll.
Trust, honesty, and good company. Just someone you can have a good time with and can be happy with, doing stupid things with, etc. =) It's all good.
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my best friend max told me a huge secret about himself a long time ago and i swore not to tell anyone. i messed up big time by telling steven because steven has a big mouth sometimes. a few days ago i was talking to max and i told him that i really dont like steven because hes annoying me a lot. then max told steven that i think hes "gross". he was just kidding of course but what if steven gets mad and decides to tell max the secret i told him a long time ago as like payback or something. that would guarantee max hating me forever. what do i do? help!! (link)
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Well, start off by apologizing. Max isn't going to automatically gunna forgive you and act like you were again, but you did slip the BIG secret you weren't supposed to tell anyone. So you can't expect anything more for a while. But tell him you understand if he doesn't wanna chill/talk for awhile, but that you are sincerily sorry and it was a HUGE mistake. As for Steven, I wouldn't talk to his ass for awhile either, but if he's known to have a 'big mouth' you should've known better as well.
Just apologize, tell the truth, and wait some time for everything to cool off. I'm sure he'll forgive you soon, everyone makes mistakes =)
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who one in the show Flavor of Love Charm School?
lol, i know, very random.
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Saapharyi won!
I wanted Shay to win. -Sigh-
Lol, oh well.
It was a GREAT season finale, you gotta watch it!
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Ok im babysitting 4 kids all this week and im leaving tonight at 7. Well im little scared because I watched a movie When A Stranger Calls. I know I sound retarted but are there anyway that could happen I know the odds are like 1 to 10000000000000000000 but I donno. My moms letting one friend stay with me And I want it to be Eric which is cool with everyone even tough its a guy and yeahh I like him but what are something he would do if he likes me?? (link)
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Yeah, don't really try to think about When a Stranger Calls. You'll just start getting paranoid and will freak yourself out. Just shut all the blinds and keep ALL doors locked. Have your cellphone with you at all times, and you know the emergency number to call, just in case anything does happen.
And you have company!
Nonetheless, the boy you like. :)) I'm sure between the two of you, you can keep everyone safe. [[Hopefully loll.]] And yeah, you'll find out if he likes you tonight, hun. Just wait till the kids go to sleep ;) Bwuahahah.
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Ok ive read things and it say that the 7th book is the last one. Is that really true I mean like wat are the odds that she'll make more? I know this sounds a bit selfish but I just can't believe that it's the last book.
Give your opinion.
Katiee (link)
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Yeah, I can't believe it either. =( Makes me wanna cry, lol.
I've read that in interviews, she said this IS going to be the last of the HP series. It'll reveal everything needed to know, which only makes it the more excited to get the book, huh? =) She said she might've an Harry Potter encyclopedia which tells what would happen to Harry and the gang after Hogwarts. Nonetheless, she's not going to write another novel. The 7th year in Hogwarts is like senior year in High School, you can't add another year, or take one out. As of the release of the 7th book, that will be Harry Potter's graduation. =/ Kinda sad. loll
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