Hey, I love to give advice to people. I can give advice to you on a lot of stuff. Like, sports, love, families, friends, school or even if you need some advice on what to do when you're going crazy of bored-um. You guys can ask away. I get on every night (unless my computer is acting up). So if you need advice I'll get to you as quick as possible.
P.S. I'm great at love situations.
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I want to go out with a guy!I love him but he only wants to be friends with me what should I do! I think he likes my friend and I am really confused? (link)
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Be friends with him rigth now and warm him up to you a little to attrack him to you.
~Elle~
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What are everybodys (And I know some of you have to have been through this) results of still liking an ex after you broke up? (link)
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Tell your ex you still have feelings for him/her. It may be hard but you'll feel better after. trust me I know.
~Elle~
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I like this guy named Joey and he is an 8th grader and I am a 6th grader and I really like him but I don't know what to do! People are like ask him out but I don't know what to say what should I do? (link)
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Well I'm an 8th grader and the guys in 8th grade mostly like girls their age or older. Just giving you a heads up.
~Elle~
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my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (link)
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Well if he knows I wouldn't worry about it.
~Elle~
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in my other question, yes or no?, i felt i should add the guy's gf is friends with my friend. i feel like im pulling her to my side. i just feel bad making her choose.
What should i do?
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Tell her that this has nothing to do with her and she doesn't have to worry about it.
~Elle~
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i really like this guy. he's been really weird lately and says that he wont go out with anyone until hes in tenth grade. he did like me for a week, but he wont answer any of my friends about me. i want to stop liking him, but i just cant! i really like him! what should i do? (link)
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I was in almost the same problem last week. I think all you need to do is talk to him and tell him you like him. I did that and I'm dating the guy now.
~Elle~
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my friend is obsessed with a guy 2 years older than her. i know he's not there for her. What should i tell her? (link)
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Tell her it's just crush and probably out of her league. When you like a guy longer than a year and still not with him, there is probably a good chance he doesn't like her. He might not even know her.
~Elle~
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There's this guy at school i like and he likes me. the problem is he has a girlfriend. he never liked her, but shes madly in love with him. i recently heard from his friend that he's dumping his girlfriend for me. but last week his girlfriend's friend yelled at me during PE and LA. If he does ask me out what should i say? either way i'm hurting someone. i really like this guy, though. should i say yes or no? (link)
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If you can't talk to her because she doesn't want to talk to you, then yeah, you should say yes. She's just being jealous.
~Elle~
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I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help (link)
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Well what grade are you in. What kinds of things do you like about them. Maybe you just like them because you want to be in a relationship and you don't want to hurt the other ones feelings if you pick one. I think you should just stay friends.
~Elle~
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I'm not incredibly popular at school but I do have a best friend who I've known all my life even though she just moved to my school. Now she's making new friends and she even has a boyfriend. I was supposed to go to a pizza place with her and some of the kids in my class but my mom wanted me to come over to her house for the weekend so I didn't go with them. Now I'm worried that since she's made so many new friends, she'll just drop me. Do you think that'll happen?,
CMS (link)
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It depends on what kinda person she is. But I wouldn't worry about it. She's new and other people want to get to know her. If it gets to the point were you feel really left out maybe you should talk to her.
~Elle~
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What does everyone here do to become a better writer? I want to be a writer when I grow up and I want to know if there are any writing excercises to become a better one. I know reading helps...but I'm just always in a writers block because all my writing is the same and it gets frustrating.
Know any way to improve my writing?
Anything...even if you think it sounds stupid.
Thanks! :) (link)
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When I get a writers block I like to set it aside and do something extreme.Then when I come back to it I might have something to write about. Our you could try something new and write songs or poetry. People when awards for those kinds of writing all the time.
~Elle~
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I'm a 16 year old girl. Lately I have been really distant and detached from everything, and I don't know what makes this attractive or if the moons are aligned or what, but all of the sudden I'm getting all of this attention from guys at school. Any other time I'd be thrilled to death, but right now I'm just kinda like, "Eh." The guys that have professed their feelings, indirectly or through my friends, are great as friends, but I'm just not interested in them in a romantic way. A month ago I'd even be happy to go out on a date with whomever, but now I want to be boyfriend-less and have a good time hanging with my friends and concentrating on school.
The one guy I do have a little bit of interest in is currently into someone else.
How do I turn these guys down without hurting their feelings or making an awkward situation? I still want to hang around with them with my friends, just not in one-on-one sessions.
Ugh. (link)
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Just tell those guys that your just not interest right now but you would be okay being friends.
~L~
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Ok, so ill make this as short as possible, theres this guy at school that i see in the halls everyday and when i walk by him he stares at me a lot and i stare at him a lot, (im a guy). i think he might be gay too but im scared to find out cus he hangs out with all these majoryly homophobic ppl and i dont know if he might be str8 or not. what should i do? (link)
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Personally this is hard for me to answer because I'm a girl and I like guys. But first do people know your gay? If so make sure you get all the facts. You wouldn't want to make any mistakes. If not still make sure you get all the facts.
~L~
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You need to answer this really quick because Its almost time to go to school!! Alright well I am thinking of asking this kid out, but Im not sure if he likes me. . and well I just want to get over w/ it so I wont be obsessing over somone who doesnt even like me so I wanna find out and I rlly like him so much I need to do thi I am afraid of gettin my heart broken, but if he doesnt like me o well. . Do oyu think Im making the right decision? I mean I want to, but I've known him for like 4 mounths anyways, but I dont know alot alot about him. . I know hes a nice person, very funny, and hes a total hottie. . Well hurry and answer! PLEASE PLEASE PLEAsE!!
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If I were you I would ak him out. IF you really like him that much it is. Don't stress out over it he's just a guy. I he doesn't like I bet a person you least expect will turn around and ask you out. I hope this was fast enough for you.
~L~
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ok well I have known this kid for about 2 years right. and we would date off and on. and this year I started dating him again and I introduced him to my bestfriend because I wanted them to know each other but I didn't want them to start liking each other.ok well my friend came up with the idea that both of us would date him at the same time. and I love my friend to death and i would do anything for her even this so I was like I guess. so after like 2 days I was like to my friend if you like him that much you can just go out with him I odn't like him anymore hes all yours. but I relaly didn't mean it so now the go out but I wanna tell her how I really feel what should I do? (link)
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First of all I don't think you should have given her an answer right away. I think you should have thought about it. And yes you should tell her how you really feel. If she's your best friend she should be able to listen to you and understand. BUT DON'T LET A GUY GET IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR GUYS RELATIONSHIP. He's only a guy. And guys (sometimes) will do what ever you tell them to do.
~L~
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If you're still stuck on an ex who has a new g/f, are you as pathetic as you feel? (which is very pathetic) (link)
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Not at all. It's just taking you more time to get over this guy than it's taking him. Does he know you still have feelings for him? If not maybe you should talk to him. But don't make him feel like he should be guilty.
~L~
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The kid pooped on his finger and gave me a poopy-willie in my ear. I have no idea what to do i don't even know how to change a diaper. His parents are out of town for a month and i have stuff in my ear. What on earth do you propose I do? Should i
a. Clean it out
b. leave it for proof
c. Take a picture for proof
d. Call 911 and get to the emergency room
e. All of the above
One more question,is this hazardus to my health?
Thank you
Big Momma P (link)
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clean it
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I'm 16. I'm mentally a tomboy. All my close friends are boys/men. I'm a heterosexual girl.
The problem is, I get along with men wonderfully as friends. Nearly everyone sees me as the perfect girl: I'm easy to talk to, pretty attractive, and considerate. Yet, as a result, I never find myself considering any male friend as even a 'prospect.' Sure, I find several attractive, but in my current situation I have enough male companionship/interaction to be completely oblivious to these needs and urges I'm supposed to be having.
I end up holding off from dating because I always find something not quite right, not necessarily with the person, but with the 'feel'. Not only that, but I'm terrified of short term high schoolesque commitment, as well as the whole 'social' "did you hear harry's dating sally? Jane's furious!".
Recently, I've found someone that I could fit well with (who has feelings for me), but I'm not sure if I should encourage this relationship any further because I might find something wrong within a few short weeks. It's not little, knowing myself, it's a huge possibility.
Is it fair to subject this wonderful guy to what's basically an experiment to see how long I can stay in a relationship (though I definitely care about him), or should I wait until I can manage to get out of this mindset?
~Only Me (link)
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Let me tell you something, please don't be so scared to try new things, oh well if a guy has a problem, Everyone has problems that other people need to learn to put up with to get along with them. It is better to try then not try at all. I also wanted to know, if you are heterosexual and hang out with guys, shouldn't you try going out with a guy that is not your friend and if it ends it won't be so bloody. Good luck to ya hon!
Elle
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Today I got a new pair of pants from hot topic. . and I wanted to get another pair, but they ddin't have it in my size. . Im a size 0!!! I really like my new pants, but my mom told my sister she didn't like them, but she'd let me wear them anyways. . I don't know I just wanted to tell you guys!! Anyways. .
Do you think I should ask my crush out???
"I am in love with him so badly, but I just cant Im too nervous I cant talk to him, its horrible. . hes so hot, and well Im not. . he probly doesnt even like me . .so nvm, I mad eup my mind im not gunna ask him . .but hes so funny and hes soo cute and he has a greta personality, , UUUUUUUUUUUUGH! LOVE! it freaking sucks. . well sometimes. .
And I am poetic, and artistic, and I lvoe he color black, and my sn has Empty Soul . .and I think about suicide, no .. I dont want to kill myself, but I think why would they do that. . I wrote a poem for suiced, well kinda wanna hear it?!
My password omg its like so sad. . IM not telling u! dumbass. .
of course u do. . !!!
Its like you're not there,
Like no one cares,
You feel empty inside,
You feel its your time,
Suicide comes to your mind,
But is it the best you cna do??
No. . Turn tot he one you cna trust,
Always be true, and ignore the ones who make fun of you . . who ignore you too, who call you a loser, when you know you are the best. .
So why put yourself to rest??
You try to say your sorry. . That you will never do it again. . But its too late. . You've gone through. . and now you dont know what to do. .
But no one can be perfect. . .
(By me, but I edited them. . these rnt the dited ones) sry sry I will show u the edited oens laters. . im tured bye bye (link)
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What?
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*ehem!* (Clears throat)
I am going to take you all the way back in to september, on the secound. . Please buckle your seatbelts and keep all objects and of course yoruself i the time machine, dont want any lose parts left behind in the past. . that would suck . .well anyways 9Presses the button and sets it to Spet 2, 2003 @ 9:15 a.m )
It all started the first day of school. . IF you believe in love at first site, well you better because this is it!
I was waiting in the gym. .lade da. . and I saw this really hott kid. . omg he was soo hott. . I just fell in love instintly, somethign about him made me want him instantly. . not just because he was hott. . because I dont know I think I knew how he was. . but I never met him before. . because i wa snew to the school . . They never called my name. . SO I had to go to the office,a nd obviously my mom left. . so I was crossing my fingers hoping I would be in his class (6th grade) And well I ende dp in hi class!! YAY! well if you think thats the happy ending your wrong. . I got to know him, like how he interacts with other people, hes soo sweet and really funny, hes liek the class clown/rebel he gets in trouble quite a few while im miss. shy/good girl lol. . well I really like funny pople, you know peopel with a good sense of humor. . and guys who r sweet and cool witht heir friends, not sweet like sweet liek umm like ehs not a freaking jerk .. ok. . I cnat believe his best friend tripped me! lol well anyways. . like a month later, they were switching classes around. . and guess what! HE GOT MOVED OUT OF MY CLASS! I was soo sad. . I ahte the dman teachers. . they probly new i liekd him and didnt want me to get tino touble with him .. because thye didnt think he was good enough for me. . well they r wrong! he is perfect and I wont stop likign him untill the day I die! hes the best thign that ever happened to me! I LOVE HIM AND I HOPE HE FINDS OUT BECAUSE I WANT AN EEN EBTETR CHANCE WITH HIM. . well i dont even think he lieks me. . well he does act stupid. . I do when I am arond him lol .. and he looks at me. . I see him Im not blind. . lol Well hes super special and all I want toknow is. .
AM I obsessed over him?
Do you think he is right for me, or do you agree witht he dumbass teachers??
And umm. . What if he does like me. . what should I do.....
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Umm one word for you. OBSESSED! no offence or anything but can't you just tell him you like him but first, get to know him!!! also, please spell more sufficiantly so we can understand what you are saying. Please and thank you!
Elle
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