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this is kind of an awkward question but this guy who i kind of like told me he was 5.5 closer to 6 inches , and hes a freshman i mean is that small? i told one of my friends that and she said her ex boyfriend was 10 so now im just wondering is 6 average? or..i mean i dont really care, just out of curiosity

Anywhere from 5-6 inches would be considered average. :)

And yeah, your friend is a flat out LIAR. Sorry.

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f/16, boyfriends 16
been dating for 7 months, known eachother for 3 years
theres no question that i love him, during thepast 7 months we've been through more and made it through it, between him moving an hour away and me being hospitalized for 2 months for an eating disorder
and were still strong
i feel more comfortable around him than anyone, we basically know eachother inside out

right now were basically at the hj/fingering stage i guess but we've spoken a lot about going farther and what not
basically due to all my insecurities it felt that i wasn't ready, and the fear of him leaving and the rest of it

basically the other night we were making out, but like really, really going at it and he asked me if i wanted to go to the next level
i said not tonight

at this pont though there really is no reason for me to be so uptight about it and like i want to, but im afraid to? i guess
any advice on how to just not be so worried maybe?

btw my boyfriends the best and not pressuring me or anything, and he really was fine that i said no, but i feel at this point i should? he's been there for me through everything

Wow, you sound exactly like me about a month ago haha. At that point, I'd been with my boyfriend almost 9 months, and even though he never pressured me, I felt like we should be at the point where we did stuff like that. I wanted to and everything, but was afraid. And then I finally decided to take the next step. It was a little scary, but not nearly as much as I'd expected. So if you think you're ready, then go ahead and try it. It's not as scary as you think. But it's also ok if you still want to wait. I can tell he loves you and won't pressure you, so you have absolutely nothing to worry about either way. :)

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a girl i know had a Twilight shirt today. the front had the Cullen family crest and then it said cullen at the bottom and the back had a number on it. It was a baseball-style shirt. and the sleves were blue. i looked on the twilightteez website but i couldn't find it. does anyone know where to get this shirt?

My friend has that exact same shirt, and she got it at Hot Topic. She bought it back in November though, so I don't know if they'd still have it, but it wouldn't hurt to look. :)

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What video game system is better the nintendo DS or the Sony PSP???? I'd like anyone's opinion on which hand held system is better???


Thanks!

Theymos has a good point, but I might as well add my input. I work at KayBee Toys for the time being (we are going out of business). Most people have been asking for the DS, so they seem to be more popular. :)

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i need advice, when i sit down a smell something from my vagina,it smells horrible and when i urinate it smells bad, and when i wipe my self i see dirt. i think it's because i might be dirty but it cant be because i tok a bath 2 weeks ago. also when i scratch my neck there's dirt in my finger nails, what is this? what should i do?

you are my hero.

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Hi, I need some advice...so anyone PLEASE HELP!!I love this guy named Matt...he's so amazing... tonight I am going to write a email to him( if my friend finds it) I am going to tell him how I feel about him... my friend is his friend on my space...she says he likes girls who mean it when they say they love him.I absolutely do!! I don't know what I should do when I go back to school Monday... how I should act...I'll be happy that he reads it..(if he does) but..I'll be extra nervous. I am so shy around him... I can't EVEN talk to him... so someone help me out...also do you think he'll not read it even when I say to?? Please...I would like ANYONE to try to help... thanks to whoever try's to help..
- Mattlover

Yeah, I don't want to sound rude, but if you can't even talk to him in person, then just randomly sending him your love for him in an email would really freak him out. Do both yourselves a favor and take it slow. There's no need to rush anything here. I would suggest you start by TALKING to him casually first, and take it from there.

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Hi I am 16.f. My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. He is my first true love, and everyone says 'youll never forget your first love' and everything, like our relationship will never last. But what if I TRULY think he is the only one I could ever be with. I know I am young, and of course I wouldn't get married now, and I have time to think about it but on one hand I can't imagine a future with anyone else, but on the other hand EVERYONE seems to think that just because I have never loved anyone else means I wont last long with him?? Is it possible that I just happened to find the perfect guy right off the bat? Has anyone had an experience like mine??

Currently actually. I'm 20, also been with my boyfriend for 9 months, and he is my first true love. I honestly can't imagine being with anyone else, even though i'm still young. Not saying that either yours or mine will last.. no one can know that. But I think that there are some lucky ones, maybe us included, that can find their perfect guy "right off the bat". If you really believe that he is the one, then that's fine. Just remember that relationships take a lot of work and commitment, so as long as you're willing to give your all, then there's nothing wrong with having high hopes. :)

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I just got an iPod, and I'm realizing how much it costs to buy songs. It's so expensive, so I'm wondering, does everyone buy there songs like this and pay full price for each song? Everyone has so many songs but I don't see how because they're so expensive. I'm not looking for a way around this, I just want to know if the majority of people actually do it this way.

You're right. I would say most people probably download their music illegally with programs such as Limewire, Frostwire, and Bearshare.

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I hard that this coming summer in july there be only 2 sec of sun light northern of the earth. I hope that not true. what we do with out sun light. how we survide in the darkness

Hahaha that's all a bunch of bullcrap, don't worry about it. :-P

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16/f, I know that I would much rather be called beautiful by a guy than "hot" or "sexy". So what do guys prefer to be called by girls?
Thank you!

I call my boyfriend my "studmuffin". Haha weird, but he digs it. :)

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this is really embarassing for me. this happened 6 months ago. i got super super drunk, to the point of not remembering the whole night. i guess that i said 'i haven't hooked up with anyone in so long. i need to hook up with someone' and i kept screaming it. this isn't embarassing to most people but i can't get over it. boys still make fun of me about it and i try not to act like it bothers me but i can't get over it.. how do i forget?

i know the feeling. i once ran around asking every guy i saw to screw me. :-P

i still get made fun of, but i just laugh about it. stuff like that happens, and the best thing you can do is to just laugh at yourself. they'll stop eventually. :)

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how do braces change your face shape? do they narrow your jaw?

braces won't change your face shape as far as i know. i'm not really an expert, but i'm pretty sure they are there simply to straighten your teeth. i had them for about 2 years, and i still look the same haha. :)

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how do i get rid of the smell saftly not to mess up the balance of everything

All you really need to do is wash with water, and wash it every day. Using any soaps, even Summer's Eve isn't good for you down there, because it messes with the PH.

Eating lots of fruits will also help, so I've heard.

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should you use a condom when giving a handjob?

Nope. Just remember if you get any of his ejaculate on you, don't touch yourself afterwards. Common sense. :)

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which guys like better short hair or long hair? plus bangs? I just cerous.

I think most of them like long hair, but every guy is different, and their opinions will vary.

And yes, as for bangs, I don't think they care much whether you have them or not, as long as you look cute. :)

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What is more effective, shaving, waxing or using that hair removal cream (such as Nair) on you legs? It'll be my first time so which one will stop hair growth on my legs for the longest? If it helps im a 13 year old female.

Coming from someone who's tried all 3, I think the best way to do it is to shave.

Waxing kits can be on the expensive side, and it hurts like hell to do. But the results last much longer, so if you have a high pain tolerance, then you can go ahead and try it.

Nair works very well, but it usually doesn't take 3-4 minutes like they say, and the smell is horrible. Hair removal creams are generally decently priced and it leaves your legs really smooth, so that is a plus. And it usually lasts about 3-5 days.

Shaving is the quickest, easiest, and least expensive way to remove hair. You don't need to buy any of those shaving gels either, regular body wash or conditioner works just as well. You can do it right in the shower, so it's very quick. The only downside is you will probably have to do it every day to stay smooth. I don't have a problem with doing that, but it is your choice.

To answer your question, waxing will stop your hair growth for the longest time, but shaving, in my opinion, is the best way to go. The choice is yours, go ahead and experiment and see what you like best. :)

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My friend's 17, f. She hasn't had her period since October 25.. it's now December 8. She's thinking she may have missed her period cause she's been stressing herself out thinking she's pregnant. I'm leaning more towards pregnancy, could she be pregnant?

She could be, but more information is needed. Do you know if she used protection? If she didn't, then it's definitely possible that she is pregnant. But stressing out about it can delay your period as well, so tell her to relax and take a pregnancy test, just to be sure.

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im getting this weird butt pulsing feeling in my right butt cheek:S I know it sounds weird but it feels like its pulsing and i dont know what to do cause its getting annoying:S

thanks and i will rate!

I know exactly what you're talking about. That happens to me as well, although usually in my arm or leg. It seems to happen when I'm lying down or at rest. All it is, is a simple muscle twitch, like the person below me said. Usually, all I have to do to stop it is move around a bit, and it goes away. But yeah, it's nothing to worry about, it happens to everyone. :)

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so..my guy friend wants to play with me a little. And my vagina is really hairy. and im afraid to shave it, because it gets bumping and really itching, but he likes it smooth and idk what to do. i dont know how to shave it or wax it...

I would also suggest shaving. As long as you use a good shaving cream, meant for the bikini area, a good, sharp razor, and you shave in the direction of hair growth, then you should be fine.

And when you're done, put on some baby oil or lotion, and it will help reduce bumps and irritation. :)

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Here's an odd one for ya..

She broke up with me 2 weeks ago... So now we're just friends (sucks, but what can ya do?) What do I get her for christmas?

She's 16 btw

Thanks!

Well, she is your ex, so you obviously don't want to get her anything TOO expensive or sentimental.

I think getting her something like a DVD, some bath stuff, or candy would be good enough. :)

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